Hebrews 4:14-5:10 · Jesus the Great High Priest
Is Suffering Really Necessary?
Hebrews 4:14-5:10
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by King Duncan
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Sometimes you just can't win. A man had been driving all night and by morning was still far from his destination. He decided to stop at the next city he came to, and park somewhere quiet so he could get an hour or two of sleep. As luck would have it, the quiet place he chose happened to be on one of the city's major jogging routes. No sooner had he settled back to snooze when there came a knocking on his window. He looked out and saw a jogger running in place. "Yes?" he said. "Excuse me, sir," the jogger said, "do you have the time?" The man looked at the car clock and answered, "8:15." The jogger said thanks and left. The man settled back again, and was just dozing off when there was another knock on the window and another jogger. 

"Excuse me, sir, do you have the time?" asked the jogger. "8:25!" the man replied. The jogger said thanks and left. Now the man could see other joggers passing by and he knew it was only a matter of time before another one disturbed him. To avoid the problem, he got out a pen and paper and put a sign in his window saying, "I do not know the time!" Once again he settled back to sleep. He was just dozing off when there was another knock on the window. "Sir, sir?" said a jogger seeking to be helpful. " It's 8:45!" Sometimes you just can't win. Joanna Slan was waiting in line at a restaurant. She overheard a nurse from a local hospital talking. The nurse tells this story: "Work was pretty uneventful last night," she said. "Then they brought in a guy who wanted to go fishing and got tired of blowing up his raft boat. He and his buddy took it down to the local gas station and filled it up at the tire air machine. But then it wouldn't fit in the car. So this guy climbs on the car and stretches his arms over the top of the boat, holding it onto the roof while his buddy drives. His wife is following behind them in the other car. Everything went all right until a big semi passed them in the opposite lane doing 50 and the draft caused the boat to lift up off the car. Then the guy is airborne. First he flies up in the air. Then, he lands on the trunk of his buddy's car. Finally he crashes onto the road and his wife runs over him! Fortunately his only injury was a broken foot." (1) Sometimes you just can't win. Other times, the situation is much worse than that: life does all it can to crush you. 

Carson McCullers, the novelist, was described at her death as having a "vocation of pain." 

"Much of her art," a critic related, "seemed to have flowed from her own tortured life." Before she was 29, Mrs. McCullers had suffered three strokes that paralyzed her left side. Discouraged, she was sure that she could never write again. Eventually she resumed her work, writing a page a day. However, her pain increased in her later years. Her husband committed suicide, and illness left her a virtual cripple. In a rare mention of her troubles, she said, "Sometimes I think God got me mixed up with Job. But Job never cursed God, and neither have I. I carry on." (2)
Why do innocent people suffer? Here was a young adult who suffered grievously. Why? Our hearts break when we see little children stricken with awful diseases, but why do old folks suffer? Some of you have seen your parents battle cancers and heart problems and Alzheimer. Nothing they have done could ever merit such suffering. Of course, you don't have to be old to suffer--or young. And suffering doesn't have to be physical. Some of life's deepest scars never show on the surface. 

WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE? asked the author of a best-selling book a few years back, and the question still mystifies us. Why did Jesus suffer? The Son of God, the innocent Lamb, without sin, perfect love, embodied and personified, and yet he was reviled and beaten and crucified. Why? The early church struggled mightily with that question. In fact, some of our most prized theological statements came out of that struggle. Why did Christ suffer? The writer of Hebrews said something interesting on this subject. He said that Christ "learned obedience from the things which He suffered." 

That's deep--too deep for me. Jesus learned obedience through suffering. What does it mean? Wasn't Jesus already perfectly obedient to God's will? In some respects this passage raises more theological questions than answers. But it also helps us to think new thoughts about suffering. Suffering can bring meaning to life. Suffering is not only a demonic intrusion in our lives. We can profit from suffering. 

It's said that the best thing that ever happened to boxer Gene Tunney was that he broke both hands in the ring. After this, his manager felt that he could never again punch hard enough to be the heavyweight champion. Instead, Tunney decided that he would become a scientific boxer and win the title as a boxer, not a slugger. Boxing historians will tell you that he developed into one of the best boxers who ever fought. They also will tell you that as a puncher, he would not have had a chance against Jack Dempsey, who was considered by many to be the hardest hitter in heavyweight history. Tunney would never have been champion had he not had the problems of his broken hands. (3) Sometimes suffering brings benefits to us that are not immediately apparent. 

Businessman Harvey Mackay in his book, PUSHING THE ENVELOPE: ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP, notes that life crises can have long-term positive effects. He cites a study in which more than 87 percent of people studied said crises like the death of a loved one, illness, breakup, divorce, etc., gave them a stronger sense of purpose in life. (4)
Dr. Samuel Zwemer notes the striking fact that the only thing Jesus took pains to show after His resurrection was HIS SCARS. His disciples recognized neither Him nor His message on the Emmaus road. Not until He broke the bread and they saw the scars were their sensibilities aroused. When He stood in the midst of His demoralized disciples in the upper room after the resurrection, he showed them his hands and his side. (5) 

The writer of Hebrews is right. There is something instructive about suffering. People have testified repeatedly that a painful experience was the best thing that ever happened to them. Then they discovered how much people loved them. Then they discovered that they had resources they never knew they had. 

CERTAINLY, SUFFERING MAKES US MORE COMPASSIONATE TOWARD OTHERS WHO ARE ALSO FACING OBSTACLES. 

Do you remember the transformation that came over Lee Atwater, former President George Bush's campaign manager after it was discovered that, at age forty, he was dying of a brain tumor. He said, "My illness helped me to see that what was missing in society is what was missing in me--a little heart, a lot of brotherhood . . . and to see that we must be made to speak to this spiritual vacuum at the heart of American society, this tumor of the soul." (6)  Suffering does that to people. They get out of themselves and begin to see others in a different light. 

After going through a long and heart-breaking period of depression, Christian author Mark Littleton discovered that God had used his pain to soften his heart toward others. He became less judgmental, less self-centered, more willing to empathize with others. Littleton reports that he was at a party where a certain woman began ridiculing his religious beliefs. As he listened to her verbal assault, he realized that she was reacting out of pain. Privately, the woman confided to Mark that she had been divorced three times, the last time under especially painful conditions. Mark could identify with the woman's pain, and tears filled his eyes. When the woman saw those tears, she asked Mark to tell her about his faith. Once she knew he cared about her, she was willing to listen. (7) The case for the emotional and spiritual benefits of suffering is so strong that one is left with the question whether anyone can ever reach spiritual maturity without having their heart broken at least once. 

We're told that on the Boeing 707 jet aircraft, a line of small blades is placed halfway down the upper wing. These little blades that stick up from the otherwise smooth wings are called "vortex generators." They are put on the plane for the purpose of creating turbulence in the airflow that passes over the wing. The plane designers had discovered that the Boeing 707 would not steer accurately when the air current was too smooth. (8) Perhaps that is true of our lives. Perhaps suffering is essential to make our souls fit to spend eternity with God. 

CERTAINLY SUFFERING REMINDS US OF OUR DEPENDENCE ON GOD. Early in our lives we think we are in control of things. We think we are captains of our destiny. But suddenly life veers out of control. A lump in a breast, an automobile accident, a sports injury or a host of other surprising bumps in the road, large and small, and suddenly we are reminded of our mortality. We are reminded that we are not in control. And so we turn to a Power greater than our own. And we discover there a Friend closer than a brother. A Friend who understands our need.
Jameson Jones tells the story of an angry crowd standing before the throne of God. They are unhappy with their lot in life, and they question whether God cares about them. 

"What right does God have to pass judgement on my life?" one man cries out. Another shouts, "Yeah, what does God know of our world? If God is going to judge us, then let Him come down to earth where we are. Let Him find out what it's like to live in poverty." Another person says, "Let Him find out what it's like to be a member of a hated minority." And another adds, "How would God deal with the heartaches we have to live with? How would He like to suffer the way we do?" And from somewhere in the crowd, one person whispers a Name. And though it is just a whisper, the whole crowd grows silent at the sound. For he has whispered the name of Jesus Christ. And they all realize that God does understand. (9) 

One of the major turning points for Joni Eareckson Tada during her own battle with faith after losing the use of her arms and legs in an accident occurred when a friend pointed out to her that Christ knew what it was like to be paralyzed. Philip Yancey writes: "One night especially, Joni became convinced that God did understand. Pain was streaking through her back in a way that is a unique torment to those paralyzed. Healthy persons can scratch an itch, squeeze an aching muscle, or flex a cramped foot. The paralyzed must lie still, defenseless, and feel the pain. Cindy, one of Joni's closest friends, was beside her bed, searching desperately for some way to encourage her. Finally, she clumsily blurted out, "Joni, Jesus knows how you feel--you aren't the only one--why, he was paralyzed too."
Joni glared at her. "What? What are you talking about?" 

Cindy continued, "It's true. Remember, he was nailed on a cross. His back was raw from beatings, and he must have yearned for a way to move to change positions, or redistribute his weight. But he couldn't. He was paralyzed by the nails." The thought intrigued Joni. It had never occurred to her before that God had felt the exact piercing sensations that racked her body. The idea was profoundly comforting." (10) It is comforting to turn to a Power greater than your own and to discover there a Friend who has experienced the full range of human emotions. Maybe this is what the writer of Hebrews meant when he said that Christ learned obedience though suffering. Suffering is a great teacher. It teaches us compassion for others. It teaches us dependence on God. 


1.  Joanna Slan, USING STORIES AND HUMOR-GRAB YOUR AUDIENCE! (Boston: Allyn and Bacon, 1998), p. 180. 

2. Stan Toler, God Has Never Failed Me, But He Sure Has Scared Me to Death a Few Times! (Tulsa: Honor Books, 1995). 

3. Zig Ziglar, SOMETHING TO SMILE ABOUT (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1997), p. 170.

4. (New York: Ballantine Books, 1999). 

5. J. Oswald Sanders, SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP (Bromley: STL Books, 1967). 

6. TIME, May 10, 1993. Cited in LIFE WITH A CAPITAL "L" by Barbara Roberts Pine (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1994), p. 48. 

7. Mark Littleton, THE STORM WITHIN (Wheaton, IL: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., 1994), pp. 117-118. 

8. A. Philip Parham, LETTING GOD: CHRISTIAN MEDITATIONS FOR RECOVERING PERSONS (Harper San Francisco, 1987). 

9. Robert C. Morgan, LIFT HIGH THE CROSS (Nashville: Abingdon Press, 1995), pp. 22-23. 

10. Philip Yancey, WHERE IS GOD WHEN IT HURTS? (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 1977), pp. 118-119. Cited in THE STORM WITHIN by Mark Littleton, Tyndale House Publishers, Wheaton, IL, 1994, p. 133.    

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan