Mark 5:21-43 · A Dead Girl and A Sick Woman
Jarius' Daughter
Mark 5:21-43
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by Brett Blair
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Mark makes it clear that Jairus was no ordinary individual. Indeed, he was a very important person. He was one of the rulers of a local synagogue, probably Capernaum. He was charged with correct administration and the due conduct of worship. His decision to go to Jesus could not have been an easy one. This scene was early in Jesus’ ministry, but already the opposition is beginning to crystallize against the Nazarene.

Jairus thus had many reasons not to go to Jesus, but he had one overriding reason to go to him--his daughter. We don’t know what was wrong with her. They did not know what was wrong with her. But it was obvious that her condition was deteriorating rapidly. We are told that the girl was twelve years old. There is perhaps a specific reason for mentioning that. It was at age twelve that a Palestinian girl took a husband in marriage. So Mark is trying to tell us that she was just about to embark upon the threshold of her life; she had everything in front of her.

So Jairus seeks out this itinerant miracle worker whom everyone has been talking about. He goes in desperation and he goes in faith. Now look what happens. He implores Jesus to come to his house and heal his daughter. So moved is Jesus, that he changes his direction and goes with Jairus to his house. Do you believe that prayer can change the direction of God? Or do you believe that the stars have fated all of the events of life?

As I have reflected on this story during the week, it seems to me that there are three salient verses.

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The first verse is: Seeing Jesus he fell down at his feet and he pleaded earnestly with him.

In a certain church there was a family in the church that had two children. Both of the children were healthy and there was no history of health problems. One day the boy, about seven, contracted meningitis. He was rushed to the children’s hospital and his condition quickly deteriorated. The Father, who under any other circumstance was a pillar of strength, became completely unraveled as he saw his boy burning up with fever. In the hospital hall way the parents both had tears in their eyes as they were obviously throbbing with anxiousness. They were prepared to spend any amount of money that they had, go anywhere that they needed to go, in their efforts to get their child well. The story, fortunately, had a happy ending, but their situation underscores for me the extreme emotions that parents go through for their children.

Let me ask you a question. If it had been your twelve-year-old child who had been sick to the point of death, is there anything that you would not have been willing to do. Would you have sold your house? Would you have gotten a second job if need be? You see, love is the greatest motivator in the world.

According to a 1968 poll of college students, 83% listed as their number one priority: developing a meaningful life philosophy. A recent poll of college students determined that 75% of all students listed as their number one goal: to make money. If that is the case, then I can tell you that there are going to be a lot of students graduating who are headed for a midlife crisis. Why? Because they either are not going to make the money that they thought that they should and then they will see themselves as a failure, or they are going to make the money that they thought that they would and they are going to discover that it has given them neither spiritual security nor happiness.

There are some things in life that are simply irreducibles. Just look at Jairus. He is wealthy, has power, a leader of the community. He’s got it all. And he is willing to give it all up for his baby. Nothing will jerk you into a proper perspective faster than a family crisis. All of those problems that you thought that you had can quickly pale in significance. Think you don’t have enough money? Let one of your children’s lives be threatened by some illness and you will forget your financial portfolio. Think that your marriage doesn’t have the pizzazz it once did? Then a spouse has a medical scare and you’ve never loved someone more.

I am absolutely convinced, that if Jairus himself had been ill, he never would have gone to Jesus. His pride would have kept him away. He would literally have rather died than go hat in hand to Jesus. Yet, it is not he, it is his daughter. Luke adds for us: His only daughter. And the men in the congregation this morning who have daughters will confirm what I am about to say and it in no way diminishes the importance of sons, but daughters are special. Daughters are special.

I think the story of Jairus and his daughter teaches a great lesson. We all, from the CEO to the PTA member, we all need one another. Your can be the tallest man in your community but one day you will need help. Though I have never seen the Sequoia trees of California, known as Redwoods, I am told they are spectacular. Towering as much as 300 feet above the ground. Strangely, these towering trees have unusually shallow root systems that spider out just under the surface of the ground to catch as much of the surface moisture they can. And this is their vulnerability. Storms with heavy winds would almost always bring these giants crashing to the ground but this rarely happens because they grow in clusters and their intertwining roots provide support for one another against the storms.

When we are together, either as a family or a church, we provide this same support. Pain and suffering come to all of us. But, just like those giant Sequoia trees, we can be supported in those difficult times by the touch of one another's lives. The knowledge that we have someone; that we are not alone; that there is someone who is willing to touch us, hold us, keeps us from being destroyed.

We are told that Jairus fell at the feet of Jesus. He is begging He is absolutely desperate. So what if everybody sees him and he becomes the butt of jokes in every wayside tavern. So what if he is socially ostracized. He needs help for his daughter. Love is the greatest motivator in the world.

II

The second salient verse in the story, it seems to me, is the verse that reads: The child is not dead but asleep. Tragedy of tragedies. By the time Jesus arrives at the house he hears the sounds of weeping and the shrill tones of the flutes--signs that he has arrived too late. Friends of Jairus come to him and advise: “Why bother the teacher further?”

Jesus, however, counsels the crowd: “The child is not dead but only sleeps.” Now, there are two ways that we can interpret this. First, that this is a medical diagnosis. He is saying that the child is in a coma. The other interpretation is that Jesus is making a theological statement about death.

Several years ago a continuing education event was held at Martin College in Pulaski, Tennessee For Methodist ministers. They have one of the oldest cemeteries in the state in Pulaski, not Far From (Dates from about 1810-1850). They have made a park of it placed all of the tombstones where they can be easily read. It is heart wrenching to see that one out of three graves are those of children, a stark reminder of the incredible infant mortality rate in those rugged days. But I noticed something else. On almost every tombstone of a child, there is chiseled on the bottom of the stone Jesus’ words: “The child is not dead but asleep.” It was then that I realized how many tens of thousands of parents throughout the last 2,000 years have taken so much comfort from these words. These are words of hope.

But Jesus words were not seen as hope on the occasion in question. Indeed, Mark tells us that the crowd scoffed. Mark says simply: “They laughed at him.” There are those who scoff still today. They see religion as pie in the sky, starry eyed lies. But Jesus looks at Jairus and says: Do not fear, only believe. Jesus is the only one who dares to look death straight in the face and say: Do not fear, only believe. Perhaps it was these words that proved the inspiration of Civillia Martin when she wrote her immortal hymn: “Be not dismayed what ere befall, God will take care of you.”

It makes an incalculable difference to hold onto faith, however rudimentary our faith may be, to place our trust in God’s strange love for us. What we have is not merely wishful dreams but audacious prophecies. We believe that one day we will be transformed into Christ’s divine likeness, who is the resurrection and the life.

III

This brings us to the third salient verse in the story. The words of Jesus: Little girl, I say to you, get up! We are told that the child got up and immediately started to play. I can’t help but smile at that part of the story, because any of our children would have responded in the same way. He would be bored stiff with what was going on in the house and he would go outside to shoot basketball. She would quickly leave the adults and run out to talk with her friends. As for the crowd, however, Mark tells us simply: “And they were filled with amazement.”

The words of Jesus to that child are the same words of Jesus to the church today. “I say to you, get up!” All you who have been saved from the death of sin, I say to you arise.

Why is it that our church is (submit a program or contribution of your local church to the community or world or some effort on you part or another member)? Why is it that I started (another)? It is because I have been resurrected by Christ. Why is it that we are working so diligently for (another). It is because Christ has resurrected me. Why is it that I am pushing for (another)? It is because I have been resurrected by Christ.

That one who commands us out of our lethargy and indifference says to us: I say to you, get up! Stop acting as though you are still dead. I say to you arise.

Rise up O men of God; the church for you doth wait.
Her strength unequal to the task; rise up and make her great.

Amen.

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