Romans 13:8-14 · Love, for the Day is Near
Lose the Cape
Romans 13:11-14
Sermon
by Charley Reeb
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When I was in college, I went to a friend’s house for a pool party. I remember it being pretty tame by college standards. The parents were home! However, the dad of the house had a great personality. We told jokes, laughed and carried on.

Later in the evening, we were sitting by the pool and the father asked me what my major was. I told him it was religion. He laughed and said, “Yeah, right.” I said, “No, I’m serious. It is religion.” He asked, “Why religion?” I told him I planned on being a preacher. He said, “A what? You don’t seem like any preacher I know (I took that as a compliment). You laugh and joke and have fun. You seem normal.”

Before I left the party, he said something to me I will never forget: “I’m in my fifties and you are the first Christian I’ve ever met that I enjoy being around.”

I don’t tell you that story because I’m the hero — because, believe me, I’ve got a lot a work to do. I’m not always the hero in my stories! I tell you that story because the father at the party is not alone. There are people everywhere who have never had a positive experience of Christians.

Oliver Wendell Holmes once said, “I might have entered the ministry if certain clergymen I knew had not looked and acted so much like undertakers.”

Robert Louis Stevenson once wrote in his diary, “I have been to church today, and am not depressed!”

Of course, Ghandi was famous for saying, “I like your Christ. It is Christians I have a problem with.”

Shane Claiborne put it well: “Christianity has lost its fascination because it looks less and less like Jesus.”

Sadly, when many of our friends, co-workers, and neighbors think of Christians, they don’t think of Jesus, love or kindness. They think of people who are judgmental, opinionated, and hypocritical. Are we surprised there are so many empty pews?

As a Christian, have you ever thought about the kind of impression you make on others? What words would people use to describe you?

These are good questions to ask as we begin Advent. Many folks who don’t go to church or claim a religion are yearning for the light and joy of the season. When they don’t find it in the commercialization of Christmas, will they find it in those of us who claim to follow Christ and celebrate his birth?

The apostle Paul gave the following appeal:

It is now the moment for you to wake from sleep… Let us then lay aside the works of darkness and put on the armor of light (Romans 13:11-12 NRSV).

Jesus said something similar in Matthew:

“Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven(Matthew 5:16 NIV).

Imagine if every Christians, in this world (that’s 2.2 billion people, over 30% of the world’s population) would get up every day, read these verses of scripture and say, “Today I am going to wear my armor of light. With every person I meet, in every circumstance I am in, I am going to let my light shine.” Could you imagine what this world would be like? It would be a different world!

Unfortunately, for many Christians it is “lights out!” They have turned out their lights by favoring judgment over grace, hate over love, rules over relationships, dogma over forgiveness, and despair over hope.

I remember eating at an IHOP one morning. I was sitting in a booth facing a window that looked out at the parking lot. I watched as a car pulled in to a parking space. A woman and a man got out, and they were fighting with each other. I could not hear what they saying, but their body language said it all. I assumed they were married because they were fighting like a married couple. That is not a big deal. We all have our moments. But what was interesting about the lady is that she forgot what shirt  she decided to put on that morning. Her T-shirt read, “Christ is Alive at … Community Church.” Well, there was something alive in that woman that day, but I am not sure it was Jesus! Be careful of the T-shirts you wear and the bumper stickers you put on your car. Be sure you are living up to their messages!

Jesus didn’t say, “Let your bad attitude show so that nobody in their right mind would want to be a Christian.” Jesus said, “Let your light shine before others.”

You know who understands this better than anyone? Children. They know how to let their light shine. That’s why Jesus said that unless we can become like children we will never enter the kingdom of God.

My wife and I saw this message lived out when we were on a road trip a few years ago. We stopped at a pharmacy to grab some items for the road. We were in the checkout line when a grandmother and her four-year- old grandson walked into the store. Behind me was a big peanut “M&M” display. A yellow peanut “M&M” figure was holding up a big tray of candy. The four-year-old ran to the figure, which was about the same height as him, and smiled at it. He then threw his arms around it and said, “I love you!”

The whole place lit up! My wife and I laughed. The clerk laughed. All the people around us laughed. That child brightened the entire store! Walgreens never felt so happy. Kids know. “Put on the armor of light.”

Unfortunately, Christians are known by a lot of things, but shining our light is way down on the list. Many Christians have forgotten to be the light! Have you? Now, I am not saying we have to be perfect, but we as Christians need to be doing a better job at shining our lights.

I remember when I was serving another church, a lady set an appointment with me. She was angry about something. Pastors love these appointments. She sat down in my office and said, “I have problems with some of your sermons.” I replied, “Well, tell me. What’s the problem?” She said, “You preach on love too much!” I said, “Well, before we go any further I want to suggest that you never say that to anyone else. You will not come across in a positive manner.” She did not like that very well. She continued, “You preach on love too much. Where is the judgment? Where is the talk about sin?” I responded, “Well, I believe those subjects deserve study and attention, but last time I checked, Jesus said that the world will know we are his disciples if we have love for one another. And the Bible also says to let our let shine so we glorify our Father in heaven. He didn’t tell us to let our judgment shine.”

I would like to tell you that she had a change of heart, but she didn’t. She stormed out of my office in anger. Sitting in judgment was more important to her than it was to Jesus.

When did Christians lose sight of the fact that we need to let our light shine? Tony Campolo tells the sad story from his high school days of how he failed to be a Christian. There was a boy in his class named Roger who was gay. He was tormented relentlessly by his classmates. They abused him emotionally and physically. One day, the abuse reached an unspeakable level. Five boys dragged Roger into the shower room, shoved him into the corner, and urinated all over him.

Around two o’clock the next morning, Roger went down into the basement of his house and hung himself.

When Campolo heard about it, he says he realized he wasn’t a Christian. He knew all the right answers and could quote you chapter and verse of scripture, but he felt he hadn’t live out his faith when it had come to Roger. If he had, he would have stood up for Roger and protected him. He would have been his friend. Perhaps that would have prevented him from taking his life (storiesforpreaching.com).

When did we as Christians lose our light? If you have lost your light, a great way to get it back is to reflect on these words of Jesus:

“You are the light of the world! A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:14-16 NIV)

I believe that in these verses Jesus is telling us that there is no such thing as a private Christian. We are called to stand out by letting our light shine. I also believe Jesus is reminding us that our light is attractive. The Christian faith is attractive. Our message is the most attractive message in the world! God created us, loves us, and wants a relationship with us. He wants us to share his love with the world! What is more attractive than that?

The late Aretha Franklin understood the attractiveness of God’s light and love. She once said, “When God loves you, what can be better than that?” She was right. There is nothing better than that.

But there are a lot of people who don’t know that love — who don’t know they are loved. This is a cold, dark world and people are dying to see and feel our light. There are people who are wondering if the violence and evil around us is all there is. People desperately need love.

Growing up one of my favorite actors was Burt Reynolds. In the ’70s and ’80s, he  owned  Hollywood and had the world by the tail. He was in about half the movies that came out. Many people know, however, that Burt had his fair share of troubles in life. Drug abuse and relationship problems severely wounded him.

One night, I was staying in a hotel and couldn’t sleep. I turned on the TV and there was Burt Reynolds being interviewed. He was being completely vulnerable about the source of pain in his life. His story is heart-wrenching. He said, “My dad never told me that he loved me. I would have given anything for him to tell me that he loved me, but he never did. At the end of his life, I thought he might say it -- but he never did.” Can you imagine?

There are people you come across every day who are starving for love and light. They may look like they have it all together. They may be smiling, but inside they are desperate for compassion and love. What are we going to do about it?

Are you letting your light shine? Do you have on your “armor of light.” If not, why not? Folks who are not Christians are watching us, wondering if our message has any credibility. If not, why should they bother with our faith? They don’t expect us to be perfect, but they do expect to see some evidence that the light of Christ is real. How can they know unless we let it shine?

When Mister Rogers was a little boy and would see scary news on television, his mom would sit next to him, put her arms around him, and say, “Sweetheart, just look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping. That will make you feel better.”

In a world filled with hate, judgement, and violence, people are desperately looking for the helpers; the encouragers; the lovers — wondering if there is any hope. Either we believe Jesus Christ is the help and hope of  the world or we don’t. Either we believe Jesus is the light of the world or we don’t. Either we believe the light of

Christ is within us or we don’t.

The message of this sermon is simple: “Be the change you want to see in the world!” I don’t know who said that, but they were right! As the old hymn says, “Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me!” Shine your light on someone. Encourage someone. Lift someone up. Write someone a kind note. Invite someone to church and take them to lunch. Call a loved one and tell them that you love them. Share your faith with a friend. Never underestimate the power of God’s light within you. Booker T. Washington said, “If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.” Have you ever seen the movie The Incredibles? It’s about a family of superheroes who tries to save the world from total destruction. In Bob Goff’s book Love Does, he writes about the superhero dad in the movie. The dad is an insurance claims adjustor, but he really wants to use his superhero powers, so he begins drawing pictures of the superhero suits he wants to wear. Of course, all the suits include capes.

The dad has a friend named Edna who makes superhero suits, and she keeps telling him that he needs to lose the cape. She tells him how in the end, capes cause big problems for superheroes. They get caught on things like gates or jet engines. Edna says in the movie, “No capes!” You get a lot more stuff done if you lose the cape.

Bob Goff thinks Jesus agrees with Edna, and so do I! You know what I think will draw the world to Christ and leave a good taste in people’s mouths about religion? It will be when Christians lose the cape. So many of us who follow Christ do it with a cape representing something — a cape to be noticed by others so they will think we are so good; a cape representing something we are against or some judgment we hold for certain people; a cape symbolizing our denomination, political views, or our interpretation of scripture. Soon we become known by our capes and not by Jesus. Our capes hide our light (Bob Goff, Love Does, Nashville, Thomas Nelson Publishers, 2012, page 159).

Another problem is that if we go around serving Jesus with capes, they eventually get snagged on something — our pride; other people’s feelings; people’s perceptions of those who follow God. Our capes get in the way.

Goff reminds us that Jesus never wore a cape. Jesus hardly ever talked about the way he loved people. He just did it. All that mattered to him was that God knew  it. When we lose the cape, we don’t get confused about what our purpose is, which is to love. All our energy is channeled into doing great things for God and loving the world like crazy (Goff).

Let’s lose the cape as Christians and just go out and share the light and love of Jesus. When we serve Jesus without a cape people will want to know more about Jesus. This Advent season let us put on the armor of light and draw people to the light of the world.

Amen.


*(Portions of this sermon were preached on Day1: http://day1.org/8293-charley_reeb_lose_the_cape)

CSS Publishing Company, Inc., Lose the Cape: Cycle A sermons based on second lessons for Advent, Christmas, and Epiphany, by Charley Reeb