Matthew 18:15-20 · A Brother Who Sins Against You
The Lord's People Together
Matthew 18:15-20
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"... if two of you agree ... about anything ..." - Matthew 18:19

The inimitable Will Rogers was once asked, "What's wrong with the world?" And he replied, "People!" Of course, the famous humorist was being humorous. Others have been seriously cynical concerning the human race. One said, "The world would be a pretty good place to live if it weren't for the people in it."

But when all the cynics have had their say, I will still believe, that in general, we human creatures really have some pretty good things going for us. With all our flaws and shortcomings, I don't think we're hopeless. And I don't believe God sees us that way either. For, after all, as we read in John 3:16, he has "so loved" us that he has given his own beloved Son in our behalf.

One of the very fine things about us, I think, is our disposition to be together with one another. On our mountain tops and in our valleys, we tend to seek and find the company of one another. On occasions of joy, we seldom celebrate alone - we are inclined to gather together for birthdays and weddings and the various happy milestones we pass along the way. And when sorrow comes - when there is grief or pain - we usually do not move through these times alone. People we know and love stand with us in our losses, sit with us through long, dark nights of loneliness or dread. It is a compliment to our humanity, I think, that in our joys we invite others to come and share them, and in our sorrows the others come and help us bear them. And, of course, for many other reasons and in many other ways, we human persons enter into the lives of one another.

When Jesus came, he called some people together, saying: Come, be with me. And they came - from their fishing boats and their fields and their homes, and they were together with him. As about three years of time went by, Jesus summoned others - yes, indeed, he invited everyone. Those who came he called disciples, and the whole group of these he called the church, the Greek "ecclesia," meaning "the ones called out." Thus, the church of Jesus Christ is that number of persons who have been called out from wherever they were and have come to be together with him.

In Matthew 18:15-20 we have some words of Jesus concerning what should happen in the church when relationships are put under tension, when one person sins against another. He talks about the healing process, about a procedure for reconciling differences, about the involvement of the whole church whenever there are problems between persons.

The ramifications of what Jesus says here are so vast that they cannot possibly be gathered up into one short sermon. But in this rather intricate passage one thing is clear and can be concisely said. It is this: The people of our Lord, together with him, constitute a unique kind of gathering together of individual persons. Whatever else this passage of Scripture may be, it is a word for the Christian community, it is an insight into the character and dynamics of Christian fellowship. It is saying that the being together of the Lord's people is a matter of the very highest significance.

Please note now a couple of rather striking implications in what Jesus is here saying. First: again and again in his teachings, Jesus promises that true prayer will always receive an answer. In this passage, however, this promise appears to be accompanied by a rather startling condition. He says, "If two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them ..." (Matthew 18:19) Does this mean that it takes two people to make the kind of prayer that will be answered? I don't know. I really doubt if it means this exactly. But I am quite sure it is saying something to us about the very great importance of our being together with one another as disciples of our Lord.

Second: again and again in his teachings, Jesus promises always to be with his people. We get the impression that wherever one of his people is, the Lord Christ will be there also. In this passage, however, we have a most fascinating variation of this promise. Jesus says, "Where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them." Two or three? No, I don't think Jesus is saying that he will be with his people only when two or three are together. But I am very sure he is saying that, in their being together, his disciples do put themselves into position for some special blessing of his presence.

Surely, in these sayings, Jesus is addressing a message to the Christian community, to the church, to the ingathered assembly of his disciples. Whatever else he is saying, he is most assuredly saying that there is a tremendous value in our being together, that in our togetherness we have advantages otherwise impossible. So let us think about this a little, about The Lord's People Together - in disciplined fellowship.

Three dimensions of relationship are immediately apparent. First: Each person together with each other. Second: Each person together with all others. And third: All persons, the whole church, together with Christ. And by being together we do not mean a mere physical proximity, we do not mean simply being under the same roof at the same time. We mean, rather, being together in spirit and mind and purpose; we mean being together in a love for God and a commitment to our Lord Jesus Christ; we mean being bound together by the common tie by which each of us is bound to the Lord.

Consider for a moment the first dimension of this relationship, the relationship of a person with a person. This, of course, is important anywhere, but in the Christian community it is critical. It is so critical, in fact, that Jesus says here that if the relationship between any two persons in the community is put under strain, it is a matter of concern for the whole church.

In the early days of our Faith, when primitive Christians suffered horrible persecutions, the relationships among the followers of Christ were extremely precious to them. This was a common scene in the drama of those tense and dangerous times: A man who has come to know and love Christ is walking alone when he meets a stranger. As the two men pause to exchange greetings, the one wonders who the other is - not so much his name or the town from which he comes, but is this man perchance a Christian also, a follower of the Way? The Christian man does not dare say, "I'm a Christian; are you one also, perhaps?" For to be a Christian is a crime punishable often by death, and the Christian may be in jeopardy to identify himself.

But he hungers for fellowship, his spirit yearns for the touch of a kindred spirit. So, with his walking-stick he traces in the dust of the road the shape of a fish or the form of a cross, for these are the symbols of the new-born Faith, and the people of the Way know the meaning of them. If the stranger makes no response to the signal, a superficial kind of conversation continues briefly, courteous goodbyes are said, and the two men go their ways.

But if that pictured symbol on the ground is identified by the stranger, he silently traces a similar sign alongside the first, and the two men rejoice together. There is probably a handclasp, perhaps an embrace. Then, if no one is listening, they talk of things in the two Christian communities they represent, the ways their brothers and sisters cope with the hostilities that surround them. They talk about the wonders of Christ and the meaning of their faith. At last, as they part, each goes his way with a sense of new strength, with a new courage for hard tasks, with vision lifted and the flame of hope burning more brightly than before.

Those primitive Christians really needed one another. Being together was the very heartbeat that kept them alive. Of course, the Spirit of God was their empowerment, the Holy Spirit whom Christ had sent. They knew the Spirit as the paraklatos, meaning in the Greek Language "one who stands alongside." As he, their helper stood alongside them, so they sought helpfully to stand alongside one another. And generally they did - supporting, encouraging, sustaining one another.

Frankly and unashamedly, those people needed one another. For their worship and study and prayer, they diligently contrived to meet and be together. Although their meeting was usually at risk of their very lives, one of their number wrote, "Do not forsake the assembling of yourselves together." (Hebrews 10:25).

And this brings us to the second dimension of relationship within the Christian community: that is, each person together with all others. The Apostle Paul teaches in 1 Corinthians 12 and elsewhere that the Lord's people are the body of Christ. Each part is a part of the whole body. The body is an assembly of parts. Without its parts, the body is not. By its parts the body exists. But a number of severed parts do not make a body, it is their assembly, their being together, which does that. Not only does one member of the Christian community need each other member, but each needs every other. A hand cannot function unless it is organically related to a body, unless it is what the body needs it to be, unless it does what the body needs to have it do.

Poems may be written by one person working alone; but one person cannot sing the Hallelujah Chorus from Handel's Messiah. Some trees may grow in isolated grandeur, standing alone on a wide expanse of windswept plain; but not the Redwoods - mighty and mammoth as they are, they grow only in clusters, each together with all the others. So, in the Christian community, the individual is nurtured by the body.

Also, the individual bears a responsibility to the body. If a hand puts poison into the stomach, the whole body will die. The hand cannot always behave by direction of its own whim; it must do what is best for the body of which it is part. So it must surrender all notions of doing as it jolly well pleases.

At the inception of the American Revolution, Patrick Henry stirred the fervor of Virginia's patriots by shouting, "Give me liberty or give me death!" A noble sentiment this is; but you cannot run a baseball team on that, or a football squad, for each player must give up something for the team. You cannot operate an army on that, or build a marriage on it. And neither can you build a church on it.

One of America's most outstanding pastors told of a revealing little drama which was played out one Christmas Eve in one of the homes of the parish he served. For lighting their tree, this family had adopted a small ritual which they annually observed. The bulbs were hooked in series, so that none would burn unless all did. Each member of the family, including all of the several children, was given a bulb and a little speech to say. Each in turn would go to the tree, screw in his or her bulb, and make the little speech. As the final bulb was put in place, the lights would come on, a carol was sung, and the family rejoiced together. A beautiful ritual, really.

One Christmas, however, things did not work out in their usually beautiful way. One little fellow, one of the youngest of the children, was in a pout about something. When his turn came to insert his bulb, he refused to do it. There he sat, pajama clad, cross-legged on the floor, eyes downcast, pale lips set in a line that firmly said, "I won't." All the family begged, pleaded, cajoled, bribed, and used every means of persuasion, all to no avail. After a quarter hour of this, though, the child relented and did go to the tree, did insert his bulb, and the lights did come on. But in the meantime what a chaotic hassle for that whole family!

Well, in the Christian community each person should be together with each other, and each together with all others: we have talked about this a little. Now please note this third dimension of relationship: All should be together with Christ. The Christian community is a disciplined fellowship. In a way, a football team is such a fellowship; that is, all players are amenable to the mind of the coach, responsive to his will, subject to his direction. In 1 Corinthians 1:10, Paul pleads with the people of that church that they be "united in the same mind ..." To the Philippians he says, "Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 2:5, KJV)

The same mind - but whose? Not that you should have my mind, or that I should have your mind, but that both of us should have the mind of Christ. The disciplined fellowship does not lie in your yielding your will to mine, or in my yielding my will to yours, but in both of us yielding our wills to Christ. In the Christian community, what really holds the people together is an identity of each person with One beyond them all. To be together with another is what makes the church the church.

A group of musicians are sitting about, or standing maybe, in a general aspect of disarray. It is a kind of tune-up time, and these people are strumming on strings, blowing into horns, beating on drums. There is much noise, but no music. Then comes the conductor; he mounts his podium, his eye sweeps the scene before him, he lifts his baton, and he gives the downbeat. Instantly there is music. And there is music because suddenly these many musicians are brought into one. Under their leader's baton, they are brought into the mind and mood of some great master composer in whose very soul this music was first made, perhaps several centuries ago.

So it is with us and our Lord, my friends. "You are not your own ..." So writes the Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 6:19. The Greek word "Idios" or "idia" is a word having to do with one's self, or with that which belongs to one. From this word comes our English word "idiot," and all of us know the tragic and pathetic state of one who is an idiot. The word means "one who belongs to himself." An idiot is narrowly self-contained, wrapped up in a very small world, part simplistically real and part illusion. As Christians, we are not our own; we have broken out of this small world; we belong to Christ.

While visiting an asylum for the insane, a visitor observed the large number of patients and the small number of those who cared for them. Speaking with the head of the institution, the visitor said, "Aren't you afraid that sometime all these people might get together, gang up on you, and overpower you?" "No," was the answer, "Don't you realize that crazy people never unite on anything?" And this is true; they don't. Each is so much his own that he cannot enter into union with anybody.

Well, my dear friends, as Christians we are a united people - united with Christ and therefore with one another. Did I say we are a united people? I trust that this is so. We can be sure of this: We are together with one another if we are together with Him. And our being together is our best help for living a Christian kind of life and our best aid in doing the work we are called to do in the world. To be together, each with each other, each with all others, and all with Christ - these are the dimensions of the relationship we enter when we enter into Christ.

Let me tell you now a little story which points up the towering importance of all this we've been talking about. A small child was lost in a vast, dark swampland. Family members, neighbors, friends, and strangers from far and near gathered in the area and searched frantically for a long time. At last someone said, "The swamp is so wide, and somewhere out there we are missing the child as we go back and forth. If we would join hands, and so keep ourselves in one straight, continuous line, and walk abreast carefully from this side of the swamp to the other, if the child is in there, surely we will find her."

This was done: the long column made its sweep across the darkness - and the child was found, but not alive - dead from long exposure and injury and fear. As the tiny body was being carried away, someone said, "If only we had joined hands sooner."

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