John 14:5-14 · Jesus the Way to the Father
Praying In Jesus' Name
John 14:5-14
Sermon
by David O. Bales
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It’s good to be with you in worship. I appreciate the invitation to preach. I especially appreciate having a worship leader directing me around the chancel, because worship is done differently in different denominations — even within denominations. When you visit a different church, you don’t always know what to expect. My wife and I visited here two years ago. I, ever eager to hear the sermon, chose to sit near the front, not realizing that no one would sit in front of us and you all know how you take communion here, but we didn’t. Thankfully we received whispered instructions from the folk behind us. Maybe we didn’t learn exactly how to receive communion with our Lutheran friends, but we did learn not to sit near the front when visiting a different church!

I heard about a visitor to worship in Kentucky who didn’t know the local worship customs. Halfway into worship a boisterous child was hurried out, slung under the arm of his irate father. No one seemed to notice until the child cried out in a Southern accent, “Y’all pray for me now!”

Worship can be different. It can even be funny. I’m sure my prayers sometimes sound funny to God. It’s okay to laugh in worship. It’s okay to laugh in prayer. An especially helpful way for me to pray is to concentrate on God’s grace and love entering my body with each breath in and my sin and bitter memories exiting from me as I breathe out. Do that right now. Breathe in and take in God’s grace and forgiveness… Breathe out your sin and bitterness… In… Out… You can pray like this anytime, anywhere. However, it offers the double dangers of passing out either because you’re holding your breath or hyperventilating. If you laugh while praying this way, it hurries up the prayer.

Our text in John 14 is about our life with God and prayer. We’ll concentrate on what Jesus says here about prayer, starting with the most basic. First, to pray means to pray with God, and I emphasize “with” because prayer isn’t just talking to God. God invites conversation with us by sending Jesus. God wants our attention, wants us to turn aside, leave what we’re doing and whoever else we’re talking to, and speak with God.

God wants to share our lives in prayer. Yet, our pious statements can demonstrate how we even leave God out of prayer. We say things like, “I believe in the power of prayer.” That’s like saying, “I believe in my wife’s car. I believe in my wife’s clothes. I believe in my wife’s cooking.” instead of “I believe in my wife.” Saying we believe in the power of prayer can merely equate God with an automatic power switch. Yet prayer is even more than a conversation with a person, it’s living with a person. Jesus speaks of heaven as God’s house with many rooms for us, meaning that we live in the house with God. God is certainly more than a person, but God is at least a person. Therefore, I resist comparing God with television waves and saying that prayer is simply tuning in to what’s already here; besides, most people have cable now. What does that do to the old comparison of God with television waves? We don’t compare a person with electricity, although I’ve heard some people described as having the personality of a computer. Why should we say such things about God?

Prayer is speaking with God and not about God. We see and hear this while Jesus suffers on the cross. He cries out, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me” (Matthew 27:46). No matter Jesus’ pain or confusion, he directs his question to God. Sometimes our most honest prayers aren’t when we’re being all sweet and nice with God, using flowery phrases, but are those like Jesus’ prayer from the cross — screaming to God in pain.

Since we’re talking with God in prayer, I suggest we speak to God in conversational language as does the original Bible, although some ancient English translations of the Bible don’t. The original Bible is in ordinary language, although the Hebrew in the book of Psalms tends to be more stilted. I’ve endured people praying in public, trying to use “thee’s” and “thou’s,” and getting them all mixed up. Because God spoke to us in a common, human language we should at least begin speaking to God in the ordinary language of a child to a parent, not in an ancient English no one has spoken for centuries.

Jumbled “thee’s” and “thou’s” distract us who are listening to such a prayer; ultimately it’s all right with God. If you can’t pray any other way than with “thee’s” and “thou’s” go ahead. God wants you to pray, no matter how well you’ve mastered Elizabethan English or how poorly you’ve learned the grammar of your native language. I heard of a pastor who was greeted immediately after worship by a person who said, “This morning you made three grammatical mistakes in the pastoral prayer.” To which the pastor responded, “That’s okay. I wasn’t talking to you.” Our embarrassment with our language in prayer is unnecessary. If we’re going to be embarrassed about anything in prayer, it should be our sin. That’s what bothers God; yet, God forgives us and invites us not only to new life but summons us to prayer.

Whether our prayers are offered in formal solemnity or with stuttering uncertainty, prayer is talking with God. Prayer is conversing with someone who loves us infinitely. We don’t pray because we’re good, although we are good. Maybe the best reason to pray is because we’re also bad. We don’t pray because we have a lot to say that God doesn’t know about. We pray because God loves us and wants to share our lives. That’s part of our taking communion, sharing a meal at God’s table.

A New York book editor arranged a meeting between author William Faulkner and physicist Albert Einstein. Despite the editor’s efforts to get Faulkner to talk more, Faulkner remained mostly silent during the entire meeting. Later, the editor asked why Faulkner hadn’t talked with Einstein. Faulkner said something like, “What could I mention to such a brilliant man that would have any significance?”

Some people feel that way about prayer, but God wants us to pray. God loves us. A sixteen-month-old child has nothing profound to tell its parents, but don’t the parents hang on every word? Compare our praying to an infant’s learning to talk. Praying is something we learn. It can be as slow as learning to speak a foreign language, even taking decades of daily hourly practice to begin to learn. But God wants us to learn.

A couple more suggestions for praying: faithful Christians have taught, “Not much speaking, but much prayer.” You don’t have to say a lot to pray. Start your prayer by reading a gospel: the record of Jesus’ life and teaching. Gaze upon what Jesus does. Listen intently to what he says. Then imagine yourself there with him in that event. Ask Jesus a question or ask someone in the encounter with Jesus what’s going on. Or just stand there in the middle of the event and watch and listen. If you don’t think that’s prayer, try it for half an hour a day and see what God tells you through scripture.

A second suggestion for prayer: Don’t feel you can’t mention details to God. A chronic modern belief is that God doesn’t care about details. But life is only details. God already knows them. It’s a sign that Christians aren’t in touch with the God of the Bible if they insist on not praying specifically, by detail, for what really concerns them.

In my junior year of high school I had a friend named Doris. One night at a play we had a chat that got around to talking about God. I told her I wasn’t sure about God. She told me five years after that conversation she prayed for me every day. I became a Christian a year and a half after our talk. Here in our worship we learn to pray for people specifically. God wants us to pray for individuals and for the congregation’s individual ministries by name, and — as the text says — in the name of Jesus.

From the Bible our culture gets the saying, “in the name of.” It’s an idiom, an expression that isn’t understandable word for word in another culture. We assume everyone everywhere understands that “in the name of” means on someone’s behalf or with someone’s authority. People in many cultures don’t understand what “in the name of” means. I remember as a kid how strange it sounded in a western B movie when the posse said, “Open up in the name of the law,” which meant they acted in a manner duly authorized by law.

Jesus offers a promise in today’s text: “I will do whatever you ask…” But Jesus puts a condition on answering our prayer: “If in my name you ask me for anything, I will do it.” Jesus assures us of his unconditional love, but he puts a condition on our prayers. We have a test for our prayer: Can we make our requests in Jesus’ name, which means in his personality, in his character, in his spirit, or are we praying as Jesus would pray? Are our prayers only lobbying in the halls of heaven for personal interests? Or are they, as Jesus directed, “that the Father’s glory will be shown through the Son?”

Praying in Jesus’ name sifts our motives and lifts our sights and finally it allows us to hear God speak to us in prayer. Our reading scripture and listening in prayer gives God a chance to speak to us. An example of how God speaks to us in prayer is the early life of E. Stanley Jones, the great Methodist evangelist, missionary, and social reformer. He was speaking at Asbury College about the need for students to consider becoming missionaries. He prayed that God would give him one missionary as the result of his talk to the students. God answered his prayer by giving E. Stanley Jones himself a personal call to become a missionary. In a sense, E. Stanley Jones was the answer to his own prayer.

In the name of Jesus pray for this church and your pastor. Pastors pray for others. Pastors and their families need your prayers. When I was pastor in Klamath Falls, Oregon, the majority of the time in worship I didn’t offer the long prayer, which Presbyterians call the “pastoral prayer.” Members of the congregation did. When Dorothy Proctor offered that prayer, she always prayed for “our pastor and his family.” Since pastors and pastors’ spouses are used to praying for others and listening to the problems of others, to this day my emotions are tender by the memory of someone praying for us.

Pray specifically for your friends, relatives, neighbors, community, pastor, and congregation. Pray in the name of the Spirit and the character of Jesus because that’s what God wants to give you in your life — the Holy Spirit of Jesus now risen from the dead and alive in you. Pray, watch, and wait for God to answer your prayer in Jesus’ name. Maybe Jesus will answer your prayer by your living more of his life right here, right now. He promises, “I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If in my name you ask me for anything, I will do it” (vv. 13-14).

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