Luke 20:27-40 · The Resurrection and Marriage
The Importance Of Asking The Right Questions
Luke 20:27-40
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by Larry R. Kalajainen
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A certain minister has made it a policy for many years to refer "six-year-old theology questions" to his wife. Since she has taught very young children for many years, he says, she has a much better grasp than he does of how to address the questions which little kids ask. The other day, a first-grader brought a drawing of a skeleton into class where she teaches English as a second language. The title across the top of the drawing read "Inside of Me." It was designed to teach children that everyone has a skeleton inside of them. He unfolded it proudly and showed it to the class. One little girl from India was astounded at the thought that she and others had this scary-looking skeleton inside them, and so she pressed the issue a bit farther. "Even you got one of these inside you, Mrs. K?" The teacher replied, "Yes, I have one too." The next question was the theological one. "Even God got one inside him?" Now in a class made up of children from many different countries, cultures, and religious backgrounds (most of them not Christians), you can imagine that this question had the potential for major theological debate. I doubt if I'd have had the presence of mind to give the answer the teacher did; but, as usual, her expertise in six-year-old theology saved the day. "If God needs a skeleton, I'm sure he has one," she replied. "God has everything he needs." This apparently satisfied the theological curiosity of the class, and they got on with the lesson.

Asking questions is an essential part of learning. If we don't know something, we look for someone who does and we ask. The only dumb question is the one you don't ask. We learn by asking questions about what we don't know.

While no question is a dumb question if it is designed to help you acquire knowledge or information which you don't currently have, there are questions which are the wrong questions to ask, and which, if asked, will actually prevent us from learning what we need to know.

We see two examples of these kinds of questions in our lessons this morning. In the prophecy of Zechariah, we're told that the people came to the prophet to ask a question. About 50 years earlier, in 587 B.C., the Babylonian empire had conquered Judea, destroying Jerusalem and the temple of God. The leading citizens were then carried off into exile. For the people who remained in the land of Palestine during the 70 years before the Exiles came back, the memory of the devastation of their holy city and the temple of God was a powerful political force uniting the people. Since the temple had been destroyed in the fifth month of the year and the governor of Jerusalem executed in the seventh month, every year thereafter, the people fasted and mourned during the fifth and seventh months. In this way, they based their lives on the memory of the destruction they had suffered in the past.

The question that the people come to the prophets to ask is this, "Now that 50 or so years have passed, and the Babylonians have been defeated by the Persians, should we continue to fast and mourn in the fifth and seventh months?" Now that sounds like a harmless enough question, doesn't it? They're a little confused by the change of administrations, and they're not quite sure of how to proceed. Change the words "Bablyonian" and "Persian" to "Republicans" and "Democrats," and suddenly the question seems surprisingly contemporary. But the answer they get from the prophet is not the answer they were expecting.

The answer to their question is itself a question -- from God! "Then the word of the Lord of hosts came to me: Say to all the people of the land and the priests: When you fasted and lamented in the fifth month and in the seventh, was it for me that you fasted? And when you eat and when you drink, do you not eat and drink only for yourselves?" (Zechariah 7:4-7).

Their question is a self-serving question. It does not arise out of a desire to know the truth, to gain knowledge of God's will, but out of a desire to get God's sanction on their own national pity-party. They want God to bless their long-nurtured resentments, to sanction their long-standing hatred of those who destroyed their temple and holy city. Every year, when they fast on the fifth and seventh months, they are, in effect, saying, "This is who we are: We're the people who were beaten up by the Babylonians. Now this new administration had come, and we're not sure we want to change. We've grown comfortable with our identity; we like our fasts and our mourning and our moaning about the good old days. Can't we keep on doing this?"

But God let them know in no uncertain terms that they had asked the wrong question. "Was it for me you fasted? No, you did it for yourselves. Your concern was not with what I require of you, but with your own agenda. Your religion is a religion designed to make yourself feel better, not a religion designed to please God and enable you to do what God requires. And then comes God's pointed commands about the sort of religion he's really interested in: "Render true judgments, show kindness and mercy to one another; do not oppress the widow, the orphan, the alien, or the poor; and do not devise evil in your hearts against one another" (Zechariah 7:9-10). The clear implication is that while they piously fasted and mourned to commemorate the oppression and injustice which they suffered at the hands of a foreign nation, they themselves practiced oppression within their own nation against all those who were without power or an advocate.

When we ask the wrong question, in this case, a self-serving question, we shouldn't be surprised if we get an answer that we neither expect nor wish to hear. Our question becomes a judgment upon us. Like the people of ancient Judea, if we are going to find our way forward as a nation, we are going to have to stop asking questions that serve only our own individual or parochial interests and start asking the larger questions about truth, justice, kindness, mercy, and meeting needs that may be more pressing than our own.

In God's world, there is no true security for those who are unwilling to risk themselves and their own comfort for the sake of kindness, mercy, justice, and truth. All such comfort is false comfort. It is the comfort of the dead. Real life is life on the edge, always at risk, always vulnerable, always demanding that we live by faith and not by sight. That we live by trust in God rather than trust in our bank account. That we live by hope rather than by achievement. That we live for others rather than for ourselves.

The Sadducees who came to Jesus brought a similar kind of question. Their question is an attack question. It's a question designed to destroy the other person's viewpoint so that one's own viewpoint wins without ever having to be defended. Its purpose, like the other, is to prevent them from having to change. The Sadducees weren't really interested in what Jesus believed about the possibility of resurrection from the dead. Their question about one bride for seven brothers was not a question which they hoped would bring them some new knowledge or understanding. They already knew that the law which obligated a man to marry his brother's widow and raise up children by her which would legally be his dead brother's children was a compassionate social custom designed to provide for people who had no voice or standing in that culture -- widows -- and to ensure the continuity of a family's line. They didn't need to be instructed on the meaning and significance of levirate marriage. Their question was not serious, except that it was seriously designed to entrap Jesus into taking a position that would alienate people while making themselves look good at his expense.

We're familiar with questions like that, aren't we? We've all used these sorts of questions from time to time, haven't we -- the question designed not to bring us closer to the truth, but to demolish the other person's point of view so that we protect ourselves from having to change our own behavior or cherished ideas.

But Jesus' opponents are the ones who are demolished by their own questions. He cuts through to the real issue -- do they really believe in God? Is their God big enough and powerful enough to raise the dead? His God is. The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob is. God is a God of the living. And people of faith, whether long dead or not, are alive to this God, who is the author not of death but of life.

This business of learning to ask the right questions applies not only to our national life, but to every area of life. It applies to our life as a church, certainly. If we are always asking the question, "What should we do so that we will not have to give up the things we've become comfortable doing?" we will never become what God wants us to be and we will not experience the very security we seek.

At a church-growth workshop the leader, Bill Easum, who himself grew a church from 29 members to over 2,400 members, said that too often the questions churches ask themselves are questions that are motivated by a desire to maintain whatever is comfortable. That's why some wag has said that the seven last words of the church are "We've never done it that way before." Bill Easum spoke of the three greatest sins of the church, and one of them was, "We're more in love with our traditions than we are with our missions." If we are intent on preserving the patterns of church life we've grown comfortable with, we'll soon discover that God has moved on and left us behind. God is always out there ahead of us, leading us into the future, and if we want to be working hand in hand with God, we have to be willing to ask the right questions. Not, "What can we do to preserve what we find comfortable?" but "What can we do to be partners with God in mission?" The first question leads to a church that is dead and declining; the second to a church that is alive and dynamic.

The same is true in our personal lives as well. How often we settle for what's comfortable instead of what is true and life-giving. It takes no effort, demands no sacrifice, involves no risk to simply go along with what the world says is important at any moment. It takes no courage, no commitment, no faith to just go on doing what we've been doing. To go on working 60- and 70-hour weeks to provide for our family's material comfort, and watch our families go down the drain because we're too busy working to be present for them. It's easier even to live with our addictions and compulsions than it is to confront and overcome them. Healing is hard work, and frequently, it is very painful work as well. Yet without the willingness to get out of the comfort zone, healing cannot come.

The poet T. S. Eliot in his famous poem "The Wasteland," calls April the "cruelest month," because the showers of April stir up the dull and dormant roots of trees and flowers to begin bursting forth with new life instead of allowing them to remain comfortably asleep in the frozen ground of winter. Yet the sleep of tree roots and flower bulbs is the sleep of hibernation, not of rest. Trees were meant to put out green leaves; tulips were meant to push up through the soil and produce beautiful blossoms. Human beings are also meant to grow, to mature, to blossom, not to hibernate in the frozen sleep of habit or tradition or familiarity. Paul says that we were meant to grow until "we attain to the full height of the stature of Christ."

And that's often the point of our fear. We're more afraid of change, more afraid of growth, than we are of becoming stuck in our present level of development. Better a comfortable rut than the risks of the journey. Yet God is a God of the living, not of the dead. God is always there nudging us to get out of our ruts, to leave false comfort and security behind, and take the risks of faith by following him into the future. The future is only frightening if God is not there ahead of us. If God is there, then what do we have to fear? What looks from our angle like a risky business -- growing, moving on, living by faith rather than by sight -- from another angle is the safest of all possible places to be, in God's company.

At every level of life, our personal life where we seek fulfillment and meaning, our life as a church seeking to be faithful in our mission, and our life as a nation seeking to move into the future, we must ask the right questions if we're going to discover something more than the false comfort of the status quo, if we're going to discover where God is actively stirring dull roots into new life. We must learn to ask not, "What should we do so that we can be most comfortable, so that we will not have to be changed?" but "Where must we go, what must we do, to find our true life in God?"

CSS Publishing Company, Inc, Extrodinary Faith For Ordinary Time, by Larry R. Kalajainen