Luke 18:1-8 · The Parable of the Persistent Widow
Never Give Up
Luke 18:1-8
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by King Duncan
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For many years men dominated the world of humor. But today, as in most fields, women are making their mark. Here are some oneliners from various famous women. The first one is from singer Dolly Parton.

"I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes," says Dolly, "because I know I'm not dumb . . . and I also know that I'm not blonde."

Here's one from Erma Bombeck.: "Never lend your car to anyone to whom you have given birth."

"I'm not going to vacuum until Sears makes one you can ride on." That's from Roseanne Barr

"I thinktherefore I'm single." Lizz Winstead

"When women are depressed they either eat or go shopping. Men invade another country." Elayne Boosler

"Behind every successful man is a surprised woman." Maryon Pearson

"In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man; if you want anything done, ask a woman." Margaret Thatcher

"I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career." Gloria Steinem

Our last one is from Zsa Zsa Gabor: "I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man I keep his house."

It has never been easy being a woman, but it is a picnic today compared to the world in which Jesus lived. Women had few legal rights, and if a woman lost her husband, and she did not have other family members to turn to for support, her plight was dire indeed. There was no welfare system, no social security, and precious few ways for a woman in distress to earn a living.

Jesus told his disciples a parable about such a woman. She was a widow who was in a difficult situation over a legal matter. She needed the intervention of a judge, but the judge in her district, Luke tells us, was a man "who neither feared God nor cared about men." Yet this poor widow kept coming to him day after day with her plea. For some time he refused even to listen to her. But finally he said to himself, "Even though I don't fear God or care about men, yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will see that she gets justice, so that she won't eventually wear me out with her coming!" (NIV)

The widow was the epitome of "helplessness and defenseless." Justice then, like now, was often for the rich or wellconnected, and this judge is described as a very selfcentered man, someone who watches out for his own interests. The widow had no leverage with him. She could not bribe him or influence him

because she had no money or connections. (1) All she could do was to keep coming back with her request. And finally she wore him down. What a great lesson for each of us. For the high school student who feels left out and rejectedfor whom life is almost intolerable. Hang in there! Don't give up!

For the middleaged person concerned about his or her job. Worn down with anxiety about finances. Hang in there! Don't give up. For the retired person, living on a fixed income, weary with the burden of living. Hang in there! Don't give up! We often characterize this persistent woman as a nagger. We portray her as

being like the woman for whom an epitaph was placed on her grave: Matilda Graham /has gone to rest She now reclines /on Abraham's breast Peace at last for Matilda Graham /but not for Father Abraham. (2) That's not fair! If an attorney showed up at a court house day after day for

months in order to press the case for his client, would we call him a nagger? We would praise him for his tenacity. This poor widow was tenacious. The only asset she had was her determination. And determined she was! Determination is one of the most priceless possessions that any of us can have.

In April 1997, the town of Grand Forks, North Dakota was practically demolished by a massive flood. You and I watched the devastation on our television sets. Severe winter blizzards had filled the rivers with too much water, and the Red River overflowed its banks, resulting in the evacuation of 95% of the town's population. Most of the houses and businesses in Grand Forks suffered terrible damage. Yet in the midst of all the chaos, the plucky staff of the local newspaperthe Grand Forks Heraldcontinued to put out the paper. When their own offices were flooded, then consumed by an electrical fire, they set up shop at a high school in a neighboring town. The Herald became an information lifeline, allowing people who had been separated by the floods to contact one another, and directing people to emergency shelters. The determination of the newspaper staff inspired the people of Grand Forks; it let them know that their town wasn't going down without a fight. Right after the flood hit town, the Herald bore this defiant headline: COME HELL AND HIGH WATER. (3) Well, they certainly got the high water, but they didn't give in and they didn't give up!

How important it is that when life closes in on us, we don't quit fighting. We need to heed Winston Churchill's famous speech to the boys at his old school: "Never give up! Never give up! Never give up!" There are some important reasons for not giving up when life strikes its heavy blows.

FIRST OF ALL, PEOPLE WHO FIGHT SOMETIMES WIN. Health experts tell us that the most important attribute of people who conquer traumatic health crises is that they are fighters. They simply refuse to let illness have its way with them. And sometimes they win!

Some of the wealthiest people in our society fought for years in their early days just to avoid bankruptcy. During their struggle for solvency they learned some lessons that prepared them for later prosperity. They are successful today because they didn't quit.

Some of the happiest adults are people who felt lonely and rejected as teenagers. Sometimes people who hang in there and refuse to fold come out on top.

A young man named Michael Blake suffered through poverty while writing screenplays that for years were never accepted. He admits, "I slept on a lot of floors," as friends would let him stay at their homes. Then he was diagnosed with Hodgkin's disease, a cancer of the lymph system, which is currently in remission. But then he did something that would radically alter his life. He wrote a book that sold 30,000 copies. It was not a massive best seller, but Kevin Costner liked it and made the movie Dances with Wolves from it. Now the book has sold over 2 million copies, and Michael has won the Oscar for the movie adaptation.

He now enjoys speaking in schools and to homeless children. "I tell them that if you stay committed, your dreams can come true. I am living proof of it. I left home at seventeen and had nothing but rejection for twentyfive years. I wrote more than twenty screenplays, but I never gave up." (4) People who never give up sometimes win.

AND SOMETIMES PEOPLE WHO REFUSE TO GIVE UP HAVE SOMETHING WONDERFUL HAPPEN TO THEIR SOULS. When we fight the good fight, when we press our case even when it seems hopeless, when we refuse to throw in the proverbial towel, we learn some lessonsdeep down lessons about ourselves and about life.

Maybe you know the story of a man who goes only by his first initial and his last nameW. Mitchell. Perhaps you have heard Mitchell speak at a convention.

The year was 1960, and W. Mitchell was setting out on a life full of promise. He was a student at San Francisco State College. Young, handsome, and idealistic, Mitchell was involved in Robert Kennedy's campaign for President. As his motorcycle zipped through morning traffic, W. Mitchell was probably thinking about his classes or his friends or the campaign. He certainly wasn't thinking that his life was about to change. But suddenly, a laundry truck crashed into Mitchell's motorcycle. The bike exploded. Mitchell survived, but he was now paralyzed, with much of his body covered in severe, disfiguring burns. As if that were not enough, he was later the victim in a plane crash.

Not only did Mitchell have to suffer through repeated surgeries and grueling rehabilitation after these ordeals, but now he also had to suffer the reactions of others around him. People stared and whispered. He was no longer treated like a normal human being. One day, some children on a playground called W. Mitchell a monster. It would have been natural for him to leave quickly, and to further withdraw from human contact. But W. Mitchell didn't do that. He began talking to the children, explaining his disability to them and how he hadn't let it dominate his life. He said, "It is not what happens to you that is important, but how you react to what happens to you."

This marked a turning point in W. Mitchell's life. He got a job in radio, then in television. He returned to his idealistic roots and entered the political arena. Crested Butte, Colorado elected W. Mitchell as their Mayor in 1971. Today, W. Mitchell is one of the most popular professional speakers in America. He travels the country giving motivational speeches. He has inspired thousands of people with his own story of overcoming adversity and disability to create a happy life for himself. (5)

W. Mitchell discovered that life wasn't over simply because it did not turn out as he had planned. Deep within his own soul he discovered resources he did not know were there. "The same sun," says the old proverb, "hardens clay and melts butter." Sometimes people who hang in there win. Sometime people who hang in there find something wonderful happening in their own soul.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE WHO HANG IN THERE FIND GOD. Jesus told this parable about the persistent woman as a lesson about prayer. "Don't give up," Jesus was saying. "Don't give up. God hears your prayers. Soon he will answer."

Have you ever prayed for something for weeks, months, even years and heaven has been silent? That is the greatest test of our faith. The antagonism of agnostics will never lead us away from Christ. Nor will the taunts of atheists. The real test of our faith comes when we have a great and urgent need, and we knock on the Judge's door and no one answers. Jesus knew that. He knew that after he left them, his disciples would experience persecution, prison and even death because they followed him. How would they remain steadfast as they headed toward the gladiator's pit to be torn apart by lions when they prayed to heaven and there was no deliverance? You and I get discouraged when it rains on our party. What if our very life was at stake? No wonder Jesus ended this parable with a plaintive question, "However, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?" Jesus empathized with those whose prayers seemed unanswered. He hurt for those whose rope was about to break and there were no angels underneath to protect them from the rocks below. But Jesus knew one thing. In fact, he staked his very life on it: To those who persevered, there would be a crown of life. God would be there for them. They would not forever be forsaken. And that is why our faith endures today. Jesus wondered if he would find faith on earth when he returned. He needn't worry. Instead of a handful of followers, Jesus claims the allegiance of millions of men and women around this globe. It is because, as someone has noted, God has made us 33,000 promises in the Scriptures, and God keeps them every one. Will the Son of Man find faith on earth? Yes, he will find it in abundance, because those who followed Jesus, like this tenacious widow, refused to give up. And in their struggles they discovered that those who refuse to give up sometime win; those who refuse to give up have something wonderful happen in their souls; those who refuse to give up discover God.


1. The Broadman Bible Commentary, Vol. 9. Clifton J. Allen, ed. (Nashville: Broadman Press, 1970), 140.

2. The Joyful Noiseletter, 3/96, p. 2.

3. "Ain't It Grand" by Claudia Glenn Dowling, Life, March 1998.

4. Art Mortell, The Courage to Fail, McGrawHill, Inc. 1993.

5. Nell W. Mohney, Don't Put a Period Where God Put a Comma (Nashville: Dimensions for Living, 1993), 25-26.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan