Mark 10:17-31 · The Rich Young Man
The Possibility Mindset
Mark 10:17-31
Sermon
by Lori Wagner
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Are you a glass half full person or a glass half empty person? Are you a pessimist or an optimist? Do you look at your life and the world with resignation and see hopeless problems everywhere you look? Or do you look at your life and the world with rose colored glasses, refusing to acknowledge any problems at all, so that you can maintain your feelings of contentment and happiness?

Whether we resign ourselves to the situations we find ourselves in or spend the bulk of our time “managing” life –both still leave us with a “closed system” outlook. Both reveal a “status quo” kind of thinking.

Spirituality, business, and self-help guru, Jay Shetty, says, our outlook on life doesn’t need to be that black or white –or that predictable. In fact, we have a third option. He calls it the “Possibility Mindset.” Jumping off of ideas from “possibility thinking,” first popular in the 1990s, Shetty says, a mind open to multiple possibilities acknowledges problems or negatives but rather than resigning to them or ignoring them, sees instead a myriad of possible outcomes or scenarios. We might simply call it cultivating an “open mind.” Or better, “thinking outside of the box.”

Thinking outside of the box means we first have to identify our boxes, break them open, and then step outside of them in order to get a different perspective on life and the world. It sounds simple in theory. It’s not so simple in practice for most of us. Why?

Because our “Acquisition” and “Achievement” mindset keeps us conveniently locked up in a multitude of “boxes.” And they are hard to break out of.

[Show a ruler.]

Here in front of you I am holding a ruler. We all know what it is. It measures things. It tells us how large something is. It tells us how much we are falling short or how far we need to go. Ever been to a carnival in which you have to be “this high” in order to step onto your favorite ride? Rulers are in a sense the way we “see” and “measure” the world.

Think about it. We measure other things too. We measure time. We measure distance. We measure humidity and clouds. We measure when we bake. We measure our progress with our grades. We measure our mileage. We measure our success with salaries and the size of our homes.

Is it any wonder then that, when it comes to our faith, we can find it hard to break out of that “acquisition” and “achievement” mindset?

And yet, this is what Jesus is once again challenging his disciples and followers to do.

In Jesus’ encounters that we read about today, we see a man run up to him and ask, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?”

Don’t you just love sentences like this? They are filled with clues and “bad theology!” But they set Jesus up perfectly for his teaching moments! Right? You know what I’m talking about!

And…Jesus is on the move. He challenges every part of the man’s sentence with excellent replies.

1) Why do you call me “good”? No one is good but God alone. 

The man has already revealed his “acquisition/achievement” mindset in that very first sentence. How can I attain your level of “good”? is what he wants to know. How can I achieve your status or the status that guarantees me “eternal life”? The man sees being “good” as his ultimate goal. If he can only reach a certain level of “goodness,” he will have it in the box (pun intended).

Jesus points out immediately this fallacy. No one is “good.” Only God is “good.” So remove that “goal” or “endpoint” right away from your manner of thinking! This of course confuses the man right away, because of course, taking away his end goal of “good” also means he has no idea what the goal is…or how to get there. That reveals his next fallacy.

2) What must I DO? 

Well, if you aren’t smiling and shaking your head, you totally missed this one! Total “acquisition/achievement” giveaway statement! What must …I….do? That statement alone puts all of the power and responsibility for achieving a certain level of “good” in the hands of the man. Listen, you don’t need God in your life, if you can accomplish everything good all on your own! Secondly, it’s pretty arrogant, and exhausting sounding, to think that if only we do more and better and more and better ….that eventually we will “DING DING” hit the jackpot –INHERITANCE! God’s inheritance of eternal life of course! 

What must he “do”? Jesus plays along. Instead of simply pointing out the fallacy of his statement, he as he typically does, seizes the teaching moment for all those around him, and issues a challenge instead –hopefully to show the man how pointless and impossible his own efforts will be in the matter of “achieving” God’s favor!

Jesus says ---ok. I’ll play. So you know the commandments. 

Caught up in his achievement mindset, the man replies, “Oh I’ve kept every one of those!” To which Jesus replies –“You lack one thing; go, sell what you own, and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.”

The man to this was shocked ……and went away grieving his loss, RESIGNED to failure, because he felt, he could not reach that “GOOD” goal.

But I want you to hear something else. 

After the man’s reply that he had kept all of the commandments, the writer Mark says, “Jesus, looked at him, and loved him,” …..and then he replied as he did.

Jesus is not annoyed. He feels compassion for this man, who is so trapped within his achievement and acquisition mindset that he cannot see the truth –that God’s gift for him is free. All he needs is faith.

For God desires not our perfection but our relationship. Our attention. Our loyalty. Our reverence. Our presence. Most of all, our reliance and our trust.

Why do we make it so hard?

Of course, as usual, Jesus’ disciples don’t get it yet either. They are still focusing on the question of wealth. Jesus is focusing on the question of faith.

Jesus goes on to say, “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” In other words, no human being can “accomplish” enough goodness in order to “achieve” God’s inheritance of eternal life. No human being will ever even come close to God’s level of goodness! It’s not possible.

Stunned, the disciples reply, “Then who can be saved?”

And Jesus agrees: “For mortals it is impossible!”

But then…the “mic drop”: “But not for God. For God all things are possible!!

DING, DING, DING, DING, DING, DING!

In other words, no amount of achievement or acquisition will ever help us to “measure up” to deserving God’s grace. 

So throw that ruler away! You don’t need it when it comes to God!

This is the entire point of Jesus’ presence on earth, his sacrifice, his resurrection, God’s gift of life! It’s a gift. It’s grace. It was never about measurement at all. It’s not about our goodness. But about the possibilities that reveal themselves through putting our faith in God’s goodness.

Does that mean we shouldn’t strive to do “good” things? Tricky sentence, isn’t it? For it’s all about relationships. It’s not so much about “doing” but about “being”—being in love with God. When we love God and love each other, the possibilities of the kingdom become endless. The heavens open up right before our eyes!

For with God, anything is possible. Even breaking out of our boxes!

There’s a reason Jesus is called our “liberator!”

As disciples of Jesus, to cultivate a “possibility mindset” is not simply to see endless possibilities that we have for success, but to see the “endless possibility” for life and for the world that comes from the goodness and grace of God!

If that’s not a weight off of your shoulders, I don’t know what is!

This is the good news! Your inheritance was never up to you to achieve. But only a gift in faith for you to receive.

For Jesus, you don’t need to be super successful, a high-level achiever, rich or poor, and definitely not perfectly “good”! But your greatest potential as a servant of God lies first in being a humble receiver.

May you receive Jesus into your heart and life, for in him lies the grace of God…and unlimited possibility!

ChristianGlobe Network, Inc., by Lori Wagner