Luke 6:27-36 · Love for Enemies
Love Your Enemies--It Will Drive Them Crazy
Luke 6:27-36
Sermon
by Richard A. Wing
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It takes a steady hand to carry a full glass of water. It takes an even steadier heart to carry forgiveness to one who holds you in opposition.

In the Old Testament I like the story of Joseph, particularly its outcome. Joseph is the favored one. The older brothers say, "Dad always liked you best." In this case it was true. The brothers go out and fake Joseph's death. They bring back some bloodied clothes and say to their father, "He is dead." In actuality they have sold him into slavery in Egypt. Time passes. Famine comes to Israel. These brothers are forced to go to Egypt and ask the king for food. Traditionally, the king has been their enemy. Can you imagine the drama of that moment when they lift up their eyes and see their brother? There is an exchange and the very last line is the most important. Joseph looks upon them with the eyes of forgiveness and says, "You intended what you did to me as something that would create evil, but God and I were able to bend it into something good." You see, the noblest revenge is to forgive your enemy, and it is perhaps the last of the lessons that we learn from Jesus.

The words of Jesus that we would like to duck most are the ones in front of us, the ones about forgiving enemies. They are so difficult. Fred Craddock, a good teacher of New Testament and preaching, was teaching an undergraduate course in Oklahoma on the Gospels of Jesus. He was taking the simple writings of Jesus and putting them plainly in front of his students. There was a girl sitting in the back of the class, and as he came to the part about loving your enemies, she stood up and started slamming her books all around. She started mumbling, "Jesus and the losers. I hate Jesus and the losers. I can't stand this." She stuffed her bag and went out still mumbling, "Jesus and a bunch of losers, forgiving their enemies."

Do you remember Reginald Denny who was beaten senseless, almost to death, in Los Angeles? We remember the trial, the riots, and the controversy. But do you remember the fact that in the courtroom he was with the families of those who had beaten him? He had gathered together with them in their homes and had gotten to know them because he realized the only hope for the world was for us to forgive our aggressors. Outside the courtroom, after Denny pronounced forgiveness on those who harmed him, one newspaper man simply said, "Remember Mr. Denny had brain damage ..." So, we call someone brain-damaged who simply follows the command to love our enemies!

There was a young man who came to me after the early service one morning. He had been visiting this church for about three weeks, and he was very intrigued by this text. He said to me, "You know I like the way you talked about this text. I have entertained being a Christian for a long period of time and I still don't know if I am." I said, "Well, join the club because somewhere in what you said is my story, too." We don't so much become a Christian at one particular time in our lives as we constantly come together entertaining the notion. We are constantly in process. It is not an event that happens. Our baptism is not an end; it is a beginning that will leave us stumbling all our lives, stumbling hopefully by some mystery into doing the word that causes us so much difficulty. And still this word remains. "Humanity is never so beautiful as when praying for forgiveness or else forgiving another" (Richter).

Look at the Lord's prayer. We pray it every week and yet it is so dangerous. We become so familiar with it, it is as if we own it. But in the moment that we own it, we can't hear it, and we certainly can't do it. If only we could stand away from the Lord's prayer in such a way that it would be received new every time we say it.

My friend Glen had a man who came to him, wrestling with forgiveness. "I can't. I just can't forgive. I just can't do it." You know that emotion. We all know it. He asked Glen, "How can you help me?" Glen said, "Well, why don't you pray the Lord's prayer each day and then for the next thirty days list all of your trespasses that need forgiveness. Then I want you to come back to me in thirty days, and we'll talk about the trespasses that you feel you need to forgive in another that you don't feel you can." You know the rest of the lesson already. Oddly enough the lists will look very much the same. That is the deeper truth that resides here.

Let's look in three directions at what I call the paradox of forgiveness. Any of you who thinks you are suddenly going to go out and forgive anyone who offends you, doesn't understand this text. It is deeply paradoxical and deeply difficult, and it is not for children. It is time for us to grow up.

I. The truth hurts at the very moment that it heals us.

That's the truth in paradox. Carlisle Marney said, "The truth makes you flinch before it makes you free." "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." Yes, but it makes me so mad before it sets me free. That's the paradox of the truth. It was Scott Peck who said there are two undeniable and inarguable truths. Number one is: The only way to stop is to stop. After all of the talk about our addictions, the things we do that we are sorry for, the only way to stop is in a decisive moment to stop doing that activity. There is a lot of discussion that goes on. A lot of the words are said trying to find some way we can get away with doing it while not changing anything. The only way to stop is to stop.

A Jewish man in Israel discovered that truth. Every day he would go to the Palestinian border with food. He would take it across to an elderly Palestinian couple and he would feed them. The soldiers at the gate would ask every day, "Why are you doing this?" What was even worse, they would discover in time that the couple he was feeding were persons who had lost their son. And even deeper, the Palestinian son whom they had lost in war was the same son who had killed his Israeli son. He knew enough to say, "The only way to stop is to stop." Somebody has to stop it.

The second undeniable truth is:

II. Love makes the world go round.

Did Victor Hugo's Les Miserables really bring that to us? Jean Valjean comes to the Bishop's home and sees the silver there and takes it and is caught. And the Bishop saves him and gives him the worst burden of his life. He forgives him right on the spot. Valjean's entire life is haunted after that by seeking to find that appropriate place where he can give away that kind of love.

Most of the New Testament has been written by the apostle Paul. Have you ever stopped to think of what a gross character he was before his conversion? The one who gave us the most of what we call the "word of God" in the New Testament was killing and persecuting Christians. Later on he would give some terrible understatements about what happened to him, especially on the road to Damascus. He would in time say something so boring as "the love of Christ constrains us." Thank God we have some persons who can give a parallel to it, someone who came after that to say that the love of Christ "leaves us no choice." Jean Valjean knew that. In the mystery of being forgiven we have no choice but to find that incendiary moment in life that we might be called up to do the same even though in any given moment we don't feel like doing it.

Another one who has shown us the love of Christ was Terry Anderson. Everyone was excited about his release from his captors in Lebanon. They were shocked when he came to the news conference. The first question from the news people: "What would you like to have done to your captors?" It was the revenge question. His answer shocked and left them silent. "It isn't what I would like. I am a Catholic. I have been taught as a Christian that I must forgive." Silence. They didn't know how to ask more of him.

Frederick Buechner said: When somebody you have wronged forgives you, you are spared the dull and self-diminishing throb of a guilty conscience. When you forgive someone who has wronged you, you are spared the dismal corrosion of bitterness and wounded pride for both parties. Forgiveness means the freedom again to be at peace inside your own skin and to be glad in each other's presence.

It hurts and heals all in the same moment. We have known that, haven't we?

The word of God cuts and calms all at the same time. The word that helps hurts. It calms us and cuts us deeply.

There is the Jewish story about a man named Abraham who found a beggar and invited him into his home to feed him. The beggar just kept cursing him and being rude. Finally, Abraham kicked him out, saying, "I don't need this." And that night when Abraham went to speak to God in his prayers, he heard the voice of God saying, "This man you kicked out has cursed me for fifty years, and yet I have given him food to eat every day. Could you not put up with him for just a single meal on my behalf?"

There was a Zen school in Japan. They were training young boys in the discipline of meditation. The boys had been taken into seclusion. Among the boys there was one who kept stealing. So the boys finally put together a petition and came to the headmaster and stood there and said, "We are threatening right now to leave because we can't stand this kid any longer." The Zen master, who was so wise, approached them, looked at them, and said, "You are wise brothers. You are very wise. You are wise because you know the difference between right and wrong. You may go somewhere else to study if you wish, but this poor brother does not even know right from wrong. Who will teach him if I do not? I am going to keep him here even if all the rest of you leave." The story goes that a torrent of tears cleansed the face of that boy who had stolen, and the desire to steal was banished from him forever in that decisive moment.

I know a very sharp person in southern California who gave me a gift at Christmastime -- a very interesting book. It is called A Ranking of the 100 Most Influential People in History. It is intriguing because of the criteria stated in it. The criteria, and you have to be careful, is that they must be persons who have influenced the daily lives of people and also people in the world right now. Jesus came in third. Some in the Christian community were upset. Jesus came in third and a rather distant third at that. Now remember the criteria: "who has influenced the most number of people even to this present day." Mohammed came in first, given the fact that that particular faith tradition would have more influence on the daily activities of its people. The second was Sir Isaac Newton. His influence would have to do with our worldview and how we see things differently in the world. But the third was Jesus, and we need to stay with this fact for just a moment. Right under the paragraph that talked about Jesus, it lifted up the text that is in front of us today: "Love your enemies"; "Turn the other cheek." And the people who put the book together said that anyplace you go in the Christian community throughout the world, you will find it self-evidently true that this is not a main belief that Christians live up to. They just don't do it, and we know that to be true. The writer said if they had found permeated in the Christian community that they were so familiar with these words and in support of each other carrying out those words on a daily basis and that the Christian people actually did this, without a shadow of a doubt Jesus would have been in first place. The thing that is to be our hallmark in the Church is our hobby, not a daily way of life.

III. When holding prisoners, make sure to prepare two cells.

If you are interested in holding prisoners in your life make sure to create two cells. Any clergy who would be honest with you will tell you that people often come to them. We clergy know the bottom line when they come into the office: "I just hate this. I just can't do it." A lot of sympathy needs to be given to them, both in primary and secondary emotions. I sat in a courtroom with parents whose daughter was accused of murder and found guilty. I have sat with the parents of children who were killed. There is intense pain in both places that is not easily healed. To talk about forgiveness casually goes right out the window when you are there.

Most often forgiveness cannot be given because we have not forgiven ourselves.

I told you about my friend Glen. As a child, there was a time when he and his father, a minister, had the privilege of going to the home of Corrie ten Boom. You remember her as that lady who, during the Second World War, helped hide Jewish people. Right there in her living room, as Glen was sitting there, she told the story of that time right after the Second World War when she was preaching that we needed to forgive all people, even those who were holding others in oppression. The only hope in the world was going to be in God's forgiveness as seen in Jesus Christ. A former Nazi sat in the front row while she said that. He stood up afterward, came to her, extended his hand, and said, "I was among the Nazis, and I need your forgiveness, and I want to thank you for your forgiveness this night." He held out his hand to her and she started to sweat and shake all over. She could not reach out her hand, and finally a prayer came to her that was really a gift to herself. She said, "God, give me your forgiveness," knowing that only in receiving that forgiveness can you give it away. In that prayer she was able to reach out her trembling hand and begin a very long path, a path that will last our entire lives: forgiving our enemies as we have been forgiven. We hold prisoners to the same degree we hold ourselves prisoners.

So why love our enemies? The person who was making a joke of it said, "Because it will drive them crazy." Why love our enemies? Because most often we isolate in them our weaknesses and seek to kill in them what we cannot control in ourselves. John Shea also warned that once you start to love your enemy you are going to lose something that has really been good for you in your life. He said, "The terrible effect of seeing God in all people is that our enemies are taken from us. Enemies supply energy. When we wake each morning in a mode of anger and attack, we know we are alive. We are ready to go. But when we see the others having the same crimes we do, something shifts. The edge is off. There is a problem. The enemy is us. We must love them in their crimes as we are loved in our crimes. This is not mental gymnastics. This is simply what the heart that loves God chooses to see."

Fred Craddock tells an imaginary story of Jesus after his death and resurrection. He has this window of opportunity to be with the persons who have loved him and also deserted him. There are times they are eating together. There are informal moments. There is no big plan for the future. There is simple sharing. Craddock has Jesus poking around the fire after breakfast one morning. One of the women who saw the cross and saw everything that happened there is agonizing over it. She says, "Jesus, they were so terrible to you. We were there. It was so awful. Jesus, you were a victim. I don't like the idea of you being a victim." Then she finally says, "They took your life." And Jesus, not even looking up, just poking in the fire, says with a victorious half smile, "They didn't take my life. I gave it."

Jesus said, "Love your enemies. Do good. Expecting nothing in return, your reward will be great, and you will be children of the most high."

I had a dream the other night. Actually it was more of a nightmare. I was preaching this sermon, using this text. Someone in the back row came up to the front and stood right next to the pulpit and wanted to interrogate me about this text. "Now tell me, Dick. Tell me about this text. Do you live this out any better than we do?" In the dream I remember, and this is reality, too, I said, "Of course not. Of course not. What do you think I am doing here? The only reason I am in this pulpit is because one time I read in the book of Hebrews that the one whom we call our priest is the same one who participates in the various sins we preach against. When I read that as a very young man, I said, 'For that reason alone I can enter ministry.' As for perfection, you can forget it. I am the same as you are, no better." "Then, Dick, I have one question to leave you with, 'Why do you preach this message?' " And in the dream I remember saying to him that I have discovered that if we keep looking at this text that makes us so uncomfortable, if we keep reading it and confess in the presence of God how much we fail it, then someday without even knowing it, we will find ourselves living this word rather than discussing it. The day that you live this word out when it is needed most in the life of another will be at a moment that you are not even conscious you have done it. Meanwhile, we stand, arms linked together, as we affirm: "Love your enemies." Confess how much we fail it, and listen to the voice of God that nudges us slowly toward the goal.

CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, Deep Joy For A Shallow World, by Richard A. Wing