Luke 14:1-14 · Jesus at a Pharisee’s House
The Cream of the Crop, or The Skimmed Milk of the Earth
Luke 14:1, 7-14
Sermon
by Leonard Sweet
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Jesus expects us to open our homes and hearts to people who are not on the "A-list."

Ever notice how the first thing you do after getting a new haircut is go fishing? Not with a rod and reel, but with words?

You might be able to get what you're after with just a single cast. You look your spouse in the eye and ask, "Well?"

Less baitable mates might have to be lured along a bit further: "Oh, I don't know if this looks very good. What do you think?" Woe to the man or woman who doesn't know how to respond to that question. All of us know that the questioner isn't the least bit interested in hearing the truth or even our opinion. All s(he) really wants to hear is a compliment.

Nobody likes to be tagged a show-off or a braggart. But every one of us desperately craves to be praised and complimented and admired. Most of us resolve that little quandary by resorting to a kind of false humility. We are masters at appearing to humble ourselves only so that we may enjoy the praises and exaltations that such behavior elicits from others. Fishing for compliments, ingratiating oneself to powerful, transparent self-deprecation these are all marks of false or bumbled humbleness.

The great Russian author/playwright Anton Chekhov, in a letter addressed to a younger brother in 1879, gave the classic response to the phenomenon of false humility. He had received a letter in which the brother had signed himself as "your insignificant and obscure little brother."

"Do you know," Chekhov asked in reply, "before whom you should confess your insignificance?" He proceeded to answer his own question.

Before God, if you will, before intelligence, beauty, nature, but not before people. Among people, you have to show your worth. After all, you're not a crook, are you? You are an honest fellow, are you not? Well then, respect the honest fellow in yourself and recognize that the honest fellow is never insignificant. Don't confuse "coming to terms with yourself" with "recognizing your insignificance." (As quoted in George F. Kennan, Around the Cragged Hill [New York: W. W. Norton, 1993], 22.)

Jesus' message to his fellow guests and his host at the banquet urged them to act humbly without expecting any rewards at least not from the mouths and hands of fellow human beings. Jesus says "take the lowest seat," "identify with the lowest people," "don't expect a reward or even a return on your investment."

How different from, how contrary to our usual "success strategies." The banquet Jesus was invited to was really the first-century equivalent of an elite private club's dining room. The point of being there was that you had achieved success and social status high enough to get you in the door. But just attending is not enough. Eating is not the function of this meal seeing and being seen is the real driving force behind everyone's attendance.

Human measures of success rely on cutthroat competition and "survival-of-the-fittest" strategies. Ralph Waldo Emerson, commenting on this self-centered drive toward success, sadly concluded more than 100 years ago: "We are great by exclusion, grasping and egotism. Our success takes from all what it gives to one. It is a haggard, malignant, careworn running for luck."

Emerson went on to note three qualities he deemed marks of true "success:" the ability to discern and appreciate beauty; the ability to see the best in other people; a commitment to leaving the world a better place, either by doing one's own work better or by making it easier for others to do theirs. Are these our goals when we make scrambling for only the "best" seats, the "best" friends, the "best" places to be seen, the "best" church in town, the driving force in our lives?

One of the most shocking aspects of Jesus' advice to his host was his admonition to invite "the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind" (v.13). This cast of characters hardly even rated the designation of "humble" people in most cases, they were actually outcasts and outlaws. According to the law, such people were not even legally permitted to go into God's holy presence (see Leviticus 21:17-23). Inviting these lowest of the low would not only destroy the status of the host among his precious "A-list" acquaintances, but according to the old law, it could actually threaten his own chances of being well-received by God. Associating with "less-than-perfect" people was just not safe.

But Jesus denies that God is looking for human perfection for only those who are healthy and whole and clean and beautiful. Jesus stuns his listeners by asserting that the coming kingdom of God will reveal these outcast, humbled humans as among God's favorite, the most exalted.

Our Bible this morning is challenging this church to pray this prayer: "Lord, send us the people no one else wants." Are we a church that wants only the cream of the crop? Or are we a church that can host the skimmed milk of the earth?

Can we pray the prayer, "Lord, send us the people no one else wants" and mean it? Are we prepared for the changes to come if God answers our prayer?

ChristianGlobe Networks, Inc., Collected Works, by Leonard Sweet