Luke 12:35-48 · Watchfulness
A Thanksgiving Checklist
Luke 12:48
Sermon
by Robert Noblett
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Do you ever find yourself getting confused over actual holidays and legal holidays? I do. About all that I am ever really sure of is that holidays mean sales. In fact, I am convinced that if you were to take certain holidays and ask the person on the street how we came to have them and what they mean, the majority wouldn’t have the foggiest. Pulaski? Who’s Pulaski?

In 1927 Reinhold Niebuhr noted how Thanksgiving can become twisted and wrested from its germinal essence. He wrote:

Thanksgiving becomes increasingly the business of congratulating the Almighty upon his most excellent co-workers, ourselves. It would be better to strut unashamedly down the boardwalk of nations than to go through the business of bowing before God while we say, 'We thank thee Lord that we are not as other men.’ (Leaves From The Notebook of a Tamed Cynic, pp. 173-174) Hence, it becomes alarmingly easy to pass right through a time of celebration like Thanksgiving and never really be grasped by its abiding significance.

For Christians, it is clear that gratitude is the very heartbeat of the biblical drama. Whether one is reading in the New or Old Testament, one is constantly confronted with words of gratitude and praise. Perhaps to re-read portions of the Bible that concern themselves with gratitude is a sure way of wresting Thanksgiving from its secular expressions. There is an authenticity and freshness about hearing from men and women whose life passages have flooded their lives with gratefulness. For instance, David’s expression in the seventh chapter of 2 Samuel. “How great you are, Sovereign Lord! There is none like you; we have always known that you alone are God!” (2 Samuel 7:22 TEV)

By way of rescuing Thanksgiving from our department stores and insuring that this holiday can be an affair of the heart for us all, consider this Thanksgiving checklist:

Checklist item #1: Am I remembering to say thank-you? Some may maintain that this item is for elementary school children, and I would agree. It is. But often we find adults acting like children; adults need to be reminded that the verbal expressions of gratitude are important.

On one level the expression of thanksgiving can be seen as a matter of manners, and manners are more essential than optional. Manners are to human intercourse what glue is to model building try to get along without them and things begin to fall apart. Without manners we would have the regrettable spectacle of people who interrupt without apology, request without grace, receive without acknowledgment, and inquire without tact.

On another level, “thank-you” is an acknowledgment of helpfulness. “Thank-you” is a verbal recognition to another that they have well served us. It affirms what they have done and encourages them to do more of it. Our appreciation becomes their inspiration.

And on still another level, the ability to say “thank-you” separates the human being from the parasite. One who is legitimately grateful is not usually found to be one who arrogantly presumes and parasitically lives off the kindness of other people.

Every group seems to have at least one individual who functions out of what I call the vacuum cleaner syndrome. That is to say, this individual, just like your Hoover or Electrolux or Kirby, laps up everything with which he comes into contact. He laps up all the attention, all the support, all the concern, and all the caring he possibly can and never does he turn back to say “thank-you.” No matter how he works the ledger, he always seems to come up with more liabilities than assets, and so goes off again and again in search of more to consume.

The author of Hebrews knew people like that and remarks to them in the fifth chapter of that letter, “... by this time you ought to be teachers ...” (Hebrews 5:12) Apparently these folks have been “taking in” for years and years and still are, even though by this time they should be “putting out.”

Checklist item #2: Do I realize that Jam never out of debt? That’s not a financial statement, but it is a spiritual and an emotional one. It is the psalmist declaring, “Hear my cry, O Lord; listen to my call for help! If you kept a record of our sins, who could escape being condemned? But you forgive us, so that we should reverently obey you.” (Psalm 130:2-4 TEV)

Think of the whole host of people through whose efforts we are ushered into adulthood. Even when there have been rotten apples in the family barrel, one still cannot dismiss the important others in our lives, and often they have been myriad: mother, father, siblings, neighbors, teachers, friends, ministers, aunts, uncles, and the list goes on. This is to say nothing about the infrastructure of community, state, and nation and the goods and services we take for granted.

Checklist item #3: Does my selfishness set the trigger of gratitude too low? When we are born, we are born turned in on ourselves; it could be no other way. Over the course of human development we gradually become aware of others around us and move from the center of the circle to a place, with others, along the edge of the circle. However, sometimes, for various reasons, we fail to make that total journey from the center of the circle to a point along its edge. When that happens, we center too much attention on ourselves and evidence “entitlement behavior.” We come to feel that we are due this or due that. This should not be confused with affirming our basic human rights. Rather it has to do with the feeling that we are entitled to special treatment. And if that is our feeling, it is probable that we will set the trigger of gratitude far too low. Our demands on others will be so extraordinary, that few will and should comply; but from our perspective there will be little reason to say "thank you.”

I am reminded of a transient who came to me wanting help with food. I discovered he was already staying at our local shelter and had food vouchers for a very fine local restaurant, but he complained of not liking the food at either place and wanted me to provide him with funds so that he could eat elsewhere. That’s entitlement, and a person with that mind set is not apt to say “thank you” often, if at all.

Checklist item #4: Is my thanksgiving being translated into generosity? Thanksgiving that is genuine has a motivating power behind it. It makes us want to get up and do something for someone else. And to spur us along in that direction there is a gospel one-liner that should be remembered and read aloud after every Thanksgiving dinner: “Everyone to whom much is given, of him will much be required ...” (Luke 12:48)

It is the psalmist, then, who raises the correct question: “What shall I render to the Lord for all his bounty to me?” (Psalm 116:12)

Having received, we give; having been blessed, we bless; having been forgiven, we forgive; having been liberated, we liberate.

We all see this dynamic illustrated in many ways, but I remember hearing of a seminary professor in Rochester, New York, who funded an undergraduate program for several young people. It happened that a cousin of mine was helped by this man. I never heard the professor’s story, but I suspect that if I had, it would have been along lines of the biblical mandate that having received, we are asked to give.

Checklist item #5: Do I see myself as a child of God to whom my wonder is a sacrifice of thanksgiving? Clearly there is wonderment in David’s prayer of thanksgiving when he speaks of God having “made this wonderful promise to me.” (2 Samuel 7:28 TEV)

Not that everything in the world is wonderful; it isn’t. Only a Pollyanna could believe that. Yet our ability to see the wonder-full around us is to place before God our sacrifice of thanksgiving. Full of wonder is a blazing hearth before us; full of wonder is the little child snuggled in its mother’s arms; full of wonder is a father extending himself to a needful son or daughter; full of wonder is the emerging sunrise and the receding sunset; full of wonder is the ability to free someone with a word; and full of wonder is that sense of knowing that defies analysis. Wonder translates into praise and becomes our sacrifice of thanksgiving to the One in whose image we have been created.

Culturally, thanksgiving has become a holiday. But for those who understand its deeper dimensions, it is more to the point a holy day.

The C.S.S. Publishing Compa, ORDINARY PEOPLE, EXTRAORDINARY GOD, by Robert Noblett