Have you ever been crippled by something that happened to you? At age seventeen, Joni Eareckson, dove into the Chesapeake Bay, hit the rocks, and was paralyzed for life. She lives in a wheelchair today. Physically, she is still crippled by the accident, but she has overcome the excruciating mental and spiritual pain of her situation. Faith in Jesus Christ made a major difference in her life.
Ron Heagy, a football player from Oregon, broke his neck in the Pacific Ocean in California when he dove into a sandbar. Like Joni, Ron is physically crippled for life. Like her, he had to overcome resentment that threatened to cripple him mentally and spiritually. Like her, Ron found strength to overcome his painful and debilitating physical handicap by a strong faith in Jesus Christ. Cripples are still being cured today.
The woman in our text had been crippled for eighteen years. She was bent over, unable to stand up straight. She was in a synagogue praying when Jesus noticed her. He looked intensely at her and then said, "Woman, you are set free from your ailment" (Luke 13:12). Cured, she stood up straight and praised God. A simple, straightforward healing of a cripple, a miracle in a synagogue.
The congregational president of the synagogue was upset by Jesus' miraculous healing of the crippled woman. He was angry. He was critical of Jesus and the people who sought him out for healing because it was done on a sabbath day. Healing was work, he reasoned. Healing should not take place on a sabbath day, a day devoted to rest and worship. "You've got the other six days to do your work of healing," he was saying. "You don't need to heal on the sabbath."
The synagogue leader got caught up in religious rules and regulations and lost track of the bigger picture. He is one of thousands of crabby critics who unwittingly get in the way of the work that God is doing. Crabby critics often miss miracles.
A seminary professor addressed the question of miracles like this: "Since God exists, miracles are possible. Since God is love, miracles are probable. Since God became a man in Jesus Christ, miracles are to be expected. Miracles happen. Cripples are still being cured even today."
Jesus healed a handicapped woman in a synagogue almost 2,000 years ago. He called the synagogue president and his friends hypocrites because they allowed for work with animals, but not healings of people. Those are the facts of the story, but what difference does all this make today? This story makes a difference because Jesus Christ continues to heal handicapped people today. The handicaps he heals are not all of the physical variety.
Betty was crippled by divorce. Jack, her husband of ten years, left her for another woman. Jack said, "You chased me away by your criticisms. You always found what was wrong with me. You never showed any confidence in me." That confrontation turned Betty's crabbiness into bitterness. "It just isn't true," she told everyone who would listen to her. "It's all Jack's fault."
Betty projected her troubles onto others. She blamed everyone but herself. She had a low self-image, but the way it expressed itself was by crabbiness and the appearance of superiority. Family and friends began to shun her.
Joanne was crippled by the death of her baby, Amy. The doctor called it "sudden infant death syndrome." Joanne called it unfair. Understandably, she cried against God. Who else could she blame? "Why did you let this happen to Amy?" she screamed. Her neighbor was a pastor. He cried with her for thirty minutes. Then in the midst of their tears, he thought of something. "There's another question," he said. "No one can answer the question about why this happened, but the Bible gives us an answer to the question, ‘Where was God when this happened?' "
Joanne stopped crying for a moment and asked, "Where was he?"
"He was with Amy," the pastor said. "And he's with you now. God is always with those who suffer. That's why we call Jesus the suffering servant. What Amy went through, God went through first. God experienced the grief you are experiencing now before you experienced it. As there was a pillar of cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night before the Hebrews as they traveled through the wilderness, so God is out in front of us as we make our pilgrim journey through life."
"I never thought of it that way before," Joanne said. She calmed down, but she remained crippled by the sudden loss of her daughter. Two weeks later, her pastor friend said, "I'm going to the hospital to visit a patient. I'd like you to come along." Together they visited Steve, an eighteen-year-old young man who had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. Steve told Joanne that he had been bitter about his cancer until he was confronted by a Christian who asked him directly if he was ready to die and face God. When he thought about it, Steve said, he realized that although he was a pastor's son and had been in church all his life, he had never accepted Christ as his Lord and Savior.
"My cancer hasn't been cured," Steve said, "but Christ has cured me in another way. He has changed the way I think. I'm going to die, but now I'm ready." Through Steve's influence, Joanne came to see that she could accept what she couldn't change — Amy's death. But she saw that she could change something else — her bitter attitude toward God. The pastor read some Bible verses and the three of them prayed.
As the pastor and Joanne reached the door, they turned to say their final good-bye to Steve. "Just a minute," he said. "There's something else I wanted to tell you, Joanne. When I see Amy soon, I'll tell her, ‘Hello,' from you and I'll tell her how much you love her."
On the way home Joanne said, "Pastor, now I know what you mean by saying that God is out in front of us, suffering as we suffer. That young man, Steve, was a spokesperson for God, wasn't he?"
The pastor replied, "Steve is crippled by cancer, but not by the bitterness he originally felt about his cancer."
Joanne said, "Now I know why you wanted me to meet Steve."
Three weeks later, Joanne attended Steve's funeral at the church served by her pastor friend. "That was a real celebration of life," she said. "Now Steve is cured of his cancer as well as of the bitterness he originally felt."
"I can only say, ‘Amen,' to that," the pastor responded.
Joanne was not crabby. Her baby had died. She had every right to feel and express her grief in negative terms. On the other hand, when she met Steve, she came to see that her negativism, especially toward God, wasn't doing anyone any good. Steve showed Joanne a different way to think about life, death, and heaven. In a sense, he confronted her illusion that she and Amy were somehow singled out for divine punishment.
John was a crabby critic. He criticized his wife, children, and business associates. As a matter of fact, John was critical of everyone he met. He looked for negatives and found them. His attitude crippled him. Eventually, John was fired from his job. John blamed everyone but himself. "It's my boss' fault. It's the fault of the sales department. It's my assistant's fault." John was crippled by his attitude. After hearing this repeated blaming of others for a week, John's wife finally confronted him. "It's nobody's fault but yours that you got fired. It's your drinking that is behind your problems. You are an alcoholic, and you'd better admit it if you are ever going to be anything but a cripple as a human being."
John stormed out of the house and went to a tavern and got drunk, pouring out his troubles to the bartender at the tavern he regularly frequented. After he left drunk, the bartender said to another patron, "That guy is a real loser. All he ever does is complain, complain, complain."
John's wife divorced him. His children seldom talk to him today. He's alone and remains uncured. He's in and out of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) — mostly out — and doesn't accept the AA message of taking responsibility for your own behavior. At this point in time, John is still a crabby critic and a cripple. He has been repeatedly confronted, but he has not allowed the confrontation to change his attitude.
On the other hand, Betty (mentioned earlier as a crabby and critical person) changed when a Christian friend gave her a straightforward talk a year after her divorce. "You are probably right about the complaints you're making about your ex-husband, Jack, but your complaints are getting you nowhere. It's time to get on with your life. Right now, most of your friends don't want to be around you and hear all the negative stuff you have to say. You say that you believe in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, but you have failed to integrate that faith into your life. I love you, but you need to know that you will continue to be a hypocrite until you start to put your faith into action and do something positive to get yourself out of the hole you've dug for yourself by your crabbiness."
"Wow," Betty said. "I never thought about it that way before. I guess I've been president of the ‘Poor Me Club.' Let me think about what you said. Right now I'm a little shaken up by it."
Later, Betty told her friend that her tough talk was the turning point in her decision to turn the page and start her life again. "As a matter of fact," she said, "I'm now part of a divorce recovery group at church called ‘Second Chance.' "
There are people who are physically handicapped. All of us, at one time or another, are mentally and spiritually handicapped by self-defeating feelings of self-pity and resentment.
Joni Eareckson (now married with the last name Tada) says that at age seventeen she wanted to commit suicide when she realized that her paralysis was a permanent condition. Since she had no use of her arms or legs, she asked a friend to assist her in taking her life. The friend refused.
Joni was bitter and filled with resentment. From a human point of view, who could blame her? Yet, she says that her attitude crippled her as much or more than her accident. Feelings of helplessness and depression gained control until she turned her condition over to Jesus Christ.
Today, Joni is a painter, an author, and a speaker on overcoming handicaps through the power of Jesus Christ. Billy Graham says, "Joni's life has been a remarkable portrait of Christian faith and God's grace in the face of trial and hardship ... Joni is an extraordinary person, yet her real strength and creativity come from a vital relationship with Jesus Christ."1
Over three million copies of her book, Joni, have been sold in over forty languages. She reaches people with all kinds of handicaps and urges them to depend on the Lord to change their attitude. In addition to writing books and giving inspirational and motivational talks around the country, Joni is a painter. With the brush coming out of her mouth, she paints beautiful pictures.
Joni is also the president of JAF Ministries, an organization that accelerates Christian outreach in the disabled community. She strives to pass on encouragement to other people with all kinds of disabilities: physical, mental, and spiritual. "Our attitudes make the difference," she says.
Ron Heagy, the young athlete who broke his neck with a dive in the Pacific Ocean, had been able to bench-press 300 pounds. After his accident, he couldn't lift a finger, yet he went on to graduate and get a master's degree in social work from San Diego State University. He was totally paralyzed from the neck down so he had to write with a pen in his mouth, or by typing on a computer keyboard with a pointer in his mouth. Ron now heads up an organization called "Life is an Attitude." He is a motivational speaker for Wheels for the World and a disability consultant. Like Joni, Ron believes that all people who have self-pity and resentment are seriously handicapped.
Tom Landry, the former football coach of the Dallas Cowboys, says, "Ron Heagy's success story is one of a kind. His determination, positive attitude, pleasing personality, and tremendous sense of humor are an inspiration to everyone he meets."
Life isn't easy. Bad things happen to good people. We are tempted to give up or give in as we face physical, mental, and spiritual suffering. Faith in Jesus Christ can make a major difference, especially when other people around us multiply our misery by what they say and do. Crabby critics, demons, are still within us and around us today. Joni had to face them. So did Ron. So do we. Even when we try to do something good for someone, there are people who put wrong interpretations on our actions. Take heart, the same thing happened to the Lord Jesus Christ. Through Jesus' example and the power of the Holy Spirit we can be overcomers, people who live not just under the circumstances, but above them.
In the Bible, we find encouragement for having an attitude of gratitude, overcoming our own handicaps and helping others overcome their handicaps. The Apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 4:8-10, 15-16:
We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair, persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our bodies ... so that grace, as it extends to more and more people, may increase thanksgiving to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day.We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair, persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying in the body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be made visible in our bodies ... so that grace, as it extends to more and more people, may increase thanksgiving to the glory of God. So we do not lose heart. Even though our outer nature is wasting away, our inner nature is being renewed day by day.
In other words, in spite of crabby critics within us and around us, and handicaps of our own that we can't overcome by mere human effort, we don't collapse because there is power in Jesus, the healer and suffering servant.
1. Joni Eareckson Tada, Joni (Grand Rapids, Michigan: Zondervan Publishing House, 1976 and 1996), Foreword by Billy Graham.