John 13:31-38 · Jesus Predicts Peter’s Denial
Love One Another (or Strike Up The Band)
John 13:31-38
Sermon
by Lee Griess
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A junior high music teacher had just organized a band in her school. The principal was so proud of the music teacher's efforts that without consulting her he decided that the band should give a concert for the entire school. The music teacher wasn't so sure her young musicians were ready to give a concert, so she tried to talk the principal out of holding the concert, to no avail. Just before the concert was ready to begin, as the music teacher stood on the podium, she leaned forward and whispered to her nervous musicians, "If you're not sure of your part, just pretend to play."

And with that, she stepped back, lifted her baton and with a great flourish brought it down. Lo and behold, nothing happened! The band brought forth a resounding silence.

Sometimes we in the church are like that junior high band, unsure of our parts, tentative in our roles, reluctant to trumpet forth the music of faith that God desires of us. And that's because we have trouble deciding what's most important to us.

An incident several summers ago in San Antonio, Texas, illustrates what I'm talking about. It was a hot, 99-degree August day when a ten-month-old baby girl was accidentally locked in a parked car by her aunt. Frantically the mother and the aunt ran around the auto in near hysteria, while a neighbor attempted to unlock the car with a clothes hanger. The infant was bawling at the top of its lungs, beginning to turn purple and foam from the mouth, a combination of anxiety and the intense heat inside the car. It had quickly become a life-and-death situation when Fred Arriola, a tow-truck driver, arrived on the scene. He grabbed a hammer from his truck and smashed the back side window of the car to free the baby. Was he heralded a hero? Not so. According to an article in the San Antonio Tribune, he is quoted as saying, "The lady was mad at me because I broke the window. I just thought, 'What's more important -- a baby or a window?' " Most of the choices we make in life are not between what is trivial and what is important. Rather, most of the choices we make are usually between what is important and what is more important.

This morning's Gospel reading is so timely for us because it shows us what is most important. As we gather in worship today we affirm that the greatest blessing that God has given us is God's love for us -- God's love that forgives us our sins and makes us children of God; God's love that brings us together into a fellowship with one another; God's love that sends us forth to proclaim the death and resurrection of Jesus, our Savior. As God's people we gather together in this congregation to affirm to one another what is most important for us -- God's love. As Jesus says this morning, "A new commandment I give to you: that you should love one another, even as I have loved you, you should love one another. By this all will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."

Note, dear friends, that most of all, first and foremost, that which God desires of us is that we love one another. We may tithe. We may teach. We may sing or serve or sacrifice. We may visit on behalf of our congregation, preach the Gospel, clean the kitchen, sew the quilts, sponsor the youth, mow the grass. And all of these things are of vital importance to a congregation. They are wonderful and important to our life together. But if we do not do them out of love for God, if we do not love one another, we miss what God desires most of us.

Lucy stands with her arms folded and a resolute expression on her face, while Charlie Brown pleads with her. "Lucy," he says, "you must be more loving. The world needs love. Make this world a better place, Lucy, by loving someone else." At that Lucy whirls around angrily and Charlie goes flipping over backwards. "Look, you blockhead," Lucy screams. "The world I love. It's people I can't stand!" And I think that sometimes we can identify with that remark. It's easy to love in the abstract -- the world, people in general. We have no problem with that. It's people around us that drive us crazy. And yet it is precisely those people around us, people nearest to us, with whom we work and go to school, neighbors next door, and the people we sit next to in church, that Jesus calls us to love.

Love in action -- that's what we are talking about this morning. Love which finds expression in kindness, courtesy, tolerance, and acceptance of those around us. Jesus calls us to love one another and to bring that love to light in the way that we treat those around us. It's easy to love people in general, to affirm that love is a good thing and something we all need. But it's another thing altogether to put that love into action, to make love concrete in our attitudes and actions toward others. Someone once said, "We are judged by our actions, not our intentions. We may have a heart of gold, but then, so does a hard-boiled egg." Love one another. As a congregation of God's people, we are called to care for one another, to set aside our preconceived notions of who is and who is not acceptable to God.

For the ground at the foot of the cross is level. We are all sinners. We have all fallen short of the glory that God expects of us and we are all received into God's goodness by God's grace, not by our own doing. It is God's love that unites us and it is God's love that we are called to share with each other. That means that our lives must be characterized by love in action. Jesus says, "As I have loved you, love one another." Take all the psychology texts written and boil them down to their essential truth and you'd have difficulty coming up with a better rule for life than that. "As I have loved you, love one another." Most authorities tell us that love is a learned response. Just as the abused often becomes an abuser, so the one who is loved learns to love. That's what we are talking about this morning: learning to love one another. Our Christian congregation has the purpose to model love for one another and in doing so to help us learn to love. Look at the foundation of this love laid for us. (Here the preacher may wish to include a brief history of the congregation and its pastors, lay leaders and those significant to its life.)

We affirm that God has laid a good foundation for us. And in the center of this foundation is Jesus Christ. We might well say with Saint Paul, "I have resolved to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified." The source of our love and of our blessing is Christ Jesus. So we know that the word that Jesus gives us today, this command to love, is not a legalistic requirement laid upon us by Jesus. Rather it is the natural response of our hearts to the love that we have received from God through Jesus. The love given to us is the unconditional, undeserved, unlimited love of Christ for us -- an example of love in action. Jesus says, "As I have loved you, love one another." The truth is that we love because he first loved us. We enjoy the benefits of this congregation because others experienced God's love and decided to share that love with others. They experienced God's love for them and sacrificed and shared to make God's love the foundation of this congregation.

And now it is our turn. It is our time to experience God's love and share it with others. It is our turn to experience God's love in action in our lives and to sacrifice to make it real for others. We live in a world that is increasingly hostile to the Christian faith, a world that grows more and more self-centered every day, a world that has lost the meaning of the word "sacrifice," that does not understand the commitment of faith. This is the world in which we are called to share God's love, but we also admit that we are part of this world. We are among those who find it difficult to love others. We are among those whose time is limited and who find it difficult to make time for the church. We are among those who often fail to share God's love with others, whose offerings for the church are often far from "sacrificial."

As we gather today and hear Jesus' word to us, our prayer is that God would strengthen us for service to God and help us to love one another. We pray that God would use the example of Jesus' love in action to teach us how to love as well, to show us how to give of ourselves for others, and to lift our vision to heaven above and set us afire with faith. Love for one another is the primary witness of the church in the world today. Jesus made that clear when he said, "By this shall all know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

A number of years ago Henry Drummond wrote a classic sermon titled "The Greatest Thing in the World." He concluded his sermon by suggesting that if you put a piece of iron in the presence of an electrified field, that piece of iron itself will become electrified. And in the presence of that electrical field, it is changed into a magnet. As long as it remains in contact with that field of power, it will continue to attract other pieces to itself. We are like that piece of iron. In the presence of Christ, we experience his love and take on his likeness. We are changed, electrified by the Holy Spirit, to attract others to the same love of God that we experience. Our Christian discipleship, living as faithful members of the church, is not just a matter of willpower. It is not just deciding that we will do it, that we will love others. It just doesn't happen that way. It happens far more simply than that. Sharing God's love, living God's love, loving one another happen when we are connected to God's love, when we allow God's love to surround us, to shape and mold our lives in Jesus' image. In a world all too often filled with people concerned about themselves first, characterized with an impersonal "what's in it for me" attitude, we are called to witness to something more important -- love that gives of itself for others; love that cares about others; love that makes our lives meaningful and significant in giving to others. So take up your instruments and play! Let the band of faithful strike up a tune, for the musical score, the notes, are laid out before us. Jesus says, "As I have loved you, love one another." Amen.

CSS Publishing Company, Taking The Risk Out Of Dying, by Lee Griess