Luke 14:1-14 · Jesus at a Pharisee’s House
Want To Sit At The Head Table?
Luke 14:1-14
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by King Duncan
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Isn't it refreshing when people in the spotlight don't take themselves too seriously? One Democratic Senator told colleagues he took a "polygraph" test to find out what the lie-detector fuss is all about. But this silver-haired and flamboyant orator reported he flunked the test when he started a sentence with: "In my humble opinion...."

Shortly after Senator Bob Kerrey of Nebraska announced his availability for the Democratic presidential nomination in 1991, he made an appearance at the National Press Club in Washington, where he was questioned by members of the press. One ink-stained wretch asked Kerry, "How do you compare yourself to the late William Jennings Bryan?" Bryan, who also was from Nebraska, was the Democratic presidential candidate in 1896, 1900 and 1908. After a short pause, Kerry replied, "Well, most importantly, he's dead and I'm not..." (1)

Barbara Bush once compared herself to her predecessor: "Nancy Reagan adores her husband; I adore mine. She fights drugs; I fight illiteracy. She wears a size 3; so's my leg." (2) No wonder some of us think the country would be better served if the election were between Barbara Bush and Hillary Clinton.

Don't you love a person with a sense of humor? A person with a sense of perspective? A person who doesn't take himself or herself too seriously? If so, then you really ought to love Jesus of Nazareth. Jesus had a terrific sense of humor. He made puns. He used hyperbole ” extreme exaggeration. And he kept people off-guard with his unique perspective on life. An Old Testament prophet described the coming Messiah as a "man of sorrows and acquainted with grief." Some Christians have taken that text to mean Jesus was somber all the time. Absurd! Would the common people have heard him gladly if he had been an old sourpuss? John the Baptist baptized multitudes, but nobody ever said they "enjoyed" hearing John the Baptist. People enjoyed hearing Jesus. Sad-faced Christians who don't appreciate Jesus' humor miss a lot of the richness of his teachings. If you can imagine Jesus with a smile on his lips and a twinkle in his eye when he said some of the things he said, his teachings come alive. For example, our text for the day. What sour, sorrowful, melancholic religious leader is going to give advice to his followers like this:

"When you are invited to a wedding feast," Jesus said, "do not sit down in a place of honor. Suppose a more prestigious person than you is invited? Then the host of the wedding feast will come to you and ask you to move down. That will be most embarrassing to you. Let me give you a better strategy. When you go to a wedding feast, sit down in the lowliest place in the room. Then when the host spots you, he will invite you to move up. Then you can have a modest smile on your face as you say, `Excuse me, excuse me,' and make your way toward the front. You will be honored in front of all your friends." What kind of advice is that for a spiritual leader to give to his followers? There's nothing theological about it. Nothing awe-inspiring. It's practical. It's humorous. It's lighthearted. Folks are sitting around grinning at the freshness of Jesus' insight. Then Jesus drives his point home. "For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted."

Then Jesus turns to his host and says, "When you give a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your kinsmen or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return, and you be repaid. But when you give a feast, invite the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you. You will be repaid at the resurrection of the just." (RSV)

In his unique, joyous way Jesus gives us some practical lessons that only a few wise persons ever heed. The first lesson is this: GREATNESS IS NOT MEASURED BY HOW MUCH WE GAIN, BUT BY HOW MUCH WE GIVE.

How many millionaires has America produced over the past two centuries? I don't know the figure. Tens of thousands, I'm sure. Of those millionaires who are dead, how many can you name? Not very many. Most of them are gone. Forgotten. All their toys are back in the box. Somebody else lives in their magnificent homes. Everything they worked for has turned to dust. Except the few who learned the lesson that greatness is measured not by what you gain, but by what you give. Would Carnegie and Vanderbilt and Rockefeller be remembered if their names were not engraved on public buildings, libraries and universities? Would we have any idea who old Joe Kennedy was ” with all his millions of dollars ” if his boys had not devoted themselves to public service? And a century from now, whose names will live on after all the lifestyles of today's rich and famous have faded into obscurity? Albert Schweitzer? Mother Teresa? Mahatma Gandhi? Martin Luther King, Jr.? The number will be few. Some great scientists, a few artists, a political leader here and there. In every case I can promise one thing. Each of them will be people who gave more to the world than they received.

It's interesting to watch the rising esteem with which the national press is regarding former president, Jimmy Carter. While he was in office many of them felt he wasn't a very good president, but most of them now agree he's the best ex-president we've ever had. Why? He's devoted himself to a life of serving.

Is there anyone in this room who is not convinced? We all know it's true ” even if we sometimes forget it. I hope today's Yuppies and Muppies and even some affluent retired folk make that discovery before it is too late. We have some problems in our society that cannot be solved until more people in the upper strata of society are as concerned with giving as with gaining. That's the first lesson Jesus teaches us with this humorous little example. Greatness is measured not by what we gain, but by what we give. The second lesson is like unto the first.

TRUE STATURE IS NOT MEASURED BY HOW MUCH WE PUFF OURSELVES UP, BUT BY HOW WILLING WE ARE TO HUMBLE OURSELVES. How much silliness goes on in this world because of inflated egos!

I once read in a newspaper article that in 1970 two researchers for the Kinsey Institute began a rather extensive survey of the sexual attitudes of 3,000 adults. By 1980 the work was compiled and almost ready for publication. One small detail remained. Albert D. Klassen and Colin Williams, the authors of the survey, still needed to agree on whose name would appear first on the publication. Guess what? A decade later, the research was still waiting for publication. Other researchers interested in the results of the study had to intervene to help resolve the squabble. Apparently some of the academic community felt that 10 years was long enough for the two men to decide whose name should come first on the title page! (3) Someone once said, "If you want to realize your own importance, put your finger into a bowl of water, take it out, and look at the hole." (4)

Do you remember a play about a bird named Chanticleer who thought his crowing brought the sun up each morning? Day after day he got up at dawn and crowed. Sure enough, the sun did rise! It was only logical to him that he was responsible for this sequence. One day, though, he became preoccupied with some personal problems and forgot to crow. Sure enough, the sun rose anyway! How silly we are when we puff ourselves up. We elevate ourselves much more surely through simple humility.

Virtuoso violinist Pinchas Zukerman was giving a master class to a group of young artists who had come to the Aspen Music Festival. The young artists were being observed by a large audience of their peers and distinguished teachers and performers. The atmosphere was electric. To each of the talented performers Zukerman offered friendly advice and encouragement. He discussed their playing in detail, and would pick up his own violin to demonstrate finer points of technique and interpretation. Finally came the turn of a young musician who performed brilliantly. When the applause subsided, Zukerman complimented the artist. Then he walked over to his own violin, caressed it, tucked it under his chin, and paused a long moment. Then, without playing a note or uttering a word, he placed it back in its case. This time the applause was deafening, in recognition of a master, who could pay so gracious a compliment. (5)

We all know it's true. The person who is constantly puffing himself or herself up ” bragging about exploits, showing off trophies, buying bigger and better things to stay one step ahead of the Jones ” is at heart very insecure and fearful. Such a person is deathly afraid that he or she really does not measure up. The greater the emptiness on the inside, the greater the need to surround ourselves with the trappings of success on the outside. The more unsure we are about our own self-worth, the more we need the envy of others. The less sure we are of ourselves, the greater our need to lord it over others. Yet someday we realize it is all a sham. True stature is not measured by how much we puff ourselves up, but by how willing we are to humble ourselves.

But tell me. Where does a feeling of self-worth come from if not from the trappings of success? How can we prove that we are somebody if we do not kick and claw our way to the top? How else can we prove that our lives really count? I know of only one answer. IT IS TO FOLLOW THE EXAMPLE OF CHRIST HIMSELF.

He could have had it all, the Bible tells us, but he gave it all up for you and me. Instead of seeking to gain, he gave. Instead of puffing himself up, he humbled himself unto the cross. And what happened as a consequence? God raised him up and gave him a name above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee shall bow.... That's true greatness.

Follow Jesus' example. Be as concerned about giving as about gaining. Humble yourself and trust your reputation to God.

One man who took Jesus seriously was Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi acknowledged that he had been much influenced by the Gospels and touched by the life of Christ. As he once remarked, "I might have become a Christian had it not been for Christians!"

Gandhi did not lead the masses by standing like a monarch above them but by identifying with them and sharing in their circumstances. A part of Gandhi's greatness was that not even the untouchables of India were beneath him or were made to feel uneasy in his presence. Other Indian leaders lived in mansions, far removed from the masses, going everywhere and doing everything first-class, but Gandhi would not allow anyone to be lower than he. Other Indian dignitaries, usually of high caste themselves, were no more willing to associate with untouchables than with lepers. Gandhi not only lived and marched with untouchables, he gave them a new dignity and a new name. He called them HARIJANS, "the people of God." (6)

In the same way Christ has given us a new dignity and a new name. Such dignity does not come from what we have, but by what we are ” those called by his name. Now we are to go out to give that same dignity to others.

Want to sit at the head table? Then do it like he did it. Give more than you get. Humble yourself and serve others.


1. James Dent in Charleston, W.Va. Gazette, 12/9/91.

2. Donnie Radcliffe, SIMPLY BARBARA BUSH (Warner Books)

3. "Researchers' Dispute Over Who Gets Credit Delays Sex Survey Publication," The Knoxville News-Sentinel (June 27, 1989), Section A, p. 7.

4. Robert Burdette

5. Victor Rangel-Ribeiro, READER'S DIGEST, August 1989, p. 76.

6. Conrad Hyers, AND GOD CREATED LAUGHTER (Atlanta: John Knox Press, 1987).

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan