Titus 2:1-15 · What Must Be Taught to Various Groups
Living In The “In Between” Time
Titus 2:11-14
Sermon
by Ronald Love
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Devon Still had encountered many difficulties in life, some of which were of his own doing. Playing football became his salvation. The six feet-five inch, 310 pound defensive end was drafted by the Cincinnati Bengals in 2012. His lifelong ambition had arrived, but injuries kept him off the field of play for many games. This resulted in playing for the Houston Texans in 2016, and the next year on the practice squad for the New York Jets. After that season, Still was dismissed from professional football.

Still grew up in Wilmington, Delaware. His parents were not churchgoers, and when he was in the fifth grade, his parents divorced. He went to live with his grandmother. It was also the beginning of his acting out and stealing. Grandma began taking Devon to church every Sunday. She had taken him to church before, but this time he knew it was for punishment.

Still said of his spiritual journey, “I’m a person of faith, though there have been times I’ve felt disconnected from God. Like when injuries threatened to derail my NFL career. I’d remember what my grandma told me when she was dragging me to church as a kid back in Wilmington, ‘The Lord speaks to all of us, Devon, but you’re never going to hear him if you don’t open your ears and listen.’”

Yet, even as an adult, Still could not hear the voice of God. When he prayed, he came to the understanding to never expect an answer, at least not one like my grandma used to hear. To hear grandma tell it, the Almighty talking to her in a booming Old Testament voice, one where there was no mistaking that it was the voice of God. Still feared that he was never going to have that kind of relationship with God. He knew that he owed everything to God; yet, he pondered, was it too much to ask for some actual spoken words from God?

In his junior year at Penn State, Still got a coed pregnant. Into that relationship, daughter Leah was born. The couple tried to work out their relationship, but it did not happen. In the separation, Still promised to always be with Leah.

After college he was drafted by the Cincinnati Bengals. In his second year with the Bengals, Still encountered what was thought to be his football ending injury. In December 2013, playing against the Pittsburgh Steelers, Still strained his back. By that night, he couldn’t walk. Again, he needed surgery. The pain was unrelenting. An ultrasound revealed three blood clots in his lungs. The doctor informed him, “You’ll never play football again.”

It was also during this period in his life that he met Asha. It was a relationship of mutual love and support Devon asked Asha, “Why does everything keep going wrong?” The huge defensive end was practically in tears. With spiritual insight, Asha replied, “Maybe you need to have a real relationship with God. Not just a help-me-out-of-a-jam one.”

Asha and Devon joined a Pentecostal church. Devon was amazed at how hard that congregation prayed. The church  welcomed Asha and Devon with open arms. For the first time, Devon understood the importance of a church community — a church team that always has your back. A month after the couple started attending, Still went back to the doctor. The blood clots were gone. Devon said, “All those prayers, said by people who barely knew me. I knew I’d been led there.” That April, Asha and Devon were baptized. Finally, Devon felt as if his life had turned a corner.

Then in June 2014, Leah was diagnosed with a mass growing in her abdomen. It was Stage IV neuroblastoma. As Still related his feelings, “Right there in the hospital waiting room, I fell to my knees. I’d never taken a hit that hard playing football. My head was spinning. And I felt a flash of anger. What did God want from me? Then I thought of the people at church, their incredible support. I was going to need them more than ever. But more than ever, I craved that one-on-one connection to God. His voice booming in my ears. As it had for my grandmother.” Still felt closer to God, but he also wondered why God seemed so distant and quiet. Devon said, “it still seemed as if I was doing all the talking. I tried not to take it personally — until Leah, my sweet four- year-old daughter, got sick with cancer. I really needed to hear directly from him then.”

After the June 2 diagnosis, Devon spent the next three weeks sleeping beside his daughter at the hospital. In support of his daughter, Still shaved his head bald and said that he would grow his hair back only when Leah did.

Spending so much time at the hospital, Still saw many other parents suffering emotionally for their children. Also, he could not avoid the trauma that the children were experiencing. Still began a campaign to raise awareness and support on his Instagram account. Soon he had a half million followers.

Eventually Still had to retire from football, but he continued his campaign for cancer awareness in young children. Devon Still said, “My entire life God has been talking to me, in ways I just hadn’t been hearing.”

Still recounts his spiritual life journey in his book, Still in the Game: Finding the Faith to Tackle Life’s Biggest Challenges.

We listen, and then we proclaim God’s power with our own lives.

Paul sent a letter, written between 66 and 67 AD, that was carried by his ambassadors to Titus, who was residing on the island of Crete. Titus was left behind on Crete after Paul left the Mediterranean Island to continue his missionary journey. Paul left Titus to oversee the churches on the island to be sure they were disciplined, ministered to individuals and to appoint congregational leaders who were moral and adhered to the gospel message that Paul taught during his visit. This letter was    to encourage the leaders of the church in the absence of the physical presence of Paul.

One of the most significant messages from this morning’s lectionary reading is that the Christians on Crete lived in the “in between” times. As it was their message in the first century, it is our message today in the twenty-first century.

Paul wrote about the two great appearances of Jesus Christ. In chapter two, verse eleven, the first appearance of Jesus is recorded. This verse reads, “For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation  to all people.” This first appearance was when Jesus walked among  us, teaching and healing. The second appearance, which is recorded in chapter two, verse thirteen, was when Jesus will appear again at the parousia, the second coming. This verse reads, “While we wait for the blessed hope — the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ…” We are now living in between these two appearances — the incarnation and the second coming.

The challenge of this in-between living is neither be preoccupied with the past or the future, but to live one’s life in self-control, anticipating Christ’s return. We are to pursue godliness and righteousness while we live in the present.

Those who believed in the first appearance of Jesus listened. Can we today? We can say, as Devon Still did, “My entire life God has been talking to me, in ways I just hadn’t been hearing.” But now we do hear? We have invited Jesus into our lives. We have been converted. We have been “born again.” Being born again, it is our challenge, which requires a great deal of self-discipline, to continue to hear Jesus until we can rejoice in Jesus second appearance. We keep the words of grandma, spoken to her grandson Devon back in Wilmington, “The Lord speaks to all of us, Devon, but you’re never going to hear him if you don’t open your ears and listen.”

Now that we are listening to Jesus, we must live as imitators of Jesus. In a single, recorded verse, verse twelve, Paul clearly stated what that obedient and disciplined life means when he wrote, “It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self- controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age…” We have to say “no,” that we will never live according to the flesh. We have to say “yes,” that we will live guided by the Holy Spirit.

Augustine was born in 354 and died in 430. He is often known to us as Augustine of Hippo, as he was made bishop of Hippo Regus in Northern Africa. Augustine was extremely well educated. He was one of the four doctors, which means teachers, of Western Christianity. The other three were Ambrose, Jerome, and Pope Gregory I. Augustine’s writings influenced the late fourth-and early fifth-century church, and still guides us to this day. In his commentary on Titus 2:12 Augustine wrote:

But there is a great and general fasting, which is perfect fasting, to abstain from the inequities and illicit pleasures of the world: “that, by denying ungodliness and worldly desires, we may live soberly and justly and godly in this world.” What reward does the apostle add to this fasting? He continues and says, “Looking for that blessed hope and the manifestation of the glory of the blessed God and Savior, Jesus Christ.”

We are to say “no” to the illicit pleasures of worldly living. We may not want to admit it publicly, but we all have temptations that we fight off daily. We have to accept this as a part of being human. It would not be wrong to say that we are doing battle with Satan, who has a very strong and powerful evil spirit. But now, as we are able to listen to God, we have the spiritual strength to say “no” to the wily evils of Satan. As Paul wrote the gospels “teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions…”

But don’t only live in a world of “no,” we also live in a world of “yes.” As Paul indicated that we are not alone in our desire to live godly lives, because supporting us is the presence of Jesus. Paul wrote that the Holy Spirit will teach us, “to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this present age…” And once we discover the joy of living a life in the Spirit, we will have no desire to return to a life lived in the flesh.

So, as his grandma dragged young Devon Still to her Baptist church each and every Sunday, she gave us all words of advice, “The Lord speaks to all of us, Devon, but you’re never going to hear him if you don’t open your ears and listen.”

Amen.

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