Luke 18:9-14 · The Parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector
Are We on Speaking Terms with the Almighty?
Luke 18:9-14
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by Eric Ritz
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As we open our splendid scripture lesson today, we see the story of two men who go to the same synagogue. They go to the synagogue for the same reason--to pray--yet they experience such different results. One goes to pray to God, and the other goes and hopes God overhears his litany of how good he is. I believe these two characters represent in a very real way our approach to prayer. We, too, shift gears from talking to God to the posture of talking at God.

Despite the fact that the secular media of television, magazines, and newspapers are not always very positive in their coverage and images they portray about the religious dimension of life in America, I was surprised to see that the January 6, 1992 issue of Newsweek magazine featured a front cover in gold, no less, with the headline, "Talking To God: An Intimate Look at the Way We Pray." The article featured a Gallup poll which attempted to get a pulse on the prayer life of America. The poll shared these fascinating results:

A. 78% of all Americans pray at least once a week.

B. More than half--57%--pray at least once a day.

C. About 20% of all atheists pray once a day. (1)

Yes, these two men would both be included in Mr. Gallup''s poll, but they present a world of difference in their "talking to God."

In the spring of 1987, my good friend J. George Mamourian and I spent a grand weekend in New York City. On Sunday, we attended the well-known Fifth Avenue Presbyterian Church where Dr. Elam Davies was serving as the interim minister. He preached a very moving sermon on the topic "What If Prayer Becomes A Burden?" I have never forgotten one particular insight he shared that day. He told about the great joy of meeting a classmate from seminary days after a preaching engagement. After they shared the usual chit-chat about family and friends, he asked his friend how he was doing in his spiritual life. His friend made a shocking statement, "To tell you the truth, the Almighty and I have not been on speaking terms for many years." As the large congregation became quite still and silent that day, Dr. Elam Davies declared, "While we may not be on speaking terms with our Father and God--God is never, I repeat, never--not on speaking terms with us." I could see the tears flood the cheeks of many sitting around me. My cheeks were wet as well. Yes, people have always felt the need to be more intimate with God.

Today, I want to share with you three suggestions on this mystery of talking with God, using this parable as our guide and friend.

First, Jesus was upset because this Pharisee used prayer as a means of getting public recognition and not as a way to seek fellowship with God.

The danger inherent so often in studying the parables is that they have lost their shock value. What would you say if I wrote the parable this way: "The Reverend from the Holiness Church went into the temple to pray, Thank God I am an American, thank God I am not like the bleeding-heart liberals, thank God I am not like that drunken no-good homosexual over there with AIDS.'' However, Saddam Hussein''s Commander-in Chief, screamed and shouted, Lord, have mercy on me a sinner.''" You would be outraged at me for making up this story. This is what is taking place in this parable. I remember once preaching on this topic and I had a dear saint of our church declare to me after the service, "Thank God I am not like that dumb Pharisee."

When the Lord''s own disciples said so honestly in Matthew''s gospel, "Lord, teach us to pray," they knew the importance of talking to God--not at God.

The more we pray--that much more of God''s presence becomes real to us. When there is communication with our friends--those friendships remain vibrant and real. However, when communication fades, so does the relationship. The biggest obstacle in modern times is not that God has stopped hearing our prayers. The biggest obstacle is that we have stopped listening for God''s direction.

In his book Directions, author James Hamilton shares this insight about listening to God: "Before refrigerators, people used icehouses to preserve their food. Icehouses had thick walls, no windows, and a tightly fitted door. In winter, when streams and lakes were frozen, large blocks of ice were cut, hauled to the icehouses, and covered with sawdust. Often the ice would last well into the summer.

One man lost a valuable watch while working in an icehouse. He searched diligently for it, carefully raking through the sawdust, but didn''t find it. His fellow workers also looked, but their efforts, too, proved futile. A small boy who heard about the fruitless search slipped into the icehouse during the noon hour and soon emerged with the watch.

Amazed, the men asked him how he found it.

 I closed the door,'' the boy replied, lay down in the sawdust, and kept very still. Soon I heard the watch ticking.''"(2)

Often the question is not whether God is speaking, but whether we are being still enough, and quiet enough, to hear. Yes, Jesus assures us that our heavenly Father always listens to us, but do we really listen to God? Do we follow the instructions of Psalm 46, "Be still, and know that I am God"?

Second, prayer allows each person to simply be honest with God about the needs they have in life, and to receive strength for the journey.

This tax collector knew he had exposed his life to the wrong powers and influences. He realized that his ultimate loyalty to the Roman government had produced greed rather than good. He realized that he must put his life under a new power and a new direction. He knew he had to remove himself from Rome''s influence in order that he might hear a different voice and word. So he comes to the Temple to pray. He probably had not been on speaking terms with the Almighty for years, but God is on speaking terms with him.

Charles Haddon Spurgeon said years ago, "Only that prayer which comes from our heart can get to God''s heart." Spurgeon further said, "You can draw to God even though you cannot say a word. A prayer may be crystallized in a tear. A tear is enough water to float a desire to God." The tax collector could only muster a few words and then he beat his breast. I tell you that God heard that prayer. He heard the Pharisee, but He could not act on it for it was not a "prayer."

Dwight L. Moody and Charles Spurgeon were great preachers of the nineteenth century. Moody admired Spurgeon from a distance and looked forward to the opportunity of meeting him in London. On that historic day, Spurgeon answered the door with a cigar in his mouth. Moody was aghast. "How could you, a man of God, smoke that?" Spurgeon took the cigar from his mouth, put his finger on Moody''s rather inflated stomach, smiled and said, "The same way you, a man of God, could be that fat." Because we are usually blind to our own vices, we are hardly qualified to judge others.

C.S. Lewis was right when he said, "We must lay before him what is really inside of us, not what ought to be in us." The Psalmist stated in Psalm 145:18, "The Lord is near to all who call upon Him, to all who call upon Him in truth."

This is why God heard the prayer of the tax collector-- because it was an honest declaration. So often we fail to realize that evil often occurs in our higher nature, our desire to be like God and be God. The Pharisee could not go home justified for he had not confessed and placed faith and trust in something besides himself. The Pharisee thought he could fight his own battles of spiritual warfare.

When we talk at God, we mistakenly think we are on the same level as God, and that only brings spiritual blindness and destruction to us. When we talk with God, we have the joy of knowing the One who will always listen to us. In prayer, do not cover up--let it all hang out. You will be glad you did.

Third, prayer connects us to the healing power of life.

A distinguished colleague in Bethel Park, Pennsylvania, tells a true story from 1986 which never made many headlines but is a marvelous story. Dr. Randy Byrd was a staff cardiologist at the San Francisco General Hospital and a professor at the University of California. He conducted a ten month study of 393 patients admitted to the coronary care unit at the hospital over those months. Of those patients, 192 were assigned to a prayer group. The remaining 201 were not. Neither the patients, nurses, or attending physicians knew which group the patients were in.

Dr. Byrd recruited Roman Catholic, United Methodist, Baptist, and Jewish groups around the country to pray for the designated 192 patients. They were given the patients'' names, something of their condition, and were asked to pray for these persons by name once each day. No other instructions were given.

The results were startling. The prayed-for patients were five times less likely to require antibiotics and three times less likely to develop fluid filling the lungs. None of these prayed-for patients required breathing tubes compared to 12 in the other group. And fewer of the prayed-for patients died.

The truly startling part of this, however, was in this paragraph in the reporting article: "If the technique had been a new drug or surgical procedure, it would have been heralded as a breakthrough.'' But since it was prayer, it hardly got mentioned." (3)

Someone has said that modern man is lost and like a runner who runs faster and faster to carry a life and death message to the king, but on arrival does not recognize the king and does not remember the message. Prayer allows us to re-connect to life the way God created it to be.

I like the way William Walter DeBolt puts it in this little verse:

After not hearing the news for three days
With its poison dancing like an idiot in the air,
Between the cloven hoof- beats of commercials,
I dreamed that I was young again, and
Climbing the quiet little hills of yesterday.

In closing, I would like to say this. . . . Evelyn Newman is a gifted writer who often speaks to pastors about spiritual disciplines. She told about going through a troubled experience. There was a little lake near her home where she loved to walk along the shore. One day, she went down to the lake to be alone. It was a cloudy day, and there was a brisk breeze that stirred the waters. The thing she loved best about that lake was to see the reflection of the trees on the water. But there was no reflection, and she said it dawned on her that "even God can''t paint a picture on moving water."

Yes, the Pharisee was so busy moving his lips and running the world that he failed to remember the real message he needed to bring before the real king in the sanctuary that day. The tax collector emptied his cup'' thus allowing God to pour some new, fresh, bubbling water into it.

Are you on speaking terms with the Almighty? No? Maybe? Sometimes?

The Good News is this: God is ready to be on speaking terms with you!

Lord, have mercy on me a sinner!

Let the conversation begin! 

Amen and Amen.

Dynamic Preaching, The Ritz Collection, by Eric Ritz