... in sports unless you exercise self-control in order to put your ... -be-athlete has to exercise self-control and cannot depend on the ...
2. They Will All Be Taught By God
John 6:35, 41-51
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Ralph Waldo Emerson
... , dishonesty with honesty, sensuality with self-control, and hatred with love. The ...
3. Like Their Heroic Commander
Romans 8:29; John 17:23
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Christopher Oldstone-Moore
The revolution that ended the reign of beards occurred on September 30, 331 b.c., As Alexander the Great prepared for a decisive showdown with the Persian emperor for control of Asia, he ordered his men to shave. From time immemorial in Greek culture, a smooth chin on a grown man had been taken as a sign of effeminacy or degeneracy. What can explain this unprecedented command? When the commander Parmenio asked the reason, according to the ancient historian Plutarch, Alexander replied, “Don’t you know that ...
4. Be Watchful of the Future
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James Enery White
If people would have been asked in 1968 which nation would dominate the world in watch making during the 1990s and into the twenty-first century the answer would have been uniform: Switzerland. Why? Because Switzerland had dominated the world of watch making for the previous sixty years. The Swiss made the best watches in the world and were committed to constant refinement of their expertise. It was the Swiss who came forward with the minute hand and the second hand. They led the world in discovering ...
5. Control Your Temper
Mt 18:15-35
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King Duncan
... not believe that Patton lacked self-control, only that he was refusing ...
6. Killer Soap
Galatians 5:22-23
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Richard L. Dunagin
... , kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. I promise you. Your fish ...
7. Creeds and Deeds - Sermon Starter
Mark 7:1-23
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Brett Blair
... quality of a person's self-control. When you discuss a good ...
8. Fighting Mad
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Joe Franklin
... about Joe Louis that illustrates self-control. He and the late G ...
9. Turning Jesus Down
John 4:5-42
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John N. Brittain
Many churches have been designed in response to consumer surveys. In several Midwestern suburban areas the surveys have had similar results. People want the church to provide a good community center with an excellent gym and Nautilus-caliber training equipment; they want quality affordable day care and after school care for children; they want a variety of self-help and support groups; and they want sermons dealing with timely issues like money management and enhancing self-esteem. What they do not want ...
10. An Attitude of Sacrifice
Lk 6:17-26; Mt 5:1-12
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Brett Blair
... was God—controlled and not self—controlled. When I think of making ...
11. Dead Works
Luke 13:1-9; Heb 9:14; Jer 13:23
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Stephen Craig Jennings
Simply changing outward behavior is not repentance. We at times change our behavior for self-centered reasons. Sometimes we change in an attempt to atone for my sins. Such change will only make my sinfulness more sinful. This is the basis for the reference in Hebrews of repenting from ‘dead works'. A dead work is a work that is not done with the leading and empowerment of the indwelling Holy Spirit. Hence any good work a non-Christian would attempt is a dead work. And many types of good works that ...
12. Kilkenny Cats
Matthew 5:21-26
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Staff
Jesus warns us against anger, and reminds us to find a better way to resolve our conflicts. It is impossible to avoid confrontations and conflict, but we should never let anger poison our relationships or lead to damage that is impossible to undo. It reminds me of a traditional Irish poem: There once were two cats of Kilkenny, Each thought there was one cat too many; So they fought and they fit, And they scratched and they bit, Till, excepting their nails, And the tips of their tails, Instead of two cats ...
13. Selecting a New President
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Staff
When the board of directors of a large food company was considering the selection of a new president, one of the directors worked out this questionnaire: Who of the possible candidates is the best known as a personality to the most company people? Who is the most liked and trusted by them? Who is held in the highest regard outside the organization...in public life and "in the trade"? Who is the most warmly human in his dealings with people? Who has demonstrated the best capacity for selecting able people, ...
14. Beauty Tips
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A New Year resolution adapted from a prayer from the World Healing Organization (Blackpool, England): For attractive lips, I will speak words of kindness. For beautiful eyes, I will look for the good in others. To lose weight, I will let go of stress, hatred, anger, discontentment and the need to control others. For poise, I will walk with knowledge and self-esteem. To strengthen my arms, I will hug at least three people a day. I will reach out to someone and touch them with love. To strengthen my heart, I ...
15. We Go Up to Jerusalem
Matthew 20:18
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Jon L. Joyce
Here is a living example of fearlessness, of unwavering loyalty, and of determination to finish a task. At Jerusalem an ugly cross was waiting to inflict its cruel anguish upon Christ. Yet without flinching or hesitation he set his jaw and started for the city. Here was discipline of the first order, and an example to every follower of Christ. Discipline is not popular today. The discipline of the armed forces is being eroded. Children are not to be warped by domination and so permissiveness runs full sway ...
16. How to Really Love Your Child
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Dr. Ross Campbell
... from moving on to better self-control and more mature behavior. Therefore ...
17. Fruit of the Spirit
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Donald Grey Barnhouse
Love is the key. Joy is love singing. Peace is love resting. Long-suffering is love enduring. Kindness is love's touch. Goodness is love's character. Faithfulness is love's habit. Gentleness is love's self-forgetfulness. Self-control is love holding the reins.
18. The First Fruits of the Spirit
2 Peter 1:1-11
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Jane Shepherd
... can forgive seven times seventy? Self-Control: This is one of the ...
19. Cancel Your Plans
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James Packer
... part of the discipline of self-control; it's a way of ...
20. What Can You Bear?
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Charles Ryrie
... to both lists: love and self-control. The others are joy, peace ...
21. Cabinet Masterpiece
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... dog. The surgeon, with masterful self-control, said not a word but ...
22. THE BEAUTY OF SELF-LOVE
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John H. Krahn
When we are emotionally healthy, all of us have a rather high regard of ourselves. It is natural and normal to enjoy the beauty of self-love. Although the Bible does not stroke self-love, it does not deny its validity either. What it speaks out against is selfish love, a love of ourselves that is exclusive of God and of others ... a love that has its priorities wrong. Whereas self-love is beautiful, selfish love is not. In order to have the beauty of self-love, the Bible states that we must get our love ...
23. Bigger Is Not Always Better
Mark 8:31-38
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Mickey Anders
The American businessman was at the pier of a small, coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The Mexican replied only a little while. The American then asked why didn't he stay out longer and catch more fish. The Mexican said he had enough to support his family's immediate needs. The American then asked, "But ...
24. A Father's Influence
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Dr. George Rekers
A positive and continuous relationship to one's father has been found to be associated with a good self-concept, higher self- esteem, higher self-confidence in personal and social interaction, higher moral maturity, reduced rates of unwed teen pregnancy, greater internal control and higher career aspirations. Fathers who are affectionate, nurturing and actively involved in child-rearing are more likely to have well- adjusted children.
25. A Bent Over Woman
Luke 13:10-17
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Richard A. Jensen
The woman with the battered face. Several years back that battered face was splashed all over the media. The woman's name was Hedda Nussbaum. She came to public attention as a dramatic witness for the prosecution in the death of her adopted daughter, Lisa. Hedda Nussbaum was a vulnerable person already in her early years. She says that when she was a child, "I just went where I was taken." She just obeyed orders. Not surprisingly, she fell in love with a man who loved to give orders. His name was Joel ...
26. A Hostage Repents
Luke 3:1-20
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Richard A. Jensen
Terry Anderson is probably the best known of the American hostages kept in Lebanon. Anderson, an Associated Press journalist, was held hostage for 2,454 days! His ordeal began innocently enough on March 16, 1985. As he dropped off his tennis partner after a morning match he noticed a green Mercedes pulled up just ahead of where he was stopped. Suddenly three young men came charging out of the car. Each had a 9-mm pistol hanging loosely on their hip. In a flash they were at Anderson's car window. "Get out ...
27. Cheap Talk about an All Powerful God
John 1:29-42
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Shirley Guthrie
One Christian writer has said, "All cheap and easy talk about a God of sovereign power who is in control of a world in which there is so much poverty, suffering, and injustice is obscene. All self-confident talk about a powerful church that has the mandate and the ability to change society with this or that conservative or liberal social/political agenda or with this or that evangelistic program is increasingly absurd in a disintegrating church that cannot solve its own problems, much less the problems of ...
28. Persisting In Integrity
Job 1:1-5
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... deeply in another effort at self-control. "How dare Ray ask me ...
29. ATHLETE
1 Corinthians 9:25; 2 Timothy 2:5
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Stephen Stewart
... 9:25 - "Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do ...
30. Our Misguided Goals
John 1:19-34
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William J. Kemp
There's an emptiness in pursuing anything less than God's call. Darrell Bock is one of those baby boomers who has entered mid-life. A teacher at Dallas Theological Seminary, he writes in Christianity Today how as a young, idealistic man, headed for seminary, he thought being a successful Christian meant "being a winner for God, taking control, and doing all I could for his kingdom...The essence of our spirituality was to do all we could for God in the 40 or so years we had." Now, at mid-life, he has ...
31. STEWARD
Gen. 43:19; 1 Peter 4:10
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Stephen Stewart
Genesis 43:19 - "So they went up to the steward of Joseph’s house, and spoke with him at the door of the house," 1 Peter 4:10 - "As each has received a gift, employ it for one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace:" The steward in ancient Israel was the man who controlled the affairs of the household of the wealthy and royal families, especially in overseeing the service of the table, directing the servants, and controlling the household expenses. This was a position of trust, as is evident, ...
32. Personal Prayer Time
Mark 1:29-34
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Keith Wagner
We live in a hi-tech, fast pace, workaholic world where no one rests. We are constantly on the road, running errands, going places. We stuff ourselves with "fast food," overbook our lives with a myriad of things to do, and at the end of the day we are totally exhausted. We live (and die) by the clock. We are controlled by the need to produce. Time is money, time is how we keep in control of our lives. We resist quiet time by keeping the radios, televisions and computers on. The very thought of being alone ...
33. Quite a Shock
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Tom Carter
In Ralph Emery's autobiography, Memories, the country-music D.J. and host of TV's "Nashville Now" relates one of his early experiences in radio: An exuberant man of the cloth came into the studio one day with his wife, another woman and a guitar with an electrical short in its amplifier. I could tell it was defective by the loud hum in his speaker. I walked from the control room into the studio to exchange pleasantries, and then assumed my position on my side of the glass separating the rooms. I raised the ...