Mark 5:21-43 · A Dead Girl and A Sick Woman
Is the Doctor in Today?
Mark 5:21-43
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by King Duncan
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Our lesson for today is about two people who came to Jesus for help with a medical problem. Nothing surprising about that. Even today, we are dependent on doctors for help with our medical problems. Maybe that’s why it’s so much fun to tell jokes at the expense of the medical profession.

Says one comedian: “My doctor told me he’d have me on my feet within two weeks. He was right. I had to sell my car to pay his bill.”

“My left arm hurt me,” said a senior citizen, “and so did my right foot, my neck and my back. Then I went to the doctor and he tapped my knee with a little hammer.”

“So how are you now?” asked a friend.

“Now my knee hurts too!” he exclaimed.

One doctor noticed his patient was quite concerned about the impending surgery. In an attempt to calm him, the doctor began to share his own problems--to show his patient he was not alone.

“I’m under a lot of stress, too,” the doctor said. “I’m trying to figure out how I will pay for my daughter’s wedding and my son’s college at the same time.”

The patient became rather still and quiet. He then broke the silence by asking, “Am I paying for the wedding or the college?” (1)

Maybe these jokes fall under the category of “we laugh to keep from crying.” One statistic that may make us cry is this one: The average American spends 49 hours in a lifetime seeing doctors. But even worse, he spends 64 hours WAITING to see doctors.

The first person in our lesson today to come to Jesus for medical help is a man named Jairus. Jairus was a leader in the local synagogue. This would make him a much respected leader in the community. Jairus’ twelve-year-old daughter has fallen ill and is at the point of death. According to Luke 8:42 she is his only daughter, and Jairus is quite desperate.

Mark tells us that when Jairus sees Jesus, he falls at his feet and pleads earnestly with him, “My little daughter is dying. Please come and put your hands on her so that she will be healed and live.”

This is a remarkable scene. A distinguished synagogue leader falls at the feet of an itinerant rabbi and begs him to come help his little girl. Anyone who has ever had a child who is seriously ill will understand. You will go anywhere, spend any amount of money, energy or prestige to make certain your child is healed.

Jairus’ confidence in Jesus is quite remarkable. As far as we know, they’ve had no other contact. How often do some of us lose confidence in Jesus when our back is against the wall? We forget our previous associations and encounters with him; of all he has done for us in the past. Scripture reminds us, however, that he can do exceedingly, abundantly, above all we can ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20). We just have to come to him like Jairus: humble and believing.

At this point in our story, while Jesus is on his way to Jairus’ house, there is a significant detour. A second person in need of medical help is introduced. It is a poor woman who has been bleeding for twelve years. Perhaps she has a chronic menstrual disorder or a uterine hemorrhage. All Mark tells us is this woman has “suffered a great deal under the care of many doctors and had spent all she had, yet instead of getting better she grew worse.”

That happens even today, doesn’t it? Modern medicine is wonderful, but not every problem is properly diagnosed. Not every disease can yet be healed.

This woman’s condition would have been uncomfortable and even debilitating under the best of circumstances, but in her community her condition made her ritually unclean and thus not fit for social settings. Such a woman would have been ostracized . . . by everybody, but Jesus.

That’s both unsettling and encouraging. It’s unsettling that the community would reject her because of a medical condition, but it’s encouraging to know that Jesus would never reject her. You may consider yourself--because of something you have done-- unclean, sinful, unfit for social settings or even church, but Jesus doesn’t see you that way at all. By his grace, he sees you beautiful and pure.

This woman with this distressful condition presses through the crowd until she is able to touch the hem of Jesus’ garment, because she thinks, “If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.”

What magnificent faith! Mark tells us that immediately after touching his cloak she gets her wish--her bleeding stops and she feels in her body that she has been freed from her suffering.

At this point, something interesting happens. Mark says Jesus realizes that power has gone out from him. He turns around as the crowd presses against him and asks, “Who touched my clothes?”

“You see the people crowding against you,” his disciples reply, “and yet you ask, ‘Who touched me?’”

But Jesus keeps looking around to see who had touched his robe. Then the woman who had come to him with this debilitating disease, comes and falls at his feet and, trembling with fear, tells him the whole story. Jesus says to her, “Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.”

Notice Jesus’ response to this situation: society calls this woman unclean and unworthy, but Jesus calls her “daughter.” “Daughter, your faith has healed you,” he says, “Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.”

The woman is obviously thrilled. She has been healed. Can you imagine, though, how Jairus feels while this is going on? His daughter is dying and Jesus is stopping to help this poor woman. Jairus is sympathetic, but can’t you imagine his fear that his daughter will die before Jesus’ gets to his house?

Jairus’ fears are confirmed. Some people come from his house. “Your daughter is dead,” they say. “Why bother the teacher anymore?”

That’s a normal reaction, isn’t it? You’re hoping against hope for a miracle and a friend shrugs and says, “Accept it, there’s no hope. The situation is futile. Don’t bother Jesus any more.”

Have you ever gotten that kind of well-meaning advice? Friends, it’s not over until God says it’s over. II Corinthians 4:8-9 reminds us that, “we are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” It may appear that it’s over for us, but God has the final word.

 It is never too late for God to come through and you are never a bother. Keep trusting. Keep calling upon Him. Delay is not denial.

Overhearing what these people are saying to Jairus, Jesus tells him, “Don’t be afraid; just believe.” It’s not easy, but we suspect Jairus was reassured by Jesus’ words.

When Jesus gets to Jairus’ house, the elaborate ritual of Jewish mourning has already begun. People are crying and wailing loudly. Jesus says to them, “Why all this commotion and wailing? The child is not dead but asleep.”

They laugh at him. This is surely a case of “whoever laughs last, laughs best.”

After Jesus puts them all out of the house, he takes the child’s father and mother and the three disciples who are with him, and goes into the child’s room. He takes her by the hand and says to her, “Talitha koum!” which means “Little girl, I say to you, get up!”

Immediately the girl stands up and begins to walk around. At this, her parents and even the three disciples are “completely astonished” (a literal translation from the Greek says they were “out of their minds with great amazement.”)

Has God ever done anything in your life that simply blew your mind? Many of us have seen such things. People healed. Lives changed. Prodigals restored. This story ends with Jesus giving those present strict orders not to let anyone know about this act of healing, an order they probably disobeyed, and telling them to give the girl something to eat.

Two powerful stories about two very different kinds of people. One a leader of the synagogue. A man, probably quite well off, well respected in the community, well educated, well dressed, used to getting what he wants. He was there out of love for his daughter.

The other, a woman, no money--she had spent it all on doctors--a social outcast because of her condition, probably not well-educated, shabbily dressed--she doesn’t even try to address Jesus personally, but is content to touch the hem of his garment.

Could any two people differ more? Only two things unite them.

First of all, they are united by their need. Jairus fears for the life of his daughter; the woman has been hemorrhaging for twelve years and desperately wants to be healed. They are united by their need.

They are also united by their faith in Jesus. They came believing. Their attitude was humility and reverence.

What is it that we can take away from these two stories?

First, we need to see that God is no respecter of persons. It makes no difference whether you are a top-dog or an underdog, you’re important to Jesus. Whatever it is that you are dealing with or going through in life-- sickness, loneliness, depression, grief, conflict--let Jesus handle it. Come to Jesus in humility and with faith and tell him all about your troubles.

Like Jairus, your faith might be tested because it seems like he’s somehow delayed. But delay is not denial. Delay is not rejection. God is no respecter of persons. All are important to Jesus.

Reynolds Price, the writer and professor of English at Duke, has recently written a book on the gospels. When asked in a television interview what attracted him to Jesus, he said, “The striking thing to me about Jesus is that he showed compassion to all he met. He seemed to be available for all who needed him. He turned no one away.” (2)

Writer Max Lucado puts it this way, “So, people came to him. My, how they came to him . . . There is not a hint of one person who was afraid to draw near him. There were those who moved him. There were those who were envious of him. There were those who misunderstood him. There were those who revered him. But there was not one person who considered him too holy, too divine, or too celestial to touch. There was not one person who was reluctant to approach him for fear of being rejected . . .” (3) Christ accepts everyone, saint or sinner, who comes to him in faith.

Here is the second thing we need to take away with us: In almost every contest in life, faith makes a difference. Whether it is kneeling beside the bedside of a child with a serious illness, whether it is facing a serious illness of your own, whether it is a problem in the workplace, or a rejection by someone you care about deeply--whatever you may face in life, faith makes a difference.

Physical healing may come or not, faith will make a difference in how you handle it. Faith will determine your success in the workplace and even in your relationships. There may be disappointments and setbacks in any important endeavor, but you will not be defeated until you let go of your faith. As long as there is God, there is hope.

In a book titled God’s Little Devotional Book there is a story that I find very inspiring.  It is about a woman named Mary Manachi. Shortly after Manachi gave birth to her second child, Marylou, Marylou was diagnosed with Cooley’s anemia. This is a terrible disease which requires a blood transfusion every two weeks and is usually fatal before the age of twenty.

Assured by physicians that the genetic disorder was very rare, Manachi and her husband had another baby, Rosemarie. At six months, she was also diagnosed with this disorder, and later, their son, George, was also born with Cooley’s anemia. Sadness gripped Mary Manachi and her husband.

One day Manachi walked into Rosemarie’s room and found Rosemarie making a beautiful pin to sell at a craft show. “I’m going to earn all I can toward college,” Rosemarie said. Didn’t she know she would probably not live to go to college?

Then a teacher phoned to report what Rosemarie had written in school as the thing she was most thankful for.  Rosemarie had written, “Good health!” Can you imagine that? She has a fatal disease, but she is giving God thanks for her good health.

Mary Manachi took another look at her three children and found them all embracing life. George was talking about becoming a geologist. Marylou was earning a place on the honor roll and practicing her piano diligently.

Manachi finally concluded, “If they love life so much . . . am I to love life less?” (4)

Let me say it again. Your life may be hard, but you are not defeated until you give up. God is no respecter of persons. If you have a need, God cares. In any important endeavor in life, faith makes a difference. As long as there is God, there is hope.


1. The Rotarian.

2. http://digilib.bu.edu/dspace/bitstream/2144/501/1/Faith%20at%20Work.doc.

3. God Came Near (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1986), pp. 51-53.

4. (Tulsa: Honor Books, Inc., 1973), p. 243.

Dynamic Preaching, Dynamic Preaching Sermons Second Quarter 2015, by King Duncan