Psalm 42:1-11 · Psalm 42
Prayer
Psalm 42:1-11
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by Maxie Dunnam
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Prayer is at the heart of the Christian life. If not the greatest, it is certainly one of the greatest privileges given us as Christians. You may or may not have had a meal yet today. But before the day is past you will have eaten something – probably three meals, and maybe a snack between. Fasting is natural and necessary.

If you haven’t eaten today, the chances are you have had a cup of coffee or tea, or a glass of water or milk. Drinking is natural and necessary. Like eating and drinking, prayer is not something foreign to our human nature. Prayer is perhaps the deepest impulse of the human soul.

Samuel Johnson was once asked what was the strongest argument for prayer. He replied, “There is no argument for prayer.” He did not mean that prayer is irrational or that there are not convincing arguments for the practice of it, but that prayer is natural and universal. We all pray, and we pray because it is a part of our native endowment.

Prayer is related to our search for meaning, our longing for relationship, and our need to grow. Prayer, however practiced, is an expression of our hunger for God. This hunger is a part of who we are. Augustine’s word is more than a pious cliché: “For thee were we made, O God, and our hearts are restless until they find their rest in thee.” So, that is where we begin as we talk about prayer as a discipline for Spiritual Formation.

I. Prayer Is a Hunger

Prayer is a hunger. And nothing, absolutely nothing can completely satisfy that hunger. It is a hunger to experience meaning, to know that life has purpose. It is a restless yearning to probe beneath the surface of our being, to penetrate the depth of ourselves and understand those feelings and notions and intuitions that come from we know not where. It is a baffling astonishment at the spontaneous bursting forth of insight. It is a growing pain that occurs, without warning, when we violate our own or another’s integrity. Prayer is something deep within us calling to something deeper yet, making us restless, unsettled, even confused because we are vaguely aware that we are not being and doing what we were meant to be and do. I like the way Edward Farrell puts it: “Prayer is like a journey, a journey which we can never cease making. It is like thinking for each day a man thinks again, never knowing when he may turn a corner in his thought and find himself in a world he had never perceived before. Each day a man loves, but he never loves today exactly as he did yesterday nor will he love tomorrow in the same way he loved today” (Prayer is a Hunger, p. 11).

Prayer is a hunger – a hunger for God. Thomas Merton asked, “Who am I?” and responded, “I am myself a word spoken by God.” So, Augustine’s word is everlastingly true: “For thee were we made, O God, and our hearts are restless till they rest in you.” The truth is, we will always be restless, always know the hunger, because our resting in God is always of limited duration. We are sinners who too often prefer our way to God’s way. Our pride does not allow us to be totally dependent on God. We move in and out of a trustful relationship with God. Even though we experience “rest” and meaning, purpose and joy in times of yielding to God’s will and way for our life, something within us, our bent to sin and self-reliance, keeps pulling us away from that state of “yieldedness” and trustful relationship with God. That is the reason a big part of prayer is dealing with our prideful self. We will talk about this more when we talk about naming ourselves and allowing God to name us, and when we consider confession as a primary ingredient of prayer.

Prayer is a hunger. The first beatitude of Jesus (Matthew 5:3) in the Sermon on the Mount speaks to this issue. “Blessed are the poor in spirit” is the traditional translation of this word. “How blest are those who know their need of God” is the way the New English Bible renders it. To know our hunger, our hunger for God, is the condition for entering the Kingdom, and for praying. The psalmist spoke the truth in unforgettable language.

“As a hart longs for flowing streams, so longs, my soul for thee, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and behold the face of God?” (42:1-2, RSV).

The prayer language of the psalmist is worth contemplating as we consider our prayer.

“My soul thirsts for thee; my flesh faints for thee” (63:1).

“For God alone my soul waits in silence” (62:5).

“O thou my help, hasten to my aid!” (22:19)

The psalmist poured out his soul to God – cried, even screamed, from the depths of his being. He was confident that his soul’s hunger could be satisfied only but the Lord. This confidence is dramatically demonstrated in the prayer language of the psalmist:

“My God in His steadfast love will meet me” (59:10).

“I call upon God; and the Lord will save me” (55:16).

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (46:1).

“For thou, O God, art my fortress, the God who shows me steadfast love” (59:17).

So, prayer is a hunger. It is also a confidence, a confidence rooted in the belief that we are not alone in the world, that there is help beyond our human resources, that the hunger within us will be satisfied. It is the confidence that God made us for Himself, and that our hearts will always be restless until we rest in Him.

To affirm that prayer is a hunger - -and that at the heart of it is mystery – is the place at which we must begin our praying. Otherwise we will be handling holy things with dirty and clumsy hands. However, we must go beyond this affirmation. For the Christian there is more. The God Who made us for Himself is like Jesus, Who loves us to the point that He will even die for us.

II. Prayer Is Fellowship with God

The first epistle of John provides a marvelous description of who we are in relation to God. Phillips’ modern English translation makes it even more lively. “Consider the incredible love that the Father has shown us in allowing us to be called “children of God” – and that is not just what we are called, but who we are,…Here and now, my dear friends, we are God’s children. We don’t know what we shall become in the future. We only know that when He appears we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is!” (1 John 3:1-2).

John had been with Jesus in the upper room. He had heard Jesus say, “Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends…No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you” (John 15:13-15, RSV).

In the context of this understanding of a God like Jesus, Who loves us and dies for us, and Who wishes us to be His children who are His friends, we accept the simplest, most straightforward definition of prayer. Prayer is fellowship with God. We are persons in relationship. The uniqueness of being human is that we can enter into relationship with our environment, with other persons, and with God. The quality and depth of our personal relationship determines the richness of our personal lives. The highest and deepest and most meaningful relationship possible to us humans is fellowship with God. Our relationship to others and to our environment can never be completely satisfying, right and whole, unless we have fellowship with God.

The surest sign of fellowship, and that, which builds relationship, is conversation – talking and listening to another. Before we move on to discuss a dynamic and a way of praying, let me make some more general observations about prayer. One, prayer is not easy. As living beings, we breathe, we eat, we drink, and we sleep. As human beings we breathe, eat, drink, sleep and pray. It’s part of our nature as human beings to pray. This is one of the ways we express our natural hungering for God. Natural it is; easy it isn’t!

There is a difference between the tendency to pray and the practice of prayer. We have the tendency to pray – the reflexive crying out in the face of pain or trouble; the spontaneous shout of joy in the presence of beauty, accomplishment, fulfillment. We give expression to it sporadically according to the moods and circumstances of our life.

To live a life of prayer is something else. To pray consistently is not easy; it requires commitment and discipline. Don’t condemn yourself if you find praying difficult. Most of us do. Even those whom we call saints found or find praying difficult. Read their journals and confessions, and you will find them struggling, natural practice in everyday life. The disciples didn’t find it easy.

“And they went to a place which was called Gethsemane; and He said to His disciples, “Sit here, while I pray.” And He took with Him Peter and James and John, and began to be greatly distressed and troubled. And He said to them “ My soul is very sorrowful, even to death; remain here, and watch.” And going a little farther, He fell on the ground and prayed that, if it were possible, the hour might pass from Him. And He said, “Abba, Father, all things are possible to thee; remove this cup from me; yet not what I will, but what though wilt.” And He came and found them sleeping, and He said to Peter, “Simon, are you asleep? Could you not watch one hour? Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation; the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” And again He went away and prayed, saying the same words. And again He came and found them sleeping, for their eyes were very heavy; and they did not know what to answer Him. And He came the third time, and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and taking your rest? It is enough; the hour has come; the Son of man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. Rise, let us be going; see, my betrayer is at hand.”

Discipline, then, is a part of the life of prayer. The purpose of discipline, however is to enhance and increase the spontaneous dimension of praying.

Two, God is good, and I can communicate with God. “O taste and see that the Lord is good.” God is good and wants to give good gifts to us. This is a primary assumption in prayer. A second assumption is that communication with God is possible. That seems so simple and so obvious, but is it? This has been one of the greatest difficulties in my life – to believe that I could actually talk with God, and that God would hear and listen and respond to me.

This is an enormous assumption that needs to be fixed firmly in our minds at the outset of this adventure in prayer. What it means is that I, among all the millions of people in the world, can have personal communication with the Father. The dominant image of God in the New Testament is father. This was Jesus’ descriptive word about Gods nature. In the Sermon on the Mount, He used this figures to help us get our concerns into perspective. Matthew 6:25-26:

“Therefore, I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you shall eat or what you shall drink, nor about your body, what you shall put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?

God is like a shepherd who misses even one lost sheep from the flock, like a housewife who sweeps a house clean to find one lost coin, like a father who grieves for one prodigal son who has left home (Luke 15). “It is not the will of my Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish” (Matt. 18:14).

III. Prayer Is a Privilege

Three, prayer Is a privilege, not a duty. What you have been experiencing the past four days, indeed your entire past experience in prayer, will determine your response to the great idea we want to consider today: Prayer is a privilege, not a duty. Earlier this week we thought about how discipline seems to take the spontaneity out of prayer. Many of us see prayer as a discipline, as a duty, something we must do. We’ve been taught that we ought to pray, and when we don’t, we feel guilty. We will take a giant step forward in our adventure when we cease seeing prayer as a duty and begin to look upon it as a privilege. As a privilege, the discipline of praying becomes a creative freedom, not a bondage of duty. Consider this testimony of Sir Wilfred Grenfell:

“The privilege of prayer to me is one of the most cherished possessions, because faith and experience alike convince me that God sees and answers, and His answers I never venture to criticize. It is only my part to ask. It is entirely His to give or withhold, as He knows best. If it were otherwise, I would not dare to pray at all. In the quiet of home in the heat of life and strife, in the face of death, the privilege of speech with God is inestimable. I value it more because it calls for nothing that the wayfaring man, though a fool, cannot give – that is, the simplest expression to his simplest desire. When I can neither see, nor hear, nor speak, still I can pray so that God can hear. When I finally pass through the valley of the shadow of death, I expect to pass through it in conversation with Him.”

There is a lot in this; reread it slowly.

Put that testimony of a great Christian disciple alongside the word from the psalmist whose hunger for God we encountered the first day of our prayer adventure:

Psalm 63:1-8

O God, thou art my God, I seek thee,
my soul thirsts for thee;
my flesh faintst for thee,
as in a dry and weary land
where no water is.

So, I have looked upon thee in the sanctuary,
beholding they power and glory.
Because thy steadfast love is better than life,
my lips will praise thee.

So, I will bless thee as long as I live;
I will lift up my hands and call on they name.

My soul is feasted as with marrow and fat,
and my mouth praises thee with joyful lips,
when I think of thee upon my bed,
and meditate on thee in the watches of the night;
for thou has been my help,
and in the shadow of they wings
I sing for joy.

My soul clings to thee;
thy right hand upholds me.

IV. We Pray to Experience God

Four, we pray to experience God as real.

The first sentence of Psalm 63 is a great personal claim: “God, thou art my God.” The heart of prayer is communion. Communion means being with, in union, sharing. Go back and read the part of Psalm 63 printed in the workbook for yesterday.

Nothing is real in our experience except those things with which we habitually deal. Persons say that they do not pray because God is not real to them. A truer statement would be that God is not real because they do not pray. Harry Emerson Fosdick puts this graphically:

The practice of prayer is necessary to make God not merely an idea held in the mind but a Presence recognized in the life. In an exclamation that came from the heart of personal religion, the psalmist cried, “O God, thou art my God” (Psalm 63:1). To stand afar off and say “O God” is neither difficult nor searching… but it is an inward and searching matter to say, “O God, though art my God.” The first is theology, the second is religion; the first involves only opinion, the second involves vital experience; the first can be reached by thought, the second must be reached by prayer; the first leaves God afar off, the second alone makes Him real. To be sure, all Christian service where we consciously ally ourselves with God’s purpose, and all insight into history where we see God’s providence at work, help to make God real to us; but there is an inward certainty of God that can come only from personal communication with God.

I this a new thought to you? Have you failed to pray consistently because God did not seem real to you? What an insight: God does not seem real because we do not pray. Do you see the implication of that? If we want to realize God, we must pray. Ponder that for a few minutes. It is a valuable thought about God. How does it fit into your experience of God?

It may be that we will never learn to pray, never have any ongoing, creatively disciplined prayer life until our desire for communion with God is so great that we will be driven to prayer. Consider that thought for a few minutes. How great is your hunger for communion with God?

These are some general impressions – and we could go on with others. Naturally, it is impossible to discover all the dimensions of prayer.

I want to focus on this center: prayer as fellowship with God, and fellowship being developed and enhanced through conversation, by being with another. I want to simply suggest a way of praying. I will do so by presenting a picture, which suggests that dynamic of prayer, and then outline a very simple way of keeping alive our relationship with God.

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