John 3:1-21 · Jesus Teaches Nicodemus
The Grace Question: Are You A Teacher...and Yet Do Not Understand?
John 3:1-21
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by Maxie Dunnam
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There are two actors in this scene of John's gospel: Jesus and Nicodemus. Nicodemus is not a popular figure in the gospels. He appears only a couple of other times in John's record. The last picture of him is in John 19. He and Joseph of Arimathea asked for the body of Jesus after He was crucified in order that He might have a decent burial.

One of Rembrandt's most famous etchings portrays that scene. The limp, dead body of Jesus was slowly taken down from the cross. Joseph of Arimathea, dressed as the person that he was, in all his finery, stands close by. In the darkness, further away, veiled in shadow as only Rembrandt could do it, with his face lined in sorrow, is Nicodemus. He is holding in his hands the linen cloth in which Jesus' body would be buried. The Gospel says that Nicodemus also brought with him a mixture of spices, myrrh and aloes, "about a hundred pounds". One wonders what Nicodemus must have been thinking as he stood there, waiting for the body of Christ to be taken down from the cross. Obviously, much was going on in his life -- this wealthy man, bringing fine linen and a bountiful amount of expensive spices to anoint the body of one who had died as a common criminal. Was he still mystified as he had been when Jesus told him that he must be born again? Was he still puzzled by the response of Jesus when he pressed his question about how one could be born again? Jesus' answer had been totally unsatisfying for his rational mind: "The Spirit blows where it wills -- you feel it, and you hear the sound of it -- but you don't know from where it comes or where it goes. So is everyone who is born of the Spirit."

Did he yet not understand? -- it's nothing you do, Nicodemus, Jesus said. The Spirit does it -- it's all grace. Position, honor, success, responsibility, who you know, what you have -- it counts for nothing. It's all grace.

That's the issue Jesus is questioning Nicodemus about in our scripture lesson today. "Are you the teacher of Israel, and do not know these things?"

It's a question relevant to us -- because it's the question of grace.

Let's look at Nicodemus for a moment. John doesn't dwell on him, doesn't tell us much about him. Yet I doubt if there is an any more intriguing person in the gospels. He was an important man, obviously a well-thought-of member of the Pharisees. The Gospel tells us that he came to see Jesus at night. He was a prudent man. He had a reputation to maintain. This was a questionable pursuit, because Jesus was a questionable personality, so he didn't want to go public with his interests.

That Nicodemus was a Pharisee is an important fact, especially when we are talking about how a person is saved -- what salvation is all about -- the meaning of grace. In many ways the Pharisees were the best people in the whole country. There were never more than 6,000 of them. They were what was known as chaburah, or brotherhood. They entered into this brotherhood by taking a pledge in front of three witnesses, that they would spend all of their lives observing every detail of the scribal law. What exactly did that mean? The Law was the first five books of the Old Testament. To the Jews, the Law was the most sacred thing in the world. They believed the Law to be the perfect word of God. To add one word to it, or to take one word away from it, was a deadly sin....

"The name Pharisee means the separated one; and the Pharisees were those who had separated themselves from all ordinary life in order to keep every detail of the Law." (William Barclay, The Gospel of John, Vol. 1, The Daily Study Bible, p. 108 and p. 111.)

It was this good man, committed to the Law, committed to doing what God would have him do -- it was this man who came to Jesus inquiring about salvation.

To no other person could Jesus' word been more shocking: "You must be born again." We'll come back to that phrase in a moment, because it deserves our attention. What I want us to get clearly in our mind now is the fact that Jesus' conversation with Nicodemus raises the grace question: "What is life all about? How can one be saved? What is at the heart of Christianity?"

Rodney Wilmouth tells the story about a man who died and went to Heaven. When he showed up at the pearly gates, St. Peter was waiting. "I want to enter Heaven," said the man. "You may enter," replied Peter, "if you have accumulated 100 points on earth."

"Well," said the man, "I was baptized in the church and scarcely missed a Sunday in my entire life."

"That's good," said Peter. "That's one point!"

"One point? -- only one point? Well, I did serve on the Administrative Board for 20 years, and I taught Sunday School for 25 years."

"That's good. Another point."

"What!? only one more point!? Well, I tried to live a good life. I tried to be a good father and husband."

"That's good," said Peter again. "That's worth one more point.""Oh, my," said the man. "The only way I will get into Heaven is by the Grace of God!"

"That's right!," said St. Peter with a smile on his face. "And that's worth 97 points. Come on in."

Nicodemus didn't understand that. "Are you a teacher of Israel, and yet do not understand these things?" The question still remains. Despite the witness of scripture and our experience, we continue to question grace. Maybe it has something to do with our original sin. It certainly has a lot to do with our pride and perverted self-sufficiency. So, let's think about it.

I.

Focus first on that phrase that shocked Nicodemus. "You must be born again."

I was talking to a person recently, and he referred to a mutual acquaintance in a kind of derogatory way. This was his sentence. "He says he's a born-again Christian. Well, the sound of his voice, the slight hint of a sneer when he said "born-again Christian", got to me. I asked him -- is there any other kind? Is there any other kind of Christian than a born-again one?

Now, I know how that term is normally used, and that us is a little bit unfortunate. It's used to distinguish between people who -- usually as adults -- have had some sort of dramatic experience that confirmed for them their Christian faith. It's used to separate people who may have come into the Christian life in what some would call a "normal" kind of way. (and I put that word normal in quotation marks)...to separate those who may have grown into the Christian life from those who may have had a more dramatic, explicit kind of conversion experience. But the distinction is unfortunate. How we come into the Christian faith is not the issue -- that we come into the Christian faith, and that we know we are Christian is the issue.

Three times Jesus hammered home the point: "You must be born again."

Nicodemus' problem was not whether he desired to change or not -- that's the reason he came to Jesus -- wanting to know how he could receive eternal life. It was not desirability, but possibility, that was the question when he asked, "But how can it be -- how can one be born again?" The truth is Nicodemus would have been pleased if Jesus had given him a list -- things to do, ways to act, laws to keep. That's what he was about -- that's the way the Pharisees understood a proper relationship with God. Nicodemus didn't understand grace. So he asked, "How can it happen?" And Jesus responded, "The wind blows where it wills, and you can't see it, but you feel it and you see the sign of it, so is the person who is born of the Spirit."

The new birth is not something that we orchestrate. It has nothing to do with rules or commandments, or worthiness, or works. It comes like a birth that we have no control over; like water that cleanses us, like wind that refreshes us -- wind that's felt but not seen.

It's grace, Jesus is saying, and that's what we all have a problem with.

So, let's stay with that phrase, "born again", for a moment. The idea of rebirth, or being born again, runs throughout the New Testament.

Listen to Peter -- I Peter 1:3: "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who according to his abundant mercy has begotten us again to a living hope..."

Listen to him -- to Peter, I Peter 1: 23: "You have been born again, not of corruptible seed, but incorruptible, through the word of God which lives and abides forever..."

James speaks of God begetting us with a word of truth (James 1:18). And the letter to Titus speaks of the washing of regeneration (Titus 3: 5).

Sometimes -- the idea is spoken of as a death followed by a resurrection or re-creation. That's some of Paul's favorite language -- he speaks of the Christian dying with Christ and rising to life anew (Romans 6: 1-11).

He speaks of new Christians as being "babes in Christ" -- I Cor. 3: 1, 2. One of his most signal words was recorded in II Corinthians 5: 17: "If any person is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has passed away; behold, the new is come."

So, all through the New Testament, the notion of rebirth, being born again, re-creation occurs.

But Nicodemus couldn't understand that. How can it be? Jesus asked him, "Are you a teacher and don't understand?" The question is, do we understand?

"Dan Wakefield, the writer, understands. He went through a "season in hell", as he puts it, when he was destroying his life with drugs, depression, and alcohol. He finally called to God for help, and this is the way he tells it:

God answered me in the cold, clear water that I drank out of a metal cup I found in a friend's kitchen. And in the fragment of a psalm I had learned as a boy, "Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for Thou art with me, Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me." I prayed those words continually as an incantation against the hell raging in me."

God rescued Dan Wakefield. He found his way back to sanity, health, and a renewed relationship with God that brought him joy and an exciting new life (Donald Shelby, "Rescue", August 12, 1990.)

It was all grace. How it happen isn't important. That it happens is the most important thing in the world. to know tht Christ has given us new life...that our salvation is not our doing, but God's grace.

II.

Let's continue to think about it by coming at it from a little bit different direction. Isn't it true that the most important things are ours because of grace?

Life is grace. It is gift.

A little girl was angry with her younger brother. She pushed him down, called him a few names and then spit on him. Her mother walked into the room just as all of this took place. The mother said, "Honey, that was surely not very nice. I think the devil made you do that."

The girl replied, "The devil may have made me push him down, and the devil may have made me call him names; but I thought of the spittin' all by myself."

I like that -- the honesty of it. And we need to be honest. We live as though we deserved life -- that we had something to do with getting it and keeping it. But, think about it. What did you do to receive life? What are you doing to deserve life? Life is grace. It's gift.

Love is grace, isn't it? When we are serious, can we think for a moment that we deserve the love that we receive? Is there any possible way we could earn love -- the love of our parents -- the love of our spouse?

My friend, John Ed Mathison, tells the story of a small boy in a large family in the post-depression era. The family was preparing themselves on Saturday night for getting to church the next morning. The mother was particularly harried, and asked her 7-year-old son, Richard, to polish her shoes. He agreed, and went to work.

Sometime later, he brought the shoes to his mother for inspection. She complimented him on his work, reached into her purse, and gave him a quarter. He looked at her, rather puzzled, but said nothing.

The next morning, the mother felt a lump in the toe of her shoe as she was getting dressed. Removing the shoe, she found a wad of paper inside. Slowly, she unfolded the paper and a quarter fell out. Spreading the paper out in front of her, she found a note written on it in Richard's 7-year-old scrawl. "I done it for love."

Love is a matter of grace. It's always gift.

And we could go on and on: The most important things that are ours are ours because of grace.

III.

Now a final word. Not only our salvation, but the Christian life -- the whole of the Christian life -- is grace.

That's what Jesus was telling Nicodemus. You must be born again, and that birth is from above. It's not something you do; it's something God does, and He does it through the Spirit. The wind blows where it wills; you see the sign of it and you feel it, but you don't know from where it comes or where it goes. Will Willimon spoke a challenging word. He said, "We are so preoccupied with the need to make a decision for Christ, that we forget that in Christ God has once and for all made a decision for us! We can do little to add or to improve upon God's acceptance of us in Christ, except to say "Yes!" to it and enjoy it."

We can't rationalize that -- we have to just accept it -- say YES to it. So, rather than trying to rationalize any more, let me give it to you in a picture.

A fifteen-year-old girl went to a youth conference in Oklahoma. She was short and a bit overweight. She was not too attractive, and she had been crippled from birth. When a dance was held one night at the conference, she simply put her crutches by a chair nearby, sat down in another chair and spent the evening watching the others dance. All the time smiling, but who knows the pain that was going on inside.

My friend, Norman Neaves, who tells the story says, "The music was the kind that peals the skin off your face and overloads the auditory nerve, and the floor was full of teenagers moving with the rhythm." Then a very special thing happened. In the middle of the dance program that evening, a slow number was played by the band, and a tall 16-year-old boy went over to this girl, held out his hand and said to her, "Please, would you dance with me?"She looked up with unbelieving surprise, and with a smile quivering on her face, she said, "Yes." Together they began dancing. The young man held her tightly, and she held on to him tightly, lest she stumble and fall. It was a beautiful sight to behold.

"Later that evening, one of the leaders went to the young man and told him how special he thought it was for him to do this, and how much he admired him. And he said, "As the two of you were dancing, I noticed that she whispered something in your ear. Do you mind if I ask what it was?"

And the teenager said, "You're not going to believe this, but she said that this was the first time that anyone had ever asked her to dance in her whole life." (Norman Neaves, quoted by Donald Shelby, "Eureka", July 29, 1990.

That's a picture of it -- grace. All grace.

Can you imagine how that young woman felt? Unattractive, crippled, never having been asked to dance. And then came Prince Charming -- and it happened. Can you imagine how she felt? If so, then you are beginning to understand grace.

Maxie Dunnam, by Maxie Dunnam