The late film critic Roger Ebert once said there was a great reason many critics considered “Citizen Kane” the best movie of all time. For one thing, it really is a fantastic film. Director Orson Welles combined a compelling story with a great script and creative use of pioneering techniques for filming and editing.
But he also pointed out that once you pick the greatest of anything you can stop arguing about whether something new is the greatest and focus on a new film’s merits on its own terms.
He had a point. On the other hand it can be fun to argue about the greatest. In Ken Burns’ ten-part documentary on baseball there is a great scene where the comic Billy Crystal simultaneously plays three kids from three different parts of New York, arguing about whose team has the best centerfielder. Is it the Giants with Willie Mays? The Dodgers with Duke Snyder? Or the Yankees’ own Mickey Mantle? Each kid made a good argument but you sense that in Crystal’s boyhood experience, this controversy could never be settled.
In today’s gospel passage a scribe hears Jesus disputing with religious leaders, and decides to ask him the question of the day — which commandment is the greatest?
According to some experts there are 613 commandments in the first five books of the Bible, sometimes called the Torah, or the Law. Some of them are pretty familiar to all of us today, like, for instance, the Ten Commandments. Others are pretty obscure and to some extent meaningless to us. Do we really feel we’re breaking God’s law if we wear a shirt that blends different fabrics together, or if we eat beef stroganoff, a dish that mixes meat and dairy products?
The real question is — what is the purpose behind a law, or the Law? The Jewish scholar Hillel (110 BC - 10 AD) was once asked if he could recite the entire Jewish law while standing on one leg. He replied with a version of the Golden Rule: “Do not do to others what you don’t want them to do to you.”
He used this saying as an example of a commandment that could be considered not only the greatest, but which also encapsulated all the others. That’s what the scribe wanted Jesus to do.
As it turns out, Jesus answered on his own terms. Rather than one commandment he pairs a verse from Deuteronomy with a command from Leviticus. As we shall see the two commandments chosen by Jesus get us oriented in two directions — vertically, with the relationship we share with God, and horizontally, centered in the relationship we share with each other.
The first law he quotes comes Deuteronomy 6:5, and it is known as the Shema, from the Hebrew word for “Hear!” This is the call to Israel that begins with verse 4: “Hear O Israel: the Lord our God, the Lord is one” (Deut. 6:4) The prayer, the command to “Hear!” is one that Israel was called to cherish, writing it on every blank surface and praying it daily. The reminder that the Lord our God is one, and is to be loved with heart and mind and strength is paired with the Levitical command to love one’s neighbor as oneself (Lev. 19:18).
This is the first place in the Torah where the people are told to love God. They are told first to love God with all our heart. You might say that no one can be told to love someone. Love is an innermost feeling, and we can’t command love. It either happens or it doesn’t.
But in the Hebrew language love is not just a feeling. It’s an action. Love finds expression in what you do, not what you say. If you’ve ever seen the wonderful musical Fiddler on the Roof, there’s a great scene where Tevya the milkman asks his wife Golda if she loves him. They’ve been married twenty-five years at this point, but theirs was an arranged marriage. They never met before their wedding day. Now their children are choosing to marry for love, and not because of a parent’s arrangement.
Golda responds at first by saying the question is foolish, but soon she begins to count what she’s done for her husband — washing his clothes, raising their children, sharing a bed — and as she sings, “If that’s not love, what is?”
And perhaps that may be the first key to how to love God, especially if things aren’t going our way. We act faithfully, regardless of how we’re feeling about God, and that will do for love for now.
Especially because we can’t always say we love God. When we lose loved ones, or suffering a great misfortune, we may rail and rant like Job, until we see things in a larger perspective. But regardless of how we feel, we may at least demonstrate our love for God by the way we act.
So how do we love God?
First with all our heart. The word for heart in Hebrew has to do with thought and will and feeling. What are our intentions? In Jesus’ day people believed in the Two Ways. There was a Good Way and a Bad Way, and we had the power to choose.
Next we love with all our soul. The word for soul, nefesh, is where our passions and desires, our very being, lies.
Third we love with all our strength. Literally the Hebrew words mean something like “very, very much.”
Now in this passage Jesus is quoted as adding a phrase to the verse as it appears in Deuteronomy — “with all your mind.” In the Greek speaking Gentile world, the mind was an important component that needed to be spoken to. The thinking person makes a rational decision for Jesus, and that is just as important as responding emotionally to the gospel’s call.
The second commandment that Jesus calls the greatest extends in all directions — we are called to love our neighbor as ourselves. Because, after all, neighboring is both an unlikely and an unavoidable relationship. Many times, as apartment dwellers know, total strangers are thrown together and expected to get along.
Many of us remember Fred McFeely Rogers, an ordained Presbyterian minister, better known as Mister Rogers. Rather than shouting to get their attention, Mister Rogers greeted his television audience of children gently, speaking positively, encouraging, praising, and asking, musically, “Won’t you be my neighbor?” The neighborhood mixed wonder, love, and security, but it was also a place where fears, and anxieties were both named and confronted.
This is where so many learned what it really meant to be a neighbor, and not just be a person who lived next door to someone. “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” is more than a commandment. It should be a reality, one that includes conflict and resolution, with God as a central player in our relationships.
Because neighbors can be annoying, exasperating, and impossible, (And sometimes we’re the neighbor who’s the royal pain!) one of the staples of situation comedy is the difficult neighbor. The next-door neighbor might be nosy, or rude, constantly borrowing and never returning, on the make, a gossip, even an outright thief. In TV and movies one looks to neighbors moving in with alarm, or at least suspicion? Who knows what they will bring? We laugh at the situation in a comedy, but it’s no so funny when we live this reality!
Is this why most people limit this passage to one third of a verse: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself (Leviticus 19:18b)?” The larger context makes demands on us, and there are expectations required of us.
You learn you can’t just make “love of neighbor” happen. You learn that you’ve been trained not to admit you love yourself. What does love have to do with the covenants some neighborhoods enforce with rigor?
Wouldn’t a little well-deserved vengeance make us feel a whole lot better about things? And maybe that’s why the command Jesus quoted from is a lot more complex — and longer — than we usually think of. However in Jesus’ day when you quoted part of a verse, it was assumed you were actually quoting from the larger passage. Most of the people you spoke to in those days heard the Torah read over the course of a year in their synagogue services.
However, the context of the instruction to love one’s neighbor spans two verses and requires this larger frame for an appropriate interpretation.
“You shall not hate in your heart anyone of your kin; you shall reprove your neighbor, or you will incur guilt yourself. You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord.
Put these two verses together and you get a good idea of what it means to love your neighbor. When conflict happens the one who is wrong has to confront their neighbor and confront the wrong. When the chapter in Leviticus tells us, “You shall reprove your neighbor,” you have to bring things out into the open in order to solve the problem. We don’t always like to do this sort of thing. We don’t want conflict or confrontation in the church. But true neighboring means you have to be open about these things and face the issues squarely.
You can’t solve this by wishing it would go away. If you do, you may end up doing what the first half of the verse from Leviticus warns you against — taking revenge or bearing a grudge. Don’t seethe from your anger. Don’t let your grudge build up.
Instead, love your neighbor, and that means recovering what you’ve lost with your neighbor. And what you’ve lost is peace.
In the first three centuries of the church Christians had to become new neighbors. They formed new families. Typically a family worked together on a shared economic enterprise. They made a product together of some sort, and gave praise to the family god. Christians could no longer worship that other god — remember the commandment — you shall have no other gods before me! Christians formed new economic families that worshiped Jesus. Since they often lived in the same household, where the business was housed, being family meant facing some of the same problems that come with neighbors.
Working toward reconciliation means recovering the relationship you had before sinning against each other. Or as it is put in the final verses of the Letter of James: “My brothers and sisters, if anyone among you wanders from the truth and is brought back by another, you should know that whoever brings back a sinner from wandering will save the sinner’s soul from death and will cover a multitude of sins” (5:19-20). It is a fact that Matthew and Luke’s version of this story are a little different. In Matthew the scholar asked Jesus the question about the law in an attempt to entrap him. In Luke, Jesus answered the scholar’s question with a question, and it was the scholar who came up with the two laws that embody the whole law. Whereas in Mark the scholar asked a sincere question, because he was impressed by Jesus’ answers to questions of controversy, and figured this guy really knew his stuff. Why not just ask Jesus the question of the day — which law is the greatest?
What are we to think since three different evangelists told this story in three different ways? I think we should remember that this question was probably asked several times first because this question was such an intriguing one, and secondly since the motivations of those who spoke was different, the response of Jesus could be different. They were certainly his terms.
The scholar’s sincerity is proved by his response: “You are right, teacher; you have truly said that ‘he is one, and besides him there is no other’; and ‘to love him with all the heart, and with all the understanding, and with all the strength,’ and ‘to love one’s neighbor as oneself,’ —this is much more important than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices (12:32-33).” Jesus praised the scholar — “You are not far from the kingdom of God (12:34).” And that ended the conversation.
So what are we to remember from all this?
First — Jesus answered questions on his own terms. When someone asks us a sincere question about our faith we should answer sincerely, and it wouldn’t hurt if we were to think about our testimony in advance.
More to the point, we as Christians are not only to have a deep and committed relationship with God, but also with each other. Love does not go back and forth in one direction. It goes in all directions. We love God. We love our neighbor. It’s not always easy. It shouldn’t always be easy. But it’s necessary.
And it’s commanded!
Amen.