John 3:1-21 · Jesus Teaches Nicodemus
Making the Mystery Work for You
John 3:1-21
Sermon
by Charles R. Leary
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It’s Trinity Sunday: God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. Enough said? Don’t leave me. I promise you, I won’t deliver a lecture expounding on what belongs only in the classroom for theologues. I do want to tell you a brief story. A man in a certain parish was only seen in church one Sunday a year. No, it was not Easter. It was Trinity. One leading lay person had restrained his curiosity year after year. He could not contain it any more. He approached the man and said, “I have noticed that you have selected this particular time for your only visit to church.” “Oh, that’s easy to explain,” the man said. “I like to come on this day so I can hear the preacher get all tangled up trying to explain the Trinity!”

St. Augustine came to a similar conclusion in the Fourth Century, after writing 800 pages on the Trinity. He declared that he did not understand it. This is St. Augustine’s story. As he walked along the seashore one day, he saw a small boy playing with a seashell. The boy scooped a hole in the sand, filled his shell with water and poured it into the hole. The great theologian asked the boy, “What are you doing, my son?” The youngster replied, “I am going to pour the sea into that hole.” Then Augustine said to himself, “That is what I have been trying to do. Standing at the ocean of infinity, I have attempted to grasp it with my finite mind.”

Mystery! Mystery is at the heart of the universe. Why am I here? Why are you here. Why have I spent over thirty years in the Christian ministry? Why am I a husband, parent, grandfather of eight? Why are you who you are? Why have you spent your life, or why are you planning to spend, your life pursuing a certain career?

There are times when it seems so natural to ask, why? in an effort to explore the deeper resources of our inner selves. When I watch the Memorial Day parades, celebrating those who gave their lives for our freedom, I can’t help asking, why? why can’t we find a solution for war?

On those occasions when I feel down or feel distressed by the turmoils of the world, I ask, Why? Why? Why?

The late Cardinal Cushing tells of an occasion when he was administering last rites to a man who had collapsed in a general store. Following his usual custom, he knelt by the man and asked, “Do you believe in God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit?” The Cardinal said the man roused a little bit, opened an eye, looked at him and said, “Here I am, dying, and you ask me a riddle.”

Call them riddles. Call them mysteries. There are things about life and faith we do not understand. I am not going to suggest that you resign your effort to understand. Oh, no! the search is on! But I am suggesting that you’ll add a plus to your search when you acknowledge the mysteries, claim them, and let them work for you.

I have four basic words, all beginning with “S”, which will make four “rules of thumb” to deal with the riddles and mysteries in life. The words are: Start, Strive, Sacrifice, Space.

Start where you are. You can’t go back and start over. If you’re young and ambitious, you probably can’t start where mom and dad are now.

Strive with all your might. Give it all you’ve got.

Be prepared for Sacrifice. You have to select out the essentials and the non-essentials.

And then make Space for Jesus Christ.

Rule One: Start where you are! “You must be born from above,” said Jesus. Birth implies starting, a new beginning. In birth one moves from a protected world to a vulnerable world.

Several years ago, in a parish I served, a couple I’ll call them Bill and Pat adopted a little boy who had been reared in an abusive environment. Bill and Pat had two children, a son and a daughter. They were a perfect couple for this endeavor. They were happy, relaxed, friendly, committed to God and the church, stable in their lifestyle and marriage. They were a great couple.

The little boy they adopted was Joe. During Joe’s first four years in this world, his life had been saturated with the destructive forces of hatred, rejection, fear, hostility. He had learned all of the games to survive in that abusive environment.

I am not exaggerating when I say, Bill and Pat had a “devilish” child on their hands. The people in the parish admired them for their enthusiasm, and ability, to take on this additional parenting role.

By careful use of time, stretching their patience beyond imaginable limits and refilling their love cups, they were able to guide little Joe through the maze of a confused past and redirect his emotions.

It was a joy for all of us to watch little Joe make a “turn around” in his behavior, facial expression, and ability to relate to others. We could see the gradual change from an angered look, to a frown, and then to a welcoming smile. One day little Joe whispered a powerful message in my ear. It went like this: “I used to know how to get angry and mad and fight. Now I’m learning how to say, ÔI’m sorry’ and ÔI love you.’ “

Rule Two: Strive with all your might. Make wise choices and jump into life without reservation. It may be a job, a friendship, a career, an educational pursuit. Right now I am feeling a special closeness to students pursuing their educations: high school, college, and graduate school. I am celebrating with you graduates, and you parents of graduates. Only recently I purchased my university class ring where I graduated from theological school in 1957. This year I celebrate my thirty-second anniversary in ordination (1991).

I thought it was difficult in those days, with the costs, the study, the work program. But I don’t envy any student or parent in today’s world. The year I graduated from seminary, I had a full time job assisting in a parish. I had two part-time evening jobs, trying to pay and catch up on bills.

My father taught me a rule that has always worked: Give it all you’ve got. I gave my part-time boss 100%. Then I continued to give 100% in my academic and career pursuits.

It makes no matter whether you are in your youth, your senior years, or in between, these rules will work for you.

Start where you are. Strive with all your might. Stretch every muscle, emotion and desire within you to discover your maximum potential.

Remember Jeb Stuart Magruder, one of the men caught in the Watergate web? Back in 1958 Jeb Magruder was a senior at Yale. The chaplain at Yale was the Reverend William Sloan Coffin, Jr. Chaplain Coffin tells that he used to say to this senior with whom he had become well acquainted, “You’re a nice guy, Jeb, but not yet a good man. You have lots of charm but little inner strength. And if you don’t stand for something, you’re apt to fall for nothing.”

Sixteen years later Magruder stood before the Federal Judge, confessed to felony, and said, “I know what I have done, and Your Honor knows what I have done ... Somewhere between my ambition and my ideals, I lost my ethical compass.”

Stand for something. Strive with all your might. Stretch every muscle and all the emotional and mental energy you have.

Rule Three: Learn to make sacrifices. Life isn’t easy. And one little decision today will determine where you are down the road.

One member of a group of mountain climbers preparing to ascend to the top of Mount Blanc in the Swiss Alps didn’t want to follow the guide’s rules. The guide insisted, “Carry only equipment necessary for climbing. Leave behind all unnecessary accessories.” This one climber had a brightly colored blanket, some large pieces of cheese, a bottle of wine, a couple of cameras and several lenses hanging around his neck, and some bars of chocolate. The guide said, “You’ll never make it with that. You can only take the bare necessities to make the climb.”

Strong willed as he was, the man set off on his own in front of the group to prove he could do it. The group followed carrying only the bare necessities. Along the way, they began to notice certain things someone had left behind: a brightly colored blanket, some pieces of cheese, a bottle of wine, camera equipment and some chocolate bars. Finally, when they reached the top, the man was there. Wisely he had jettisoned everything unnecessary along the way.

Learn to pick the essentials. You may have to start with a used car, a low-paying job, an apartment instead of a house. Once you get married, you may decide to postpone children a while.

Rule Four: Make Space for Jesus Christ. I love the story of Nicodemus who chose a quiet time, late in the evening, to meet Jesus one on one. Many say Old Nick was a weak soul, therefore he had to sneak around in the dark to meet the Lord. I see it differently. By keeping it quiet at the outset he was able to protect his credibility with the high officials. I think of one occasion when the Sanhedrin members began to denounce Jesus as an imposter and Nicodemus challenged that they could not condemn a man until they heard him. That night the visit put Old Nick on the side of truth and right.

Think of it this way: every one of us has a personality type. God has to tailor his ministry to your personality. There is a Peter type, a Thomas type, a Nicodemus type, a Mary type, a Martha type, a Joseph type, an Elizabeth type. Identify your personality type. The better you keep in touch with the “real you,” the more effective Jesus’ ministry can be through you.

Make a diary of the difference it makes in your life, big and little ways: the way you answer the phone when someone dials the wrong number, the way you drive your car in busy traffic, the way you trim the lawn and tend the new plants, the way you speak to the cashier in the bank or the shopping line, the way you write a note to your best friend, the way you rub shoulders with someone you’d just as soon not see in church, the way you look at your spouse tonight, the way you receive the Sacrament.

Thank you, God, for life’s mystery. Thank you for putting us right here in the middle of it. As we proclaim it, sing about it, and make inquiries into it, send us onward with a sense of wonder and reverence for you and your world.

CSS Publishing Company, Mission Ready!, by Charles R. Leary