1 Corinthians 13:1-13 · Love
Extreme Love
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
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by King Duncan
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Our lesson today is on love. Now, obviously we’re not talking about romantic love, though sometime we might talk about romantic love. After all, it’s an important part of our lives. I read something funny recently. It was an announcement that was made in the chapel of a very conservative church college some years back. It went something like this: “On this campus there is to be absolutely no physical contact of any kind between male and female students. There is only one legitimate exception to this rule. If a male student happens to see a female student about to fall to the ground, it is permissible to touch her to break her fall. However,” the announcement continued, “we shall not tolerate any young woman making a practice of falling.” (1)

Yes, young people, there have been colleges that have been that strict.

Our lesson for today is about love. In fact, it’s called the love chapter. Many of us probably first heard it read in weddings. It is the highest expression of love in all of literature. It was composed by St. Paul, obviously under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. I consider it one of the most extreme, radical chapters in all the Bible. And I believe that, by the end of this service, you will too because here is the basic message of this chapter: You can be more Christian than Christ himself, but if you are not committed to living a life of love, you’ve missed the whole message of the gospel. Think about that for a moment. You can be more Christian than Christ himself, but if you are not committed to living a life of love, you’ve missed the whole message of the Gospel.

I have time today to deal with only the first few verses of this wonderful chapter in depth, but these few verses are life-changing. I Corinthians 13, one of the most beloved chapters in all literature, begins like this: “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.”

Let’s pause here for a moment: “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels . . .” This is a letter to the Corinthians. Corinth was in Greece. Greeks prized the spoken word. Their orators received wide public acclaim. Remember the legendary orator Demosthenes who is said to have filled his mouth with pebbles to improve his diction.

The Greeks prized the gift of oratory. Four hundred years before Paul a man named Aristotle wrote a work which he called Rhetoric. Aristotle’s Rhetoric spelled out rules for public speaking that are still being studied by students of public speaking today.

The Corinthians valued eloquence of speech highly. And so Paul begins by saying it is wonderful to be a fine speaker, to “speak in the tongues of men or of angels,” but if your heart is not filled with love, your eloquent speech sounds like “a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.”

People in Paul’s time were also familiar with the monotonous tone of a gong or the clashing sound of a cymbal. Scholars tell us there was a big gong or cymbal hanging at the entrance of most pagan temples. When people came to worship, they hit these noisy percussion instruments in order to awaken the pagan gods so they would listen to their prayers. So Paul is saying it’s all right if you’re a fine speaker, or teacher or even a fine preacher. However, your fine words are as futile as the act of striking a gong or a cymbal to awaken a pagan idol if you are not committed to a life of love.

St. Paul continues, “If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing . . .” Friends, that’s radical. That’s extreme. Paul is saying that love is even more important than faith. “If I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing . . .” This is revolutionary. Think about those people in our society who call themselves followers of Jesus, but they hate Moslems, they hate Jews, they hate Mormons, they even hate other Christians who do not believe exactly as they believe. And they do it in the name of Jesus. Amazing! Could it be that these Christians who hate people of other faiths are more apt to end up in hell than the very people they despise? That could be true if love is more important than faith.

You say, Pastor, you’ve gone too far. It’s not me it’s St. Paul. If you’re not convinced, look at how he ends the chapter, “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” Love is more important than faith? How you live is at least as important as what you believe? It’s a good thing we’re saved by grace. Neither our faith nor our works alone would do the job. We are saved by God’s extreme love for us a love God intends for us to pass on to others.

Now please do not misunderstand. Faith is important. It is essential. You are not going to love as Jesus loved if Christ does not live in your heart. Faith is important. So is hope. But Paul says that love is even more important than faith or hope.

But he’s not finished, “If I give all I possess to the poor . . .” You mean you can give your money to charity or stand on the streets handing out money to homeless people and do it with an unloving spirit? Amazing, but true!

“If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship . . .” That’s the NIV translation. Many of us remember the King James Version: “though I give my body to be burned . . .” Some of you remember the Vietnam War when Buddhist priests would pour gasoline all over their bodies, then set themselves on fire.

You mean you can be seized with that kind of religious extremism, and it will profit you nothing without love? Let me say it again so that no one can misunderstand. You can be more Christian than Christ himself, but if you are not committed to a life of love, you’ve missed the whole message of the gospel.

Of course, St. Paul is only expounding on the teachings of Jesus. It was Jesus who first said that the great commandment was to love . . . to love God and to love one’s neighbor (Matthew 22:36-40).

The religious Jew in the first century was committed to the keeping of more than 600 commandments. Jesus summarized all these duties in one teaching: “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:34-35).

Did you hear that? This is how the world will know that you follow Jesus not by how many Bible verses you can quote; not by your perfect attendance in worship; not by giving a million dollars to the church well, you could always try that one. These are wonderful acts of devotion, but none of them matter if you have let your life be taken over with malice and resentment and hate.

This is to say that love is the central task of the Christian. If this is how people will know that we are followers of Jesus, isn’t this what we should be doing every hour of every day showing love to others of God’s children?

Bill Wilson pastors an inner city church in New York City. His mission field is a very violent place. He himself has been stabbed twice as he ministered to the people of the community surrounding the church. Once a Puerto Rican woman became involved in the church and was led to Christ. After her conversion she came to Pastor Wilson and said, “I want to do something to help with the church’s ministry.”

Wilson asked her what her talents were and she could think of nothing -she couldn’t even speak English -but she did love children. So he put her on one of the church’s buses that went into neighborhoods and transported kids to church. Every week she performed her duties. She would find the worst-looking kid on the bus, put him on her lap and whisper over and over the only words she had learned in English: “I love you. Jesus loves you.”

After several months, she became attached to one little boy in particular. The boy didn’t speak. He came to Sunday School every week with his sister and sat on the woman’s lap, but he never made a sound. Each week she would tell him all the way to Sunday School and all the way home, “I love you and Jesus loves you.”

One day, to her amazement, the little boy turned around and stammered, “I -I -I love you too!” Then he put his arms around her and gave her a big hug. That was 2:30 on a Sunday afternoon. At 6:30 that night he was found dead. His own mother had beaten him to death and thrown his body in the trash . . . (2)

“I love you and Jesus loves you.” Those were some of the last words this little boy heard in his short life. The reason he heard them was because an immigrant woman from Puerto Rico was committed to love people in Jesus’ name. But here’s what we need to remember: when she held that child on her lap and whispered, “I love you. Jesus loves you,” she was fulfilling all the law and the Prophets. When she held that child in her arms and whispered those words, her witness was more authentic than all those who strut their piety around and claim to be righteous. Love is the central task of the Christian.

That is to say the love Jesus wants to place in our lives is proactive it seeks out people who need loving. Authentic love is not passive. Authentic love always looks for people who need loving.

There was a missionary named Doug Nichols who went to India to be a missionary. In 1967 while he was just starting to study the language he became infected with tuberculosis and had to be put in a sanitarium to recuperate. This was not the kind of clean and wholesome sanitarium you and I might expect here in the U.S.

While in the sanitarium Doug unsuccessfully tried to reach some of the patients for Christ. He was handicapped by his inability to communicate in their language. When he offered them tracts or pamphlets, they politely refused. It was obvious that the patients wanted nothing to do with him or his God. Doug grew discouraged and wondered why God had allowed him to be there since no one would listen to him.

One night around 2:00 in the morning, Doug woke up coughing. Across the aisle, he noticed an old man trying to get out of bed. The man was too weak to stand, and he fell back crying and exhausted. Early the next morning the same scene repeated itself. Later in the morning, the smell that began to permeate the room revealed the obvious. The old man had been trying to get to the bathroom and had not made it. The other patients made fun of the old man. The nurses who came to clean up his bed weren’t kind to him either. In fact, one of them slapped him in the face. Nichols said that the old man just laid there and cried.

The next night this scene was repeated. The old man tried in vain to get to his feet. Although sick himself and as weak as he had ever been, Doug got out of bed. He placed one arm under the old man’s neck and the other under his legs. With all his strength Doug lifted the sick man and carried him down the hall to the filthy, smelly bathroom and he gently held him while the man completed his task. Then he carried him back to his bed. The old man kissed Doug on the cheek and said an Indian word meaning, “Thank you.”

The next morning, when Doug Nichols woke up, one of the other Indian patients was waiting to serve him a hot cup of tea. After the patient served the tea, he made motions indicating that he wanted one of Doug’s tracts. Doug said, “All throughout the day, people came to me asking for Gospel tracts. This included the nurses, hospital interns, the doctors, until everyone in the hospital had a tract, booklet, or Gospel of John.” Over the next few days, he adds, several told him they had come to trust Christ as their Savior as a result of reading these materials! To think, Doug Nichols says, “I simply took an old man to the bathroom. Anyone could have done that.” (3)

Yes, anyone could do that, but none of them did. How did the people in the sanitarium know that Doug Nichols was a follower of Jesus by the pamphlets and tracts that he passed out? You know the answer to that question. They knew he was a follower of Jesus because of the love he showed this pitiable old man.

Paul finishes up this chapter with these inspiring words: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is . . .” What? You know the answer, “Love.”

Pastor Ray Pritchard gives us a wonderful way of grasping what Paul is saying. Suppose you multiply 1,000,000 X 1000, says Pritchard. You end up with one billion, don’t you? What comes after a billion? A trillion. What comes after that? A quadrillion. After that is a number called a quintillion, which is one followed by 18 zeroes.

Now, says Pritchard, let’s do it the way children might do it. Let’s start with the biggest number in the world times the biggest number in the world. Now whatever that number is, let’s multiply it by zero. What do you get? Zero. It doesn’t matter what you start with on the left. If the number on the right is zero, the answer will always be zero.

Pritchard says: “God is saying that life without love is zero. You can pile up all the good deeds, all the education, all the spiritual gifts, and all the noble works that you like. Without love, it still equals zero. You can be smart, beautiful, strong, wealthy, educated, multi-lingual, rich and famous but without love it still equals zero. (4)

In other words, you can be more Christian than Christ himself, but if you are not committed to a life of love, you’ve missed the whole message of the gospel. Of course, the greatest example of self-giving love is the cross on which Christ died. “God so loved the world that He gave His beloved Son . . .” (John 3:16). “In this is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us and gave us his son for the expiation of our sins but not for ours only, but for the sins of the whole world . . .” (1 John 4:10). “We love because He first loved us . . .” (1 John 4:19). How will people know that we are followers of Jesus? By our love. “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is . . .”


1. Wayne Brouwer, Wedding Homilies (Seven Worlds).

2. http://www.sermoncentral.com/illustrations/illustrations-about-palm-sunday.asp

3. http://www.lesliepuryear.com/2011/04/doug-nichols-story.html.

4. Pritchard credits Pastor Leith Anderson with this example. Cited at http://www.keepbelieving.com/sermon/2000-11-26-The-Greatest-of-These/.

ChristianGlobe Networks, Inc., Dynamic Preaching First Quarter 2013, by King Duncan