Luke 6:17-26 · Blessings and Woes
What Will It Take to Make You Happy?
Luke 6:17-26
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by King Duncan
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“Who do you think is happier?” asks Marc Reklau in his book Destination Happiness, “people who [have] won the lottery or people who [have become] paralyzed after an accident?” You may be surprised at the answer.

“Yes, the lottery winners were very happy, but not for very long,” Reklau continues. “After six months they went back to their previous levels of happiness.”

On the other hand, “the accident victims were sad, but surprisingly after six months, they [also] went back to their previous levels of happiness.” Think about that for a moment. Six months later both groups--those who had won the lottery and those who had an accident and were paralyzed--had returned to their previous state of happiness. I don’t know what that says to you, but it says to me that happiness is an inside job. Our circumstances don’t determine how satisfied we are with our lives. Something else--on the inside--makes the difference.

The same studies on happiness were conducted with a group of college professors. They were asked how happy they would be if they got tenure. For a college professor tenure means that they are given a permanent post from which they can be removed only under extraordinary circumstances. These professors answered that, if they got tenure, they would be very happy . . . for the rest of their lives.

Another group of professors was asked how unhappy they would be if they did not get tenure. They answered, “Very unhappy for a very long time.”

And again, when researchers went back to them six months later, every one of these professors  had gone back to their previous level of well-being whether they received tenure or not. “If they were happy before, they were happy six months later . . . if they were unhappy before, they were unhappy six months later.” (1) Interesting.

You and I count as part of our heritage the blessings of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. But what is happiness? Is happiness something that can be obtained by pursuing it? Is it a product of circumstance or surroundings? Is it to be equated with money in the bank, a diploma on the wall, the respect of one’s friends and neighbors? Or does it depend on something else, something entirely different?  Think for a moment: What would it take to make you happy--really happy? 

Jesus talked about happiness, but not in the same way you or I would talk about it. In fact, he turned our understanding of happiness upside down. In the Sermon on the Mount, for example, he made some unique and unusual statements about happiness which we know as the Beatitudes. Luke, in his Gospel, gives us a condensed version of some of those stirring statements: 

Happy are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.

Happy are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied.

Happy are you who weep now, for you will laugh.

Happy are you when people hate you, when they exclude you and insult you and reject your name as evil, because of the Son of Man.

Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their ancestors treated the prophets.

Happy are the poor? Happy are the hungry? Happy are those who weep? Most of us are more comfortable with the word “blessed” than the word “happy” in these circumstances. But the Greek word makarios, which most translators of the Bible translate as “blessed,” can also be translated as “happy.” That may disturb some of us. We could see how Mother Teresa, working with dying people in the wretched slums of Calcutta, could be blessed--but happy? And yet people who knew her most intimately claimed that she radiated happiness.

In fact, many authors who have studied the pursuit of happiness have observed that the happiest people on earth are not those who pursue happiness, but those who seek God and serve others.

Many of you remember Dr. Norman Vincent Peale and his Power of Positive Thinking. Late in his life, Dr. Peale wrote some words that I believe deserve a wide audience. Listen to his words quite closely. He writes, “I have discovered that the most optimistic people are the most Christian people [in their attitudes]. Now, I’ve got to qualify that a little bit. I have seen lay [people], preachers, bishops, archbishops, and so on, up and down the hierarchy who weren’t optimistic, who thought everything was going bad. You see, there are different ways of being a Christian.

“A minister in London told me about a man who never would go inside a church. But he would hang around in the vestibule. And when the ushers went away, he would open the door just a crack so he could listen. But he would never venture further than the vestibule. Well,” Dr. Peale continues, “there are many who physically have got past the vestibule, but, mentally, they’re still listening through a crack. They’re only getting a tiny bit, a faint suggestion of the Gospel.

“But Jesus said, ‘Drink ye all of it’ (Matthew 26:27).

“If you take the whole of Christianity,” Dr. Peale continued, “and really give yourself to it and really accept it, you are going to become so happy, so enthusiastic, so optimistic, that life will be altogether different for you. Then you will walk in the newness of life--when you have absorbed the quality, the essence, the depth and the height, the glory and the power of Christianity.

“So let go of that gloom, let go of that depression, let go of that discouragement, let go of that weakness, let go of that sense of failure. Get yourself with Jesus--really, personally. Go to Him, pray to Him, tell Him you want to live with Him, tell Him you want to be guided in your life by Him.

“And I will guarantee, on the basis of everything I have seen happen in my ministry, that you will become optimistic; you will become victorious; you will have peace in your heart; you will love people; you will feel good physically and emotionally. You will have a wonderful life.” (2)

You may agree with that or not, but I believe Dr. Peale was on to something--something that the world just doesn’t get. Happiness isn’t something that happens to you on the outside, but something that happens on the inside. 

In the first chapter of I Corinthians, St. Paul says that the wisdom of God shows the world’s wisdom to be foolishness. No clearer statement of this principle is found in the Scriptures than in Jesus’ statements about happiness. They turn the world’s value systems upside down. Happiness or blessedness is not found in wealth or power or pleasure or a full belly. Some of the happiest people on earth are some of the poorest people on earth. And some of the richest people on earth in terms of material goods are some of the most miserable people on earth.

You may be familiar with the story of a king who was suffering from a certain malady. He was advised by his astrologist that he would be cured if the shirt of a contented man were brought for him to wear. People went out to all parts of the kingdom after such a person, and after a long search they found a man who was really happy . . . but he didn’t possess a shirt.

We can have the most desperate of circumstances and still be happy, according to Jesus. Happiness comes from another source. 

It is a curious spiritual principle that the more we have, the more we demand out of life. So often it is the person who appears to be blessed, with all the external trappings of the good life, who is so easily miffed at God, while the person who has very little feels a much greater sense of gratitude for life’s little joys and pleasures. 

This is not to say that in order to find happiness, we need to give away everything we possess. That might help or it might be the worst thing we could possibly do. It might fill us with so much resentment, or even worse, with so much self-righteous pride that we would be intolerable. It is to say, however, that some of us have our values all out of whack. That is why we are so miserable. There are only two sources of happiness in this entire world. One is a right relationship with God. The other is a right relationship with our fellow human beings. Everything else is extraneous. Poverty or wealth, handicap or health, surrounded by loved ones or weeping beside a lonely grave--we can still have a well-spring of joy within, if we understand the source of happiness.

Happiness is not dependent upon circumstances but on an inner certainty--that we are loved, accepted; that we belong to God

How sad it is to see so many people go through life without discovering this essential principle that happiness comes only from a right relationship with God and with others.

J.T. Fisher states: “If you were to take the sum total of all authoritative articles ever written by the most qualified of psychologists and psychiatrists on the subject of mental hygiene . . . you would have an awkward and incomplete summation of the Sermon on the Mount . . . For nearly two thousand years the Christian world has been holding in its hands the complete answer to its restless and fruitless yearnings. Here . . . rests the blueprint for successful human life with optimism, mental health, and contentment.” 

This is why so many people today are unhappy. It is why suicides are growing among both young people and older people alike. We’ve bought into the notion that happiness comes by being surrounded with pretty things.

Economics Professor Richard Layard of the London School of Economics and Political Science has spent a good part of his life studying what is sometimes called the Science of Happiness. He notes that there have always been people who believe that things are going downhill, that society is going to “hell in a hand basket.” But, if you study society as a whole over the last fifty years, they are wrong. By every measurable standard, life is better than it has ever been before. In the United States, for example, living standards have more than doubled. Among some populations there have been massive increases in real income . . . and yet . . . and yet . . . according to extensive studies by the Gallup organization people are not one bit happier than 50 years ago. (3)

The adage that money cannot buy happiness has been affirmed time after time. According to scientific studies, once our basic needs are met (shelter, food, and basic education) income makes little difference in our levels of happiness, except in extreme situations. (4)

Even celebrities are beginning to recognize that. Late-night talk show host, David Letterman, was quoted recently in the New York Times. Here is what he had to say: “I’m a person who spends a great deal of his time wondering why he’s not happier. I have found that the only thing that does bring you happiness is doing something good for somebody who is incapable of doing it for themselves.” (5) That’s David Letterman, but it sounds a lot like Jesus.

Psychologist and best-selling author Dr. Martin Seligman has himself spent decades studying the subject of happiness.  In his experience, the recipe for happiness contains three “ingredients”: pleasure (that is, the sensations of what we normally think of as happiness), engagement (that is, how enthusiastically involved you are with your relationships, your work, your hobbies, etc.), and meaning (how you contribute to the greater good).  He says that the pleasure component of happiness is the least significant and the least enduring of the three.  Those things that engage us and give us meaning are much more important in our search for happiness. (6)

That is the reason that people of faith are happier people. They generally have more stable relationships, and they have a greater sense of purpose for their lives.

Author James W. Moore says that a friend of his once shared with him an experience that she had in an art museum in New York. She went into one special exhibit room where all the paintings were paintings of roads. There were paintings of busy modern interstate highways, big city crowded thoroughfares, attractive landscaped parkways, happy neighborhood streets, remote mountain trails, and quiet country roads.

At one end of the big room was a very large painting of a road. It had an ethereal, spiritual look, with soft pastel colors, and the caption beneath it read: “The Road to Happiness.” As his friend stood there and looked at this magnificent painting of “The Road to Happiness,” two fashionably dressed, middle-aged women walked up beside her. One of them was visibly moved by the painting.

“Isn’t that beautiful?” she said.

But the other responded sadly, “Of course it’s beautiful. The only problem is, there’s no such road!” (7)

Ah, friends, there is such a road, a road to happiness. And it’s found in the teachings of Jesus.

In 1989, columnist Nick Clooney decided that he, like a modern-day Huck Finn, wanted someone else to do his work for a little while. So he invited a variety of local celebrities from the Kentucky-Ohio area to send in their ideas on a column about epitaphs. What would these famous men and women want to have written on their tombstones? He was surprised by the wit and sincerity of the various responses.

Ira Joe Fisher, a weather man, wrote a humorous couple of lines that went like this, “He wanted the mind of Plato, the heart and soul of Socrates.

But his life was more of a tribute to Ol’ Mediocrities.”

Paul Knue, the editor of the Cincinnati Post, couldn’t make up his mind about what to write until after he and his family went away for a weekend trip. When he returned, Paul knew that he wanted an epitaph that reflected the importance of his family in his life. He chose as his epitaph two simple words: “He cared.”

But the most sweetly whimsical message was from Charlie Mechem, former head of Taft Broadcasting. His epitaph read like this:

“Dear God, Thanks for letting me visit. I had a wonderful time.” (8)

Is that what you would like to say when you come to the end of your life? “Dear God, Thanks for letting me visit. I had a wonderful time.” You can, you know. Give your life to Christ and look for people you can serve. You will find a secret to life very few people ever find. You will have found the road to happiness. You’ll be able to say with Charlie Mecham: “Dear God, Thanks for letting me visit. I had a wonderful time.” 


1. Marc Reklau, Destination Happiness: 12 Simple Principles That Will Change Your Life (Change Your Habits, Change Your Life, Book 3; Kindle Edition).

 2. Norman Vincent Peale, In God We Trust (Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1994).

3. Happiness: Lessons from a New Science (New York: Penguin Group, 2005), pp. 29-30.

4. Reklau, Destination Happiness.

5. Cited in Reader’s Digest (Reader’s Digest USA).

6. Claudia Wallis, “The New Science of Happiness,” Time, January 17, 2005, p. A7.   

7. James W. Moore, Standing on the Promises or Sitting on the Premises (Nashville: Dimensions for Living, 1995), pp. 91-92.

8. Nick: Collected Columns of Nick Clooney (The Merten Co., 1995), p. 153-155.

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