Matthew 6:5-15 · Prayer
Pretenders
Matthew 6:5-15, Matthew 6:1-4
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by King Duncan
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A little boy had just returned home from an Ash Wednesday church service. The little girl from next door asked him what the smudge was on his forehead. He replied, "It's Ash Wednesday." "What's Ash Wednesday?" she asked. "Oh," he replied, "It's when Christians begin their diet."

Ash Wednesday is about more than giving up chocolate for Lent. It is about examining ourselves in the light of Christ's sacrifice on the cross. And the central question which we ask ourselves this night is, Which is it: Pretense or Performance?

It's fun to watch little children play pretend. It's wonderful to live in the world of their imagination.

Across the Internet came a gross, but hilarious story of a mother who was trying to pack for vacation. Her 3-year-old daughter was having a wonderful time playing on the bed. At one point, the little girl said, "Mom, look at this," and stuck out two of her fingers.

Trying to keep her entertained, her mother reached out and took the little girl's fingers and stuck them in her mouth and said, "Mommy gonna eat your fingers!" pretending to eat them before she rushed out of the room again.

When she returned to the room, the little girl was standing on the bed staring at her fingers with a devastated look on her face. The mother asked, "What's wrong, Honey?"

The little girl said, "Mommy, where's my booger?"

Pretend is an interesting, but risky world.

Eugene Peterson recounts an interesting story that he read in a book of Ann Tyler's titled, Morgan's Passing. The title character in the book is an unusual young man who has an impact on the lives of others. Morgan is attending a puppet show one day when one of the puppeteers requests the presence of a doctor. Morgan, calm and professional, offers his medical services. The puppeteer explains that his wife is in labor, and he wants a doctor to go with him to the hospital, just in case the baby comes early. Morgan and the young couple head for the hospital.

On the way there, the labor intensifies. The young man pulls the car over, and Morgan sends him to a corner newsstand to get paper, to serve as makeshift sheets and towels. Morgan coolly and expertly delivers the baby, then drives the new family to the hospital, so mother and baby can be checked out. Then Morgan leaves. The young couple inquires about this wonderful Dr. Morgan, but nobody seems to know where to find him.

Months later, the young couple run into Morgan on the street. Proudly, they show him their healthy baby, and lavish praise on him. They explain that they looked for Morgan everywhere, in order to show him their gratitude, but nobody knew where to find him. Morgan then admits that he is not really a doctor. Actually, he manages a hardware store. He had pretended to be a doctor because the young couple had needed a doctor. He went on to say that in the "honored professions," such as medicine, law, and counseling, image was as important as knowledge. All his life, Morgan had pretended to be a member of these honored professions, because he could easily get away with it. He admitted to the couple, "You know, I would never pretend to be a plumber, or impersonate a butcher--they would find me out in twenty seconds." (1)

I'm not certain I would want Morgan operating on me, even if he did have the image of a doctor down pat. I believe I would want the real thing.

But, as the television show of the same name reminds us, there are PRETENDERS among us.

Even the head of the Girl Scouts of America can be a pretender. Juliette Gordon Low was in her 50s and already going deaf when she met General Sir Robert Baden-Powell, founder of the Boy Scouts. She became an instant fan of his group's female counterpart, the Girl Guides, and when the Girl Scouts of the USA was organized in 1915, Low became its first president and greatest financial supporter. Rather than fall victim to her increasing deafness, she used it to her advantage as the Girl Scouts grew and required more money. When friends tried to beg off committing to donations, she pretended not to hear them. "What was that you said? Did I hear you say you were giving a hundred?" But everyone appreciated her efforts and, largely as a result of them, Scouting is still popular today. (2)

I wonder if our (finance committee) could get away with that. "Did I hear you say a $20,000 pledge over three years?" It's worth a thought.

Advertisers pretend all the time. Have you ever caught yourself gazing longingly at a food advertisement in a magazine? How come when you cook the same dish it doesn't look as colorful or tempting as the pictures? It could be because the "food" in those pictures isn't real food. Food stylists are the people responsible for making food advertisements look so yummy. They have a number of tricks for making their products look better than the real thing.

For instance, ice cream doesn't photograph well, and it melts quickly under hot lights, so food stylists often use Crisco vegetable shortening instead. A glass of champagne looks so festive in holiday ads; but that's not real champagne at all, it's ginger ale with a dash of salt added to increase bubbles. Coffee tends to look oily in photographs, so molasses is used instead. (3)

Pretenders. They've always been with us. Jesus knew about pretenders. These were people who pretended more righteousness than they really had. They loved to be recognized in their community for their piety and their charity. They only gave when there was a telethon on television so their name would be read out over the airways. They gave more to the University than to their church, because the University would give them honored seats at the ball game or would name a building after them. And when they prayed they did it loudly so that everyone in the restaurant would know that they were saying grace--unlike the unwashed heathen around them.

And they loved Ash Wednesday. They could leave church with the ashes on their forehead and still make it to the mall before closing time so that people could see that they were God's elect. Jesus never said these were bad people. He did not say they were going to hell. All he said was, that they already had their reward. They really didn't have that much to look forward to. Why? Because they were pretenders.

Pretenders have always been with us. Some are simply more blatant than others. In the 1850s, one of the most unusual houses of sin in the U.S. was a popular New York City brothel run by a man named John Allen. Allen had studied for the ministry, and his three brothers were all in the pastorate. He resolved this conflict by trying to mix prostitution and ministry. Every morning he had a prayer and Bible study session with the prostitutes and bartenders. Each room in the brothel was stocked with religious literature, and Allen often passed out Bibles to frequent customers. (4)

Now there is a pretender of the first order! Certainly we are not that bad. But Ash Wednesday is a good time to examine our heart and ask if our faith is pretense or performance.

FOR EXAMPLE, HOW MUCH OF OUR COMMITMENT INVOLVES ROLE PLAYING FOR OUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS? If our children were grown, would we still have the same level of commitment to Christ and his church? If we moved to a new community where nobody knew us, would we still be as involved.

There is an ancient Greek myth, recounted in Plato's Republic, about a shepherd who finds a magic ring. A simple twist of this ring bestows on the shepherd the gift of invisibility. The shepherd takes advantage of this new power, and uses it to engage in all sorts of evil behavior. Plato's characters wrangle over the question raised by this myth: how does a person choose to live when he knows no one is watching? If we knew our actions would not have any consequences, would we live ethically or unethically? (5)

Most, if not all of us would still live ethically even if no one was looking, but would we be as committed? Is our commitment influenced by the people in the grandstand who observe us daily? Do we need Christ to give us a fresh experience of his presence and his purpose to reinvigorate our discipleship? Are we going through the motions for others?

Here's the second question with which we need to examine ourselves as we begin the forty days of Lent: DO WE HAVE A HEART FOR THE NEEDY, OR ARE WE CONTENT TO GIVE THEM A HANDOUT? This is a harder question.

We would really prefer that people with needs be invisible. They make us feel guilty. We wonder if they really couldn't do more to help themselves. Surely, the government can help. And so we content ourselves by offering an occasional hand-out--at Thanksgiving or Christmas, or when the United Way comes calling.

Deep in our hearts we know it is not enough. Government programs are being cut back. And even if adults among the poor could do more to help themselves, small children can't force their parents to be responsible, and it's the children who suffer.

Actually, we live in a world of needy people. Some of those needs are physical, material. Some of those needs are emotional, spiritual. And we are confronted with a choice--to ignore those needs or to respond like Jesus would respond.

You may have heard about the school teacher who injured his back and had to wear a plaster cast around the upper part of his body. It fit under his shirt and was not noticeable at all. On the first day of the term, still with the cast under his shirt, he found himself assigned to the toughest students in school. Walking confidently into the rowdy classroom, he opened the window as wide as possible and then busied himself with desk work. When a strong breeze made his tie flap, he took the desk stapler and stapled the tie to his chest. He had no trouble with discipline that term.

It's tough being a follower of Jesus. We would like to harden ourselves against the people who have a claim on our charity, our compassion, our discipleship. But Christ calls us to be vulnerable that we might not turn away the needy at our door.

And this brings us to the last question for the evening: ARE YOU WILLING TO GIVE YOUR ALL TO CHRIST?

By now, most of us know the story of Cassie Bernall, the brave teenager from Columbine High School who was killed when she stood up for her faith. On April 20, 1999, two fellow students bearing guns took the student body hostage. According to witnesses, they mockingly asked if some of their hostages believed in God. Staring down the barrel of a gun, Cassie Bernall said yes. She was shot and killed for her answer. Just before her death, Cassie and her youth group had been reading and discussing the book Seeking Peace by Johann Christoph Arnold. Cassie had underlined a particular quote from Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.: "The minute you conquer the fear of death, at that moment you are free. I submit to you that if a man hasn't discovered something that he will die for, he isn't fit to live." (6)

Most of us will never be asked to die for Christ. But we are asked to live for him. That is really what Ash Wednesday is about.

A two-year-old had gone with her family to her church's Ash Wednesday service. She was upset that her mother was not taking her to the altar with the rest of the family. She was overheard exclaiming: "But I want to get a tattoo just like Daddy's!"

The mark on our forehead is not exactly a tattoo. It is rather a symbol of a tattoo that is upon our heart. We belong to Jesus. We are pretenders no more.


1. Ann Tyler, Morgan's Passing (New York: Alfred A. Knopf, 1980), quoted in Working the Angles, Eugene H. Peterson (Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1987), pp. 5-6.

2. "Pumped Up" by Heather Baldwin, Selling Power, May 2000, p. 136.

3. "An Image of Appetite Appeased" by Tom Thompson What's Going on Here? (New York: Delta, 1991), pp. 56-57.

4. Sifakis, Carl. American Eccentrics (New York: Facts on File Publications, 1984), pp. 119-120.

5. Gough, Russell W. Character Is Destiny (Rocklin, CA: Forum, 1998), pp. 25-27.

6. "Mysterious Echoes of Gunshots" by Terry Mattingly, Good News Nov./ Dec. 1999, p. 20.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan