Luke 7:11-17 · Jesus Raises a Widow’s Son
Sit Up and Speak!
Luke 7:11-17
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by Arley K. Fadness
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The telephone rang in my office one day, and a mother, a mem­ber of my parish, blurted out, "Oh, pastor, they just found the body of my son, Kenneth. He drowned in the Missouri River over at Chamberlain!" I was stunned, and then I heard her sob. "It had been a hot day. Kenneth, driving gravel truck all day, decided to take a swim to cool off. And he didn't make it back to shore. Pas­tor, what'll I do?"

I remember swimming at that very beach with my family over the years. As I drove over to Erna's house, I thought about what she must be feeling. She was obviously totally devastated, heart­broken, stunned beyond belief. "O God, help her," I prayed.

We enter our story in the village of Nain best, when we feel a bit of what Erna felt. The mother, in Luke's gospel, from the little hamlet of Nain had only one son. And like the mother from Zarephath in Elijah's time, she had experienced death before. She was a widow. And to be a widow in the time of Jesus was devastat­ing. When you lose your husband and then lose your son, you lose everything. You lose your livelihood, your status, your security, and your future. Surely this widow of Nain had dreams for her son. She fully expected her son to outlive her. But now her son lay dead. The pallbearers were carrying him out of the gate.

Just then Jesus, who had gone to Nain with his disciples and was joined by a large crowd following, appears on the scene. He sizes up the situation. Compassion overwhelms him. He consoles her, "Do not weep" (v. 13). The Greek word for "compassion" re­fers to the bowels as a gut-level response. Jesus reaches out, touches the body of the young man, and speaks amazing life-resurrecting words: "Young man, I say to you, rise!" (v. 14). The young man sits up and begins to speak as Jesus gives him back to his mother. The large crowd accompanying Jesus and the large crowd in the funeral procession react and are struck with fear. In near panic mode, they glorify God. They believe God has visited them with this amazing prophet, Jesus.

It's a shocking and awesome thing when the dead sit up and begin to speak. I have known people who have been dead, if not physically, in some manner all their lives. They go through the motions of living, yet, are dead spiritually, or socially, or intellec­tually, or emotionally. Then one day by the grace of God, their lives are interrupted, and they experience a Damascus Road con­version like the apostle Paul, and they sit up and began to live and to speak. For others, the weight of deadness is lifted through clues and small insights as they grow in faith, step by step, day by day, as did Timothy under the Christian tutelage of his dear grandmother and mother, Lois and Eunice.

Jesus still speaks today, "Young man, I say to you, rise!" Some remember Mark Dayton. Mark Dayton experienced his "Dark Night of the Soul" as was reported in the Star Tribune Sunday magazine some years back. Mark Dayton, a young man, a rich man, politi­cally ambitious, and a talented man, fell to the bottom. He ran for the US Senate in 1982 and lost. Soon thereafter his marriage to Alida Rockfeller collapsed, and he endured a bout with alcohol­ism.

One day, Mark Dayton found himself in the balcony of Westminster Church in Mineapolis. He found himself there in the balcony often struggling to find a sense of God. He bounced back and forth between the poles of desolation to consolation, and then that insightful day he found himself coming out of the, "dark night," and finally, to experience the dawn. Healing came and has contin­ued by the grace of God. Mark Dayton was eventually elected Minnesota State Auditor and later a DFL United States Senator serving from 2001 to 2006.

Psalm 30 ties all three appointed texts from 1 Kings, Galatians, and Luke together in one great song. The message of the song is that God restores all. God restores health. God restores life. God restores my soul. We sing with the psalmist verse 1 (cf): "I will exalt you O Lord, because you have lifted me up — I cried out to you and you restored me to health."

Once secure, once self-confident, but then came an affliction that drove the psalmist to God. God hears the psalmist and restores. In Psalm 30:3 (cf), the psalmist sings, "You brought me up from the dead — you restored my life as I was going down to the grave." In verse 13 (cf), "Therefore my heart sings to you without ceasing, O Lord my God, I will give you thanks forever."

One of our presidents of the United States, Franklin Pierce, became angry with God when he lost his son. When Franklin Pierce had been elected, he and Mrs. Pierce and their son took a trip to Concord, New Hampshire, by train, two weeks before the inaugura­tion. The train had not gone far out of the Concord Station when there was a lurch — a jolt — and the car the Pierces were in, tumbled off the tracks and down an embankment. Neither the president nor his wife was injured in the accident, but their son was killed. Franklin Pierce brooded over this, as most of us would. He asked the question of God that so many of us have asked. "Why would God, at this moment of triumph, permit this tragedy in their lives?" President Pierce was so upset that he refused to allow the Bible to be used at his inauguration.

Today, picture a gurney. It's a pallet with wheels. Lying on the gurney is someone waiting to be restored. Who lies there? Is it someone you know? Is it you? Is it me? Picture Jesus reaching out and touching and speaking, "Young man, young woman, young of heart, I say rise! Leave your coffin. Leave your sick bed. Leave your cynicism, your anger, your hostility with God or whatever is deadening you to the things of God and the abundant life. For after all, it is I, Jesus, who promises, ‘I have come that you might have life and that you might have life abundantly.' "

The church today laments a growing gender death. Men, and especially, young men are conspicuously absent in worship, and in the life and ministry of congregations. Increasingly, we in the church are singing the folk song, "Where have all the young men gone, long time passing? Where have all the young men gone? Long time ago?" The folk song echoes God's question in the Gar­den of Eden, "[Adam] where art thou?" (Genesis 3:9 KJV).

Dr. Curtis A. Miller, past president of the North American Con­ference of church men's staff, of the Presbyterian church (USA) writes,

The authors [Coming of Age by Anderson, Hill, and Martinson] show a real concern for the lost tribe of young men in the Christian community. As the Chris­tian church has become feminized, many young men have felt lost in the shuffle and returned to the time-honored resources of sports, nature, family, friends, work and service, to nurture their spiritual journey. It is a challenge to the Christian community for change, renewal, and an increased commitment to be a trans­forming community, where a new partnership is devel­oped, where a new equality between men and women is practiced, and where people are accepted where they are, as they are, and equipped for life in the real world.1

In coaching twelve Midwest congregations in a visioning pro­cess, I have discovered that the majority of the congregational core values are feminine as opposed to what may be considered mascu­line. Typical of the 57 feminine core values, compared to 19 mas­culine core values, were prayer, children, kindness, acceptance, respect, nurture, caring, and compassion. Absent were what could be considered masculine core values such as influence, purpose, position, courage, fulfillment, strength, power, and duty.

David Murrow writes in Why Men Hate Going to Church,

Manly men ... have all but disappeared. Tough, earthy, working guys rarely come to church. High achievers, alpha males, risk takers and visionaries are in short supply. Fun lovers and adventurers are also underrepresented in church ... rough and tumble men don't fit in."2

Today's typical church has developed a culture that drives men and especially young men away. God made men for adventure, achievement, and challenge. John Eldredge writes in Wild at Heart that three desires are deeply written in most men's hearts. They are a "Battle to Fight," "An Adventure to Live," and "A Beauty to Rescue." Jesus' words, "Young man, I say to you, rise!" take on a frightening contemporary relevance in the culture of congregational life today.

Thankfully, the church is beginning to sit up and speak. The Young Male Spirituality Project in the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America, invented to explore the identity and spirituality of younger men, interviewed 88 young males ages 18 to 35 and found eleven themes that impact their spirituality. Among the themes were relationships, male mentors, crises in their lives, life management issues, work, life-changing experiences, nature, sports, service, avocation, and worldly spiritual hungers.

Practical advice for Christians for action to heed the command, "arise, young man," are listed in the book, Coming of Age, by Hill, Anderson, and Martinson.

Young men are sitting up and speaking at a new mission church in Sioux Falls, South Dakota, under the leadership of a young vi­sionary pastor. A men's retreat designed to meet the yearnings and thirst for vision, leadership, purpose, challenge, risk taking, hunt­ing, and sports.

Christ speaks, "Young man, I say to you, rise!" not only to young men but to young women, to children, to Boomers, and to the elderly. All of us along with the two widows from Zarapthah and Nain, know only so well, loneliness, fear, and anxiety. Fred Buechner calls our loneliness the "truth of our existence." I call it what it is — the pits!

Nonetheless, Christ enables all to "arise" as we receive the power of his compassion, the tenderness of his touch, and the au­thority of his words. He is no weak Jesus. Jesus is no suggester. Jesus is the commander in the face of death. Songs like Psalm 30 lift us and releases us from our dark night of the soul. We are empowered to sit up and speak. Amen.

I know that my Redeemer lives!
What comfort this sweet sentence gives!
He lives, he lives, who once was dead;
he lives, my ever living head!
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1. David W. Anderson, Paul G. Hill, Roland D. Martinson, Coming of Age (Min­neapolis: Augsburg Fortress, 2006), p. 1.

2. David Murrow, Why Men Hate Going to Church (Nashville: Nelson Books, 2005), p. 6.

3. "I Know That My Redeemer Lives," words by Samuel Medley, 1775. In the public domain.

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