Luke 7:11-17 · Jesus Raises a Widow’s Son
How to Rise above Discouragement
Luke 7:11-17
Sermon
by Maurice A. Fetty
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It's a dramatic scene when you think about it -- I mean -- a funeral procession halted and the trip to the cemetery interrupted. Of course it was not anything like our scene -- a black Cadillac hearse, followed by one or more black Cadillac limousines, followed perhaps by several cars, lights on, concerned not to lose their place in the line in the traffic.

No, this scene was at once more primitive and personal. No city traffic to contend with in this procession. No indifferent motorists disturbed that they were delayed a few minutes for the funeral. No, this is a village scene, people on foot, following the widowed mother who is following the professional mourners with their cymbals, flutes and high-pitched shrieking and wailing.

It is a Palestinian village scene in Nain, just a short distance from Nazareth (Jesus' hometown), and a day's walk from Capernaum (Jesus' new, adopted town). The pallbearers are carrying the body of a young man in a long wicker basket covered by a shroud for burial outside the city. Except for very important people, ancient Jews buried their dead outside the city, usually on the day of death or the next day. Embalming was not practiced.

For modern, indifferent eyes and blasé people, the scene was dramatic enough by itself. Think of it: the dead man was the only son of his mother, and she was a widow. The pathos and sorrow of the ages is contained in that statement. In a patriarchal society orphans, such as this young man, and widows, like his mother, were regarded as vulnerable, weak and without much opportunity for economic support. Nonetheless, a great crowd followed the procession, indicating sympathy and support at least for the time being.

That's drama enough -- a large crowd of caring people -- but now there is more. Jesus approaches, apparently coming from Capernaum where he just healed the Roman Centurion's slave. He saw the widowed, desolate mother, had compassion for her, thinking perhaps of his own mother reputedly widowed at an early age.

"Do not weep," he told her. Her tears for her son no doubt now intermingling with the endless salty tears shed for her husband. And in the continuing drama risking ceremonial impurity, he reached out, touched the bier and possibly the body, and the procession halted.

Can you see the modern setting -- someone halting the hearse, opening the door of the limousine, telling the widowed mother in mourning black not to weep, and then saying beside the coffin, "Young man, I say to you, arise." Startling indeed, and startling enough in first century Palestine which had a tradition of miracle stories of great prophets like Elijah and Elisha raising widows' sons from the dead. And the young man sat up and began to speak, and like Elijah and Elisha before Jesus, the new great prophet gave the son back to his mother.

Talk about rising above discouragement! Talk about overcoming the greatest obstacle to human fulfillment. Talk about overcoming life's defeats: this was it -- Jesus raising this young man from the dead as he had Jairus' daughter and Lazarus, brother of Mary and Martha.

He didn't raise everybody physically from the dead of course, just as he didn't heal everybody. But what he did do then and still does today, is to help everyone rise above discouragement. And that's where we focus today -- rising above discouragement. 

I. Don't Deny Reality

How do we rise above discouragement? For one thing we do not deny the reality of our trouble.

Biblical scholar William Barclay says, "We live in a world of broken hearts." Indeed we do. Any daily newspaper recounts tragic story after story of premature deaths, fractured relationships, and broken dreams. Indeed, we need not turn to any newspaper for an accounting of the world's troubles and sorrows. We have only to look at our own friends and neighbors and families. We have only to look into our own lives and hearts.

Jesus, the healer and power-giver, never insulted people by telling them their problems weren't real. He never told the sick they were never really sick or that their illness had no pain or reality. He never told people that death wasn't real, nor did he offer this widowed mother pollyanish pabulum to soothe her grieving heart.

I am reminded of a friend of mine living in Indiana where tornadoes are frequent. His young son had a special fear of storms. One day, when a storm threatened, the father took his son to the front of their lovely, substantial home, pointed out across the neighborhood, and said to the boy, "There, you see everything is okay. These are solid homes and we are safe and dry in them."

About that time a tornado touched down a block away and utterly destroyed several of these "substantial" homes. The storms of the natural world are real just as are the storms of the spiritual, psychological world. Trouble and tragedy are real. Evil and death are real. Jesus never said to his disciples on the stormy Sea of Galilee, "This is no storm. The storm is in your mind." He never said that. Instead he said to the storm, "Peace, be still." And it was.

Are you out of a job? Did your home decline in value? Are your financial resources dwindling? Do you have a serious illness? Is your marriage not right? Is there a real problem with the children? Are you enslaved in a debilitating habit? Then don't deny it, says Jesus. The widow never said her son wasn't dead. Admit the problems. Don't deny them. That's the first step in overcoming discouragement. 

II. Consider the Alternatives.

How are we to rise above discouragement? We need to have the courage to consider alternatives.

A few years ago in another city I was counselling a woman in a very troubled marriage. Over the course of several counselling sessions she recited in great detail the woes of her marriage and the faults and foibles of her spouse. The problems were real and she was indeed a very unhappy woman.

But when it came to considering alternatives, she was close-minded. Her husband was abusive and would not, under any circumstances, consider counselling. "Why not get a separation or divorce?" I asked. She couldn't for the sake of their child. "But the child is almost grown and gone, and besides he thinks you should get out of the relationship," I said.

She then stated she could not afford to move out. "But," I said, "you already are gainfully employed, and from what you have told me, earn quite a good income." "But," she replied, "without his income, I would have to live at a lower level than that to which I have become accustomed."

And so it went. She was indeed very unhappy in the marriage and had been for a long time. She was very discouraged, even to the point of despair, and perhaps even flirted once in a while with the thought of suicide. And yet she refused seriously to consider any alternative to her current situation.

Or here is a man about to lose his job due to large lay-offs in his company. He has two cars, a large mortgage, kids in school and one in college. The job market is tough, but his company does help him in outplacement, but in an area of the country which is not as appealing and which is some distance from his mother and father on whom he is quite dependent. So he turns down the outplacement and is faced with probable personal bankruptcy. He's greatly discouraged, but is so in large measure because he refused seriously to consider real alternatives. I see this over and over again. People come to a dead end in marriage or job or self-understanding and then refuse to consider alternatives. They often refuse to consider alternatives because they want the future to be just like the past. They are afraid of adjustment or change. They have forgotten the words to James Russell Lowell's famous hymn:

New occasions teach new duties,
Time makes ancient good uncouth.
He must always up and onward,
Who would keep abreast of truth. 

But long before Lowell it was Jesus who told the sick, "Have faith, stand up and walk." It was Jesus who said to the blind man, "Do you want to see?" and he did. It was Jesus who said, "Take up your cross and follow me." It was Jesus who said, "If you have faith you can move mountains."

It was Jesus himself who refused to be defeated by circumstances. Instead, he considered alternative ways of thinking and acting. That's what made him such a revolutionary person.

Want to rise above discouragement? Then let go of the past, the dead-ends, the cul-de-sacs, and the corners you've painted yourself into, and consider the alternatives Christ is ready to show you.

III. Touched by Christ.

How do we rise above discouragement? We must allow ourselves to be touched by Christ, by the transcendent, by the Divine Reality which is greater than ourselves.

One of the surest ways to discouragement and death is to assume that all reality begins and ends with you. A lady of my acquaintance believes if she hasn't thought of it, it isn't true; or if she hasn't experienced it, it hasn't happened. The whole of reality is therefore defined by her narrow perceptions.

The late Jacob Bronowski, outstanding scientist with the Salk Institute, illustrated that truth in the world of science. He did a popular television series which he later put into a book titled, The Ascent of Man -- a book which chronicled the development of scientific knowledge and understanding.

In the chapter having to do with knowledge and certainty, Bronowski confesses and laments how arrogant science had at one time become. He said he remembered when scientists thought they were on the verge of discovering the key to all reality, when suddenly a new discovery would open up a whole new world, and reality would lurch away from them into infinity. He then added we should avoid all arrogant, dogmatic stances with respect to knowledge, and say in the words of Oliver Cromwell, "By the mercies of Christ think it possible ye might be mistaken."

Invariably, when people become discouraged, they have allowed their own world and self-understanding to collapse in around them. Many discouraged and despairing people are suffocating in their own conceit. They get caught in the grip of doubt and refuse to doubt their own doubts; they refuse to question their own stale definitions of self and reality.

In contrast to this, Jesus calls us to open up to the Divine in prayer and humility. Or in the words of yesteryear's skeptic, Thomas Huxley, we need to say with him, "The longer I live, the more obvious it is to me that the most sacred act of a man's life is to say and to feel, 'I believe.' " That's what Harry Emerson Fosdick, the famous preacher of Riverside Church, New York City, had to do. Called to pastor and build that big church backed by the Rockefeller family and fortune, Fosdick eventually had a nervous breakdown.

"It was," said Fosdick, "the most terrifying wilderness I ever traveled through. I dreadfully wanted to commit suicide but instead made some of the most vital discoveries of my life. My little book, The Meaning of Prayer, would never have been written without that breakdown. I found God in a desert." Like Huxley, Fosdick could feel and say, "I believe."

We are forever learning that God is for us, not against us. It is we who are against ourselves in our myopia, our rigidity, our fear, our arrogance and stubbornness. Many of us are slow learners. We refuse to allow God to touch us with the new idea, the new self-understanding, the new job, the new opportunity, the new vital power he has to give.

It was Isaiah the prophet who put it so well for the Lord:

Seek the Lord while he may be found
Call upon him while he is near ...
For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways,
says the Lord.
For as the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.
(Isaiah 55:6, 8-9)

It was the Divine Power which spoke to the dead young man that day long ago in the village of Nain. It was a dramatic sight, a rarity with Elijah, Elisha, Jesus and perhaps a few other great prophets. We shall have to wait until the end of time to see the grand resurrection of the dead.

But in our time and in all time, the power of the living Christ raises people up from discouragement, despondency, despair and from death itself. The Bible and books of the world and the churches are full of stories of how God helped and helps people rise above discouragement. And as Jesus said to that young man in Nain long ago, so would he say to each of us today, "Young man or old, young woman or old, I say to you, arise."

And you will.

CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, The Divine Advocacy, by Maurice A. Fetty