Exodus 20:1-21 · The Ten Commandments
Rules For Living
Exodus 20:1-21
Sermon
by Robert Allen
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A couple of years ago, I was asked to serve on a panel to discuss the problems facing teenagers in our society. The panel included a school counselor, a Juvenile Judge, a drug counselor, a couple of other experts on teenage problems, and, I guess, I was the representative of the religious community.

There were a variety of people in the audience, including the parents of several teenagers. During the question and answer period, there was one woman who acknowledged that she was at the symposium because her adolescent daughter had become a handful and she could no longer control her. Then, looking at me, she began to blame the church for the problems that her daughter faced and the problems that teenagers were encountering in our society. She stated that the problems of teenagers could be traced directly to the church which was no longer teaching "the basics." She talked about the failure of the church to give proper instruction and moral guidance to the younger generation. Her strongest and most self-evident point was that children were no longer required to memorize the Ten Commandments.

Finally, when she had finished listing her complaints, I asked her, "Madam, do you know the Ten Commandments?"

"Of course," she responded, somewhat insulted by the question.

Looking directly at this woman in the audience, I challenged her by saying, "Name them!"

She coughed and sputtered and looked embarrassed. Finally, she was able to name three or four of the commandments and a couple of quotes from Shakespeare before giving up and sitting down.

While I can sympathize with that woman and her worry about her daughter, I think it is a mistake to attribute magical qualities to the Ten Commandments. Instead, I think it is more appropriate to look at them as rules for living.

The Jewish people did not need to make their own rules when they were in Egypt. They were too busy trying to survive the bondage of their Egyptian taskmasters. They were too busy trying to keep the many rules given to them by the Egyptians. They were too busy working as slaves in Egypt to worry about any rules for living. But, then Moses led them out of Egypt and toward the Promised Land. Once they were on the road to freedom, they needed their own rules and regulations. A society without rules and regulations has to create them.

So, while the Hebrew people were in the wilderness, Moses went up on Mount Sinai. When he came down from the mountain, he brought the Ten Commandments to the people. Some of these commandments can be found in other cultures and other societies. However, this was the first time these particular Ten Commandments were brought together. Moses brought these rules for living down from the mountain for the Children of Israel. But, these commandments are not restricted just to the Hebrew people. These rules for living are for all peoples and for all times. They are rules that will never go out of date; they are rules that will never be repealed; they are rules that will never change; they are rules which will never budge because they are eternally the same.

These rules for living that Moses brought down from Mount Sinai are called the Ten Commandments. As we look at these rules for living, it is worth noting that the first four deal with our relationship to God, and the last six deal with our relationship to other people. Before any of us can live rightly, we must have some principles within which to guide our lives.

In these rules for living, there are three things which I believe are important.

I. The Ten Commandments deal with our relationship to God. The first four commandments clearly deal with our relationship to God. The first commandment affirms the supremacy of God by declaring, "You shall have no other gods before me." The second commandment declares the dangers of worshiping gods that we make when it says, "You shall not make for yourself a graven image." The third commandment forbids the reckless use of the name of God in promises, pledges, and vows when it declares, "You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain." And the fourth commandment reminds us of the sacredness of the Sabbath when we have the opportunity of turning our thoughts toward God. This commandment challenges us to "remember the Sabbath and keep it holy."

Through these commandments, God was calling his people back then and today - to share a covenant relationship with him. This covenant relationship simply means that we learn to give God a prominent place in our lives.

Not long ago, I was reading a book about the presidency of Jimmy Carter. He was the Democratic president of the United States from January 1977 to January 1981. During that time he dealt with many difficult issues. He was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize in his efforts to bring peace between Israel and Egypt. He dealt with an oil embargo crisis and the crisis of the hostages in Iran. But, one thing that Jimmy Carter will be remembered for is the influence of his religion in his life.

Once, he was being interviewed by Bill Moyers, who looked at the new President of the United States of America and asked, "What is the most significant discovery Jimmy Carter has made?"

President Carter flashed his famous smile and said, "This is embarrassing a little bit for me to talk about because it’s personal. But, the most significant discovery that I have made is my relationship with God through Jesus Christ."

He was the most powerful man in the free world. Every day he made decisions that affected the destiny of our nation and the world. He was busy as he sought to move our country in a new direction. Yet, he had his priorities straight, because he recognized that his relationship with God was the most significant part of his life.

Are you putting God first in your life?

Have you learned the importance of developing a relationship to God in your life?

When you learn the importance of a relationship with God through Jesus Christ, you will have learned a rule that gives real meaning to your life.

II. The Ten Commandments deal with our relationships with other people. When we look at the next six commandments, it is clear that they deal with relationships with other people. The fifth commandment affirms the importance of the home when it challenges us to "honor our father and mother." The sixth commandment speaks of the sacredness of human life when it states, "You shall not kill." The seventh commandment affirms the sacredness of marriage when it declares, "You shall not commit adultry." The eighth commandment cautions us against the temptation of taking what is not ours when it says, "You shall not steal." The ninth commandment demands that we live by truth when it declares, "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor." And the tenth commandment warns of the peril of greed when it states, "You shall not covet."

These commandments make sense because they clearly spell out how we are to relate to people. We are challenged to learn to love other people. In fact, Jesus put it very clearly when he said, "... love your neighbor as yourself."

This is a revolutionary concept. Our relationships with other people are first, last, and always vitally important. We are to love other people and care about other people simply because they are God’s children. After all, how can we claim to have a relationship with God unless we are willing to develop a caring relationship with his people?

Recently, I read a little fable about a young girl who was walking through a meadow. She saw that a beautiful butterfly had one wing impaled by a thorn. Very carefully, so as not to further damage the wing, she released the butterfly from the thorn and it began to fly away.

Then, the butterfly came back and changed into a beautiful fairy princess right before the little girl. "For your kindness," the fairy told the little girl, "I will grant you your fondest wish."

The little girl thought for a moment and replied, "I want to be happy."

The fairy princess smiled and leaned over and whispered something into the girl’s ear. Then, the fairy princess vanished into thin air. But, as the girl grew older, there was no one in the kingdom who was happier than she. Whenever anyone asked her for the secret of her happiness, she would only smile and say, "I listened to a beautiful fairy princess."

As she reached the last years of her life, her friends and neighbors were afraid that her fabulous secret of happiness would die with her. "Tell us, please," they asked. "Tell us what the fairy said!"

The little girl, who was now a lovely old lady, smiled and said, "The beautiful fairy princess told me that the secret to happiness is to realize that everyone, no matter how secure they seem, has need of me."

One of the great secrets of life is to realize that everyone has need of us. And the willingness to give ourselves to others ... the willingness to develop a relationship with others the willingness to love others, is one of the rules of living ... which leads to a happy life.

III. The Ten Commandments deal with our ethics for life. When you look at the Ten Commandments as a whole, they are not simply a group of rules and regulations. They are a series of principles which attempt to define an ethical standard for life. You shall not steal ... You shall not kill ... You shall not build idols ... You shall not commit adultry ... Honor your father and your mother.

The Ten Commandments attempt to tell us that to be human is to be responsible. They attempt to provide a series of principles or ethics for life which affirm that there are some things that are right and some things that are wrong.

We live in a world where old standards of morality are being questioned. We live in a world where some have abandoned the idea of fairness and replaced it with the goal of winning, even if we have to lie and cheat and steal in order to win. We live in a world that is caught in a whirlpool of change - and concern for the have-nots and helpless people of our society has been replaced with our own selfish desires "to make it" no matter what it costs.

Into this world of upheaval and change, the Ten Commandments still ring true. Close to 3,000 years have come and gone since Moses came down from Mount Sinai. He carried with him Ten Commandments for living, not Ten Suggestions. These Ten Commandments have not budged one inch in calling men and women to the same ethical standards of life. Times may have changed, but the principles of these Ten Commandments are eternally the same.

Lloyd Douglas told how he loved, occasionally, to visit a little old man who gave violin lessons. He had a studio, if it could be called that, a small room set in a long row of rooms where other music teachers taught.

"I liked to drop in on him," Douglas said, "for he had a kind of homely wisdom that refreshed me. One morning I walked in and by way of greeting, said, ‘Well, what’s the good news for today?’ "

Putting down his violin, stepping over to his tuning fork suspended from a silk thread, he struck it a sharp blow with a padded mallet, and said, "There is the good news for today. That, my friend, is ‘A.’ It was ‘A’ all day yesterday ... it will be ‘A’ all day tomorrow, next week, and for a thousand years ... the soprano upstairs warbles off-key ... the tenor next door flats his high ones ... the piano across the hall is out of tune ... noise all around me, noise ... noise ... noise; but that, my friend, is ‘A.’ "

I believe it will steady your soul to remember that. Some things remain constant in the midst of noise and change ... some things are not transient ... some things are not at the mercy of popular vote ... some things, like the Ten Commandments, are timeless and permanent! You can come back to them and confidently follow them with your life. They are rules or guidelines for living that come to us from God.

Are you following his guidelines for living?

CSS Publishing Co., Inc., Greatest Passages Of The Bible, The, by Robert Allen