Matthew 1:18-25 · The Birth of Jesus Christ
Joseph – The Promise Believed
Matthew 1:18-25; 2:13-23
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by James Merritt
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Today we are going to begin a three week series of messages built around The Promise. What is The Promise? Before I tell you what it is, let me just say that you cannot understand the Old Testament apart from The Promise. You cannot understand the New Testament apart from The Promise. You cannot understand Christmas apart from The Promise. You can't understand your purpose in life apart from The Promise.

The Promise goes all the way back to the Garden of Eden. Adam and Eve had royally blown it. God had put them in a perfect environment. It was never too hot, never too cold - it was just right. No pollution, no traffic, no sickness, no taxes, no stress, no hassle. The Garden of Eden made Disney World look like a dump.

God did point out one tree in the Garden. It was the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. He said to Adam and Eve, "You can have anything else you want in this garden, but don't eat the fruit of that tree." Just as soon as they thought God wasn't looking (let me give you a tip: God is always looking) Eve listened to a snake in the grass, who was Satan in disguise, who told her to pay no attention to God and eat the fruit (which she did) and that one act has put us in the mess we are in today.

For a moment, Satan was deliriously happy. He thought he had messed up everything. He had ruined a perfect world. He had damaged a perfect marriage. He had broken the fellowship that Adam and Eve had with God. Satan would have won except God made The Promise which we read in Genesis 3:15. "And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed and her seed; he shall bruise you on the head, and you shall bruise him on the heel." (Genesis 3:15, NASB)

From the moment that God made that promise, He had one item on His to do list. He had one priority on His agenda and that was to keep The Promise to send that one into the world that would take care of Satan, take care of sin, take care of sorrow and take care of suffering.

That is where Joseph, Mary and Jesus come in. As you are going to see, over the next three weeks, in Joseph we see The Promise believed. In Mary, we see The Promise conceived. In Jesus, we see The Promise received.

Today, we are going to look at Joseph. It might surprise you to learn that we are going to look at Joseph, because nobody else did. If you are ever asked to be in a Christmas play and you are asked to play the part of Joseph - don't take that as a compliment. No one will ever win an Oscar for Best Actor playing Joseph. In fact, no one will never win an Oscar for Best Supporting Actor for playing Joseph. Someone may win an Oscar for Best Non-Supporting Actor, because if you play Joseph, you won't be doing anything.

If you go to any Christmas play and watch Joseph, all he does is stand by Mary. He never talks. He never says any words. He has no lines. In fact, there are no recorded words of Joseph in all the Bible.

Every year, during the Christmas season, we hear a lot about many characters in the Christmas story. We hear about Mary. We hear about the shepherds. We hear about the wise men (who by the way didn't even show up until a couple of years later - go figure!) Even the sheep, the donkeys and the turtledoves get mentioned, but Joseph is almost like a fifth-wheel. He shows up in the Christmas program, but he doesn't bring any gifts. He doesn't sing any songs. He doesn't make any speeches. He just stands there in his sandals and his robe minding his own business.

Until one day, God told Joseph he was going to be a part of seeing The Promise come true. God is about to bring to pass all the prophecies concerning the Messiah and He is going to use Joseph to be a part of it which is perhaps why someone has called Joseph, the unsung hero of the Bible.

As you are going to see, even though Joseph doesn't say anything, there's a lot of things said about Joseph. From this great, great man, we can learn some valuable lessons that will help us when we face difficult times. From Joseph, we learn this...

I. Trust God's Promise In The Middle Of Doubt

We see immediately that Joseph's life was turned upside-down the first time he is ever mentioned. "Now the birth of Jesus Christ was as follows: when His mother Mary had been betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit." (Matthew 1:18, NASB)

At first sight, there seems to be some confusion, because verse eighteen tells us that he was, "betrothed" to Mary, then verse nineteen tells us that he was thinking about "divorcing her" and then in verse twenty she is called "his wife". In the western way of thinking that is very confusing, if not contradictory, but in Jewish custom it was very natural.

We think of marriage as an event, but a Jewish marriage was a process. In fact, there was a three-step process. First of all, there was the engagement stage.

a. Engagement

This was the contractual stage. In Bible days, parents would usually choose who their children would marry and the couple didn't have anything to do with it. When both sets of parents agreed, they entered into this engagement stage. How would you like it if your parents picked out the person that you married? I am sure there are some of you out there saying to yourself right now, "Well, they probably could have done a better job than I did."

I heard about a little girl who was four years old and someone said to her, "Who are you going to marry when you grow up?" She said, "Donny." They said, "How do you know you are going to marry Donny?" She said, "I have to." They said, "Why do you have to?" She said, "Because all the other boys live across the street and mother won't let me cross the street!" In this first stage of marriage called the engagement stage, you are contractually bound to the other person.

The second stage that we read about here in verse eighteen was called the betrothal stage.

b. Betrothal

This would be roughly equivalent to our engagement. It lasted usually about one year and it was a binding contract that could only be dissolved by divorce.

Then would come the marriage itself (which believe it or not) usually lasted for about a week before the marriage was consummated.

c. Marriage

Even though the couple was bound together morally and legally, they could not have sexual relations until they were actually married. That is why verse eighteen is clear in saying, "Before they came together" -that is as man and wife.

Now Joseph has a real problem on his hands. He has a young teenager who is pregnant, but it is not his child, so what was he to do? According to the law, if a young lady was found to be unfaithful before her marriage took place, one of three things could happen. She could be stoned to death, or the husband-to-be could make a public disgrace of her and a public spectacle of her and publicly announce her unfaithfulness, or he could put her away privately. In other words, he could take her before a couple of legal officials, who had the authority to break this contract and privately go his own way.

At this point Joseph was full of doubt. He doubted Mary and who wouldn't have? He doubted her character, her purity and her virginity. He doubted God, because even though Mary had by now told him that God was the father of the child, he didn't believe God could do this. Then he doubted himself, because he did not know what to do. Should he break off the engagement?

Several years ago a young lady wrote Dear Abby and she said,
"Dear Abby,
I've been going with this man for some time now. Just before our wedding, I discovered that he has a wooden leg. Do you think I should break it off?"

Joseph was wondering - should he break off this engagement? That is exactly what he decided to do, because he was a righteous man. "And Joseph her husband, being a righteous man and not wanting to disgrace her, planned to send her away secretly." (Matthew 1:19, NASB)

If your fiancée came to you one day and said, "Honey, I'm pregnant and by the way it is God's fault," would you believe her? Joseph didn't and he decided to put her away. Before he did, he did something we should always do when we are in the middle of a situation where we don't know what to do. He took his problem before the Lord and thought it through. Verse twenty says, "When he had considered this". That is when he began to really think through the situation and pray through the situation, then God acted, because verses twenty and twenty-one go on to say," "But when he had considered this, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, 'Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for the Child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit.' She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus, for He will save His people from their sins." (Matthew 1:20-21, NASB)

It was not uncommon in Bible days for God to communicate with dreams, but He doesn't have to do that today, because today we have all the truth we need from Him in His Word.

Matthew then gives the explanation of why God was doing this, this way. "Now all this took place to fulfill what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet." (Matthew 1:22, NASB)

Do you see that word, "fulfill"? That is the key word in the Gospel of Matthew. He uses that word over 15 different times in his gospel to show that Jesus is all about fulfilling prophecy which is nothing more than keeping a promise. Every prophecy of God is also a promise that that prophecy will come true.

Now Joseph had to make the big decision. Was he going to trust God's promise or not? Don't think it was easy for Joseph to still go along with what God wanted. According to history there were 3 theories concerning Mary's pregnancy. Some said the baby was Joseph's and that actually he was a fornicator. Some said the baby belonged to Mary's secret lover (that is she had an affair) and others said that Mary had been raped by a Roman soldier. Any of these situations would have brought great shame to Mary and Joseph. It would have caused dirty looks and whispers behind their back.

Though we don't read about it, we know that Joseph had to endure the hostile stares and the dirty criticism of people all of his life. His kids had to put up with giggling, gossiping, and finger pointing behind his back. We read in verses 24 and 25 these words. "And Joseph awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took Mary as his wife, but kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus." (Matthew 1:24-25, NASB)

Do you know why Joseph both married Mary and kept her a virgin until after Jesus was born? It wasn't just because he loved Mary, but he trusted God's promise. If you are in the middle of a situation where you are doubting whether or not you can make it, or you are doubting whether or not you can see it through, or you are doubting whether or not you can survive it, I want you to learn this lesson from Joseph. We are going to repeat it several times.

For every problem there is a provision. The question you have to decide is the same one that Joseph did - will you trust God's promise or not?

Then we learn that God wasn't finished with teaching Joseph trust yet and He wasn't finished with His promises for Joseph yet. Now we learn that we must...

II. Trust God's Promise In The Middle of Danger

"Now when they had gone, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, 'Get up! Take the Child and His mother and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you; for Herod is going to search for the Child to destroy Him.' So Joseph got up and took the Child and His mother while it was still night, and left for Egypt. He remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet: 'OUT OF EGYPT I CALLED MY SON.'" (Matthew 2:13-15, NASB)

Does it surprise you that an angel of God who was more powerful than Herod and all of his armies would say to Joseph to flee? It is from the Greek word for "flee" that we get our English word, "fugitive" which refers to someone who is escaping from something or someone. What the angel literally said to Joseph was this, "Go now - Go quickly - Don't look back - Don't stop until you are in Egypt."

Now Joseph is being asked to take a mother and a little baby 75 miles (which was the distance from Bethlehem to Egypt) and then another 100 miles into Egypt to get to a place of safety in that country. Traveling with a baby made the trip not only more slow, but also more dangerous.

It seems like God is doing this the hard way. Think about it. God could have protected His Son in many other ways and in many other places (even in Bethlehem or Jerusalem) right under Herod's very nose. He could have blinded Herod's soldiers where they couldn't have found His Son. He could have destroyed them with this same angel that told Joseph to flee. He could have miraculously just hidden the family, but instead God chose to protect Joseph and his family by the very ordinary and unmiraculous method of fleeing to a foreign country.

Even then had God wanted to, He could have supernaturally transported the family to Egypt instead of putting them through a long, difficult, hard, dangerous journey that took days, if not weeks. Joseph even took the common precaution of traveling by night, so he could travel under the cover of darkness.

You are going to see the reason for all of this in just a moment, but there is a lesson to learn here. God's way is not always the softest way. God's way is not always the safest way, but God's way is always the surest way to His blessing and His protection.

This is something we parents have difficulty with when it comes to surrendering our children to the Lord. I've had more than one parent come to me out of concern, because their kids told them they believed they were being called to be missionaries. I've had parents say to me, "Pastor, pray for anything except that!" Our natural tendency is to protect our kids and to do everything we can to keep them out of any dangerous place.

We need to learn a lesson from Joseph today. It is true for your kids and it is true for you. God's Will may sometimes lead you to a dangerous place. But listen to this, the most dangerous place is anywhere outside the will of God, because inside the will of God you are always under God's protection.

The reason why Joseph had to go to Egypt, even though it was a dangerous journey and he was fleeing from danger, is for this simple reason.

"This was to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet: 'OUT OF EGYPT I CALLED MY SON.'" (Matthew 2:15, NASB)

Once again we learn God keeps His promise. God had made a promise that out of Egypt His Son - The Messiah of the Jewish race and The Savior of the world would come. Once more we learn, For every problem there is a provision. God provided a way out of Israel. He provided a place to stay in Egypt and He provided for their needs while they were there. I want to say it again. No matter how bleak your situation may look, with your job, with your marriage, with your health, or with your finances, if you are surrendered to God's Will for your life and you are living in complete obedience to Him, you can trust God's promise. There is one final lesson we can learn from this great man called Joseph.

III. Trust God's Promise in the Middle Of Difficulty

"But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, and said, 'Get up, take the Child and His mother, and go into the land of Israel; for those who sought the Child's life are dead.' So Joseph got up, took the Child and His mother, and came into the land of Israel. But when he heard that Archelaus was reigning over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go there. Then after being warned by God in a dream, he left for the regions of Galilee, and came and lived in a city called Nazareth." (Matthew 2:19-23, NASB)

The time for Jesus to come home had arrived. Herod had died and once again for the third time in a dream an angel tells Joseph to bring the child back to Israel. That seems simple enough, but where Joseph had trusted God in the middle of doubt and then in the middle of danger, now he has to trust God in the middle of difficulty.

There would have been two natural cities for Joseph to have taken Jesus. One would have been Jerusalem. After all it was Israel's largest, most advanced city. It was the City of David. It was the city of royalty. It was the center of the spiritual life of the Nation of Israel. It was where the temple was located, but God did not allow Joseph to go to Jerusalem.

His second choice would have been Bethlehem. After all that is where Jesus was born. It is where David was from and since Jesus was a direct descendant of David and Israel's future king, it would have been natural for God to have sent Joseph to Bethlehem, but not so. Instead, He supernaturally guides and in fact, forces Joseph to go to Nazareth. Nazareth was about 55 miles north of Jerusalem and it was inhabited largely by people who were noted for their crude and violent ways. In fact, the term "Nazarene" had long been a term of condescension and was used to describe for lack of a better term a "Jewish redneck". That is why Nathaniel once asked Philip this question, "Can any good thing come out of Nazareth?" (John 1:46)

Nazareth was a nothing city. It was a small town on a hillside, hemmed in by 15 hills in a remote, secluded corner of Galilee. Today we would call it "Podunk" or "Possum Creek." All of His life instead of being called, "Jesus of Jerusalem" or "Jesus of Bethlehem", He would be known as, "Jesus, the Nazarene." In other words, just a red-neck from a hick town.

A legitimate question is raised. If that is true, hadn't Jesus gone through enough indignity being born in a stable with a bunch of stinking animals and then having to live the first couple of years of His life in seclusion from a human king that God could have easily taken care of? Why did He have to live in Nazareth? The reason once again is - The Promise. "This was to fulfill what was spoken through the prophets: "He shall be called a Nazarene." (Matthew 2:23, NASB)

I want you to listen very carefully to how Joseph can impact your life today. You see we learn from Joseph that even the smallest promises of God are so important to God that He will move heaven and earth and even kings like pieces of a chess set to make sure He keeps His promise.

That is why this statement is such a life-lifting statement. For every problem there is a provision. When Jesus Christ was born that first Christmas nobody expected it. It was totally unplanned. In fact, it messed up a lot of plans. It messed up King Herod's plan, because he wanted to be the King of the Jews and yet the Messiah was coming. It messed up the innkeeper's plan, because he was out of space and he had to find a place for this baby to be born. Most of all, it messed up Mary and Joseph's plan, because Mary and Joseph planned on having their own children and making their own babies.

God wanted Joseph and Mary to be married and that was a part of His plan. Just as things were rocking along smoothly, God said, "I'm going to change your plans for Mine. Mary, you are going to get pregnant before your wedding day. Joseph you are not going to be the natural father. It is going to be a virgin birth and the baby is going to be God Himself."

As you go through life, you are going to find that things are not always going to go according to your plans. God has a way of messing up our plans as well. Do you see now that Joseph was glad God messed up his plans? God's plan for Joseph was a lot bigger than Joseph's plan for Joseph, because Joseph became the only man, who the Son of God called, "Dad". Joseph had that privilege all his life, because he believed God's promise. There are times when God's Will is not the easiest thing to do. There are times when God's Will is not the most convenient thing to do, but we learn from Joseph if we will trust God's promise, we will see that God's Will is always the right thing to do and the best thing to do. The question is, Would you be willing for all of your life to be a Joseph as well?

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