Luke 10:38-42 · At the Home of Martha and Mary
Lady of the House / The Practice of Joy
Luke 10:38-42
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by Lori Wagner
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“There, in the presence of the Lord your God, you and your families shall eat and shall rejoice in everything you have put your hand to, because the Lord your God has blessed you.” (Deuteronomy 12:7)

“Celebrate the Festival of Tabernacles for seven days after you have gathered the produce of your threshing floor and your winepress. Be joyful at your festival—you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, and the Levites, the foreigners, the fatherless and the widows who live in your towns. For seven days celebrate the festival to the Lord your God at the place the Lord will choose. For the Lord your God will bless you in all your harvest and in all the work of your hands, and your joy will be complete.” Deuteronomy 16:35-15

“I will make a covenant of peace with them; it will be an everlasting covenant. I will establish them and increase their numbers, and I will put my sanctuary among them forever. My dwelling place will be with them; I will be their God, and they will be my people. Then the nations will know that I the Lord make Israel holy, when my sanctuary is among them forever.’” (Ezekiel 37:26-28)

Cheeeeeeese! Say cheeeeeese! We all know what this means. Some of you are already smiling!

We now know scientifically that if you smile, you will feel happy! Scientists tell us, when you’re feeling down, smile. Just smile. You’ll feel happier.

We’ve known for a long time that emotions affect our bodies. You can lower your blood pressure, alleviate stress, even prevent disease by “feeling” emotionally and spiritually …happier! Medical science tells us that happier people live longer. People who feel content, joyful, and laugh a lot are healthier people.

But what if you’re not one of those smiley, happy-go-lucky people?

Scientists now realize, it’s not just that if you’re happy, you’ll smile a lot. It’s also that if you smile a lot, you’ll feel happy! In fact, we now know that your body can “trick” your mind into being happy or joyful –by smiling, laughing, singing, or dancing.

Remember that song, “Put On a Happy Face?” The song by Tony Bennett?

It didn’t just mean fake it! But when you start smiling, your body chemistry starts changing, and your emotional state changes with it.

[You may want to take a moment and hum the song, or ask people if they remember the lyrics…..Grey skies are gonna clear up….put on a happy face….brush off the clouds and cheer up…put on a happy face. Take off that gloomy mask of tragedy….put on a pleasant outlook….etc. You may want to pick out a few lines to demonstrate what you mean by “put on” a happy face.]

Scientists call this act of putting on a happy face….and therefore becoming happy --neural feedback.” But there’s also something called social feedback too, the idea that if YOU look happy, it’s contagious, and likely your neighbor will start smiling too!

Remember that neighbor kid who never got in trouble, because every time his mother started to chastise him, he started to joke with her and make her laugh, and before you know it, she was in a whole other mood? Know that person who just always makes you smile for some reason, just because she’s always, always so pleasant and sweet?

That’s social feedback. Singing may make me happy when I wasn’t (that’s neural feedback). But when I start singing, and you join in and start smiling too, that’s social feedback!

In 1988, musician Bobby McFerrin wrote an a cappella song called “Don’t Worry, Be Happy!” The song quickly reached #1 on the Billboard Hot Music 100 charts and remained there for weeks! Everyone everywhere was singing, “Don’t worry, be happy now!” In fact, the song became the unofficial anthem in Jamaica after Hurricane Gilbert touched down on the island that September, causing over a month of severe hardship for the entire population.

Listen to what I’m saying. The song didn’t make people in Jamaica happy, because they already were happy people! It made people smile in the midst of one of the most devastating tragedies in their lives and the history of their country.

Everywhere in Jamaica, even though people lost their homes, lost their things, lost income, lost food, they would start singing this song: “Don’t worry, be happy!” And lo and behold, they felt suddenly happier –even in the midst of sorrow.

It’s hard to know sometimes why a song makes top of the charts. But this particular song seems to have made people smile, and particularly in times of difficulty.

It’s a song of advice of how to deal with life. But it’s also in the form of a command.

“Don’t worry, …be happy!”

And there’s something about that phrase that just makes people smile. It gives people “permission” to be happy, even when they aren’t supposed to be.

That’s in a way what Jesus is saying to Martha in our scripture for today. Martha, we learn, invites Jesus into her home, most likely for the holiday, “The Feast of Booths” or “Sukkot.” This was a festival that lasted a good 7 days. A “sukkah” or little hut or tent was built on one’s property, and all meals for the feast are held around a table in the little tent. Many people even would sleep in those tents. They would “dwell” in them throughout the festival, because the festival commemorates when the people of God dwelled in tents as they followed God through the wilderness to the promised land. But even more than that, it was a time of celebrating God’s “dwelling” with us! God came down and tabernacled with us first through the holy of holies, then through the Temple, and now, through Jesus.

The Jewish people called this festival, “the season of our joy,” because above all, it was a time to be joyful! In fact, God commands us to be joyful about God’s presence with us! We are reminded of God’s coming salvation, of God’s enduring and everlasting presence, and of God’s promised kingdom. And we are commanded to experience the joy of God’s great gifts to us.

We are to spend time with family and friends, pray, read the Torah, sing, wave the four species, eat sumptuous meals, as this also was the last fruit harvest and the festival of ingathering that completed the harvest year. But above all, we are to BE joyful!

No wonder Jesus says to Martha, there are only a few things needed….indeed….only one!! And that one was to BE joyful about God’s presence --about Jesus’ presence, as Jesus IS the Emmanuel (God dwelling among us).

We all have jobs to do. And in life, there are always going to be distractions….worries…..stress, as we go about our daily lives. Martha was the “lady of the household” in our story today. She was in charge of making sure all of the guests were comfortable, fed, welcomed, and that all of the details were in place for the sumptuous feasts to come over all of these 7 days. There was much to do. And Jesus knew she needed to do it.

But, he said, whatever you do, do it with great joy! For no matter what else, this is a time to be joyful! God is here. I am here! “Put on a happy face,” Martha!

Put on a happy face ______ [You may want to name various people in your congregation]

And Jesus didn’t just mean, smile, look happy! He meant, Martha, BE happy! Because I am here. God is here. And that’s the ONLY truly important thing about this celebration of Sukkot!

Be happy to BE with me. Be happy to BE with God. Be happy to SERVE God. Be happy, because God loves YOU.

Now the Jewish people have many words for joy, but the most common and the one used here is “simcha.” And the interesting thing about the Hebrew word “simcha” is that it doesn’t refer to the joy of any given individual; but it refers to the joy of community. It is ….SHARED joy. Joy within relationship.

With God. With Jesus. With each other. With community.

Put on a happy face Martha! Share with ME this day! Share this feast with ME.

Jesus was teaching Martha what Mary already instinctively sought –the joy of Jesus’ presence. The joy of BEING present with Jesus.

And I’m sure it’s no mistake that Luke’s gospel goes on to talk about prayer just after telling us this story about Martha, Mary, and Jesus. Because prayer, just like singing, or smiling, or taking the time to revel in relationship with others, is a way of “putting on a happy face.”

The church is a “community of practice,” as Leonard Sweet often says. It’s a place where Christians “practice” following Jesus, walking with God in intimate relationship. We don’t always get it right the first time. But it helps when we smile, sing, laugh, play, eat together, pray together, worship together, love together. By doing these things, we are “practicing” the joy of being in God’s presence together!

The practice of joy.

The practice of presence.

This is what being a follower of Jesus is all about.

There are always many things to be done. There is strife, grief, and sorrow in this world. And in the lives of our friends and neighbors. But there is joy to be found in relationship with Jesus.

“Don’t worry. Be happy!” Jesus is here!

Feel the joy!


**The photo for this sermon is taken from Zicasso travel: A Food and Wine Tour of Venedo.

Based on the Story Lectionary

Major Text

Jesus Visits the Home of Martha and Mary (Luke 10:38-42)

Minor Text

The Distraction of the Tower of Babel (Genesis 11:1-9)

Abraham’s Three Holy Visitors (Genesis 18)

Esau’s Distraction With His Hunger (Genesis 19:34)

Jacob Dreams of God and Realizes “Surely the Lord is in This Place and I Was Not Aware of It” (Genesis 28)

God Dwells in the Holy Tabernacle With Moses and With God’s People (Exodus 11, 34, 40)

The Command to Dwell With God Joyfully (Deuteronomy 16:13-15)

Solomon Celebrates Sukkot with God’s Presence in the Tabernacle (1 Kings 8)

Samson is Distracted by Delilah (Judges 16)

Hannah’s Prayer of Joy (1 Samuel 2:1-11)

David Dances in Joy Before the Lord While Uzzah Worries About the Ark (2 Samuel 6)

David is Distracted by Bathsheba (2 Samuel 11 and 12)

Psalm 16: Apart from You I Have No Good Thing

Psalm 95: Kneel Before the Lord

Psalm 100: The Joy of the Lord

*Psalm 118: His Love Will Endure Forever (The Psalm of Sukkot)

Psalm 105: Seek His Face Always

The Joy of the Redeemed (Isaiah 35)

The People Are Distracted by Building Their Own Houses and Have Forgotten God’s House (Haggai 1)

Do Not Grieve, for The Joy of the Lord is Your Strength (Nehemiah 8)

Don’t Worry About Tomorrow (Matthew 6:25-34)

Peter’s Angel and Rhoda’s Joy (Acts 12)

Be Anxious in Nothing, Be Joyful in Everything (Philippians 4)

Jesus Visits the Home of Martha and Mary

As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

Image Exegesis: Martha and Mary

“Go, eat your food with gladness, and drink your wine with a joyful heart, for God has already approved what you do.” (Ecclesiastes 9:7)

“To do what is right and just is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.” (Proverbs 21:3)

“Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will be joyful in God my Savior. The Sovereign Lord is my strength; he makes my feet like the feet of a deer, he enables me to tread on the heights.” (Habakkuk 3:17-19)

“Then I will dwell among the Israelites and be their God. They will know that I am the Lord their God, who brought them out of Egypt so that I might dwell among them. I am the Lord their God.” (Exodus 29:45-46)

It may seem odd at first that such a small biblical story as Martha and Mary could illicit such a large lectionary this week. This is no mistake. This small story surrounds one of the largest feasts of Jewish life: Sukkot (the festival of ingathering….the fruit harvest….the time to celebrate God’s dwelling with humanity….the “season of our joy”). Sukkot, otherwise known as the Festival of Booths, is the most joyful time of the Jewish year. The commandment to celebrate God’s everlasting dwelling with God’s people is a 7-day festival of food and festivities around the table in a sukkah, built for the occasion (a kind of thatch tent, in which all meals are given, prayers and hymns are sung, and relationship comes first, in which one not only eats, but many times sleeps if one can for all of those days).

The celebration commemorates the Exodus of God’s people who dwelt in tents, but even more so celebrates God’s presence with God’s people in the holy tabernacle. The keeping of the commandment to dwell must above all be a beautiful thing, an experience of great joy. This is most important.

There are a few important things about getting ready for Sukkot: 1) you gather the four kinds of plants for the waving of the four species 2) you prepare the menus and food for the meals for the feasts 3) you build the sukkah 4) you pray, be aware of God’s presence and the presence of the great cloud of witnesses before you as well as your current relationships 5) you BE joyful!! Whatever you have to do, being joyful trumps it all!

So when Jesus tells Martha “few things are needed…indeed only one,” he is telling her, don’t worry and stress over the details of all of these preparations. It’s SO much more important to be joyful. After all, JESUS is here! He IS the one dwelling, and he’s right there in her house! Her house has become for right now a tabernacle, where he is spending time with her and with Mary. Mary’s joy in “sitting at his feet” –the posture of a disciple, is paramount. Whereas Martha is worried and stressed about the details of serving Jesus, Jesus would rather she enjoy his company for a while, and be joyful about it! You can only hear Jesus saying, as Len Sweet often suggests, “Martha, Martha, if preparing this meal for me isn’t a joy for you, I’d rather not eat. I’d so much rather spend time with you, because you are my greatest joy, just as you are God’s great joy!”

Sukkot is a time of relationships and the greatest time of joy of the entire year. He wanted Martha to enjoy her preparations, to get ready for the feast with joy, and above all, to relish this time with him, because he knew, he wouldn’t be on this earth for too much longer in human form.

Was Martha a lesser disciple? No! She was one of Jesus’ cherished disciples and friends, as was Lazarus, and Mary. The scriptures in John tells us, Jesus LOVED these siblings. It’s the only time we hear that Jesus loved any particular people. These were some of his closest friends and allies. But he truly wanted to enjoy his time with Martha, even though it was her responsibility to oversee the preparations for the meals and the feast.

We don’t know how many people she was preparing for. Was it Jesus and many of his disciples in addition to her own family? Some of them? Other friends and supporters of Jesus too? We don’t know. But we can assume, it was for a fairly large group, as she obviously felt stressed with everything still to be prepared.

Jesus is not chastising her for doing her job. He is simply wanting her to enjoy the time of God’s dwelling, and his time with her.

Martha IS the “lady of the house.” When we look at this scripture, we see, it says, “A woman named Martha opened HER home to him.” HER home. Not Lazarus’s home, although we know he lives there, and he is the male of the family. Her home. Martha is the “lady of the house,” most likely a fairly wealthy family home, in which she is the eldest woman and overseer of the household. (Even Joanna, one of Jesus’ ardent supporters has a husband, who is the overseer of Herod’s household, but here, it’s Martha). Mary therefore is her younger sister. We don’t know how young. She could be quite young. Their parents are not in the picture, and it seems, the siblings all reside together. We know this from John 11 and 12. We also know from John that they live in Bethany, less than 2 miles outside of Jerusalem. It may be that Lazarus is ill, perhaps with leprosy. It may be that the two sisters care for him. Or it may simply mean that the household is of sufficient means that it requires a “lady of the house” to oversee all of the details. No matter which, it definitely would be the “lady of the house” (a woman in charge) who would make sure of all of the preparations for a festival like Sukkot, which requires the building of the sukkah, the preparations for 7 days of festival-worthy meals, and everything needed to pull that off for a large group of people. He is primary hostess….lady in charge.**

Interestingly, the name Martha in Aramaic means “lady of the house” or “mistress in charge.” And the Hebrew word comes from the root “maror,” bitter, grieved, stressed, strong, master, as well as from the verbal derivative, “meri,” rebellious. The word is also related to myrrh, the herb of mourning. What a wonderful double meaning in her name for this story. Not only is she the strong, capable, able “lady of the house,” the mistress of the feast,” but her demeanor is also a bit grieved, stressed, bitter, as she in this story, is not going about her preparations with her mind on the joy of God’s (Jesus’) dwelling, but on the particularities of preparing adequately to accommodate everyone, to make the people happy.

Jesus says, this is about YOUR joy too, Martha. It’s not about you making everyone else happy. Not even me. It’s not about pulling off the perfect feast or being the perfect hostess. It’s about reveling in the joy of God, about spending time with me, because my time with you is limited, and I want to enjoy your company, it’s about you enjoying the people you are with, and the beauty of the sukkah, it’s about prayer, and blessing, and above all, JOY.

Cause everyone who has been to a family event knows, when the “mistress of the house (otherwise known as the cook!)” is unhappy, …everyone is going to be unhappy!

It’s not about the food. It’s not about the work. It’s ALL about God, joy, and relationships!

To be present in the present moment with God is so important. There will always be worries about the future, worries about work, worries about what’s happening around us, stress about what we need to get done. But sometimes, it’s time to just stop, enjoy your time in the moment with God, and feel the joy of God’s presence.

“Few things are needed, indeed, only one!”

The tabernacle –wherever you spend time with God/Jesus—must for you be a joyful and a beautiful time and place. Even in the midst of difficulty, of worry, of stress, of terrible things happening in your life, when you come into the presence of God, you can’t help but feel the power of God’s grace and blessing upon you, the joy of God’s presence.

Simchah Torah!

There will always be chores to do, strife in life. But take time for your relationships with people, and most of all with God. In this, you will find great joy. It is the commandment of Sukkot, to dwell with God in joy.

The Hebrew scriptures are filled with stories of those who were distracted from “dwelling” with God and worshiping God first above all else. Samson, who took a Nazarite vow, and broke it because of his fixation with Delilah…..David who broke his faithfulness with God due to a fixation with Bathsheba…..Peter who tries to walk on water but looks away from Jesus and tries to go it on his own…..those who built the Tower of Babel, who felt they could reach heaven on their own means….Esau who loses his covenant birthright due to the distraction of Jacob’s stew and his own hunger…..Zerubbbabel and his people who are more concerned with the distractions of life and their own work than “building the house of God!”

The metaphor of “house” is a wonderful on here. Sukkah is a temporary “house.” In this story, you have Martha, the lady of the “house” –the actual physical household in which she has much work to do. This is contrasted however with the “house” of God, the dwelling WITH God in relationship …and in this case with Jesus and her friends and relatives. THIS is the house that is most important to the story.

The time here is also important. Jesus is getting to the point in his ministry where he will begin to give his disciples hints that he will not be around too much longer. He is heading for Jerusalem, where he will begin to come more and more into conflict with the Temple officials. Jesus’ message, which he sent his disciples out among the towns to deliver, is that God’s kingdom has come! Jesus is here! And God’s salvation (or judgment) is coming NOW! It’s in the here and now that you have to be concerned Jesus says.

Don’t keep waiting around for God’s promise to be fulfilled and miss what’s happening all around you here and now in this moment. God is here. God’s kingdom is here. I am here. Have JOY in the presence of the Lord!

Don’t wait to be joyful in the promises of God. Do it now. Be happy NOW. Not later after you do this, that, or the other thing. Not later, after you expect God to do some other trick or sign. Not later, when you expect something else to happen. NOW. God is here NOW.

Live …dwell with God…while you’re living.

When three visitors come to visit Abram and Sarah, Abram immediately recognizes them as God’s messengers and immediately asks Sarah to prepare a meal. But the emphasis is on the presence of the messengers, not the preparation of the meal.

The Talmud (Brachot 54a) tells of a story in which a man walking across a thorny field picks up his pants so they don’t get ripped. In the interim, his legs get cut up. The pants are saved, but his skin is broken.

The preparations are never more important that the relationships.

In the same way, worship for us too, should be not work nor obligation but joy and celebration.

The word simcha (joy) in Judaism is a beautiful word too, because inherent in this joy is relationship. It’s a shared joy. It’s always about joy that is shared within relationship, within community. It’s not an individual joy, but a shared experience. Like the sukkot experience, joy is experienced in relationship with others. This is what is required in the Torah.

The joy of “serving” the Lord out-trumps the obligation of serving people! This is why perhaps when Jesus heals Peter’s mother in law, the first thing she does is leaps up and begins “serving” them all! The JOY of SERVING the Lord is the joy of KNOWING His Salvation!

“The joy of the Lord is my strength,” says Nehemiah. Mar-tha –strong woman she is as her name indicates—could be one of God’s strongest disciples. But here, the strongest of hearts, the one who gets is, and prefers to sit at Jesus’ feet more than anything else, is “mar-y (Mar-yam).” Strong of love, strong of longing to hear the words of Jesus.

Does this mean Martha is wrong? Does it mean Jesus is berating her? Not a chance. Martha is the Lady of the House. Jesus knows, she is responsible for the feast. He doesn’t say, Mary shouldn’t help either. But he does acknowledge that Mary seeks his presence, and he will never deny her that. He would love to have that kind of presence with Martha too. And he hopes that he will. Be joyful Martha, Jesus suggests. I’m here. Be with me. That’s what is most important to me. And…to God.

Only a few things are needed…”indeed, only one!”

The metaphor of House/Household/Sukkah/Sukkot/Table are beautiful in this small story of the beauty and joy of God’s amazing salvation presence.

God is here, proclaims Jesus. I am here to tell you that God’s salvation is here for you. Walk with God, spend time with God, revel in the joy of God’s presence. God is HERE WITH you!

It’s no mistake that this small story comes soon after Jesus’ conversation about the Shema and before his conversation on prayer in the gospel of Luke.

Jesus interestingly enough, does not spend the holiday with his biological family, but with his discipleship family. It is this family –of all people—that God dwells with. And God wants to dwell with all people in your churches too.

Only a few things are needed to accomplish that….indeed …only one!

*“Living the God-Breathed Life: An Invitation to Rest at the Table” By Thom Gardner (for more on sukkot and metaphor of the table). And The Jewish Virtual Library “Sukkot.” And Hebrew4christians.com “Sukkot.”

**Abarim Publications on the meaning of Martha and Mary. See also Strongs. Thayers.

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