Matthew 6:5-15 · Prayer
Practical Tips For Powerful Prayer
Matthew 6:5-15
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by Bill Bouknight
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The most under-utilized power on earth is not ethanol or solar power or even nuclear power. The most under-utilized power on earth is the power of God channeled through prayer. Surveys have revealed that 71 percent of Americans believe that God definitely answers prayer and another 15 percent believe that God probably does. That means that 86 percent of Americans believe that prayer is effective. Nevertheless, just a small percentage of Americans have a specific time set aside each day for prayer. Why is that? It’s a testimony to the devil’s skills as a salesman. The devil’s constant aim is to keep Christians from praying. So, he reminds us of some past prayer that seems to have gone unanswered. Then he tells us that we are too busy to pray, and that prayer should be saved for emergency situations.

Many Christians regard prayer as their “spiritual airbag.” What do I mean by that? In the owner’s manual of my car is this information: “Frontal airbags for the driver and right front passenger are designed to deploy in moderate to severe crashes.” Many Christians believe that prayer is like an airbag, to be deployed only in emergencies.

I heard about two fishermen who were caught one day in the middle of a big lake in a small boat when a violent thunderstorm struck. As the waves rose higher and the boat threatened to capsize, drastic measures were in order. So, the men decided to pray. In the teeth of the gale one of the men shouted, “O God, you know that I haven’t bothered you for the past fifteen years, and if you’ll just get us out of this mess, I promise that I won’t bother you again for another fifteen years.” (1)

Prayer is one of God’s greatest gifts to us. It is a God-extender. We have been given the high and holy privilege of channeling some of God’s power to needed places, giving God an added chance to do what he wants to do even before we pray, but has an added opportunity to do because we pray. Prayer is not persuading God to do something. It is just laying hold on God’s willingness.

Charles Allen, that late, great preacher in Houston, says that “the main job of the church is to teach people to pray.”

I hope to help in that regard today, by offering some practical tips for powerful prayer. Our scriptural focus is Matthew 6, a portion of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount.

First, in verses 5 and 6, Jesus taught: PRAY TO YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER, NOT TO PEOPLE. Now, some of the politically correct folks in America have been trying to persuade us to renounce all masculine pronoun references to God. But I’m not willing to do that. Not only does that de-personalize God but also it is directly contrary to Jesus’ teaching. Surely we know that God has no gender. Even if you had a bad experience with your earthly father, surely you can visualize God as the perfect father.

Jesus actually taught us to call God “daddy,” suggesting intimacy and intense affection. I’m not about to exchange the wonderful title of “Father” for some ethereal title like “eternal parent” or “ground of our being” or “sovereign redeemer.”

When we offer prayers in public, we must be careful to address our prayers to God rather than to our human listeners. If a pastor were to pray the following prayer, what or who would be his focus? “Lord, you know that any contribution that the church receives after December 31st cannot be credited to this year’s expenses, so there is a real urgency to complete pledges right away. Amen.”

I doubt that the Lord needs reminding of what the church’s fiscal year was. That prayer was directed to people.

I heard one of our national leaders make this statement on television: “Our thoughts and prayers go to the relatives of those who died in the tragic airlines crash.”

No, our condolences go to the family but our prayers go to God on their behalf. A prayer is always sent to God and nowhere else.

Jesus urged that most of our prayers be private because He knew the temptation of trying to impress people through public prayers. When we pray in public, we must ask for God’s special help in order to keep ourselves focused on Him.

God is not confused by our bad syntax or grammar. He understands every accent, whether it’s a Boston brogue, a Delta drawl, or the clipped lingo of a New York taxi driver. In fact, I understand that New York taxi drivers have caused many people to pray more.

The second point Jesus makes about prayer is in verses 7 and 8. PRAYER IS NOT EVALUATED BY VOLUME OR QUANTITY OF WORDS, BUT BY SIMPLE FAITH AND SINCERITY.

Some of the best prayers are the shortest ones, like this prayer by a layman in Arizona: “Dear Lord, help me be the person my dog thinks I am. Amen.”

That prayer warrior Terry Teykl says that some folks pray long, repetitious prayers because they believe in the lottery principle. That is, the more lottery tickets you buy, the better your chances of winning.

Chapter 18 of the book of First Kings describes a prayer contest between the prophet of God, Elijah, and the prophets of Baal. Those 450 prophets of Baal prayed all day. They slashed themselves with swords, danced about, and shouted loudly. But nothing happened.

Then Elijah prayed. There is no indication that he even raised his voice. His prayer consisted of just two sentences. When he said “amen”, fire rained down from heaven.

God is not hard of hearing. Long prayers are not better than short ones.

Jesus’ third bit of advice about prayer is this: PRAYER SHOULD BEGIN WITH PRAISE. In verse 9 Jesus begins his model prayer with praise: “Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name.”

Before bringing your wish list to God, thank Him for who He is and what He has done and is doing, all the way from Calvary’s cross to downtown Memphis. Did you know that it is almost impossible to praise God and to be depressed at the same time?

Here is Jesus’ fourth pointer about prayer: IT IS FINE TO ASK FOR PERSONAL NEEDS. In the Lord’s Prayer we are taught to pray, “Give us this day our daily bread.” That request represents more than just bread. It refers to our daily needs -air to breathe, clothing, housing, a job, and rest at the end of the day.

Notice a fifth and final thing Jesus teaches about prayer: UNFORGIVEN SIN IS LIKE DIRT IN THE SPIRITUAL CARBURETOR. In order to keep our prayer lines clear, we need to be forgiven by God. And there is only one factor that can prevent God from forgiving all who ask; that is, our unwillingness to forgive someone else.

You remember Corrie Ten Boom, the great Christian writer from Amsterdam. Her entire family was sent to a Nazi concentration camp for harboring Jews. Her sister and father died there. After the war, she began to speak to church groups all over Europe. She often talked about forgiveness. One evening in Munich she looked out over her audience and to her dismay, there on the fourth row was a former SS officer who had caused much pain for Corrie and her sister in the concentration camp. He had been a particularly cruel guard. Corrie gave her talk that evening. Afterward, he approached her, thanked her for her talk, and said, “Fraulein, you mentioned Ravensbruck in your talk. I was a guard there. Since that time I have become a Christian. I know that God has forgiven me for the cruel things I did there. But I would like to hear it from your lips. Fraulein, will you forgive me?” Then he extended his hand. Corrie said that her own hand was frozen at her side. It would not rise to shake his. She said a silent prayer. Still her hand would not move. She was beginning to get embarrassed. So she prayed again. “Dear Jesus, I cannot forgive him. Give me your strength, please.” At that moment a force that was greater than Corrie began to lift her hand to shake his. The moment that their hands touched, a current of power flowed through her body. She said, “I forgive you, brother, with all my heart.” (2) With God’s help, we can forgive even the unforgivable.

Now, with that instruction from our Lord, please turn in your bulletin to the “Seven Tips for Powerful Prayer.” Let’s take them one by one.

(1) Keep a daily appointment with God. Have a spiral notebook and pen handy. Find a quiet place that is reserved for prayer. Turn off your beeper and cell phone. Read at least a few verses of Scripture and then pray.

(2) Secondly, thank God for three specific blessings in your life. Don’t just say, “For all your blessings I am grateful.” Name them. Thank God for the child who hugged you when you came home from work. Thank God for that pear tree that is full of white blossoms.

(3) Thirdly, confess one specific failing or sin. Name it. Ask God to forgive and change you. We have the assurance of God’s word that if we confess our sin, He is faithful and just to forgive our sin and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. (I John 1:9) The only sin that God cannot forgive is that which is not confessed.

(4) Fourthly, Pray for at least three other persons. Write down their names.

(5) Fifthly, share with God one of your own personal needs. Write it down.

(6) Next, ask God to fully activate the Holy Spirit within you for the next 24 hours so that you will have the wisdom and power to be an effective disciple.

The moment that you invited Jesus to be your Savior and Lord, the Holy Spirit took up residence in your heart and mind. But if you are so self-confident that you don’t intentionally seek His power and wisdom, He will not force those precious gifts upon you. Remember our Lord’s promise: “If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him.” (Luke 11:13)

(7) Seventh and finally, pray for Christ Church and the United Methodist Church. We are neither smart enough nor righteous enough to guide the church. But the Lord will if we ask.

Satan cannot cope with the power of prayer. But he is shrewd enough to try to make us forget God’s answers to prayers. Writing down our prayers will help us to remember and to praise God when answers come. When we look back over the difference God has made we will feel like singing these words of “Amazing Grace”: “Through many dangers, toils, and snares, I have already come; ‘tis grace hath brought me safe thus far, and grace will lead me home.”

Let me tell you something exciting that I have been observing at Christ Church over the past six months. There is an additional power present in our worship services. More people are being drawn to Christ. Folks are still talking about the revival that broke out here on the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend, May 28. Hundreds of people came streaming to our altars in the various services to commit more of themselves to Christ than ever before. Now, what’s the secret behind that outpouring of spiritual power? I think I know. During that same six-month period we had expanded our prayer ministry for each service. Now we have a specific group of people praying now for each worship service, during that worship service. God is answering those prayers.

Some years ago the renowned British preacher Leslie Weatherhead told a beautiful story about an elderly Scottish man who was quite ill. The minister came to see the dying man and noticed an empty chair alongside his bed. The older man said, “Let me tell you about this chair. Many years ago I found it difficult to pray, so one day I shared my problems with my pastor. He suggested that I just sit down, put a chair in front of me, and imagine God sitting there in that chair, and then just talk to him as I would a trusted friend. I tried that. It worked for me and I’ve been doing that ever since. That chair beside my bed is for the Lord.”

Some days later, the daughter of the sick man called the minister to tell him that her father had died peacefully. And then she said, “For some reason, his hand was on that empty chair alongside his bed. Isn’t that strange?” The minister said, “Oh no, it’s not strange at all. I understand perfectly. He was just reaching out in trust to his best friend.” (2)

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.


(1) Moore, James, W., If You’re Going the Wrong Way…Turn Around!” (Dimensions for Living: Nashville, 2004), p. 31.
(2) Ten Boom, Corrie, Tramp for the Lord, (Fleming H. Revell: Old Tappan, NJ: 1974), pp. 56-57.
(3) Moore, Op. Cit., pp. 99-100

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