Luke 12:22-34 · Do Not Worry
Who Will Be Crying At Your Funeral
Luke 12:22-34
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by King Duncan
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Who will be crying at your funeral? That is a question that writer Patrick Morley, author of THE MAN IN THE MIRROR, has many people asking.

Morley and his wife were successful in their business. Their schedules were filled with business and civic responsibilities. Meanwhile they had young children at home who needed their attention.

One evening, as they reviewed their timeconsuming responsibilities, the thought came, "Why not prioritize everything we do on the basis of who will be crying at our funeral?" And that's exactly what they did. The results, they claim, saved their family. "Why should you and I give ourselves to people who don't love us," Patrick Morley asks, "at the expense of those who do?"

Powerful thought. It is a question of priorities. It is a question of putting first things first. It is a question of taking charge of our time.

JESUS WAS CONCERNED ABOUT HOW WE MANAGE OUR TIME. He told about a landlord who was leaving on a trip. He left his servants in charge of the estate. The servants did not know when the master would return. All they knew was that they were to have the house ready when he did.

Now put yourself in the place of these servants. They had a choice to make, didn't they? They could have said, "While the cat's away, we will play." Or they could have carried on with their responsibilities. You and I can't relate to servants. But we can imagine being teenagers whose parents have gone away for a holiday. These teenagers could party, party, party, and hope they can get the house put back in order before their parents get back, or they could act responsibly the entire time. Either way they would need to decide how to allot their time. Jesus was concerned about the use of our time.

TIME MANAGEMENT, THEN, IS A SPIRITUAL CONCERN. The use of time is just as much a measure of our spiritual wellbeing as the use of our money. In our lesson for the day Jesus says to us, "Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also." We often say time is money. That is more true than many of us realize.

"A man dreamed that he came to an impressive building somewhat like a bank and yet not a bank, because the brass marker said: ˜Time for Sale.' There he saw a man, breathless and pale, painfully pull himself up the stairs like the victim of some dread disease. ˜The doctor told me I was five years too late in going to see him,' the man told the teller. ˜I'll buy those five years now, and then the doctor can save my life.'

"Then came another man, older in years, who said to the clerk, ˜When it was too late, I discovered that God had given me great capacities and endowments, and I have failed to develop them. Sell me 10 years so that I can be the man I could have been.'

"Then came a younger man who declared, ˜The company has told me that starting next month I can have a big job, if I am prepared to take it. But I am not prepared. Give me two years of time so that I will be ready to take the job next month.'

"And so they came in a steady procession the ill, hopeless, despondent, worried, unhappy and they left smiling, each man with a look of unutterable pleasure on his face, for he had what he so desperately needed and wanted time." (1)

Charles Spezzano put it like this: "You don't really pay for things with money. You pay for them with time. ˜In five years,' we say, ˜I'll have put enough away to buy that vacation house we want. Then I'll slow down.' That means the house will cost you five years onetwelfth of your adult life. Translate the dollar value of the house, car or anything else into time, and then see if it's still worth it. Sometimes you can't do what you want and have what you want at once because each requires a different expenditure of time. The phrase "spending your time" is not a metaphor. It's how life works.' (2)

Our time is as valuable as our material treasure. How much would you pay to take your next breath? How we spend our time is a reflection of the condition of our heart.

ARE WE GOOD STEWARDS OF OUR TIME? That is a question we need to answer. It is amazing how much we might accomplish if we put our time to better use.

In a speech on "The Trouble with Television," Robert MacNeil of the "MacNeilLehrer Newshour" said: "It is difficult to escape the influence of television. If you fit the statistical averages, by the age of 20 you will have been exposed to at least 20,000 hours of television. You can add 10,000 hours for each decade you have lived after the age of 20. The only thing Americans do more than watch television are work and sleep. Calculate for a moment what could be done with even part of those hours. Five thousand hours, I am told, are what a typical college undergraduate spends working on a bachelor's degree. In 10,000 hours you could have learned enough to become an astronomer or engineer. You could have learned several languages fluently. If it appealed to you, you could be reading Homer in the original Greek or Dostoevski in Russian. If it didn't, you could have walked around the world and written a book about it." (3)

Are we good stewards of our time? Let's put it to Patrick Morley's test: "Why not prioritize everything we do on the basis of who will be crying at our funeral?" WHO IN THIS WORLD REALLY CARES ABOUT US? ARE WE USING OUR TIME TO BENEFIT THEM?

Clovis Chappell used to tell the story of two paddleboats that left Memphis about the same time, traveling down the Mississippi River to New Orleans. As they traveled side by side, sailors from one vessel made a few remarks about the snail's pace of the other. Words were exchanged and soon they were in a race. Competition became vicious as the two boats roared through the Deep South.

One boat was falling behind due to lack of fuel. There had been plenty of coal for the trip, but not enough for a race. As the boat dropped back, an enterprising young sailor took some of the ship's cargo and tossed it into the ovens. The supplies burned as well as the coal, so the sailors fueled their boat with the material they had been assigned to transport. They ended up winning the race, but burned their cargo.

Max Lucado, commenting on Chappel's story writes: "God has entrusted cargo to us, too: children, spouses, friends. Our job is to do our part in seeing that this cargo reaches its destination. Yet when the program takes priority over people, people often suffer. How much cargo do we sacrifice in order to achieve the number one slot? How many people never reach the destination because of the aggressiveness of a competitive captain?" (4)

Powerful questions.

In the epic tale THE ILIAD a Greek king, Odysseus, leads his army in the rescue of Helen of Troy. For ten years, the army is mired in war. During this time, Odysseus discovers that he has a taste for challenge and adventure. So he and his men spend ten more years on the high seas, seeking out enemies to fight and heroics to perform.

But there is another side to this story. Back at home, Odysseus' wife and son have been waiting for him. All these years, they have remained faithful to his memory. But his wanderlust keeps Odysseus from returning to those who love him. That is, until he learns a very important lesson.

Odysseus sails so far that he sails right to the edge of the world, to the land of shadows that the Greeks called Hades. In Greek culture, the afterlife was represented by a shadowy world, void of any love, joy, hope, or peace. Here in Hades dwelt all of Odysseus' heroes, the great Greek warriors whom he emulates. But they have no glory now. Instead, they are desperate for news from the land of the living. What has become of their family and friends? What has become of the people who loved them? Suddenly, Odysseus realizes that all his adventures mean nothing compared to the love of those he has left behind. It is a different Odysseus that leaves Hades that day. He sets his sails for a new adventure: home. He is returning to a wife and son who have always loved him. As Odysseus realizes, it is only love that will last beyond the land of shadows. (5)

How are you doing with the stewardship of your time? Are you investing in that which will never die? Are you giving time to those who will be crying at your funeral?

AND ARE YOU GIVING ENOUGH OF YOUR TIME TO GOD? Where your treasure is, there is your heart. One of the unfortunate byproducts of the frantic schedule that many of us live, is that we are neglecting time spent oneonone with God. Even worse, few of us are training our children to include God in their busy lives.

Writer Ken Locke was brought up in a family that had regular family devotions. "From the time my brother and I were born until we moved away from home," he remembers, "we participated in family devotions." His father would begin each day by calling the family together for scripture reading, devotional reading and prayer. If there were guests staying with them, they too were invited.

Everyone in the family took turns reading and praying. "Often we would spend a few extra minutes to discuss what we had read," Ken says, "and how it could be applied to that day's events." Ken has never forgotten these mornings. Not only were they together as a family every day, but they grew spiritually from their reading and their prayers. "Many of the Bible verses and devotional illustrations have stuck in my mind," Ken reflects, "that no matter how far I may stray from God, some memory from those mornings always helps to bring me back."

Years later Ken realizes that his parents taught him the importance of being together as a family. But more importantly they taught him the importance of "family worship and about happiness and guidance that come from the daily study of scripture." (6)

If the Master were to return unexpectedly, I believe he would find Ken Locke's family ready for his coming. Time management is an important part of Christian discipleship. We are to reserve time for those who will be crying at our funeral. We are to reserve time for the worship of God.

Someone has put it all like this:

  • To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who has failed his final exam.
  • To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.
  • To realize the value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.
  • To realize the value of one day: Ask a daily wage laborer who has 10 kids to feed.
  • To realize the value of one hour: Ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
  • To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person who has missed the train, the bus or the plane.
  • To realize the value of one second: Ask a person who has survived an accident.
  • To realize the value of one millisecond: Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics.

And to all that, we would add this: To realize the value of a lifetime: Ask, who will be crying at my funeral?


1. Knowles, George E. A World To Love (Washington, D.C.: Review and Herald Publishing Association, 1990), 113.

2. What to Do Between Birth and Death (Morrow), "Points to Ponder," Reader's Digest, July 1994, p. 18.

3. Preaching, Vol. 4, #2.

4. Max Lucado, In the Eye of the Storm (Dallas: Word Publishing, 1991), pp 9798.

5. Thomas H. Naylor, William H. Willimon, and Magdalena R. Naylor, The Search For Meaning (Nashville: Abingdon Press, 1994), 9091. 6.

6. Kenneth M. Locke, "Family Devotions," Upper Room, January/February, 1993, p. 61.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan