Acts 11:1-18 · Peter Explains His Actions
Step By Step
Acts 11:1-18
Sermon
by Billy D. Strayhorn
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 [Show Cheaper by the Dozen breakfast Clip]

Have you heard about the next Survivor Game show they have planned?

Six men will be dropped off on an island with 1 van and 4 kids for 6 weeks. Each kid plays two sports and takes music or dance lessons. There's no access to fast food. Each man must take care of his 4 kids, keep his assigned house clean, correct all homework, complete science projects, cook, and do six loads of laundry a day.

The men have access to television but only when the kids are asleep and all chores are done. But the catch is, there's only one TV between them and no remote control.

They must be able to get a four year old to eat green beans. They have to, simultaneously, be able to change a messy diaper and clean up after a sick baby without throwing up. They also have to be able to juggle a wiggly toddler, six bags of groceries, answer the door to pay the pizza guy while the dog is barking and shave without cutting themselves.

One of the challenges will be to prepare a meal for six with three hot dogs, four fish sticks, six chicken nuggets, a bag of frozen broccoli, a half a can of tomato sauce, day old macaroni and cheese, stale potato chips and guacamole. They'll also be judged on how well they can make a model of a native American teepee with six toothpicks, a tortilla, and one magic marker.

The winner gets voted off of the island and gets his old job back! (1)

Today we stop to pay tribute to all the women who know that being a mother is really an adventure, where you not only survive, but thrive. What an awesome responsibility and what an awesome challenge God has given to parents.

In parenting, just like in faith, we discover that we have to take every day and every situation, STEP BY STEP. Peter did that with the Disciples in Jerusalem after he was sent by God to visit Cornelius and his family.

Let's look at that passage. Acts 11:1-18 (NRSV)
[1] Now the apostles and the believers who were in Judea heard that the Gentiles had also accepted the word of God.
[2] So when Peter went up to Jerusalem, the circumcised believers criticized him,
[3] saying, "Why did you go to uncircumcised men and eat with them?"
[4] Then Peter began to explain it to them, step by step, saying,
[5] "I was in the city of Joppa praying, and in a trance I saw a vision. There was something like a large sheet coming down from heaven, being lowered by its four corners; and it came close to me.
[6] As I looked at it closely I saw four-footed animals, beasts of prey, reptiles, and birds of the air.
[7] I also heard a voice saying to me, 'Get up, Peter; kill and eat.'
[8] But I replied, 'By no means, Lord; for nothing profane or unclean has ever entered my mouth.'
[9] But a second time the voice answered from heaven, 'What God has made clean, you must not call profane.'
[10] This happened three times; then everything was pulled up again to heaven.
[11] At that very moment three men, sent to me from Caesarea, arrived at the house where we were.
[12] The Spirit told me to go with them and not to make a distinction between them and us. These six brothers also accompanied me, and we entered the man's house.
[13] He told us how he had seen the angel standing in his house and saying, 'Send to Joppa and bring Simon, who is called Peter;
[14] he will give you a message by which you and your entire household will be saved.'
[15] And as I began to speak, the Holy Spirit fell upon them just as it had upon us at the beginning.
[16] And I remembered the word of the Lord, how he had said, 'John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit.'
[17] If then God gave them the same gift that he gave us when we believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I that I could hinder God?"
[18] When they heard this, they were silenced. And they praised God, saying, "Then God has given even to the Gentiles the repentance that leads to life."

The Disciples couldn't understand why Peter went to the Gentiles. Good Jews didn't do that. So Peter had to take them, Step By Step, through his vision from God and the transformation in thinking it caused. He didn't just blurt out "God told me to." He took them one step at a time: Step By Step. And that's how we have to live as modern day disciples. That's how we have to raise our children too. STEP BY STEP. So, in honoring mothers this morning, I want to look at some of those steps.

I. It's Not About Your

A. I want to borrow from the popular book: The Purpose Driven Life. The first line in the book is: "IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU." I think Rick Warren has hit it on the head in both being a disciple and in parenting. The First Step Is To Realize "IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU."

That's hard for some of us to realize. I've heard more than once about young girls choosing to have a baby because they were lonely or because they wanted someone to love them. Those are the wrong reasons. Having and raising children is about your children and about being faithful to God as a disciple of Jesus and as one called to disciple your children.

Peggy Wehmyer, Religion Correspondent for ABC News says, "A Positive mom is the most powerful weapon against the culture of despair and cynicism that assaults our children."

B. Let me give you an example of what this idea is really all about. Some of you have heard of Tony Campolo. Tony has spent much of his life traveling around the world speaking at Christian gatherings. His wife, Peggy, stayed at home and chose to pour her life into raising their children. Years ago when Peggy Campolo would occasionally travel with Tony, she found herself in conversations with some of the most powerful, impressive, sophisticated women in the world. Sometimes she would feel intimidated and question her own self worth.

Tony said to her, "Honey, why don't you think of something you can say when you meet people, so they'll know that you value what you're doing and you think it's important?"

Not long after that, they were at a party. A woman said to Peggy in a rather condescending tone, "And, dear what is it that you do?"

Tony said he heard his wife respond, "I am nurturing two Homo Sapiens into the dominant value of the Judeo-Christian tradition in order that they might become instruments of social transformation to turn the earth into the eschatological utopia which God has envisioned from the beginning of time. What do you do?"

The woman replied, "Oh, I'm just a physicist. I'm just trying to discover a cure for cancer."

Peggy Campolo, in her very description of a stay at home mom, proclaimed what Rick Warren was talking about and the first Step we have to take in this Step By Step process of raising children. "IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU."

II. You Are Not Alone

A. The Second Step is to realize: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

And as a parent, I'll bet your sitting their thinking, Thank God! Because parents need reinforcements. That's why God created us male and female and why it takes to of us to make a family. There's a plan and a very good reason for that. It so we outnumber them when they are first born.

Of course if you have a tribe of kids like some folks, then you need to make sure they know who the big chief is. And Dad's it ain't you.

But the point is: You Are Not Alone. And that's especially true for the Christian family.

Within the body of Christ, within the Church, there is a Network of caring. The Church is an extended family. I'll admit that sometimes we fail, sometimes we are a little dysfunctional and sometimes we don't follow through just like all families. But essentially this is a family. Every time a baby or a child is baptized, everyone of us takes vows to help the parents raise their children in a Christian environment. We vow to live our lives in such a way that our children will see Christ in us and Christian action in all that we do.

B. Not only that but we have the very presence of Christ through the presence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. The Holy Spirit has been known as the Counselor, the Companion and the Encourager. All three of those aspects of Jesus are there in our everyday lives. Jesus said, "I will not leave you orphaned." He also said, "Lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age."

The Second Step is to realize: YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

III. One Step At A Time

The Third Step is to remember to take it: ONE STEP AT A TIME. A baby learns to scoot before it can crawl. It learns to crawl before it can walk. And it learns to walk before it can run. Why should the Christian life and parenting be any different.

One of the things we learn from creation, is that God took it one step at a time. It was a Step By Step process of creating and growing a world. We have to do the same thing in raising our children. Over the long haul, what we hope our children learn from us is:

A sense of destiny: We want them to know they are unique, special, so they can have confidence for daily living;

We want them to have a sense of purpose; a sense of mission in life;

We want them to have a sense of love and we want to leave them a legacy of love;

We want them to have a sense of security. We want them to know they are safe; that their family is their refuge; no matter what.

We want them to be filled with a sense of hope and a hope filled sense of the future which will allow and challenge them to take risks.

And most of all, we want them to have a desire for godliness. We want them to have a deep passion for God and the gospel.

But they learn these things Step By Step, not by our lecturing, not by our dropping them off at church and Sunday School, not by our teaching but by OUR EXAMPLE, AND THE STEPS WE TAKE. You see, what we do, proves what we think is important.

IV. Sow Love

And finally one of the most important steps is that we SOW LOVE. Someone has written A Mother's Version of 1 Corinthians 13.

"I can read bedtime stories till the cow jumps over the moon and sing "Ten Little Monkeys" until I want to call the doctor - but if I don't have love, I'm as annoying as a ringing phone.

I can chase a naked toddler through the house while cooking dinner and listening to voice mail. I can fix the best cookies and Kool-Aid in the neighborhood, and I can tell a sick child's temperature with one touch of my finger, but if I don't have love, I am nothing.

Love is patient while watching and praying by the front window when it's 30 minutes past curfew.

Love is kind when my teen says, "I hate you!"

It doesn't envy the neighbors' swimming pool or their brand-new minivan, but trusts the Lord to provide every need.

Love doesn't brag when other parents share their disappointments and insecurities, and love rejoices when other families succeed.

It doesn't boast, even when I've multitasked all day long and my husband can't do more than one thing at a time.

Love is not rude when my spouse innocently asks, "What have you done today?"

It doesn't immediately seek after glory when we see talent in our children, but encourages them to get training and make wise choices.

It's not easily angered, even when my 15-year-old acts like the world revolves around him. It doesn't delight in evil (is not self-righteous) when I remind my 17-year-old that he's going 83 in a 55-mph zone, but rejoices in the truth.

Love doesn't give up hope.

It always protects our children's self-esteem and spirit, even while doling out discipline.

It always trusts God to protect our children when we cannot. It always perseveres, through blue nail polish, burps and other bodily functions, rolled eyes and crossed arms, messy rooms and sleep-overs.

Love never fails.

But where there are memories of thousands of diaper changes and painful labor(s), they will fade away.

Where there is talking back, it will (eventually) cease. (Please, Lord?)

Where there's a teenager who thinks he knows everything, there will one day be an adult who knows you did your best.

For we know we fail our children, and we pray they don't end up in therapy, but when we get to heaven, our imperfect parenting will disappear. (Thank you, God!)

When we were children, we needed a parent to love and protect us.

Now that we're parents ourselves, we have a heavenly Father who adores, shelters us, and holds us when we need to cry.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love." (2)

A mother's job is to SOW LOVE. Most mothers do that quite well, some do not. In a perfect world all mothers would SOW LOVE. But for those that do not, we're called lift them to God. And we're called to offer forgiveness. And being forgiven ourselves, we're called to follow Jesus STEP BY STEP into wholeness and to SOW LOVE.

St. Francis of Assisi understood that, His whole life was dedicated to spreading the joyous love of God through Jesus Christ and he wrote this prayer.

Follow Jesus Step By Step both as a parent and as a Disciple and SOW LOVE.

Conclusion

Parenting isn't easy. Being a mother is hard work. And we owe so much to our mother's. Peter really did know the secret to being both a good parent and a good disciple. And that's taking it STEP BY STEP and remembering: IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU, YOU ARE NOT ALONE, TAKE IT ONE STEP AT A TIME, AND SOW LOVE.


1.Adapted; www.preachingplus.com, Dave Stone Motherhood: "It's Not a Job, It's an Adventure" 5/12/2002

2. Reproduced in Joyful Noiseletter, May 2004. 1 Corinthians 13 for Moms was first printed as The Story of Encouragement, an e-newsletter

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