Luke 2:41-52 · The Boy Jesus at the Temple
Living By The Calendar Instead Of The Clock (New Year's)
Luke 2:41-52
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by Richard A. Wing
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This is the time of year that we look toward 2016 with new resolve, or observe how far we have wandered from last year's resolutions. Have you ever noticed that New Year's resolutions look strangely familiar? As a matter of fact, don't they most often look exactly like last year's resolutions?

Too often in this season we look at the resolutions we made for our lives that we never got started. I was in a spiritual life retreat once with a group of clergy who were talking about the joys and pains of parish life. One dignified Roman priest told us that he was going on the fiftieth year of his ordination, which all of us applauded and celebrated. Within an hour this good priest was in tears. When he could finally speak he said, "Matthew 5. Matthew 5. Look how far all of us have wandered away from Matthew 5, those fiery words that attracted us to ministry in the first place." He had awakened to how far his call to ministry had been buried under the need to make budgets and committees work in parish life. Looking at failed resolutions that failed can be sad.

Looking at life resolutions can be a glad occasion. Robert Frost wrote poetry which rang a bell with many paths we have all taken, especially when he spoke of taking the "road less traveled" which has "made all the difference." How glad is the moment when we recognize that we followed the dictates of our hearts rather than those of a parent or other who had plans for our lives that did not fit our souls.

Too often we get too far away from the source that gives us life, fuels our spirit, and reveals our soul. We wander and forget. That is why we come here for worship. To remember what is important and to rediscover the lines we drew for ourselves in the past. I read the story about a man who painted lines in the middle of the road in the days when they did it by hand. He was entered in a contest. The first day he painted five miles of line, which was a new world record. The next day he painted only 500 feet. The next day just 27 feet. Someone asked why. The painter replied, "I kept getting farther and farther away from the bucket." We wander too far from the very source that gives us life and fuels our very being. We wander too far from the things that are most important.

The biblical story before us is of Jesus wandering too far away from his parents and getting a good chewing out, which, in my opinion, was warranted. A surface reading of the text is about a disobedient child. His mother said, in essence, "Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety." Jesus replies, "Why were you searching for me? Did you not know that I must be in my Father's house?" From the tranquility of the stable, Joseph and Mary are confronted by a pre-adolescent child who is making perplexing statements. Having a holy child is not all roses.

A deeper reading of the text would lead elsewhere. What does it mean to be in God's house? Jesus in time would give us an example of what that means. Jesus would not give a prescription, but an example. To be in God's house means living by the calendar instead of the clock. The life of Jesus would invite us to live our lives by keeping our eyes firmly fixed on ultimate concerns rather than passing fancy. He calls us to live by the calendar of faith rather than the clock of fads. He invites us to live fixed on the importance of persons above possessions. He invites us to live in the theatre with a large screen, not in the daily snapshots that are trimmed to fit our wallets.

The wider witness of Jesus invites us to live several ways.

I. Jesus invites us to leisure.

How many times did Jesus say to his disciples, "Let us go off by ourselves to some place where we will be alone and can rest awhile?" How many times do we read, "So they went away in a boat to a deserted place by themselves?" Have we ever entertained the notion that perhaps Jesus set the best example for our lives when he went away often to be alone and contemplate on that which was most important?

When I was in seminary in the late 1960s, a question was posed to us: Because we are entering the computer age that will take care of the problems we normally spend time with, what will we, as clergy, do to help the people in our congregation with their leisure time? Can you believe that? How can we miss future predictions by that wide a margin? Instead, we know that with every problem we solve, we create two more problems, all of which demand our time. We know now that more than any other time in history the chief complaint in family and individual life is that "there is no time."

"Leisure," from the Latin, means "to be free." Leisure is anything that restores you to peace while you are doing it. So, gardening, golf, reading, puzzles, and many other things can restore us to peace as we do them. Another cousin of leisure is the word "paragon." This little-used word means "the second thing that we do in life that keeps the first thing in tune." Hence, our work may draw energy from us, and we have then a "paragon," a leisure thing we do in order to restore us.

Most often, to build toward leisure demands that we disassemble something else. In Thomas Moore's book Meditations, he tells of a pilgrim walking along a road. The pilgrim sees some men working on a stone building.

"You look like a monk," the pilgrim said.

"I am that," said the monk.

"Who is that working on the abbey?"

"My monks. I'm the abbot."

"It's good to see a monastery going up," said the pilgrim.

"They're tearing it down," said the abbot.

"Whatever for?" asked the pilgrim.

"So we can see the sun rise at dawn," said the abbot.

My church will be called to build in three places this next year, and we will succeed in doing that. However, we must make sure that all our building stays out of the path of the sun that shines on the face of one born in a manger, born to set us free! May God give us courage to remove anything from our lives that will keep us from seeing the face of the child of Bethlehem who leads us to live by the big picture instead of the small obstacles in life. Otherwise, all our building is in vain.

II. Jesus invites us to let him be the Messiah, not us.

There are people who would have more balance in their lives if they did not accept responsibility for everything that happens in the world.

We are buried in "oughts and shoulds" to such a degree that we feel responsible for everything that goes wrong in Columbus as well as in Calcutta. I have heard about a Catholic nun who had a little sign in her office that read, "Today I will not should on myself." We need to read it daily with her.

Terry Hershey has a note on a mirror in his bathroom which reads, "Dear Terry, I know being in control makes you feel better, but I can handle it. Thanks anyway. Love, God."

A popular coffee mug says, "Who nominated you Messiah today?"

How hard it is for us to hear the hymn, "When the wrong seems oft so strong, God is the ruler yet." Only living by the calendar instead of the clock will reveal this. Courage is needed for the kind of life that will trust things to God's time rather than our limited schedule.

III. Jesus invites us to exercise the spirit as well as the mind and body.

I read the words of Dr. Meyer Friedman, who said that lifestyle and creative use of leisure can be more important than diet and exercise in preventing heart attacks. Obviously a balance among all three is most desirable. I have observed many people who have paid attention to the body and diet and have neglected the spirit and are dying inside.

Dr. Friedman gives suggestions for people to live less frantic lives by living more by the calendar than the clock: 1. Stop thinking about several things at one time. 2. Listen without interrupting. 3. Read books that demand concentration (games, too). 4. Avoid irritating people. 5. Plan for some personal quiet time each day. 6. Finally, things worth being are better than things worth having.

Remember the people who were here first. The Native Americans had an ability to live by the ages rather than by the day. Among certain tribes in North America were those who would make decisions for the tribe based on how that decision would affect people seven generations into the future!

Parish ministers will tell you that people come to them speaking with regrets like these:

When I was young, my mother was going to read me a story, but she had to wax the bathroom floor and there wasn't time.

When I was young, my grandparents were going to come for Christmas, but they couldn't get someone to feed the dogs and my grandfather did not like the cold weather and besides they didn't have time.

When I was young, my father was going to listen to me read my essay on "What I Want To Be When I Grow Up," but there was Monday Night Football and there wasn't time.

When I was young, my father and I were going to go hiking in the Sierras, but at the last minute he had to fertilize the lawn and there wasn't time.

When I grew up and left home to be married, I was going to sit down with Mom and Dad and tell them I love them and would miss them, but my best man was honking the horn in front of my house so there wasn't time.1

Into our hectic world, Jesus comes, and still invites us to exercise the spirit as well as the mind and the body. The best way we exercise the spirit is by giving attention to things of eternal significance, such as listening, loving, and learning from the least expected places.

IV. Jesus invites us to ordinary time.

It took me a long while to hear this truth from Mother Teresa: "There are no big deals anymore, just small things to be done with great love."

Most of this coming year will be spent in ordinary time. We enter into the season on the church calendar marked as "ordinary time." What a good prophetic note for the new year: most of the good that will be done will be done in ordinary time, when no one is looking and no one will report it to the paper.

Here comes the new year, full of ordinary time. We will enter it ready to slug it out for the common good while no one is looking. In the middle of ordinary time, God comes with extraordinary moments that make all others bearable, believable, and worthwhile.

I have always thought that while our nation works out negotiations with other countries, like with North Korea, we only see the leaders in the news. But, if the whole story were revealed, we would see nameless people on both sides of the issue tirelessly speaking to each other through the night in order to work out an agreement. Leaders sit down and sign documents that were slugged out by unknowns in the night during ordinary time.

Ordinary time reveals solutions right under our noses that demand the calendar instead of the clock. Each morning at 6:00 a.m. I read the abbreviated version of the New York Times. They were running an extensive overview of youth in trouble, their cases, and the solutions that worked. I was intrigued by one woman who has worked with youth in trouble for over twenty years. She said that she is aware of a solution that has worked 100 percent of the time. When a young person is taken from juvenile hall and assigned an adult mentor who will meet with the young person daily to talk with him or her, she never finds that young person returning to juvenile hall. We wring our hands and seek solutions by the clock and build more prisons, when all along the direction of a solution lies with the calendar: youth who will be given daily attention by an adult.

I have a friend who, when found by a youth minister, was in a drug stupor, lying on a park bench in a small Illinois town in the late 1960s. The youth minister was trying to help young people with drug problems. He came to the park and sat on the bench with this young man. He didn't try to convert him, but asked for his help. "I know you are on drugs. I am trying to help young people on drugs and I have a movie that I want to show them, but I need to know if the theme of the movie rings true. I myself have never been on drugs. Would you come and look at the movie and tell me if it is a good one to show to the youth?" The boy on the park bench followed the youth minister to church and saw the film. He volunteered to be the projectionist. That runaway boy found a home in a youth group and a reason to be off drugs. That boy became in time one of three of the best youth ministers I have ever met in my life. I remember working with him and observing the intense patience that he gave to every young person who came to him. He gave them himself. He gave them his time.

That boy on the bench turned out to be one of the best influences on my own children and hundreds of others. That boy on the bench has become a computer expert with such ability that he was the person who went to South Africa and ran the elections that moved Mandela to the presidency.

Thank God for a youth minister in Illinois who did not try to heal, convert, or fix my friend Mike Yard, but invited him by the calendar to a new way of life.

V. Jesus heals us in ordinary time.

The human family has a hidden desire for one special event in life to clear up a problem or a pain that it carries. Seldom if ever is there a word or event that heals our pain. In time we learn that pain is healed at a moment when we are not looking.

In the last century there was a man named Louie who was an expert at creweling leather. His designs were famous. One day while sharpening his tools, both eyes were blinded by flying pieces of steel from his disintegrated tools. Many weeks later he entered his workshop, newly blind, and angry. He felt the tools he would never use again and the leather with images he would never release. He started stabbing the leather in rage. His tears and anger were overdue. Without knowing it he stabbed a piece of paper. In time at that same desk he would learn that on the other side of the paper were little bumps. He learned that he could arrange the bumps in sequence. It was at that desk that Louie, Louie Braille, learned to lead thousands of people, including himself, out of darkness into light.

Later he would conclude that while looking at his blindness by a different angle of vision that he was healed. He was healed when his tragedy was turned into service for others that were blind like himself. It was in an extraordinary accident that he was blinded. It was in an ordinary moment in time that he discovered what could lead him and others to new light and life.

In December it is announced to all of us that the shortest day of the year has arrived. On that day there will be a minimum of light and a maximum of darkness. Often that day is clouded so that what light there is will not be seen. On that dark day I buried a woman in our church. I knew the day was dark for all, and I knew it was especially dark for this family to bury one they loved.

Deep in December we are asked to remember. We are asked to remember that with every day we face the dark, we will move minute by minute toward the brighter days of summer. And then, without realizing it, there will be more light than dark. All this happens when we are not looking. All this happens in ordinary time.

God comes to us, loves us, and finally heals us, not by the hourly watching of the clock, but by the monthly glance at the calendar. It is only by the calendar that we can hear these words:

Deep in December it's nice to remember
Without a hurt the heart is hollow
Deep in December our hearts will remember and follow.

Follow the star that leads to ordinary time and extraordinary love which we have seen and heard in Jesus Christ. Amen.


1. "Generating Good Signs" by Robert Capen, Jr., Vital Speeches, Aug. 1980. "

CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, Deep Joy for a Shallow World, by Richard A. Wing