Matthew 2:1-12 · The Visit of the Magi
Kneeling And Redirection
Matthew 2:1-12
Sermon
by Richard A. Wing
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Three wise men come from the east bringing gifts to the infant Jesus, and in the process receive a gift worth the distance and effort they spent. After depositing their gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh, they in turn receive a gift: They are redirected.

That is what we all get after kneeling before Jesus: we are redirected. That different direction after kneeling before Jesus means that your joy in life will not be in seeking happiness and fulfillment directly, but in intentionally walking the way of service, sacrifice, and surrender. The new direction involves finding the holy in the least expected places, the very places we would most like to avoid.

I. Different Way Of Pain

Jesus redirects us by inviting us to face pain head-on rather than avoiding it, which is the way most people confront being uncomfortable and being in pain.

I remember that moment in which Peter makes the great confession that Jesus is the Christ of God. Right after that Jesus says he will be opposed by the religious leaders and will be killed. That is when Peter takes Jesus aside and "rebukes him" (a strong Biblical word). In turn, Jesus rebukes Peter and says in essence, "Your refusal to face pain is the kind of work that is at its core evil." Jesus then sets his face toward Jerusalem and faces the inevitable pain of life.

Jesus instructs us that our joy in life will not be in the escaping of pain and evil, but will be in the very midst of the storm of pain and evil. You might remember also that Peter was the one who protested that storm on the sea. When we read the words of Jesus, "Peace, be still," we make a grave error. We assume that he was talking to the weather, but he was not. He spoke to Peter. God does not come and take us away from the inevitable storms of life. God comes in the form of the promised presence of calm in the midst of whatever happens to us. God has never promised to take us away from any of life's disasters or pain. God has always promised to go with us through all of them. That promised presence makes the difference.

When we make friends with the fact that to live is to know pain and that it is better faced than escaped (which is never successful), then we can see more clearly. We can see that the common thread in the human family is the experience of pain. We are not united by joys. Joys are so varied, and people are joyous for very different reasons. We are not united by color or language or belief. We are united by those things that grieve us.

Carlisle Marney said, "All our grief comes from one thing: something ends before we were ready for it to end." I have never found a more common thread among people in parish life than in the conversations that I have had with people who lost their fathers like I did. The language of our pain and losses is the same.

Garrison Keillor told the story of the time that his mother and father took him to the city to visit an aunt who was lonely and alone after the death of her husband of 55 years. He describes how she looked to him at ten years of age. Her dress was stained with food spots, her rouge was heavy on one side, her lipstick was crooked, her fake pearls did not go with her dress. She sat at the table as they ate together. The aunt began to cry. "I have nothing left to live for. I might as well die." She started to cry as she kept chewing her food. "I'll bet that if I died tomorrow, no one would even come to my funeral, not even you folks." Garrison, seeking to be helpful at ten years of age, said, "Oh, I'd come. I'd be glad to come to your funeral." Reflecting on her outburst, Keillor concludes as he thinks back forty years: "Every tear that poor woman cried, we will cry also before we leave this world and give in to the one death we owe."

A rabbinical student came to love one of his teachers so much that he finally told the rabbi, "I love you, Rabbi!" The reply was swift. "How can you love me unless you know what hurts me?" We find in time that to know truly and be bound to one another is to be open to and share what hurts the other.

Jesus invites us toward Jerusalem to face pain rather than run from it. It is the only way we can get home, and the way we would most like to avoid.

II. Different Way Of Small Victories

On this day of Epiphany, which celebrates the light of Christ being spread into the world, it is a good time for us to make friends with the small victories that will be ours, rather than continue the myth that there are big deals that we must negotiate.

On this day, it is good for us to take a Mother Teresa 101 course. Three things she said will help us.

The first has to do with the time she came to her Bishop and asked that he create an order for her to lead that would take care of dying people on the streets. He asked her how much money she had. She pulled out two cents. He said that she could not build an order on two cents. She said, "With God and two cents you can do anything." She won a small victory of permission in order to paint her vision of much love for a dying world.

The second thing has to do with what Mother Teresa said just after she won the Nobel Peace Prize. She announced to the world: "There are no big deals anymore. Only many small things to be done with great love." The third thing that Mother Teresa said that helps us in downward mobility in order to serve the Christ was this: "Don't think that by your little acts of kindness that you are going to change the world. AND it is so important that you do them."

Loren Eiseley comes running after the spirit of Mother Teresa in his description of the star-thrower. The star-thrower knows the power of small victories. The star-thrower is the man on the beach who is faced by millions of starfish washed ashore that will die in the day if they are not thrown back in. A man at breakfast watches from a distance as another man carefully throws some back, one at a time. He walks to the beach to talk to the star-thrower and asks him what he is doing. The reply dwells on the obvious. "I am throwing the starfish back in so they can live." The observer musters up some cynicism and says, "You don't think this will make a difference, do you?" The star-thrower holds up one starfish and says, "It makes a difference to this one." And he throws it in the ocean.

When Jesus asked us to let our light shine before all people, I am sure he did not have a lighthouse in mind, but simple everyday acts of kindness to be done in his name, most of which are given anonymously.

When I lived in San Diego, I was most impressed by the stories of two women who knew the meaning of small victories. Both lived in poor communities and wanted to make a contribution but didn't know what to do. The first lady had a vision of helping the kids in the neighborhood. She said the vision that came to her was God instructing her to back her car out of the garage. She did. Next she decided that the open room in the garage could be made into a place to teach and nurture the neighborhood children. She invited them in, taught them about God and self-esteem, and nurtured their reading and writing abilities. Many years later those young people come back from leading successful lives and proclaim that the difference was in this wonderful woman who backed her car out of the garage and gave her love to kids who needed it.

The other woman not far away wanted to feed the homeless in the neighborhood and could not get a permit from the city. Watching the people needing food daily, she decided to go the way of the Nike slogan and "Just Do It." The city said she could not feed people out of the front of the house, so she set up benches in the backyard and fed 150 people a day. When the city called, she said that it was not breaking the law: "These people are not homeless people or clients; they are my family. I always feed my family in the backyard of my home." And the city left her alone. She knew the different way that Jesus calls, the way of small victories done quietly in his name.

Someone said, "Life is what happens to you when you make other plans." Jesus says that life begins by taking a different way home than the world teaches. Jesus shows us that by kneeling in front of the divine, we get a new direction. That new direction includes facing the inevitable pain in life and developing a theology of small victories as we give ourselves to what God needs done next.

The way of Jesus is a longer way than we anticipated traveling and is most often on a road that we would not have chosen had we known where it was going. And the end of the journey is to discover that the redirected way of life that Jesus calls us to is, in fact, in miles and in blessing.

To walk the way of Jesus is to kneel before the holy with empty hands, not with the words "give me," but with the humble prayer that begins, "make me." At that moment Christ sets us on paths we would never have chosen. At the end of life, we discover that his redirected paths are the ones we would have chosen in the first place, had we known. Had we known that the human family is blessed by facing pain rather than running from it, and had we known that the deepest joy of all is in the small shafts of light we can shed on a suffering world, we would have gladly chosen the way of the Christ in the first place. Amen

CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, Deep Joy For A Shallow Wolrd, by Richard A. Wing