John 14:15-31 · Jesus Promises the Holy Spirit
Framed by Love
John 14:15-21
Sermon
by April Yamasaki
Loading...

On my writing desk at home, I have a framed photo of my husband taken a number of years ago. It’s a  simple head and shoulders pose on a plain background in a slender gold-toned frame from a drug store. In other words, objectively speaking, the photo and its frame are really nothing special. They have no particular artistic or monetary value in the marketplace. Yet no matter how full my desk gets with books and files, papers and more papers, there’s always room for that photo too, because I think of it as framed by love - the romantic love as husband and wife, the friendship and partnership love that has deepened over the years, the love we have for God who has joined us together.

The words of Jesus in our text this morning are also framed by love. At the start of our reading, he says, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (verse 15). This is no threat. Jesus is not saying, do this or else. Instead his words are a statement of identity. If you love me, this is how you will live. If you love me, you will keep my commandments. Then at the end of our reading, Jesus rephrases the same statement of identity: “They who have my commandments and keep them are those who love me” (verse 21).

Earlier in John’s gospel, Jesus said to his disciples, “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another” (John 13:34). At  the time, Jesus had just demonstrated  his love for his disciples by washing their feet. For their teacher and Lord to perform such a lowly task for them was a striking illustration of his love and service. The “new commandment” was a reminder that they too were called to love one another.

Yet this so-called new commandment to love was already an old commandment, an ancient commandment. Centuries earlier in the Old Testament, God instructed the people, “You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord” (Leviticus 19:18). Earlier in Jesus’ own ministry, when a lawyer asked him about the greatest commandment, Jesus spoke of loving God and loving your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:34- 40; Mark 12:28-31, Luke 10:25-28).

So when Jesus told his disciples to love one another, he was hardly telling them anything new. Instead, he gave them a very old and very familiar commandment. They had heard it before and could probably say if off by heart. But the way Jesus defined love was new, for he said, “Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another” (John 13:34).

In his life and ministry, Jesus showed love for his disciples over and over again. He invited them into relationship with him. He shared the good news of God’s kingdom and taught them. He settled  their  quarrels  and answered their questions. He included them in his ministry. He would forgive them for falling asleep on him and deserting him in his time of need. And finally he would give up his life on the cross. Clearly for Jesus, love meant even more than washing feet.

Jesus’ love for his disciples and for the world cost him his life. It was a self-giving, sacrificial love. It was love in action - often unexpected like washing feet or talking with a Samaritan woman or healing a blind man. For Jesus, love was literally a matter of life and death. What’s more, Jesus said, that’s how all people will know that you are my disciples, when you love one another just as I have loved you.

That’s an impossibly high standard, isn’t it? Who among the disciples could love like Jesus? Who among  us can love in that surprising, self-giving, and sacrificial way? If that’s the gold standard of love, we might as well cut our losses and give up now!

But in our text, Jesus also tells his disciples that he will not abandon them to struggle along on their own. Instead he says, “I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate, to be with you forever” (verse 16). The word “advocate” may also be translated as encourager, comforter, helper, mediator. Although Jesus would leave the disciples, God’s Spirit as advocate and mediator would be ever present to encourage, comfort, and help them. That included helping the disciples to love one another.

For us today, God’s Spirit also helps us. When love seems too demanding, when we struggle to live out our true identity as beloved by God and loving others, we have an encourager and helper. When we lose our way and need to find it again, we have an advocate and mediator to comfort us and bring us home.

When it comes to loving relationships today, many of us might think first of our biological families: mother and father, brother and sister, our spouse, our children. But Jesus himself remained single, and in his earthly ministry he expanded the definition of love and family life beyond the biological family. So when Jesus’ mother and his siblings came looking for him, the gospel of Mark says that Jesus replied, “‘Who are my mother and my brothers?’ And looking at those who sat around him, he said, ‘Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother’” (Mark 3:33-35). Jesus’ definition of love and family reached beyond his biological family to include the family of faith.

As followers of Jesus, we also need to expand our definition  of  love  and  family  to  include  the  family   of faith. That means our church family,  and  beyond  that, the followers of Jesus in other congregations and denominations. Beyond the family of faith is the whole human family. In sending Jesus, God’s love embraced  the world. That’s the kind of love Jesus showed in his life and death, and the kind of love God wants to work in and through us.

So what if we could frame everything that happens in our lives with love? What would that look like? If there’s a family tragedy or some other difficulty among us, can we frame that with love by our prayers, by a visit, a hug, a card, a phone call or text or email, a casserole dish, some baking, dropping by with groceries, giving a ride, offering to care for the children, being quiet together, crying together.

What about when we disappoint and fail one another?

If the definition of love is Jesus, then failure seems inevitable, and can we frame that with love? When we fall short, when we are too weary or pre-occupied to love others, can we confess and repent, make amends and forgive, and learn to care for one another again? Can we turn to God’s Spirit to help us to keep loving one another?

And what about on a national and international scale? Instead of focusing only on our own needs, can we in love consider the needs of others? Can we demonstrate love by acting with justice and mercy, by sharing what we have and not taking more? Instead of hostility, can our political debates and discussions be framed by words of love and kindness?

To make a start on any of this, we’ll need to encourage one another, and we’ll need to be reminded of Jesus’ example and teaching. Our Lord leads the way. Our divine encourager helps us. So let us walk in the new commandment of Jesus, and love one another.

Our lives are framed by the love of God, from creation to new creation, from birth to life eternal. If we love him - since we love him - let us also love one another. With praise and thanks to God, Amen.

CSS Publishing Company, Inc., On the way with Jesus: Cycle A sermons for Lent and Easter based on the Gospel texts, by April Yamasaki