James 5:7-12 · Patience in Suffering
Inside Out
James 5:7-10
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by Charley Reeb
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Harvard University once revoked their acceptance of ten incoming students because of inappropriate content they had posted on Facebook. A description of the Harvard College Class official Facebook group states, “Harvard College reserves the right to withdraw an offer of admission ... if an admitted student engages in behavior that brings into question his or her honesty, maturity, or moral character.”

A recent study showed that over 40% of colleges and universities look at the Facebook pages and other social media accounts of prospective students.

The lesson: You really can’t hide who you are. Eventually, who you are will be revealed, so be vigilant about protecting your character. I believe this is what the writer of James had in mind when he wrote:

Be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s  coming  is near. Don’t grumble against one another, brothers and sisters, or you will be Judged. The judge is standing at the door! (James 5:8-9 NIV).

A pastor once invited a man in the congregation to join him up on the platform during his sermon. He handed the man a glass of water filled to the top. As the pastor continued to preach, he bumped the man’s arm and water spilled onto the pastor. The pastor turned to the man and asked, “Why did you spill water on me?” The man replied, “Because you bumped into me.” The pastor said, “I know I bumped you, but why did you spill water on me?” The man replied, “Uh, I spilled water on you because you bumped my arm.” “Let me put it this way: Why did you spill water on me? Why didn’t you spill coffee, lemonade or tomato juice?” The man concluded, “Because that’s what was in the glass — just water.”

The pastor then turned to his congregation and said that every day we fill ourselves with good character choices and bad character choices. Inevitably, life is going to bump us around and provoke what’s inside of us to spill out. What will spill out of you? Will it be fear or confidence; generosity or greed? Will it be humility or pride? What do you want to reveal to others (Ben Decker and Kelly Decker, Communicate to Influence: How to Inspire Your Audience to Action (New York: McGraw Hill, 2015), ch. 5, Kindle)?

That pastor was right. Life has a way of revealing what’s on the inside of us. Sooner or later in life, something will bump you around and reveal what you are made of. So, the next time you hit a bump in the road, what will spill out of you?

The Bible is clear about what should spill out of us. It is called the fruit of the Spirit:

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23 NIV).

As followers of Christ, these are the qualities or virtues that should spill out of us. Of course, if we make bad choices or dwell on bad thoughts, something else might spill out.

Did you watch Sesame Street growing up? If so, you know about Oscar the Grouch. He has a terrible attitude and insults everyone. As they say, “Garbage in, garbage out.”

It’s interesting how Oscar the Grouch got his name. King Duncan writes, “In the early days of Sesame Street, Jim Henson and Jon Stone, Sesame Street’s directors, would meet to work on the upcoming show at a Manhattan restaurant. The name of the restaurant was Oscar’s Cavern. Each time they ate there, they were waited on by a man who was consistently rude and grouchy. The result was that the waiter’s attitude was forever immortalized on Sesame Street in the character of Oscar the Grouch” (from Duncan’s sermon “Positive Living” — https://sermons. com/sermon/positive-living/1442666).

Do any of you know a grouch? They are not fun to be around, are they? They can suck the life and joy right out of you.

Fortune magazine published an article with a list of some actual lines that people had written in resumes and cover letters:

“It’s best for employers that I not work with people.” Would you want to hire that applicant?

“I have become completely paranoid, trusting completely no one and absolutely nothing.”

“Note: Please don’t misconstrue my [previous] 14 jobs as ‘job-hopping.’ I have never quit a job.” Does this mean he was fired from 14 jobs?

“The company made me a scapegoat, just like my three previous employers [did]” (quotes from Duncan’s sermon, “Positive Living”).

I don’t know about you, but I would put those letters and resumes in the trash and start looking for people to hire who have these qualities: “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self- control.”

Ever been around someone who exudes the fruits of the spirit? They make your day, don’t they?

Duncan observes that “none of these characteristics that Paul lists as fruit of the Spirit depends on external circumstance. No matter what happens to you from the outside, you can still possess love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self- control” on the inside (Duncan).

“The Irish tenor Ronan Tynan had both legs amputated below the knee after a motorbike accident many years ago. How would you react to such misfortune? I’ll tell you how Tynan responded. He went on to become a medical doctor, a well-known Irish tenor, and an excellent athlete. In the 1984 and 1988 paralympics, he won four gold medals in the discus, the shot put, and the long jump. He even rode show horses. A tall man, he had a special set of artificial legs made for riding. He became an equestrian master.   A reporter once asked Tynan, ‘How tall are you, really?’ Tynan replied, ‘I’m adjustable’” (Duncan, “Positive Living”).

I love it! What a great attitude! Most of us would become grouches if we lost our legs. Tynan  certainly  had every excuse to become one. Instead, he chose to be adjustable. He knew he had a choice about the kind of person he became and the attitude he embraces.

Are you adjustable to life? When something bad happens, do you play the victim or do you stay faithful, knowing God will redeem your suffering? When someone is mean to you, do you get even, or do you choose to be kind instead? When the world is full of hate, do you show the world a better way and love instead?

There is a reason why Paul puts love at the top of the list. Love is what opens up the rest of the fruit. But it is not just any kind of love. The word love Paul uses here is seen about 540 times in the Bible. In the Old Testament, it is the word, “hesed.” In the New Testament it is “agape.” Agape is self-giving love; a sacrificial love; an unconditional love — a love that works in the best interest of others regardless of how we may feel about them — a love that sacrifices for others regardless of what they have done to us. It is the word used to describe the unconditional love of God.

Agape is love in action. It is an action word. That’s why Paul chooses to define this love through action words. What does this love look like? It is patient. It is kind. It is selfless. It is faithful, gentle, and kind. It is humble. It is forgiving. It rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, and perseveres. In other words, true Christian love is not something you talk about or think about; it is something you do!

Agape love is also a decision. It is not based on feelings. Although right feelings often come after we express this love, agape love is choosing to love regardless of how you may feel. When that guy cuts you off, you choose to be patient and not give him a particular kind of wave. When the waitress gets your order wrong, you choose to be kind, loving, and tip her well, regardless. When you see the homeless man, you choose to not to be judgmental or critical but to see him with the eyes of Christ and recognize his worth. When you see the old couple walking slowly down the cereal aisle, you choose to be patient and kind. Perhaps they just came from the doctor and received a bad pathology report. These are the few precious moments they have together. When five o’clock rolls around and you are tired and ready to go home, you stay a little longer to listen to a co-worker who is upset. When people betray you, you choose not to retaliate but forgive because you know that is what Christ did for you.

Agape love -- Christian love; the love of God revealed in Jesus Christ -- is what will heal this word. This love is the acid test of being a follower of Jesus. The central thrust of Jesus’ teaching and ministry was that sacrificial love wins, and forgiving enemies overthrows evil. This is the power of the cross. If we don’t believe this, we are just another charity organization.

Let’s face it: Every other group in society can do everything else Christians do. Christians have programs. So does every other group. We recite creeds. So, do many other groups like the Rotary and Kiwanis clubs. Christians sing songs. So does every other group. Christians raise money. So does every other group.

So what makes us different? What makes us unique? What do we as Christ followers do that is different from any other non-profit organization? We love unconditionally! We forgive our enemies! We love sacrificially! We do not return evil for evil but choose to do good when evil is done to us. We do what is best for another, regardless of who they are or what they have done. We see others not as the world sees them but as children of God who have sacred worth.

Harold Warlick said, “The greatness of our faith is our expansive loving spirit that overthrows resentments, takes in enemies, embraces rivals, and seeks the best for everyone.”

Let’s bring this down to a personal level. On a general level, agape love is fairly easy to take -- but what about our personal relationships?

Reverend James Moore recalls visiting a woman who was dying in a local hospital. She was in her mid-sixties. Her son flew in to be with her. Moore was there when   he arrived and entered the room. He walked over to the bedside of his dying mother, leaned over, and kissed her on the cheek. He was so moved by how weak she was that he said, “Mom, you have been such a good mother to me. And, I want you to know I love you.”

The mother started to cry; and through her tears, she said: “Son, that’s the first time you’ve ever told me. Last Friday was your sixty-third birthday and that’s the first time you ever told me.” Moore comments by saying, “Isn’t that something? It took him 63 years to say, ‘I love you’ to his mother” (James Moore, “A Mother’s Love” — https:// sermons.com/sermon/a-mother-s-love/1357866).

Is there someone you need to express your love to today? Don’t wait! Do it now! If your parents are still living, when was the last time you told them you love and appreciate them? When was the last time you told your spouse, family, and friends that you love them? When was the last time you told your children how proud you are of them? When was the last time you loved someone by spending time with them?

Are you estranged from a loved one? Forgive them as Christ has forgiven you. Life is too short -- and Christ calls us to take the first step because that is what he did for all of us. Your forgiving love will bring healing to you and perhaps healing to the one you are forgiving. Agape love is powerful and transforming.

Leo Buscalgia was a famous writer and speaker who traveled around the world and talked about one important subject: love. When he finished speaking, there was usually a long line of people waiting to hug him. Buscalgia says that most of them were not waiting in line to talk to him, but to simply receive a hug. He said he would come across so many people who told him that they have not been hugged or touched in years. They walked away from the encounter new people (http://www.buscaglia.com/ biography).

When we know we are loved, we can do anything; conquer anything; overcome anything! The Apostle Paul said it best in Romans 8:37: “We are more than conquerors through Christ who loves us.”

The love of God always wins. This is the essence of our faith and what the gospels teach us over and over again. Jesus sums it up by telling us that the world will know we are Christians by our love — not by the way we worship; not by our knowledge of the Bible; not by our sophisticated theology; not by our judgments; not by our denomination; but by our love for each other!

In John 15, Jesus underscores the fruit of the Spirit by telling us that his purpose for us is that we bear much fruit. And what is that fruit supposed to be? It’s the one that’s listed first in Galatians:

My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:12-13 NIV).

Now, most of us are not going to be called to die for another, but all of us are called to love in some way. For most us, this means sacrificing time — helping someone with a flat tire, baking cookies for a new neighbor, listening to someone when you would be rather be home watching television, or throwing the ball with your child when you would rather take a nap. In the end, those are the moments that count.

Oh how we need to learn this lesson! I can’t tell you how many people I have visited and how many people who have crossed the threshold of my office door who wished they had lived lives motivated by love. They talk about the times spent arguing about trivial matters. They talk of the energy spent resenting. They talk about the money wasted on needless things and the time wasted  on a ridiculous pursuit. They wish they had learned the importance of love earlier.

I have done many funerals in my ministry. You know what I have never heard at a funeral? I have never heard anyone mention how much money the deceased person had in their bank account when they died. No one has ever mentioned how many houses or boats they owned; or their golf handicap. You know what has been mentioned? The love they shared with others — the laughter and joy they shared with family and friends — the transforming moments.

When a pastor discusses your funeral with your family, what will they say about you? What will really matter to them? Have you ever thought about that? What will matter to them will be how well you loved. Our lives will be measured by how well we loved. Love never fails! Everything else will cease. Everything else will pass away. These three remain: faith, hope, and love -- and the greatest of these is love.

What is on the inside of you can be seen on the outside.

Is your life revealing the fruit of the Spirit?

Some of you may feel discouraged when you review the fruit of the Spirit because you feel like it is impossible to reflect all of these qualities. You are right! It is impossible without God’s help. That’s why they are called the fruit of the Spirit. If we want to bear fruit, we must first have the Spirit of God living within us. Jesus said, “Apart from me, you can do nothing.”

King Duncan writes about a girl who sang in the choir of a church in East London:

“She had this wonderful voice, but she had also been well-trained in vocal technique. Her fame as a soloist spread until one Christmas, she was invited to sing one of the lead parts in “Messiah” at the Queen’s Hall.

“One of her closest friends went to her teacher, asking whether he thought she was equal to the task. His response was this: ‘If she focuses on what I have tried to teach her and merely follows the rules of correct breathing and voice production, she will break down. But if she can forget everything and think only of the wonder of the message she is singing, she will be all right.’

“The night came. This lovely young woman stepped forward and began singing, ‘I know that my Redeemer liveth.’ The music flowed in great beauty from her lips. And the best hopes of her teacher were fulfilled. She forgot the audience and the occasion, and sang as one who knew the meaning of it all. She sang in the strength of the living Christ whom she knew intimately and who was in power within her own life. As she sang, the audience was strangely moved. That night was one to be remembered. Why? Because she was not trying merely to follow directions or obey a set of external rules; she had found a Spirit of power, within.” She sang the message, not just the notes (Duncan, “Positive Living”).

I teach the same principle to my preaching students. Many of them will get very concerned about proper delivery or memorizing material. I tell them  that  the  key to great preaching is conviction. If your message is coming from the bottom of your heart, your delivery will take care of itself. You will also not have to worry about remembering anything because you will be preaching “by heart.”

The same principle applies to our faith. Is the Spirit inside of you? When it is, you will not be concerned about doing everything right but rather doing everything by heart. You will not be following rules but following the guidance of the Holy Spirit. This is when you reflect the fruit of the Spirit and make a difference in this world for Christ.

Amen.

CSS Publishing Company, Inc., Lose the Cape: Cycle A sermons based on second lessons for Advent, Christmas, and Epiphany, by Charley Reeb