Luke 9:57-62 · The Cost of Following Jesus
No Excuses
Luke 9:57-62
Sermon
by James Merritt
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If there is anything that is true about our society it is this: We have become an excuse-filled society. It used to be that to say, "Excuse me," was a gesture of courtesy. It is now a method of getting around personal responsibility.

One of the most respected authors in America made this observation:

Our culture has declared war on guilt…Perhaps the most prevalent means of escaping blame is by classifying every human failing as some kind of disease. Drunkards and drug addicts can check into clinics for treatment of their "chemical dependencies." Children who habitually defy authority can escape condemnation by being labeled "hyper-active" or having ADD (Attention Deficiency Disorder). Gluttons are no longer blame-worthy; they suffer from an "eating disorder." Even the man who throws away his family's livelihood to pay for prostitutes is supposed to be an object of compassionate understanding; he is "addicted to sex."1

Recently the Toronto News published a listing of actual accident reports filed by those involved in accidents. As Rush Limbaugh would say: "Folks, I'm not making this up."

"Coming home I drove into the wrong house and collided with a tree I don't have."

"I collided with a stationary truck coming the other way."

"A truck backed through my windshield into my wife's face."

"A pedestrian hit me and went under my car."

"The guy was all over the road. I had to swerve a number of times before I hit him."

"I pulled away from the side of the road, glanced at my mother-in-law, and headed for the embankment."

"In my attempt to kill a fly, I drove into a telephone pole."

"I told the police I was not injured, but on removing my hat I found that I had a fractured skull."

"The pedestrian had no idea which direction to run, so I ran over him."

"The indirect cause of the accident was a little guy in a small car with a big mouth."2

Billy Sunday once said: "An excuse is just the skin of a reason stuffed with a lie." I heard about a husband who made two terrible mistakes in one day. He forgot his wife's birthday. Then he tried to cover his oversight without thoroughly thinking through the consequences of his excuse. He said, "Honey, I just want you to know I didn't forget your birthday, I just didn't get you anything."

There is an interesting event recorded in the 9th chapter of Luke that teaches us that there is no excuse for not following Jesus. Whenever I witness to someone I will inevitably ask this question: "Can you think of any reason that you could give God, that God would accept, as to why you cannot give Jesus Christ your life?" I've only had a couple of people even try to give me a reason, but the fact is, when it comes to following Jesus Christ and giving Him your life, your soul, your all, there is no excuse for not doing it.

Three men were given the opportunity of following Jesus, and each one gave a different excuse for saying no. You're going to see that their problem was not that they could not follow Jesus, but rather that they would not follow Jesus. Notice the three problems each man presented in refusing to follow Jesus.

I. The Uncounted Cost

"How it happened as they journeyed on the road, that someone said to Him, ‘Lord, I will follow You wherever You go.'" (v.57) Now most pastors and preachers I know would be thrilled to have somebody walk down the aisle of their church and say, "I want to follow Jesus wherever He goes." The decision card would be whipped out, filled out, signed, and before you know it, that man would be a deacon, a Sunday School teacher, and a choir member.

But Jesus did not listen to this man's words, He looked at this man's heart. Oh, this man was impulsive, but he was not impressive. Jesus saw through him like transparent glass.

This man had probably seen Jesus perform spectacular miracles. He saw him being thronged by the huge crowds. He heard and watched the adulation and adoration everybody gave to him, and he was star-struck. He said to himself: "That's the life for me."

There are a lot of people who go into the ministry and they burn out, flame out, and drop out for one reason: they did not count the cost. There are some people who look at preachers and all they see is the preacher dressed up on Sunday, shaking hands, preaching a sermon, leading a worship service, and they say to themselves: "Man, what a great job he's got."

I have a book at home entitled "You Know You're a Preacher If." One of the pages reads like this: You know you're a preacher if people are always asking you, "And what else do you do for a living?"

You see, what most people never see are the letters that must be answered, and the phone calls that must be returned, and the problems that must be solved, and the criticism that must be heard, and the rumors that must be stopped, and the people that must be seen. They get into the ministry and realize that it's not all glitter and glamour and flash and dash, and they drop out.

Well, this man thought that following Jesus was all sunshine and no rain, all comfort and no pain. I'm sure he thought that when you follow Jesus there will always be a crown, never a cross; always a gain, and never a loss. Well, Jesus, to His credit, pulled no punches. He gave this man a rude awakening. "And Jesus said to him, ‘Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay His head." (v.58)

One thing I love about the Lord Jesus was he never painted an overly rosy picture about discipleship, commitment, surrender, or the ministry. You won't find any health and wealth gospel on the lips of Jesus. You won't find any prosperity gospel in the sermons of Jesus. Jesus never promised a Rolex on every wrist, a Mercedes in every garage, a diamond on every finger. You won't find where Jesus ever said that if you'll follow him every sea will be calm, every road will be smooth, every sky will be blue.

Quite frankly, that is the way a lot of people expect it, and that is the way a lot of people want it. Old Dr. Vance Havner said that he believes a lot of Christians have this as their favorite song:

Can't I be carried to the skies
On flowery beds of ease;
If others fight to win the prize
I'm not so hard to please.

Well, the Lord Jesus made it plain, and if you follow Him you may have to do without. You may have to suffer hardship. You may have to sail stormy seas. You may have to walk through the desert of life.

Now Jesus was not saying he did not want us to have comfort, nice things, or "the good life." But He does not want comfort, nice things, or "the good life" to have us.

I want to say a word to every one of you who is not a Christian. I mean by that you've never been born again and trusted Christ with your life. The Christian life is not a feast, it is a fight; it's not a banquet, it is a battle. If you become a Christian you won't have to go looking for trouble, trouble will come looking for you.

Let me give you, in a nutshell, my theology of discipleship and following Jesus. There are three parts: 1) It pays to serve Jesus; 2) It costs to serve Jesus; 3) The cost is temporary, the pay is eternal.

It will cost you to serve Jesus. It may cost you friends, popularity, money, fame, that job promotion you've desperately seeking. But you remember what Jesus said in Matthew 19:29: "Everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name's sake, shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit everlasting life."

II. The Unburied Corpse

Now I want you to notice that the other two men in this story volunteered to follow Jesus, but Jesus personally invites this second man to follow him: "Then He said to another, ‘Follow Me.'" (v.59a) May I just say at this point the greatest and highest privilege in life is when Jesus Christ asks you to follow Him. The greatest mystery in all of life is how any human being would want to refuse to follow the Lord Jesus Christ.

I will never forget the day, as a nine year old boy, when the Lord Jesus invited me to follow Him. I want to tell you if He invited me a thousand times I'd say yes every time.

But this man now gives his excuse. "But he said, ‘Lord, let me first go and bury my father." (v.59b) Now normally, it was the duty of the first born to bury his father or his mother. As a matter of fact, because of the climate and the primitive conditions, funerals were to take place as soon as possible.

So at first glance it seems a legitimate request, but notice how Jesus responded: "Jesus said, "Let the dead bury their own dead." (v.60a) Now that raises two questions: What did Jesus mean by this? and Why did He say it? Well obviously, dead people cannot bury dead people. So what he was saying was: "Let the spiritually dead bury the physical dead."

In others words, let those who don't care anything about the kingdom of God, handle the mundane matters of life. You don't need to be burying the physically dead; others can do that. You need to be raising the spiritually dead.

Now quite frankly, Bible scholars are divided as to whether or not this man's father was still living. What the man was saying was: "Let me go home and wait for my father to die"; or whether the man had already died and the man was saying: "My father is dead, let me first go and spend some time mourning over him and then I will follow you."

It really doesn't matter because what this man had said to Jesus was: "Not now, later." There is a great principle here to learn about obeying Jesus. Jesus not only deserves your obedience, He deserves your prompt obedience. When Jesus tells you to do something, you are to do it immediately. Learn this well. With God, delayed obedience is instant disobedience. Has it ever occurred to you that if you take the "w" off of the word "now" all you have left is "no?"

May I tell you that you can never go any farther in your Christian life than obeying immediately what you know God wants you to do. There are some of you here who have been saved, but since your salvation you have never followed Jesus in baptism by emersion, even though that is the very first thing He wants you to do, and He wants you to do it immediately.

Any time anyone was ever saved in the New Testament, you can look it up, they were immediately baptized. Yet, some of you have delayed that obedience, and are therefore living in disobedience. No matter what you do or how hard you try, Jesus will not allow you to go any farther in your relationship with Him until you take that step of obedience.

I am reminded of a father who was talking to his son. He asked him to go put some more wood on the fire. The son said, "I'll do it later." The dad said, "Son, if you don't mind, I want you to do it now." The son said, "I'm not going to do it now, I'm going to do it later." The dad then demanded that the son do it, but the boy refused.

Well, the father brought the matter to a crisis. He said, "Son, you're rebellious. Now you either put wood on that fire or you leave." Well, the boy left.

A year later he thought to himself, "I am so foolish for leaving a good home, and good parents, over wood on a fire." He called his dad and he said, "Dad, I have been so stupid. Would you please forgive me?"

His dad said, "Son, I do forgive you."

He said, "Dad, may I please come home?"

The dad said, "Yes son, I would love to have you come home. But before you sit down, put some wood on the fire."

You see, Jesus wants prompt obedience, but he also wants particular obedience. "But you go and preach the kingdom of God." (v.60b) Now I find it interesting that instantly Jesus called this man to preach. Now I think all of you know that every Christian has been called to be a disciple. But did you know that every disciple has been called to preach? He said to this man, you are to "preach the kingdom of God."

I want to teach you something about who you are in the plan of God, whether you are an ordained minister or not. Every Christian has the same mission. Now not all of us have the same job, not all of us have the same vocation, not all of us have the same gifts, not all of us have the same calling. But every one of us has been called and given the duty of preaching and extending and building the kingdom of God.

If you want to know how much your life is really counting for God, when you go to bed every night, ask yourself this question: What did I do today for the kingdom? That will tell you how much your life really counts for the Lord.

III. The Unforsakened Circle

Now this man also seems to want to follow Jesus, but he has a condition. He wants to put his family ahead of Jesus. I want to say something now, not primarily as a pastor. As a matter of fact, contrary to what a lot people in this church think, being a pastor is my secondary role in life. My primary role is as a husband to my wife, and as a father to my children.

So I want to speak to you now not as a pastor, but as a family man. Nobody in this world loves their family more than I do. But not even your family is to come before Jesus.

Anybody that chooses their earthly family over their Heavenly Father, is not fit to serve the Heavenly Father. I heard one time about the way a man proposed to his wife, and I thought it was one of the greatest proposals I had ever heard. This man was a tremendous Christian, and as much as he loved his fiancé, he made it plain that he didn't love anybody like he loved the Lord Jesus.

He got on his knees and this was the question he asked: He said, "Sweetheart, would you be willing to take second place in my life for the rest of your life?" I think that is beautiful. What he was saying to her was, would you be willing to marry me knowing "that Jesus Christ will be first in my life?"

I want to make it plain. The Lord Jesus will not play second fiddle in the orchestra of your life. He will not serve as Vice President in the government of your life. He will not be first runner-up in the beauty contest of your life.

That's why you read in v.62: "But Jesus said to him, ‘No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.'" You cannot plow a straight furrow while looking back. You've got to keep your focus fixed and straight on the goal ahead of you. You cannot drive a car if you're always looking in the rearview mirror. Jesus said you cannot follow Him with a double mind, trying to look in two different directions at the same time. He wants your full attention, your full affection, your total allegiance.

In just a moment I'm going to give you the greatest invitation, the greatest opportunity, the greatest privilege you're ever going to get in your life. I'm going to give you an opportunity to say today, "I want to follow Jesus." Let me make it plain. There is no excuse for not following Jesus, and not following Him with all of your heart. You can make all of the excuses you want to and try to make yourself feel better, but Benjamin Franklin said, "I have never known a man that was good at making excuses that was good at anything else." The fact of the matter is, if you excuse yourself from following Jesus, you will regret it for all eternity.

You see, when you make a commitment to Jesus, let me tell you what He expects you to do. He expects you to burn all of your bridges. There's a famous story about a general who literally burned his bridges. He had taken his army by boat to meet the enemy, who dramatically outnumbered his own forces. When all of the soldiers had gotten off of the boats, he ordered the boats burned. As they watched the only way they could escape go up in flames, the general turned to his men and said, "You cannot escape. So there are only two options: win the battle or die." They won the battle.

Friend, if you want to live a winner, and you want to die a winner, you must burn your bridges when you make your commitment to Jesus Christ.

In 1904 a young man graduated from high school in Chicago, Illinois. He was a member of the Moody Bible Church when R. A. Torrey was the pastor. His name was William Borden, the heir to the Borden Dairy Estate. He was a multi-millionaire. For a graduation gift his parents sent him on an around-the-world cruise. He went to Hong Kong, through Asia, Egypt, the Middle East, throughout all of the capitols of Europe. He would write letters to his parents describing the compassion and the burden he got for the thousands and millions of hurting people.

Finally, in one letter he said, "Mother, I believe God is calling me to be a missionary." In another letter he said, "Mother, I am sure God is calling me. I'm going to give my life and prepare for the mission field."

He came home and spent four years at Yale University. He was tempted to forget his education and go straight to the mission field, but he said, "I want to be as prepared as possible. After that he spent three years at Princeton Seminary. While he was in college he anonymously gave away over $70,000 to the cause of missions.

As he graduated from the seminary and prepared to go to the mission field, he wrote two words in the back of his Bible—No Reserves. He had made up his mind to live by faith, trust God for his power, and that there would be nothing held back in his Christian life.

After he graduated he was offered many outstanding jobs. He turned all of them down and wrote two more words in the back of his Bible—No Retreats. He said, "God has called me, I am going, I am not going to look back, my hand is on the plow." He sailed for China to work with a group of Muslims in China. He went to Egypt to work with the Muslims in Egypt. While he was in Egypt he contracted cerebral meningitis and was dead within a month.

Now there a lot of people who would say, "What a waste. He spent all of that time preparing for the mission field and died."

But he had written in the back of his Bible two words before he died. Not only under the words no reserves and under the words no retreats he had written these words—No Regrets. My friend, I have been following Jesus for now over thirty-five years, and I can tell you if you will come to Jesus, with no reserves, and no retreats, and you will have no regrets.


1 John MacArthur, The Vanishing Conscience, p. 23.

2 Great Stories, April/June, 1994.

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