John 12:1-11 · Jesus Anointed at Bethany
No Pleasing Some People
John 12:1-8
Sermon
by Frank Ramirez
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Secretly I'm on Judas' side on this one. You probably don't want to admit it, but so are you. He points out that 300 days' salary had just been cracked open and wasted on Jesus. Well, not wasted. Yeah, wasted. Because once that expensive perfume was used it couldn't be used again. It was a limited, one time resource. Can you imagine the good that could have been done for the poor? Try to imagine what our church could do if someone donated one year's worth of salary out of the blue! That's why I say that many Chris­tians would find themselves on Judas' side if they were honest with themselves.

What was Mary thinking? A jar of perfume worth 300 days' wages? Take away the sabbath and that's pretty much a year's sal­ary. Do you own something worth a year's salary — some piece of jewelry, a book, a car, a boat? What sort of use are you getting out of it?

Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, offers a one time only gift for Jesus. Because once it's opened you can't use it anymore.

I don't know about you, but the longer I own something valu­able, the less I want to part with it and the less I get out of it. Do you know people who can't bring themselves to use the good china for themselves? Or anyone? Is there a treasured antique car that never goes out on the road anymore for fear of a scratch or a patch of mud? Is there an outfit you refuse to wear because you're too sentimental and it has become too valuable?

In our society we have eliminated the sense of smell. We don't want strong odors. We mask them, eliminate them.

Mary lived in a society that was not afraid of smells. Perfume was handy, especially with the need for quick burial in a warm climate. But then, in most societies people love strong odors. They love thick perfumes. They burn incense. The woman who washed the feet of Jesus knew exactly how much that oil was worth. This extraordinary item was being saved for a day in the future. Prob­ably her own funeral or the funeral of a loved one.

Suddenly the future is now. Mary is the one who sits at the feet of Jesus and listens. She gets it. Unlike the disciples, she knows what lies in store for Jesus. He is going to die. Evidently Mary is the kind of person who buys flowers before a person dies instead of sending them to the funeral home out of guilt. Mary anoints Jesus for his funeral while he is still alive and can enjoy the thick, rich perfume.

In response to those who criticized Mary, Jesus takes time to quote Deuteronomy 15:11: "Since there will never cease to be some in need on the earth, I therefore command you, ‘Open your hand to the poor and needy neighbor in your land.' "

Some people think when the gospel quotes Jesus as saying that we will always have the poor among us that suggests there is no use in trying to work against poverty since we will never solve the problem. But that ignores what Jesus was saying.

Sometimes people don't study their scriptures quite enough. I've often heard people quote the words Jesus spoke after his feet were anointed with expensive perfume (John 12:8: "You always have the poor with you") as justification, somehow, of leaving the poor to their lot. They suggest that even Jesus was saying it's no use trying to keep up.

However, those who heard Jesus speak those words knew what he was talking about. They were used to the practice of quoting only the beginning of a passage. The listener was expected to know the rest.

Look at the larger context. In the Deuteronomy passage, Moses was talking about the Year of Jubilee. "Since there will never cease to be some in need on the earth, I therefore command you, ‘Open your hand to the poor and needy neighbor in your land.' " This verse was quoted by Jesus when the woman washed his feet and some criticized her for wasting the gift. Jesus said, in reply, that the poor would always be with us and some have taken that to mean we'll always have the poor so there's nothing you can do about it. You can see however that Jesus was quoting the law to say that since we will always have the poor, we must never cease giv­ing. The people who were criticizing the woman for what she did needed to mind their own business and set about helping the poor with their own cash instead of worrying about hers!

That had to make some of the listeners angry....

It's not easy to serve some of these populations. How do you choose who is really in need? We've all heard stories about people holding up signs reading "Will Work For Food" who have been unmasked as frauds, for instance. I remember well the compassion fatigue I suffered after serving a congregation in Los Angeles for over a decade. There were always calls for food and money, and it was tough to decide who needed it when there wasn't that much on our table in the first place.

This doesn't get us off the hook. Nor does quoting Jesus when he said, "You always have the poor with you, but you do not al­ways have me." You know that now.

Sometimes it's in the interest of those in power to deride the poor. Stories about "Welfare Queens," who grow rich off the sys­tem (and these are rare, trust me) are blown out of proportion by the conservative media as justification for denying aid to many who desperately need it. The depiction of black faces supposedly en­gaged in fraud is designed to instill fear in those elements of a white population who want justification for their lack of sympathy.

Fortunately most Christians, even while practicing some mea­sure of discernment in their stewardship, are more likely to err on the side of charity than sensibility.

If you want to know the truth, sometimes it is the people who have the least who are the most generous. I know people with very little money, limited mobility, and difficult lives, who practice ef­fortless discipleship and limitless charity. For them it's the most natural thing in the world.

There's a ghastly — and funny — scene at the beginning of the movie Monty Python and the Holy Grail, which is a send up of every King Arthur movie you've ever seen. The plague is rampant, people are dying, and a man pushes a cart through the muddy streets of a decaying town shouting out, "Bring out your dead!"

One man comes forward with his father over his shoulder ready to throw the body on the cart. There's just one problem — the father says, "I'm not dead yet." In the end his son clunks him over the head and throws him in.

Jesus is not dead yet. But there are some who want to clunk him over the head and speed up the process. What are they think­ing? Jesus just raised Lazarus from the dead. He doesn't fit their preconceived notions of what a prophet ought to be, where he ought to come from, and what hoops he should have jumped through. He is not one of them!

So what is Mary really doing? She is giving him flowers be­fore he dies. Think of the funerals you've been to with all the won­derful flowers. Don't people say, as they ooh and ah, "Oh, she would have loved them." Wouldn't it have been nicer to give the flowers before the death?

Mary takes out the funeral perfume, worth 300 days' pay, and uses it on Jesus. This is her final gift to her Lord. She is not saving the good stuff. She is getting out the good china, the good silver­ware. Her home is not a museum and neither should ours be one. Our lives are lived behind glass.

In effect Mary tells Jesus she knows he must die, but the com­fort begins now. She is present.

Are we present with the dying? Yes we are. We are all dying. Living is dying. We need to comfort each other and bring hope.

How can we lift the sufferings of others — as Mary of Bethany ministers to Jesus even as she anoints him for the tomb — he is not yet dead. Neither are we, yet if our path is set irrevocably in the direction of death it should be aiming directly at life eternal.

Actually things are worse than they seem. Mary breaks all sorts of barriers in the society and shocks people when she ministers to Jesus. There are social, cultural, and religious taboos that separate them — but Jesus reaches across all barriers to touch our lives, and we are called to take some risks to bring the gospel to those on the margins, those who are suffering, those who are lost.

There is no pleasing some people. Yes, she could have given that money to the poor. It's an argument that makes sense. But as pointed out before, instead of worrying about what other people are doing with their money, and giving it away for them, we ought to look in our own wallets and purses and take it upon ourselves to give more. As Jesus said, you will always have the poor with you — do something about it. Don't look to others to do something.

They don't like anything that Mary has done here — touched Jesus, wept on his feet, spent money. No one says, "Okay, there are poor here, so I'll spend my own money on them." It's all about her money.

Mary is using the good china. She is living the resurrection.

You will know Christ in the poor. You will know Christ in your giving. You will know Christ in your relationships. You must have Christ at the center. It is what makes all other things possible and gives them meaning.

This week plan someone's funeral — okay, maybe not that. But we're not dead yet! Let's do wonderful things for the living — and let's do wonderful things for the living Lord.

Remember as you go about the business of the Lord, there is no pleasing some people. Trust me, we can always find something wrong with everything. Jesus is quoting from a Deuteronomy text that makes it clear that rather than criticize others, we ought to get busy ourselves. We ought to pick up our own crosses and follow — it's a parade. The party starts now. It's time for the big show. And the parade continues past palms to crosses and beyond to glory. Amen.

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