Philippians 3:12-4:1 · Pressing on Toward the Goal
Hanging Around Jesus Changes You
Philippians 3:17 — 4:1
Sermon
by Mark Ellingsen
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Writing to Christians in a Macedonian city of Philippi, Paul writes: “For many live as enemies of the cross of Christ...” (v.18). People don’t like this message, don’t want anything to do with the cross of Christ. No surprise. Who of us wants to mess with death and suffering? Why, it’s just common sense.

Cross-bearing goes against the grain of what pop culture in America tells us about life. It goes against the grain of our desire for instant gratification. After all, we’ve been taught to follow our dreams, to let nothing get in the way of personal goals.[1] This is what the prosperity gospel of today is all about.

We want prosperity because things are not that good in America today. A CNN/Money e-Trade 2016 poll found that more than half of us (56%) think things will be worse in America for our children. The Anxiety and Depression Association of America reports that nearly 1 in 5 of us (18%) is depressed. Economically it is harder and harder to maintain a middle-class lifestyle, and more and more America is becoming an aging nation. In the 2017 World Happiness Report, the US ranked nineteenth, down from third in a decade. 

No doubt a number of these problems have been occasioned by our desires to live as enemies of Christ, to make our bellies into our god (3:18-19). A National Survey of Family Growth report indicated that in the 2010’s only 5% of brides were virgins. Sociologist Paula England found 28% of college women hooked up more than ten times in their years of matriculation. The US Census Bureau has found that the average U.S. home is 1,000 square feet bigger than the 1973 average home. We can’t afford it. CNBC reported that in 2016, the average American household had $16,000 in credit-card debt. 

Lent is a time for coming to terms with our unfaithfulness, without our waywardness and love for our bellies. This is why you and I need to hear the word of condemnation that Paul delivers in this lesson. Martin Luther was preaching a sermon on this text and made a similar point:

The world cannot conduct itself in any other way, when the declaration comes from heaven saying: “True you are a holy man, a great and learned jurist... and honorable citizen, and so on, but with all our authority and your upright character you are going to hell; your every act is offensive and condemned in God’s sight. If you would be saved you must become an altogether different man; your mind and heart must be changed.[2]

The best of us deserve hell. We need to become different people, need a total change of heart and mind.

John Calvin made similar points; and so he once wrote:

For such is the viciousness of our nature, that the more we are taught what is right and just, the more openly is our iniquity discovered.[3]

Paul has good news for the Philippians and us. He says that Christ is coming to transform us, so that we may be conformed to his body (3:21). Hanging around Christ changes you! It leads you to take up Jesus’ cross.

Acknowledging our sin, denying our goodness, is a kind of cross to bear. It doesn’t feel good. But Paul and the gospel say that it is good for us. Crosses in life make us all the more dependent on God’s love. It is like the seventeenth-century Scottish clergyman Samuel Rutherford once put it: “How soon would faith freeze without a cross.”

Again John Calvin put it nicely:

... when we are called by the Lord we emerge from nothing; for whatever we seem to be we have not, no not a spark of anything good which can render us fit for the kingdom of God that we may indeed on the other hand be in a suitable state to hear the call of God, we must be altogether dead in ourselves.[4]

When called by Christ we emerge from nothing. Around Jesus, nobodies become somebodies.

Think about this. If you’re somebody, you don’t need that bigger house to convince yourself you’ve made it. You already have it made with God. If you’re already somebody, you do not need the latest must-have gadget that you cannot afford.

Martin Luther had it right. We can be certain and confident, he said, because we are snatched outside ourselves, so we don’t need to depend on ourselves, our strength, conscience, experience, person or works, and can depend on God, on the righteousness He gives us, which is a lot more certain than we could ever be in ourselves.[5] Again, we see how faith makes nobodies into somebodies.

Faith in Christ, hanging around Jesus, changes you. It makes a difference in how you live your life. Martin Luther offers some deep insights on this matter:

Faith is divine work in us, which changes us and makes us be born anew of God... O, it is a living, busy, active mighty thing this faith. It is impossible for it not to be doing good works incessantly... This knowledge of and confidence in God’s grace [that faith provides] makes men glad and bold and happy in dealing with God and with all creatures. And this is the work that the Holy Spirit performs in faith. Because of it, without compulsion, a person is ready and glad to do good to everyone, to serve everyone, to suffer everything out of love and praise to God who has shown him grace.[6]

Faith changes you, like a marriage or any intimate human bond you have ever had changes you. The famed medieval mystic Bernard of Clairvaux made this clear. He once wrote:

When God loves, he seeks nothing but love in return... knowing that those who love him become by that love itself most blessed... Therefore it is that he is a bridegroom and the soul is a bride, for this belongs only to a wedded pair.[7]

Give more thought to that image. Couples, is it not true that you are not the same since you met or since the wedding day? And has not a lot of your lover rubbed off on you? Hasn’t your mate taken on a lot of your ways of doing things? Living together in love changes you, makes you more like your lover. And that does not happen by imitation or design. It just seems to happen without your thinking about it. It just somehow mysteriously happens.

It is the same with a parent-child relationship. Those of us who are parents, from the first time you laid eyes on that child of yours it changed you, did it not? And in a close relationship, as that child becomes an adult, whose values you admire, is it not true you can learn from that child, that his or her ways of looking at the world become yours? Not that you self-consciously try to imitate your child’s outlook. It is just that it seems to happen, probably because the adult child loved you enough to share that part of him or her, and you love the child enough to admire him or her. 

Look at yourself, those of you with a warm relationship with a parent or a grandparent: Are you not a chip off the old block? I see that a lot in myself — as I am my father with planning ahead and looking at every problem in life with a feeling that it can be solved with planning and logic. Or I’m my mother when I am breaking ice in a conversation by asking people about themselves. We never consciously try to imitate who our parents are. It’s true that we share their gene pool, but we are different. It’s just that the love we have for them, their love for us, changes our lives. If it can happen with human love, think how an all-powerful divine love can change you.

No two ways about it. America needs to be changed in order to get out of all the messes in which we find ourselves — all the pessimism, Narcissistic quest for fulfillment, the lack of long-term commitment.[8] Hanging around Jesus does it for us, transforms us into folks not willing to fall prey to the ways of the world, confident and secure enough to live with joy and the good of others. Remember, getting intimate with Jesus means taking on his thing, his agendas. One of them is bearing a cross, saying “no” to yourself for the sake of others. Jesus did that on Good Friday, with his whole life, and now that heritage is yours and mine in faith. And since bearing the cross is now who we are it’s a little easier for Christians to say “no” to all the things pop culture says we should do and want.

Yes, hanging around Jesus changes you. But be careful: All that self-denial and saying “no” to instant gratification will make you down-right subversive, a party-pooper. Why someone who is a joyful cross-bearer is likely to be bad for the American economy — won’t buy as much and be as flexible in relationships as our economy wants the worker to be. Yes, hanging around Jesus transforms you and me into the kind of person who goes against the grain. 


[1] This characterization of American life, especially for the Millennial generation has been offered by Jean Twenge, Generation Me: Why Today’s Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled — and More Miserable Than Ever Before.

[2] Martin Luther, “Sermon for Twenty-Third Sunday After Trinity,” in The Complete Sermons of Martin Luther, Vol.4/2, ed. John Lenker.

[3] John Calvin, “Commentaries On The Epistle of Paul the Apostle To the Romans” (1539), in Calvin’s Commentaries, Vol. XIX/2, trans. James Anderson.

[4] Ibid., p.175.

[5] Martin Luther, “Lectures On Romans” (1515-1516), in Luther’s Works, Vol. 25, p.387.

[6] Martin Luther, “Preface to the Epistle of St. Paul to the Romans” (1546/1522), in Luther’s Works, Vol.35, pp.370-371.

[7] Bernard of Clarivaux, in Varieties of Mystic Experience, ed. Elmer O’Brien (New York: Rinehart & Winston, 1964), p.104.

[8] For how the economy encourages these values, see Richard Sennett, The Corrosion of Character: The Personal Consequences of Work in the New Capitalism (New York and London: W. W. Norton, 1998), esp. pp.24ff.

CSS Publishing Company, Inc., A Rebellious Faith: Cycle B sermons for Lent & Easter based on the second lesson texts, by Mark Ellingsen