Luke 6:37-42 · Judging Others
I'm O.k.; You're A Little Suspect
Luke 6:37-42
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by King Duncan
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Author Tim Storey tells a great story about how easy it is to rush to pass judgement on others. Tim pulled up in front of his neighborhood barber shop and parked. As he fished around for his wallet, he felt the sickening crunch of metal hitting metal. Somebody hit his car! What an idiot! But when he jumped out to look, Tim didn't see anyone. As he was muttering under his breath about stupid drivers, a little old lady came out of the barber shop and announced, “I saw the whole thing." Turns out, he was the stupid driver. Instead of putting his car in park, Tim had accidentally shifted it into reverse. No one had hit him; he had backed into the car behind him. (1)

It's so easy to pass judgement without all the facts, isn't it? The other guy is the stupid driver. Jesus could have just as well been talking to us when he said, “Why do you worry about the speck that is in your neighbor's eye, but pay no attention to the 2" x 4" protruding from your own eye?" (Paraphrase) We all do it, don't we? We look for flaws in others and ignore our own. Actually, that is not too surprising.

Each of us is made up of certain unique experiences, ideas, prejudices, and expectations; these things make up a “filter" through which we see the world. Like a pair of faulty glasses, this “filter" allows us only limited vision. We think we can see ourselves clearly, but the further we get from ourselves, the fuzzier our vision is. There's a great chart that lists how we see ourselves as opposed to how we see others around us. It's called "I'm, You're, They're":

I'm Chatty
You're Unusually Talkative
They're A motor mouth

I'm Righteously Indignant
You're Annoyed and Insulted
They're Fussing over nothing

I'm Neat
You're Fussy
They're Far too exacting

I'm Neighborly
You're A little nosy
They're A gossip

I'm A good shopper
You're Thrifty
They're A tightwad

I'm Sparkling
You're Flamboyant
They're An insecure show off

Confident
Slightly Boastful
Egotistical

Firm
Stubborn at times
A Pig-Headed Fool (2)

Like an acutely farsighted person, we are often blind to our own faults, but quick to notice the faults of others.

OUR TEXT FROM LUKE'S GOSPEL TELLS US THAT WHEN WE PASS JUDGEMENT ON OTHERS, WE ARE TAKING THE PLACE OF GOD.

We are all sinners. It sounds like a cliche, but it is the hard Gospel truth. None of us has any bragging room as far as righteousness is concerned. We would like to believe that there is a hierarchy of sin. In our minds, there ought to be a grading scale for beginning sinners, intermediate level, and advanced-placement hypocrites.

People Magazine once did a survey called “The Sindex: A Reader's Guide to Misbehavior." Readers were asked to rate how guilty they would feel, on a scale of one to ten, if they engaged in any of fifty-one activities. The results were averaged to give each behavior a Sin Coefficient and a ranking in the Reader's Morality Index. On a scale of Ten, the top ten sins, according to the magazine's readers were: Murder 9.84, Rape 9.77, Incest 9.68, Child Abuse 9.59, Spying against your country 8.98, Drug Dealing 8.83, Embezzlement 8.49, Pederasty 8.30, Spouse Swapping 8.09, and Adultery 7.63 (3)

We often assume that God has a “Sindex." Gossip, anger, lack of charity, and gluttony should be benign sins in our estimation, and should be covered by a quick prayer and perfect church attendance for one full month. Adultery, drug dealing, homosexuality, and murder are major sins, and God should be just as repulsed by these sins as we are. That's what we'd like to think. But it's a lie. A sin is anything . . . anything . . .anything that separates us from God. Anything. Romans 3: 23 says, “There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God . . ." Anything that falls short of the glory and holiness of God is sin.

And because we are all sinners, we make imperfect judges of one another. Have you ever seen one child tattling on another child? The tattler rarely gets rewarded for his or her efforts. Few parents want to encourage that behavior in their children. And just because one child knows about another child's bad deed, the children aren't allowed to punish one another. Any disciplinary measures are reserved for the parents to enforce. Why? Because children rarely have the wisdom, maturity, compassion, and foresight to correctly judge one another's actions.

AND THAT BRINGS US TO OUR SECOND POINT: UNTIL WE CAN LOVE OTHERS AS GOD LOVES THEM, WE CANNOT JUDGE OTHERS AS GOD JUDGES THEM.

It is so easy to be critical of others--to put them down--to question their right to think for themselves.

Psychologist Robert B. Cialdini, in his book, Influence, tells about a man named Joe Pine who hosted a rather remarkable TV talk show back in the 1960s that was syndicated from California. This program was ahead of its time. What made it distinctive was Pine's caustic and confrontational style with his guests. These guests were, for the most part, a collection of exposure-hungry entertainers, would-be celebrities, and representatives of fringe political or social organizations. The host's abrasive approach was designed to provoke his guests into arguments, to fluster them into embarrassing admissions, and generally to make them look foolish. It was not uncommon for Pine to introduce a visitor and launch immediately into an attack on the individual's beliefs, talent, or appearance. Some people claimed that Pine's acid personal style was partially caused by a leg amputation that had embittered him to life; others said no, that he was just vituperous by nature.

One evening rock musician Frank Zappa was a guest on the show. This was at a time in the sixties when very long hair on men was still unusual and controversial. As soon as Zappa had been introduced and seated, the following exchange occurred:

Pine: I guess your long hair makes you a girl.

To which Zappa replied: I guess your wooden leg makes you a table. (4)

It is so easy to criticize, so easy to judge. But we don't know the other person's circumstances or expectations. We don't know the burdens that they carry. But God knows. He knows the road that each one of us has traveled. Also, God has two vitally important attributes that we don't have: perfect holiness and perfect love. All of God's judgements are filtered through His holiness and His love for us. Our judgements are stained by feelings of revenge, self-righteousness, anger, contempt, jealousy. God doesn't have that problem. No matter what we have done in life, God continues to love us. No sin can shock Him. Romans 5:8 says, “But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

A woman who was dying of AIDS summoned a minister to comfort her. Her emotional pain was as real as her physical pain. Everything seemed hopeless. “I'm lost," she said, “I've ruined my life and every life around me. I'm headed for hell. There's no hope for me." The minister saw a framed picture of a pretty girl on the dresser. “Who is that?" he asked. The woman brightened, “She's my daughter, the one beautiful thing in my life." “Would you help her if she was in trouble," asked the minister, “no matter how many mistakes she'd made? Would you forgive her if she asked you to? Would you still love her, no matter what?"

“Of course I would," the woman exclaimed. “Why would you even ask a question like that?"

“Because I want you to understand," explained the minister, “That God has a picture of you on His dresser too." (5)

This passage contains a warning: we are imperfect judges. Then, it contains a note of hope: only God, who loves us, can properly judge us. And finally, it contains another warning, which brings us to our third point:

GOD JUDGES OUR INWARD ATTITUDE JUST AS MUCH AS OUR OUTWARD ACTIONS. Uh-oh. To the rest of the world, we may look like paragons of virtue. By our actions, we may appear holy enough to walk on water. But God doesn't just judge us by our actions; our thoughts and attitudes are equally important in His sight.

Author Arthur Gordon grew up in the South. As a Southerner he learned that, in his part of the country, at least, charm was the essential ingredient that greased the wheels of society and kept them turning smoothly. Arthur recalls a certain society matron who received a surprise visit from a clergyman. This was a man she detested. In spite of the matron's deep dislike for this man, however, she was a gracious host to him. She served him tea and cookies, laughed at his jokes, complimented his latest sermon. She was, in a word, charming.

After the clergyman left, the society matron lay down on her couch and died of a massive stroke. Arthur Gordon has always wondered if the woman was overcome by the extreme effort required to be charming to someone she disliked. (6)

No amount of charm can make up for a heart full of hate. In order to live a life that is pleasing to God, it is essential to get our heart and our actions in perfect alignment. When our car's wheels get out of alignment, we start to notice a little shimmy in the car. A little extra vibration. At first, it's just a little distracting. But if we don't take the car in and get it fixed, that little shimmy will soon turn into a big problem. If we want the wheels to be aligned properly, we must turn the car over to a good mechanic and let him or her work on it. And it's the same way with our heart. We can't purify our hearts on our own; we do not have the capacity for holiness within ourselves. We must turn our hearts over to God and let His Holy Spirit work in us. The Honora

The man's mother, a poor widow, wrote a letter to Judge Lowrey, asking him to overturn the judgement and forget the fine. She explained that her son was broke and unemployed; it would fall on her shoulders to pay his fine. The financial burden was more than she could bear.

With tears in his eyes, the judge signed the docket which sealed the poor man's fate and adjourned the court. To remit the fine would violate his oath to uphold the law, and justice would suffer for the sake of mercy. But when the judge wrote back to the widow, he enclosed with his letter a personal check to cover both the fine and court costs. Concluding his letter, he said, “I send this check with joy because it gives me the opportunity to be both merciful and just." (7)

That is the kind of judge God is. He is the perfect judge, both merciful and just. All of God's judgements are filtered through His perfect holiness and His perfect love. Why are we commanded not to judge one another? Because we're no good at playing God. Until we can love as God loves, then we cannot judge as God judges. But let us strive every day toward greater holiness and greater love, so that our own thoughts and actions will be acceptable in God's sight.


1. Tim Storey. It's Time for Your Comeback (Tulsa, OK.: Harrison House, 1998), pp. 46-47.

2. Pastor Tim's Clean Laugh List - http://www.cybersalt.org/cleanlaugh

3. Unattributed, “Sin," People, 10 February 1986, pp. 107-109. Cited in Myths the World Taught Me by R. Scott Richards, Thomas Nelson Publishers, Nashville, 1991, p. 211.

4. (New York: William Morrow and Company, Inc., 1984).

5. HELP 4 SUNDAY

6. Arthur Gordon. A Touch of Wonder (Grand Rapids, Mich.: Fleming H. Revell Company, 1974), pp. 44-45.

7. Knowles, George E. A World to Love (Washington, D.C.: Review and Herald Publishing Association, 1990), p. 73.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan