Luke 6:27-36 · Love for Enemies
Forgive as You Have Been Forgiven
Luke 6:27-38
Sermon
by Cynthia Cowen
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She stood peeking out from behind the curtains. As the jogger passed her house, he recalled the hurt she had inflicted upon his mother. At one time she had been the matriarch of the congrega­tion. His memories of her were not fond. He recalled her wicked tongue and the way she used it to cut down others. He never forgot the day she used it against his mother making her cry. That inci­dent caused their family to leave the church where he had been baptized and confirmed. Here it was fifteen years later, and now all he saw was a picture of someone desperately needing to be loved. Praying for the ability to forgive her, he stopped and went to her door. The curtain quickly closed as he rang her doorbell. Hesi­tantly she cracked the door.

"Hello, Mrs. Sko. Do you remember me? I'm Marge's son." Her eyes widened in surprise as a note of recognition appeared. "I live in Arizona now, and I'm here on vacation. I saw you in the window and just wanted to stop and say hello. May I come in?" She hesitated and then opened the door and asked him in. "For­give, and you will be forgiven" Jesus tells us (Luke 6:37b).

Today's gospel lesson is a challenging one for us. "Love your enemies," Jesus instructed his followers. The Romans were the enemies of the Jews. They oppressed and persecuted them. There was no love lost between the two. The natural reaction toward those we consider enemies is to retaliate. If we have suffered injustice, if we have been wronged, we want revenge. "What you have done to me, I will do to you" (Matthew 5:38). However, Jesus is not just telling us to love a military adversary. He wants us to love those who have caused us personal injury. The jogger considered Mrs. Sko an antagonist, a person who had sought to hurt, showed ill-will, and caused injury. Transferring to another church, moving to another town, and maturing did not eliminate how he felt about her. But on that day, he saw a bitter, old woman who needed God's love. Right there and then he made a conscious decision to forgive her for the past harm she had inflicted. Hopefully, she would re­ceive it. Even if she didn't, he would be free.

When we refuse to forgive, we place a wall between us and God. Forgiveness is the cornerstone in our relationship with God. Because God has forgiven our sins, we must now forgive those who have wronged us. To remain unforgiving shows we have not understood that we ourselves deeply need to be forgiven. Think of some people who have wronged you. Have you made a conscious effort to forgive them? How will God deal with you if he treats you as you treat others? When Jesus taught his disciples to pray he included a very important line: "Forgive us for our sins, because we forgive everyone who has done wrong to us" (Luke 11:4a NCV).

Consider the actions of a young boy who has felt betrayed by a friend. He comes home slamming the back door loudly. "That does it!" he yells. "I'm never going to talk to Marc again."

"What on earth did he do to make you feel this way?" his mother inquired.

"He says he's my best friend, and then he doesn't pick me for his side in baseball. What kind of friend is that?"

More than not being selected for his friend's team is the atti­tude the child now has toward his friend. Their relationship has been broken and only forgiveness can mend it.

We must choose to forgive even if we feel wronged. We all fall short and need forgiveness. Precisely because God forgives our sin, we need to forgive others. Our prayer should be, "Lord, enable me to be more loving and forgiving of those who have hurt me."

Those who work with young people see the emotion behind this process. Jacob B. and Jacob C. were proud of their friendship. They were best buds outside the church and inside. They belonged to God Club, a weekly gathering of grade school children who spend time together eating, creating, exploring the Bible, and grow­ing through faith in action. "Who's your best friend?" their leader asked. "Jesus!" the group responded.

Closing for God Club always included prayer at the altar. Jock­eying for position, Jacob B. and Jacob C. got into a scuffle. Jacob B. ran up to the leader holding his arm. "Jacob punched me in the arm." To forgive or not to forgive? That became the question. Only intentional forgiveness would restore their broken relationship.

Sin separates us from God. Because we cannot fix that broken relationship, we need a mediator, one who intercedes between op­posing parties. Jesus is that mediator who enables us to forgive others. Are you able to relate to this example? Now let me appeal to the animal lover in you.

There are cats, there are birds. There are hamsters, there are goldfish. But I'd like to focus on dogs. Boris was a gift, not just a gift from friends, but truly a gift of love. He was a combination of cocker spaniel and poodle. For over twelve years he'd brought un­conditional love to his owners. "Bobo dog, we were gone, but now we're back" became the litany between owners and dog. With tail a' wagging, he ran quickly to greet them. He was truly excited to have them back.

There were times though when Boris was in the dog house, one might say. When he chewed on Dale's new tennis shoe, when he piddled on the carpet, when he threw up in the dining room late at night. At those times he was scolded and spanked. He'd run and hide under the bed because he knew he had done wrong. Later, he'd appear with tail a' wagging, anxious to please, wanting to be forgiven. "You know you did bad, Bobo. But we still love you. Here's a Bobo treat to show you we forgive. Don't do it again, though." Rubbing his ears and kissing the top of his head, he ac­cepted the treat.

Like Boris who seeks forgiveness for doing wrong, we seek God's favor not realizing that we don't need to do it right to get it. God already forgives us because he loves us. In that forgiveness and love, God asks us to treat others the same way he treats us. Now I don't know if Boris made a conscious decision to seek for­giveness for his actions or be forgiving and loving to those who had punished him, but we must make a conscious decision to do both. If we don't, there will be consequences to our decisions.

One night Boris and his owner were walking home. He was given instructions so he'd enjoy the walk like: "Stop." "Sit." "Don't go over there." Not listening, Boris did his own thing. Dashing across the street, he ran smack into a car. The driver heard the thump but never saw the little black dog. Knowing he'd disobeyed, Boris ran into the backyard where his owner found him cowering under the steps. Grateful that the dog was alive, his owner stroked him and told him. "Don't ever do that again, Boris. You almost got killed."

Boris made a cognitive choice to disobey. He saw home and ran for it, never anticipating running into the side of a car. How­ever, he knew he had done wrong, and the shame of it caused him to hide. The consequence of not doing what God wants us to do will eat us up inside. We all have a choice to be forgiving and loving. We forgive not to gain anything, but because we have al­ready received forgiveness from God. The blessing in this action is that when we forgive, the burden of unforgiveness is lifted from us. Bitterness and hatred are taken away, and we begin to realize the wonder of God's grace that first forgave us.

As we walk with God, he tells us "Stop being unforgiving. Stop hating. Those actions have consequences." God invites us to be blessings to others, even those who we feel have harmed us. When we forgive, we become the ones blessed and set free.

Being a Christian is all about relationship — with family, friends, those we work with, those we worship with, and with God. The whole point of Jesus' death and resurrection was that sinners could come to know God and live with him forever. We can't earn our way to heaven. Building a personal relationship with God is a priority for each of us, and we need to remember that we are Chris­tians under construction. Every day we try to do the right thing. So when we fall down, we need to get up. Being a Christian means asking forgiveness and giving it. Therefore, we should make al­lowances for each other's faults, forgiving those who offend us. "Forgive, and you will be forgiven" (Luke 6:37b).

A bonfire burned on a cool summer night. At the foot of a cross, campers warmed themselves in its glow. During their week at camp, they had eaten meals together and enjoyed the outdoors. They had laughed and cried, slept in cabins or under the stars, prayed, studied God's word, worshiped, and grown in friendship and faith. There had been many close moments and some far mo­ments. There had been times of rest and times of struggle. Still, through each experience they had grown closer to each other and to Jesus. Yet there were those sitting around that campfire that still had issues. Sensing this, the director began to talk about God's love and his forgiveness. Reading from the Bible, he reminded those gathered that they should love one another, for love comes from God.

Anyone who loves is born of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God — for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by send­ing his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.  — 1 John 4:7b-10 (NLT)

He paused and then continued

Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. — 1 John 4:11 (NLT)

In the stillness of the night, God came to that place and sat among those campers. As the fire bathed them with its warmth, his closeness bathed them in love. They were quiet, basking in the moment. Then they joined their voices as one singing a familiar camp song, "Be ye kind, one unto another; tenderhearted, forgiv­ing one another. Even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven you ... Do, do, doodlely do, Ephesians 4:32."1 Another silence, and then these words, "Go and do likewise. Amen."


1. "Be Ye Kind," words by an unknown spiritual author. In the public domain.

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