Titus 2:1-15 · What Must Be Taught to Various Groups
Having to Stay When You Want Out
Titus 2:1-15
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by Harold Warlick
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One of the difficult aspects for many people during the Christmas season is travel. Christmas is certainly no longer “over the river and through the woods, to Grandmother’s house we go.” Over fifty percent of all Americans now live over 500 miles from the place of their childhood roots. Going “home” for Christmas now means arriving at the airport an hour early, lugging presents to the UPS pick-up, renting a car, hoping you can get through the two-and-a-half hour layover in some big city airport, avoiding gridlock when passing near an urban metropolis, and wondering if you will have to spend the night in a train station as inclement weather backs up the schedule of an entire corridor of the country.

It’s painful to have to stay in a strange place, far from home, when you really want to get out of there at all costs. Who hasn’t waited in a tough place, trying to get home to celebrate Christmas? Not all experiences with travel anxiety are physical. Every pastor knows what it’s like to have to smile, put on a friendly face, and stay somewhere when you really want to leave. Can you imagine what it’s like to attend a church reception being held in your honor to say, “Good-bye,” to you when you are ready to leave for a new field of service? You don’t want to go. Your spouse is feeling sad and you’re often too dumb to realize all the sacrifices that you are laying upon your family. You pose for the pictures, pick up the “love offering” check, or hold the engraved silver tray, as you secretly wish you could be anywhere but there.

Can you imagine being the pastoral or liturgical head of a church, trying to go through the motions of the Christmas season with a congregation whose vision and needs are completely out of step with your own conception of ministry? You have managed to stay intact as a human being in spite of all the shaking of your spirit, but you know that inside the beautifully wrapped package you are a jumble of pieces of broken glass that resemble a hundred little pieces of confetti, held together by thin drops of ceremonial glue. You have to stay through it all when you really want out.

Sometimes the greatest messages about life are tucked away in rather obscure and unlikely places. Such is the case with the letter written to Titus. The letter was a response to some of Titus’ complaints about Crete, the place Paul had assigned him. Titus hated Crete. He wanted to get out of there, and the sooner the better. Paul, or another author, responded with the pastoral epistle we now have. In essence, he told Titus that if Crete had not been a bad place there would have been no reason to send Titus there. “For this cause,” said Paul, “I left you in Crete, that you should set in order the things that are wanting and search out good people in every city.” That phrase, “For this cause I left you in Crete,” is repeated several times in the introduction to this letter to Titus.

I can identify somewhat with Titus in that I have physically been to Crete. The trip there is a rough one. A depression in the sea produces high winds and lots of waves. One has to pass through the “graveyard of the Aegean” to get there. And the island peaked in 1100 B.C. A volcano blew up seventy miles north of Crete and literally leveled everything. Basically, the only real significance of Crete lies in the fact that the people there invented the safety pin and cremation. The weather there is brutally hot. I only spent the night there, and I wanted out of Crete.

The letter concentrated on the fact that happiness is not something you find but something you create. Titus had to discover his happiness in Crete. Titus had to turn difficulty into victory by following Christ.

If Titus was going to find happiness, he had to find it in Crete. He had to search out good people and cultivate their friendship. No one in Crete was going to knock on his door, barge in, and say, “Titus, let me make you happy.”

Rabbi Beryl Cohon has been one of the most expressive thinkers in Judaism. Rabbi Cohon used to love to walk down the bank of the Charles River in the Cambridge-Boston area. One day he saw a number of boys sailing toy sailboats. They had seven little boats in the lagoon. Some were moving faster than others; one or two capsized and had to be pulled out and righted; one struck the embankment and had to be pushed off. Some barely had enough wind in their sails to drift along. A few were moving very fast. The same wind, blowing from the same direction, caused some to capsize, some to stall, some to move fast, and some to move in circles. They all were turning in different directions when the same force was playing upon all of them.1

The explanation, of course, lies in the set of the sail. As the sail is adjusted, so does the boat travel. If the wind is caught, the skillful sailor can even guide a vessel in the very teeth of the storm.

How do we draw from this Christmas season the strength to set our sail and remain upright in situations which threaten to capsize our spirits? It is precisely at this point that today’s epistle proves instructive. The nativity of our Lord is forever linked to our baptism. Many interpreters view this lesson from Titus as reminiscent of ancient baptismal liturgies.2 The author of the passage writes it in a single long sentence in Greek. Titus, in spite of his less than ideal situation, is being pointed to God’s saving grace in Jesus Christ for all people. The emphasis is on how God’s grace forms us. It is a saving grace because it teaches us to live as “self-controlled, upright and godly” people.

This ever-present grace, so available to Titus, is available to us all when we link our baptism to the nativity of our Lord. Our baptism, like our Lord’s nativity, can withstand all the shakings of human history. It can, as it did for Titus, enable us to stay in situations from which there are no easy exits.

A young minister graphically described his involvement in an urban studies program which took him to the streets of San Francisco. One day he and several other ministers were instructed to put on worn-out shoes and old clothes and get into the line for free lunch at Saint Anthony’s Dining Rooms.

The ministers moved along the line, exchanging nods with those who had to live for real the life the ministers were temporarily sharing. The ministers watched as the homeless people responded to each other, told stories, and scraped leftovers from others’ plates into little plastic bags to have something to eat for supper.

Then, as the homeless people faded into the alleys and porticos of the city to return to their status as the lost and lonely, the ministers pulled off their dirty, ragged clothes and rejoined their instructors who had been involved in the same experience.

The meaning of the Christmas Event is most sharply defined at this point. We cannot discredit those who change from their identification with the poor and resume their middle-class life. Most of us wouldn’t deign to dress down even one time.

L. D. Johnson posited that “the point of Christmas is that God came as Jesus Christ, ‘born of flesh, born under the law,’ as Paul put it, and he stayed.”3

The epistle to Titus reminds him, and us, that the Christ has promised to stay always. The grace of God that first appeared in Bethlehem continues to “teach us” as we wait for the glorious appearance of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ (vv. 12-13). The grace appears in the nativity of our Lord. It stays with us as a teacher. It will return to us in glory.

Titus rediscovered his Savior there in Crete. The past manifestation of God in Jesus of Nazareth and the future manifestation of God in hope and glory marked the boundaries of God’s plan of salvation.

Today we celebrate the day of the birth of our Lord. The good news is the fact that our Lord stayed after the birth and will come to us again. So be it.


1. Beryl Cohon, Out of the Heart (New York: Vantage Press, 1957), p. 77.

2. E. Elizabeth Johnson, Proclamation 6, Series C: Advent/Christmas (Minneapolis: Augsburg Fortress, 1997), pp. 40-41.

3. I am the minister in the story and published it in Harold C. Warlick, Jr., Conquering Loneliness (Waco: World Publishing Company, 1979), pp. 11-12. L. D. Johnson responded to and used the story in L. D. Johnson (compiled by Marion Johnson) Images of Eternity (Nashville: Broadman Press, 1984), p. 54.

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