Ecclesiastes 3:1-22 · A Time for Everything
Timing
Ecclesiastes 3:1-22
Sermon
by Elizabeth Achtemeier
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All of us know that there are proper times to do and say certain things. For example, if we are gardeners, we know that peas and lettuce should be planted in the early spring. If we are attending a funeral, we are aware of the fact that it is no time to laugh. If a family member is unreasonably angry with us and thinks we don't care for him at all, it may be the time to put our arms around him and assure him of our love.

 Words and actions have their proper times, and that is part of the Wisdom teaching that comes to us from the book of Ecclesiastes. Especially, says Wisdom tradition, is there an appropriate time to keep silence or to say just the right word (v. 7; cf. Proverbs 15:23; 25:11). I think we all know of times when the right word said at the right time has lent enormous comfort to a troubled soul or even set someone's life on a better path. But we also know of times when someone has blurted out something at a party that never should have been said or a gossip has told a confidence that never should have been passed on. There is a time to speak, as our text says, and a time to keep silence.

 Ecclesiastes is part of the body of Wisdom writings that is found in our Bible, primarily in the books of Job, Proverbs, some Psalms, and Ecclesiastes. But Wisdom sayings also are sprinkled throughout both Old and New Testaments. For example, Jesus uses an illustration from Wisdom teaching in Matthew 7:24-27.

 The basic theological belief of Wisdom is that when God created the world, he established certain orders in both human life and in the natural world around us, customary ways in which both human beings and nature act. Those customary orders have been discovered by Wisdom teachers by careful observation, and the teachers have then set down in the Wisdom writings what they have learned of the orders. The wise person, therefore, is one who learns what Wisdom says and acts in accordance with the ordered ways of nature and human society. Such a person finds life, says Wisdom. But the fool is one who refuses to learn the orders and defies them, acting contrary to them. Such a fool finds only death.

 As an illustration of that, we might say that one of God's orders set into human marital life is life-long faithfulness to one's spouse. Such faithfulness can bring with it a good marriage, full of joy. But a fool ignores that and goes out and commits adultery, so that marital trust is destroyed, the unity of wife and husband is broken, and the marriage brings only trouble, ending in the death of the relationship.

 As our text from Ecclesiastes 3 shows, one of the orders that God has set into his creation is also the order of time, not only the cycle of the seasons and days and months and years, but also the order of time into which our lives fit. The presupposition of Wisdom, therefore, is that all human activity is not successful and meaningful at every time, and if we do not know the proper time to do something, our activity can turn out badly.

 There is, says our text, even a proper time to die. We age as we increase in years, though our youth-oriented culture tries to deny the process of aging. We all try to stay young-looking. So Hollywood stars and figures in public life have face-lifts, or we use hair coloring or makeup to cover gray hair and wrinkles. We all have known persons in their sixties who try vainly to look as if they were still forty. And they do, as Wisdom implies, appear to be fools. But the years go on, time's order is that of passing, and eventually we all confront our death.

 Indeed, one of the wisest approaches we can take to our life is to know that we are going to die. "So teach us to number our days," sings the Psalmist, "that we may get a heart of wisdom" (Psalm 90:12). Then we realize that we are not gods and goddesses, but that we are mortal; that we are not the Creator but his creatures; and that there is an everlasting Love beyond the span of our years that holds our lives in his merciful hands.

 The Lenten season always emphasizes that fact when it includes the ritual of marking our foreheads with ashes. We are told by the minister in that ritual, "Remember that you are dust." And what the rest of our passage in Ecclesiastes tells us as we begin this new year is to make the most of our years. In the words of Ephesians, "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise persons but as wise, making the most of the time, because the days are evil" (Ephesians 5:15-16). We can live our lives joyfully in the service of God, or we can waste them on foolish and evil practices. One thing is certain, however: they will come to an end. And perhaps instead of trying vainly to prolong a life beyond the proper time to die, we should have the wisdom to know when that proper time is.

 In the meantime, however, Ecclesiastes tells us to enjoy the good life that God has given us. In many ways, it is a grateful and joyful book. The writer of Ecclesiastes, who is called the Preacher, is thankful for the many gifts that God has lavished upon him, and he urges that same thankfulness upon his readers. He knows that all good things in life come from God, and that there is no joy apart from God (2:24-25). Therefore, he says, take the joy from life that God gives you (cf. 8:15; 9:7). If you are wealthy, enjoy your wealth; otherwise you are better dead (6:1-6). If you are married, enjoy your life with the wife whom you love (9:9). Appreciate the beauty of the earth (3:11), food and drink and prosperity (10:19; 9:7), and wise and proper government (10:16-17). But above all, enjoy the work that God has given you to do (2:24; 3:22; 5:18-20), as verse 13 of our text says, for the "night comes, when no one can work" (John 9:4), even death.

 Ecclesiastes is also a humble book, however, and in verse 11 of our text, it sets forth the traditional Wisdom teaching that finally human beings cannot know everything. Above all, they cannot know all the ways of God. There is a mystery to God's working that human minds cannot plumb, and we have humbly to acknowledge that mystery by placing our lives fully in God's all-wise hands.

 If we do that, if in gratitude we thank God for his many gifts and in humility submit ourselves to his kindly plan and working, we also know in the Christian faith something that the writer of Ecclesiastes does not know: that in the plan and love of God, death is not the end of all our enjoyment and work. Rather, through faith in Jesus Christ, our lives are taken up in resurrection, our good work is completed and made perfect, and we enter God's eternal kingdom for evermore.   

CSS Publishing, Preaching and Reading from the Old Testament: With an Eye to the New, by Elizabeth Achtemeier