John 4:1-26 · Jesus Talks With a Samaritan Woman
A Most Unlikely Evangelist
John 4:1-26
Sermon
by King Duncan
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A Mercedes-Benz TV commercial shows one of their cars colliding with a concrete wall during a safety test. Someone then asks a Mercedes engineer why their company does not enforce their patent on their car's energy-absorbing car body. The Mercedes' design has been copied by almost every other car maker in the world in spite of the fact that they have an exclusive patent.

The engineer replies in a clipped German accent, "Because in life, some things are just too important not to share." (1)

Wow! What a great statement. Some things are just too important not to share. As Christians we believe that the good news of Jesus Christ is one of those things that is too important not to share. No, that is an understatement. We believe that Jesus Christ MUST be shared with our friends, our neighbors, the world. The work of sharing the news of Jesus Christ we call evangelism. The Christian faith has been advanced through the ages by people who were willing to take upon themselves the responsibility of being evangelists ” those who spread the good news of Christ.

It is my pleasure today to introduce you to an evangelist ” one of those whose willingness to spread the good news has been recorded for posterity. Now I must warn you, this person is a most unlikely candidate for the evangelist of the year award.

FIRST OF ALL, SHE IS A WOMAN. Now women have always been at the forefront of Christian faith. Most churches today would collapse if women in the church were to withdraw their efforts. But it is only in these latter days that women have been getting much recognition in the church for their selfless acts of service. In fact, there are churches all over this world who are struggling even today with the role women should play.

Maybe you have heard the ridiculous story of a Pastor Nominating Committee that chose a female candidate for pastor. When the committee brought the nomination back to the church for approval all but one of the congregation confirmed the selection. The one member who voted no had no real objection to a female pastor but he had always enjoyed fishing with the former pastors and he just knew this woman would not enjoy fishing.

As soon as this new female pastor was installed this gentlemen invited her to go fishing with him. On the first try the pastor left her fishing gear in the car and didn't realize this until their boat was 50 feet out in the middle of the pond. So the man offered to let her use one of his poles ” which she got tangled in the brush and broke the line. The man offered to row back to get her gear but she insisted she had troubled him enough. So she stepped out of the boat and started walking across the water. At this point the man thought to himself, "That figures, she can't even swim." (2)

It's a variation on an old joke, but it highlights a very real struggle in many churches. Should women be in the pulpit? Our Roman Catholic and Orthodox friends are struggling with the question of whether women should be admitted to the priesthood. A long and revered tradition is at stake.

I understand that there is a Greek monastery at Mount Athos in which nothing female is allowed. Men can enter but not women, roosters but not hens, horses but not mares, bulls but not cows. The border is patrolled by armed guards to insure that nothing feminine passes the gates. It has been this way for more than 700 years. (3) Separate but definitely not equal. That has been the attitude of many churches through the ages.

So, it's really remarkable that this particular evangelist happens to be a woman. She would be as surprised about it as anybody. When she first met Jesus she was surprised that even he talked to her. It was at a well outside her village. She had gone there to draw water. She thought she would be the only one there at that hour of the day, but here was this man ” a Jew ” and he spoke to her ” a Samaritan woman. She was taken aback. Such things rarely happened in that day and time in that particular culture.

It reminds me of a scene that former Supreme Court Justice William O. Douglas once described. He was visiting a part of the Moslem world that segregates women much like in Judea 2,000 years ago. One evening as Douglas was talking with two Moslem women, a husband of one of the women arrived on the scene. He came cursing. "His face was livid," said Douglas. "He lunged at his wife with closed fist, hit her on the side of the face, and knocked her to the ground." Later the husband came to apologize to Mr. Douglas, but not for his own behavior. Amazingly he apologized for his wife's conduct. He hoped Mr. Douglas would not think too badly of his wife for what she had done. What was his wife's "disgraceful" conduct? She had spoken to Douglas. (4)

No wonder that when the woman in our lesson for the day met Jesus, she was shocked that he would talk to her. That was the way things were in that part of the world in that day and time. Jewish men didn't talk to strange women ” especially Samaritan women. So that is the first thing that was unique about this particular evangelist ” she was a woman.

But here is something even more surprising: SHE WASN'T A VERY NICE WOMAN. Now things are getting sticky. It's one thing for God to allow a woman to share the good news. It is another thing for God to allow a woman with all the problems that this woman had to be a witness for her Lord. This was a woman who had been married many times and when she met Jesus she was living with a man to whom she wasn't married. Nowadays such behavior would hardly raise an eyebrow.

Some of you are old enough to remember when Ingrid Bergman was invited by Ed Sullivan to appear on his program. This was around 1958. For our younger members, the Ed Sullivan Show was one of the leading programs on television in those days long ago. At the time Sullivan invited Ingrid Bergman to appear on his show, Bergman was living with an Italian film producer. She had left her husband and had mothered a child by her lover. No here is what is interesting: When it was announced that Bergman was going to be on the Sullivan show, such a public clamor arose that Sullivan had to rescind her invitation. Can you imagine that in light of what is allowed on television today?

There has been a definite change in the moral climate in our society. Even in Evangelical Christian circles it is not unusual to find young adults living together without benefit of wedlock. Meanwhile the number of unwed mothers is soaring. We think we invented this new a-morality. We did not. It has been around since recorded history. All we've done in our society today is to make it semi-respectable.

But in Jesus' time things were a little different. There were still laws on the books that prescribed that the adulteress could be stoned to death. So you can imagine how surprised this Samaritan woman was that a man of Jesus' piety and stature had any dealing with her at all ” not only because she was a woman but also because she was not a nice woman.

Jesus can be such an embarrassment, can't he? He embarrassed his own disciples. They were continually having to explain his unconventional behavior. But to have anything to do with this particular woman was really going too far. Here was a woman who was a village outcast. She couldn't even associate with the other women. She had been divorced several times. She was even now living with a man who was not her husband. Yet Jesus sees possibilities in her. He not only speaks to her ” he uses a term for her that would be shocking to many people. He called her "woman."

Now that may not seem too shocking in the English, but Bible scholars tell us that the Greek word for woman, "gune," is used here. This is not a term used for scolding or contempt. Rather it is a term used lovingly as a term of great endearment. It can be translated as "special lady"! Here is what is really shocking: Jesus used the same word for this woman that He used for His mother, Mary, at the wedding in Cana and on the cross. Imagine that. He called a woman who was regarded in her own village as hardly better than a prostitute a "special lady"!

Even more surprisingly, Jesus treated her like a special lady. He listened to her and respected her opinions. He did not compromise his own convictions ” she went away knowing that her lifestyle must change ” but he treated her with dignity as a child of God. In fact, this woman was the first person mentioned in the New Testament to whom Jesus revealed His true identity: "I who speak to you am He [the Messiah]."

The impact of Jesus' acceptance on this woman was enormous. Never before had she been treated by a man like this. The men she had known had used her and abused her. They certainly did not treat her like a "special lady." This Samaritan woman probably didn't like men very much, but she could not live without a man in her life. You may have known a woman like her. Books have been written about such women. WOMEN WHO LOVE TOO MUCH, one author has called them. An outsider simply cannot understand it. Such women will live with the most abusive man rather than try to live without a male companion in her life. We tell our daughters, if a man ever lays a hand on you, get out of there. That's the only solution to most cases of domestic violence. But there are some women who will not listen. They call it love, but it really is pathological.

This woman at the well had gone from one dead-end relationship to another. Not one man had given her what she really hungered for. Still she kept up her desperate search. And then she encountered Jesus. She encountered Jesus and she discovers in Jesus what she really needed all these years. She needed to know that her life mattered. She needed to know that in spite of her failures, in spite of her weaknesses, in spite of her sin, she was a person of worth. She did not know who she really was until she met this teacher from Nazareth. And when she met Jesus her life was changed. She would never be the same again. She had brought her jar out to the well to draw water but in her encounter with Jesus she had discovered something far more significant ” she had been given the water of life.

This woman at the well probably would have liked to stay in Jesus' presence, but the disciples arrived and put an end to it. "She went away into the city," John tells us. Nor should we forget this detail: "Leaving her waterjar." Was it because she was in a hurry? One author has suggested it might have been a feminine ruse. When she returns, she will be able to use this as a pretext: "I forgot my waterjar."(5)

But here is something that is even more striking: This Samaritan woman ” this Samaritan woman who had fouled up her life in so many ways ” turns into an evangelist: "Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did," she tells her friends in the village. "Can this be the Christ?" At her urging the people from the village come out to the well. Perhaps one or another of her five or six husbands is among them. They beg Jesus and his followers (a band of Jews!) to stay with them (a village of Samaritans).

A good number of people from the village believed in Jesus "because of his words to her," says John. And the people said to the woman: "It is no longer because of your words that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is indeed the Savior of the world."

So there you have it: The story of a very unlikely evangelist. A woman ” a Samaritan woman ” a Samaritan woman with a shady reputation. And yet she found in Jesus what she really needed ” she found out that she was a special lady. She found out who she was ” a child of God. And when she found out who she was ” when she found what Jesus could do in her life, she went back to tell others.

You know, if God can use someone like this Samaritan woman to spread the good news, maybe God could use people like you and me. Have you found what you need in Christ? Have you discovered because of your relationship with him that you are a special lady or a special gentleman? Isn't it about time you told somebody? After all, there are some things in life too important not to share.


1. Jim Wideman, ILLUSTRATION DIGEST, Mar-Apr 1992.

2. Contributed by Linda Rickle, Indianapolis, IN.

3. Dr. William P. Barker, TARBELL'S TEACHER'S GUIDE, (Elgin, Illinois: David C. Cook Publishing Co., 1988).

4. Arnold Prater, THE PRESENCE, (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1993).

5. Henri Cormier, THE HUMOR OF JESUS, (New York: Alba House, 1977).

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan