Luke 20:27-40 · The Resurrection and Marriage
Thy Will Be Done
Luke 20:27-38
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by Molly F. James
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Recently, I was in a bit of a hurry to get something done (which I am slowly discovering is rarely a good idea). I was moving things around at home, and I broke the lamp in my husband’s study. I felt very badly about what I had done, and I wanted to remedy the situation. I offered to go right out and buy him a new lamp. He said not to worry; it wasn’t his favorite lamp anyway, and we could go and get a lamp later in the week. There was no rush. This is where we do not see eye to eye. My husband is very patient and careful about the purchases he makes. He would rather sit in the dark for a few days and be sure to find just the right lamp than rush right out and get the wrong one. I, on the other hand, am a problem solver who likes to find an immediate solution. I love to fix things quickly in my drive to fix things I will often opt for any solution, so that the problem can be fixed. But often times, as with the lamp, my quick fix is not the right solution to the problem.

So if we apply today’s gospel lesson to this little incident, I was behaving like a Sadducee. I was stuck in my own frame of reference, and I needed to be reminded of the bigger picture. I needed to be reminded that my answer is not necessarily the right one. The Sadducees went up to Jesus and asked him this long and complicated question about how a particular Jewish law regarding marriage might be applicable in the afterlife. The Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection, and they were hoping to trick Jesus with this question. They were hoping to undermine his teaching and authority. Jesus did not let this happen. He affirmed the reality of the resurrection and showed the Sadducees the error of their ways. He showed them that they were trying to apply categories that belong to our human, finite life to the afterlife, to that which is infinite and beyond our full comprehension. He showed them that resurrected life will not be the same as human life, so it is wrong to apply the same categories to it. Jesus is asking them to broaden their vision, to change their perspective. But the Sadducees are stuck in their own world and can not broaden their vision.

It is so easy to get stuck in our own little worlds. We keep our vision focused on ourselves or on what is immediately around us. It is easy to assume that we know what the right answer is or what the right thing to do is in a given situation. It is easy to assume that our experience is the same as others’. I assumed my husband would want a quick solution to the lamp problem because I did. I must remember that what holds true for myself is not necessarily true for others.

This is what the gospel lesson is showing us. It is reminding us of the ways in which we can behave like the Sadducees. Just as they needed a reminder, so do we. We need a reminder to broaden our vision — a reminder to change our perspective. We need a reminder that our calling as Christians is not to follow our own desires or our own categories — it is to follow God’s will. Every time we say the Lord’s Prayer, we pray, “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy will be done.” We do not pray “my will be done.” Being a follower of Christ means that we commit to imitating Christ. We commit to following his model of self-­giving. We acknowledge that God comes first, not our own selfish desires. We imitate him who gave himself over to God’s will.

Think of Christ’s prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane. “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.” Christ prays first that the cup be taken from him. This is the part we can most relate to in a very human way; Jesus acknowledges that he does not wish to face the pain and suffering he knew was coming. Yet the prayer does not end there. He goes on to pray that God’s will be done, not his own. Ultimately, he gives himself over as a servant of God’s will.

This may seem like an extraordinary act of self­-sacrifice that we could not possibly be capable of, but in fact it is probably one we do on an almost daily basis. We just might not see it that way. Think of a beloved person in your life, a spouse, a child, a parent, a friend. Think of all the ways in which you give up something of yourself — your time, your resources, your love, because you know it makes a difference in their well-being. It is easy to give of yourself because you know the joy it brings you to see that beloved person happy and well. We all know of stories from 9/11 or natural disasters where people were willing to sacrifice themselves for complete strangers. If we are willing to sacrifice for those we love, and even those we don’t know, why would we not be willing to do it for God? Why would we not give ourselves over to God’s will? Perhaps it is because we often keep our focus narrow. Like the first part of Jesus’ prayer, all we see is the pain of Jesus’ trial and crucifixion. But if we broaden our perspective and look at the big picture, all of a sudden things look a little different. We see Easter morning. We see an empty tomb. We see resurrection.

So, we are reminded that when we narrow our focus, we cut ourselves off from possibilities. We cut ourselves off from the big picture. It is incumbent upon us as Christians to remember that the big picture is a picture of resurrection. It is a picture of hope. We are not to impose our categories on God nor on other people. To do so is arrogant, but it can also be self-destructive. Racing out to buy my spouse a new lamp might have made me feel better in the short term, but in the end it would not have contributed to our happiness. It is when we slow down, when we turn ourselves over to God, acknowledging that we do not have the right answer, and we are seeking God’s joy as we seek the joy of those we love, that our vision expands and new and marvelous possibilities emerge.

In his response to the Sadducees, Christ affirmed the reality of resurrection. He affirmed God’s desire for life, abundant life for all people. That life-giving reality can be affirmed on a daily basis in our own lives, if we are open to the possibility, and if we live out our prayer, “Thy will be done.” Amen.

CSS Publishing Co., Inc., Ordinary gratitude: Cycle C sermons for Pentecost 23 through Christ the King based on the gospel texts, by Molly F. James