Recently, I was in a bit of a hurry to get something done (which I am slowly discovering is rarely a good idea). I was moving things around at home, and I broke the lamp in my husband’s study. I felt very badly about what I had done, and I wanted to remedy the situation. I offered to go right out and buy him a new lamp. He said not to worry; it wasn’t his favorite lamp anyway, and we could go and get a lamp later in the week. There was no rush. This is where we do not see eye to eye. My husband is very patient and careful about the purchases he makes. He would rather sit in the dark for a few days and be sure to find just the right lamp than rush right out and get the wrong one. I, on the other hand, am a problem solver who likes to find an immediate solution. I love to fix things quickly …