2 Corinthians 12:1-10 · Paul’s Vision and His Thorn
Weakness into Strength
2 Corinthians 12:1-10
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by James McCormick
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Occasionally I stumble across wisdom in an unlikely place. Some time ago, when we were living in Arizona, I was driving from one appointment to another. My mind was wandering in a dozen different directions, as usual. The radio was playing, but I was not paying much attention to it – that is, until the commercial came on. It was a catchy little advertisement for a Savings and Loan Association. A man, obviously unschooled in the complexities of finance, was being interviewed. He was asked a lot of questions about stocks, bonds, various investments, trends, interest rates, and the tax implications of it all. Of course, he had no answers. He admitted that he was ignorant about all of that; that’s why he trusted the experts at the savings institution. Although he didn’t know the answers, he knew that they did. He trusted that his investment was in good hands there.

I really wasn’t paying much attention to all of that, because up to that point it was a rather standard, predictable commercial. But then came the punch line, and it made me sit up and take notice. The zinger was this: “51% of smart is knowing what you are dumb at.”

I thought about that, and I said to myself, “Of course! That’s true! No one can know everything about everything. But you don’t have to know everything as long as you know that you don’t know – and then know where to find someone who does know.” I have thought often about that through the years, and I have become convinced that those words express one of the truest truths I know. Listen to those wise words again: “51% of smart is knowing what you are dumb at.”

I.

That’s what Paul was saying in the scripture I read a few moments ago. He was writing about a “thorn in the flesh”. We don’t know what it was, exactly. People have been speculating about it for years – some have suggested it was near sightedness, or recurring bouts of malaria, or a hunchback condition – someone even thought he might have been writing about his mother in law! We just don’t know. But, it was some kind of weakness, some kind of affliction that was causing him difficulty and he wanted it gone. He prayed about it again and again, but the thorn remained. Instead of removing the thorn, God kept saying to Paul, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”

Over time, Paul discovered in his own experience the truth of what God was telling him. So much so, that Paul concluded his statement by saying, “When I am weak, then I am strong.” What a strange thing to say. At first glance it seems to be self contradictory. “When I am weak, then I am strong.” And yet, the more we come to understand that statement, the more we see the wisdom of it.

In his struggling with his “thorn in the flesh”, Paul discovered some important things about himself. He came to the conclusion that if he had not had to confront his weakness, he might have become arrogant and overly impressed with his own strength and ability. He would not have been open to wisdom beyond himself, to strength beyond himself. All that he would have had was what he possessed within himself. And, compared with all the resources of God, which his faith opened up to him, his personal strength was really weakness. It was only when he became aware of his weakness and reached out for the resources of God that he became really strong. So, you can understand what he meant when he said, “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

II.

One of the things to be most careful about is excessive self confidence, too much self reliance. The truth is, when we think we are strong in wisdom, in ability, in morality, in coping ability, the chances are we are really weak, at least weaker than we think. Someone has written, “Half the headaches and many of the heartaches are caused by halos that don’t fit.” Think about it: no-one is all wise, all strong, all good, all sufficient. Few of us qualify for halos. It’s when we think we do or pretend that we do that we begin to be in trouble.

The salesman who thinks he has the territory sewed up and begins to take his customers for granted soon loses those customers. His assumption of strength makes him weak.

The military commander who overestimates his strength and underestimates his enemy is soon defeated.

The athletic team that begins to think it is unbeatable begins to let down and is upset by a 2nd or 3rd rate team. It’s true, isn’t it? Sometimes when you think you are strong, you become weak.

Certainly that applies to wisdom. The most difficult person to teach is the person who thinks he knows it all. Such a person is not open to new truth because he thinks he already knows all the truth. I’ll never forget something I heard a number of years ago: “There is no-one so completely in the dark as the one who thinks he has all the light.” Remember that. The only way to know we have the truth is humbly to ask again and again, “Do I have the truth? Do I have the truth?”

I remember hearing about a teacher who invited a college student to tea. He was a bright student, but he was not realizing his potential because he thought he knew it all. The two of them sat in the professor’s home, and the professor began pouring tea into the student’s cup. He poured and continued pouring until the tea was spilling over the cup into the saucer and then out of the saucer into the student’s lap. The young man cried out, “It’s full! It’s over full! It can’t hold any more!” The professor stopped pouring and said to the student: “And you’re full of yourself. I can’t teach you anything until you become empty, and ready to receive knowledge.” That rings true, doesn’t it? The wisest people I know are those who know how much they don’t know. Consequently, they approach truth humbly and with a willingness to learn.

This principle applies to interpersonal relationships as well. Our culture keeps telling us: “Be strong. Don’t admit your weaknesses to anyone – even to yourself. To admit weakness makes us vulnerable and gets us into trouble.” That’s what we are told, particularly us males, from the time we are children until the time we die. So, many of us go through life pretending that we don’t need anyone or anything. We are strong!

The problem is, how do you love someone who doesn’t need anything from you? How do you give yourself to someone who acts like he is totally self-sufficient? Such a person inevitably reaches the point of intense loneliness, because he holds everyone at arms length, refusing to allow anyone to get close, refusing to need anyone or anything.

Listen again to the truth you have heard me express again and again: intimacy requires vulnerability. And vulnerability means the willingness to be open and weak and needy with another human being. Think about it. The person to whom you are the closest is not that person with whom you always appear to be strong and self-sufficient. No, the person to whom you are closest is that person with whom you have been willing to be weak so that they could give you something. And the remarkable thing is that out of that weakness has come relationship, and out of relationship has come a new and greater strength. It does apply to relationships, doesn’t it? “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

It applies to moral decisions as well. Many of the people who get into moral trouble are those who are too confident of their strength. When we think we are morally strong and incapable of doing wrong, at that precise moment temptation sneaks up on us and overtakes us before we know what is happening. One thing that keeps me out of trouble is that I know myself pretty well. I’m honest about the darker side of my nature. I know that I am capable of doing a great many things I should not do. Because I am aware of my weakness, I keep my guard up, and I become strong.

Do you understand the principle I am talking about today, the truth that Paul expressed so convincingly? When we think we are strong, we are not open to resources beyond ourselves, and therefore we are really weak. But, when we know our weakness and reach out for strength beyond our own resources, then we become strong.

One of the remarkable stories in the Bible is the story of Gideon. God called Gideon to deliver his people by engaging their enemies in battle. But God’s instructions to Gideon were unusual, to say the least. God told him to prepare for battle by reducing the number of his soldiers. Through a series of tests, Gideon’s army was reduced from 30,000 men to about 300. And with that small company of committed men, relying solely on the strength of God, they won a great victory. The point was, with 30,000 they might rely upon their own strength alone. But, with only 300, they had to rely upon God. And they discovered that God is sufficient. Do you hear the truth? “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

III.

Please don’t misunderstand what I am saying. I am not suggesting that we have no strengths. Of course we do. And, God expects us to use those strengths and enlarge upon them. God has no patience with those people who pray and then sit back to let God do all of the work. No, God does not call us to a false humility, denying the strengths we have, denying the resources that are available to us. The things we can do, God expects us to do. The strengths we have, God expects us to use. After all He gave them to us, and He expects us to use them. So, I repeat, we do have strengths and resources.

Neither am I suggesting that weakness is something we should seek. There is no virtue in weakness. God deliver us from those people who wallow in their troubles – those self appointed presidents of the “poor me” club. God does not call us to whine or complain. Besides, to concentrate on our weaknesses without an awareness of available resources can be depressing and can make us even weaker.

No, here is what I am saying: we do have strengths and resources, but supermen and superwomen are in very short supply. No person here – no human being is all wise, all good, all sufficient. And, it’s a terrible burden to go through life pretending that we are. Especially when that pretense doesn’t do us any good – it only makes us weaker.

We all have strengths, and we all have weaknesses. The point of wisdom is when we evaluate our resources honestly and accurately, and then reach out for what we need! 51% of smart and 90% of strength is in knowing what our weakness is. And the good news that comes to us in the midst of our weakness is that strength is available! Our weakness becomes strength when we acknowledge it and then reach out to take hold of the greatness of God!

I know that is difficult for some of us. It’s difficult for us to acknowledge our need. We have trouble admitting our weakness even to ourselves. But, hear me, as long as we keep pretending that our weakness is strength, there is nothing even God can do, and we will continue to be weak.

What we need is conversion – a willingness to turn around and to go in a new direction. David McLennan tells the story of a tourist driving along a New England road. He knew he was in the vicinity of Boston, and he wanted to go there, but he was confused about direction and distance. He saw a little boy by the side of the road, so he stopped to make inquiry. He said, “Son, how far is it to Boston?” The boy replied, “Well, if you keep on going the way you’re headed, it’s about 25,000 miles. But, if you’ll just turn around and go the other way, it’s about 46 miles.”

If we keep going the way we’re going, many of us will never arrive at strength. We will never be equal to the difficulties life throws at us. Our imagined strength will always be weakness. Our only hope is to turn around, acknowledge our need, and allow God to turn our weakness into strength.

The Apostle Paul was a remarkable man. But he never said, “I can do all things!” What he said was, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” The Bible does not say, “Be strong!” The Bible says, “Be strong in the Lord!”

Countless thousands who lived and struggled before us have discovered in their own experience the truth of Paul’s words, “God’s grace is sufficient for us.” That’s good news if we can hear it and take hold of it. The good news is that, no matter how much trouble there is, there is even more grace available to deal with it. No matter how much weakness there is, there is more than enough strength available. Whatever resources we don’t have, God will supply. I believe that! I don’t know what weakness you are experiencing right now. What I do know is that, whatever it is, you and God together are equal to it!

I am sure that most of us think of Abraham Lincoln as a strong man. He faced huge obstacles during his presidency and confronted seemingly impossible difficulties during the War Between the States. But listen to him speak, “Often I was driven to my knees in prayer by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to turn.” Do you hear it? “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

Think about those whom the Church has called Saints. Do you think they were good and strong? Of course they were. But they never knew it. Read their writings and you will discover that they were very concerned about their sin and their weakness. They became great because they were very much aware of their need. “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

Do you know the story of Sidney Lanier, the poet? Too early in his life, he discovered that he had tuberculosis. He had nowhere to turn and he became despondent. Then, one day, he sat looking at the marsh on the coast of South Georgia. He watched the little marsh hens building their nests. Something happened to him in that experience, and he reached out and took hold of something real and strengthening. Later, he wrote about it, “As the marsh hen secretly builds on the watery sod, behold I will build me a nest in the greatness of God.” Trusting in God, he received what he needed. “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

I can talk about it autobiographically. In my very first pastorate after graduating from seminary, I was confronted with a situation I was ill equipped to handle. The civil rights revolution broke out, with all the anger and heated emotions it brought with it. Southern culture was pushing in one direction and God was calling me to go in another, and there I was, caught in the middle – never a comfortable place to be. I tried. I tried to be a peacemaker, a justice bringer, a reconciler. But, they would have none of it. Because of my efforts most of my congregation lost confidence in me, my friends turned their backs on me, my relationship with family members was strained. Only my wife, Patricia, stood by me.

In the stress of that situation, I began to question everything. I questioned the rightness of my actions. I questioned my competence. I questioned my call into the ministry. My whole world was falling apart. Talk about weakness – I was scared spitless – I felt limp and almost totally without any resources to rely upon. Like Lincoln, I had nowhere to turn except to God.

And it happened. I felt cut off from almost everyone else, but never have I been so aware of God. I was confused, but never have I grown so much. I was in severe emotional pain, but God took my hand and led me through. That was almost 50 years ago, but I remember it as if it were yesterday. And today, personally, I know the truth God spoke to Paul: “My grace is sufficient for you.” And I know the truth that Paul spoke in response: “When I am weak, then I am strong.”

Prayer: Loving Father, so many of us have experienced the good news that Your grace is sufficient for every need. Now help us to use our strength in Your service, and help us to surrender our weakness to You, so that You can touch it and turn it into strength. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

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