John 19:17-27 · The Crucifixion
When It Is Tough to Follow Jesus: The Third Word
John 19:17-27
Sermon
by Eric Ritz
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The distinguished United Methodist bishop, Dr. Gerald Kennedy, once told the story of seeing a very poorly dressed woman and her young daughter looking into one of the department store windows in the downtown area of a large city during the Christmas holidays. Inside the window was the manger scene, including Mary dressed as the Queen Of Heaven, with rich diamonds and other jewels in her dazzling crown. The little girl gazed at the Blessed Mother for a while and then turned to her own mother and said, "She''s so beautiful! I bet she never had any troubles like we do, did she?"

Many of you have heard the radio commentator Paul Harvey say, "Now let me tell you the rest of the story." I want to do exactly that today concerning Mary, the earthly mother of Jesus, as we set the stage for the "Kodak Moment" that is before us today.

During the summer of 1984, John & Lauretta Reynolds were in Rome touring St. Peter''s Basilica. As they viewed the immortal Pieta, in which Mary is holding the body of her crucified son, the reverent hush was interrupted by the voice of a troubled little girl. She too saw the famous sculpture but was bothered by what she saw. Turning to her mother, the child asked, "What have they done to Jesus?" The lady quickly tried to hush her young daughter, but to no avail. She repeated the question with even more fervor, "But Mother, what have they done to Jesus?" Suddenly, the work of Michelangelo was no longer just a piece of art, but a reproach to the world for how it has indeed treated Christ. (1)

Yes, the third word of our Lord Jesus Christ from the cross is one of the most tender yet penetrating portraits of love anywhere in the inspired word of God.

We know that in the Nicene Creed, the early church fathers described the biblical mystery of Jesus Christ as that of being fully God and fully man. I affirm that. I believe that. The two words from the cross that we have already examined portray the divine, priestly role of our Lord. This third word, however, is a marvelous portrayal of his humanity.

I also believe that the other six words were more public words in their scope and meaning. There is something very personal and private about this third word that was spoken to Mary and the disciple John.

However, in the providence and purpose of God, these words were recorded for our edification and inspiration during the journey God has asked us to make.

The distinguished preacher, Dr. Harry Emerson Fosdick, Jr., once had the privilege of speaking before the student body and guests of the American University in Beirut, Lebanon. Among the members of the student body were citizens of many countries and representatives of some sixteen different religions. Now, what could someone say to such a varied group that would be relevant for all of them, or even of interest? Well, this is how Fosdick began: "I do not ask any of you here to change your religion; but I do ask all of you to face up to this question: `What is your religion doing to your character?''"

Yes, Mary''s religious faith had everything to do with her character. This is the main reason that God asked her to play such a vital role in the great salvation drama that He was about to conduct.

One thing that is obvious from the scriptures is that Mary''s role of being the earthly mother of Jesus was never an easy one.

Do any of you remember the old television series called "Perry Mason?" In that show, everyone who was called to testify had to swear to "tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help you God."

Let us now all turn in our Bibles to follow the biblical record as we examine the difficult journey that God called Mary to embark on.

In Luke 1:26-38, we read again the familiar story of how the Angel Gabriel was sent by God to reveal to Mary the role that God had chosen for her. How easily we dismiss Verse 29 when it states, "But she was greatly troubled." She knew the public humiliation and embarrassment that she would call down upon Joseph and her family if she suddenly became pregnant. However, she accepted God''s purpose for her life and declared, "Let it be to me according to your word." This part of Mary''s religious character never dimmed or lost its staying power.

In Matthew 1:18-25, we see that Mary''s fear about Joseph''s reaction to her pregnancy was right on target. Mary knew that she was a virgin, pure in body and mind--but the evidence that Joseph saw declared otherwise.

In Luke 2:1-7, we read of the less-than-comfortable journey that the young couple made to Bethlehem to register for a tax census. We further learn of the less-than-ideal birthing room in which she would deliver the baby Jesus.

Now turn to Luke 2:35. As soon as Mary and Joseph experienced the incomparable joy of the birth of their child, like all parents, they went to the temple to present their newborn son to Almighty God. The righteous man Simeon shared some astonishing insight about the child and then told the new parents, "Behold, this child is set for the fall and rising of many in Israel." And then he said, "A sword will pierce her soul as well." Is that any way to speak to someone who is highly favored among women and is blessed by God?

In Matthew 2:16-18, Mary and Joseph had to flee into Egypt while a group of children in the local village were murdered by King Herod. It seems that the visit of the three Kings to the cradle of Jesus was a costly visit. Mary knew why the children had to sacrifice their lives for her little one, but it still must have been very hard for her.

So many times the Bible declares that, "Mary pondered all these things in her heart."

Now I want to turn to John''s gospel 2:1-11. This is the famous story of Jesus turning the water into wine at the wedding in the town of Cana. It is here I believe that you can begin to see the distance that begins to open between Jesus and his mother. It is here that their relationship changes, because the mission for the life of Jesus is becoming clearer and more focused. The water being transformed into wine is not the only thing that is changing in this story. Mary knows that there is something special about her son Jesus, because she instructs the servants to do whatever he tells them to do.

And we see the distance between the mother and the son become even more pronounced as we turn to Matthew 12:46-50. This scene clearly shows that Jesus is no longer her child alone. She had been the instrument by which God had entered the world, but clearly it was God''s mission that now dominated Jesus'' life, not his family. Mary knew this day would come, but it was still difficult to accept. You can only imagine the emotions that swept across Mary''s heart as she watched her son leave his earthly family, preach his ministry, and finally come to the moment we are examining today--his painful death on the cross.

So many times Jesus had told Mary and others that his hour had "not yet come." However, as Mary kneeled at the foot of the cross, she knew that his hour had indeed finally come, and she could not alter the mysterious will of God at work at the cross. She was silent. She simply did what she had always done--she surrendered all things to the Lord. The hymnwriter puts it this way:

"All to Jesus I surrender,
All to him I freely give.
I will ever love and trust him,
In his presence--daily live.

I surrender all--I surrender all,
All to thee, my blessed Savior,
I surrender all." (2)

While I know that our salvation and access to God is not dependent on Mary--she is still a fantastic role model for anyone to follow and emulate. She stood firmly by Jesus at the foot of the cross. Will you?

Yes, Mary knew that it was a difficult thing to follow Jesus. It required tough love. However, after you heard the first two words of our Lord from the cross--you know where she got her strength to love and serve.

Jesus fulfills his last human responsibility when he commits the care of his mother Mary to his closest friend John. John also benefits because we know that he was the youngest of all the disciples. Therefore Jesus is giving Mary another son, and John now has a mother to care for and also to be nurtured by. My friend J. George Mamourian believes that this was John''s finishing school: he was polished and refined by Mary so that he could make the journey of life that was yet before him.

Mary''s gift to Jesus and to the church for all centuries was that of "mothering." It is a gift that is greatly needed in our world today. I hope my words don''t upset anyone here today, but I believe "mothering" to be one of the highest callings in all the world. Not too long ago there was a woman in New York City who was upset by all the young babies being born to crack addicts--children who would never have loving arms and hands to surround them and guide them through their introduction to the world. This woman had one gift that she was able to give these children. She could not give them money, social status, or an educational background--but she could be a mother to them. President Ronald Reagan was so moved by her witness of compassion and care that he introduced this woman before a joint session of Congress. You may have heard of her by the name Mother Hale. This dear woman recently died. They had her funeral service at the famous Riverside Church in New York City. The gathering included streetpeople, addicts, CEO''s of major corporations, the Mayor, the Governor, priests, rabbi''s and many more people from all walks of life. They came to pay their respects to this Saint of God who touched the world with the simple gift of "mothering."

So it is no surprise that, in a tender act of love and compassion, that Jesus would care for the future needs of the woman who had shared God''s gift of "mothering" with Him. "Mothering" is a very tough duty and responsibility in life, and it is not a role that is restricted to women. We all need to learn how to be better "mothers," better guardians of our young and our world. Thank God that His servant Mary gave us a worthy role model to follow.

Yes, it was tough to be the mother of Jesus, but I am very thankful for the efforts of this special Jewish maiden and mother called Mary. May our work and witness for the Kingdom of God be as steadfast, authentic, and courageous as hers was. Mary''s character was always submitted to the will of God. May God give us the grace to do as she did.

Yes, it was tough for Mary to stand at the foot of the cross.

I know of only one thing more difficult than following Jesus--that is to try and live life without Him.

Amen and Amen.

Dynamic Preaching, The Ritz Collection, by Eric Ritz