Luke 20:27-40 · The Resurrection and Marriage
The God Of The Living
Luke 20:27-40
Sermon
by King Duncan
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Jewelry salesman Alexander Makowski was devastated. Just three weeks before, in Phoenix, his sample case had been stolen. Now he had returned to the parking lot of the San Diego hotel where he was staying to find that his car and jewelry worth $100,000 were missing. Alexander could take no more. He climbed to the balcony over the hotel atrium lobby, lifted himself over the railing, and plunged five floors. Mr. Makowski ended his life at fifty-nine years. The real tragedy was that if he had looked in the right place, he would have found his car and the jewelry still waiting for him in the hotel parking lot. (1)

What is it that causes people to give up on life? What is it that causes them to get so down that they feel helpless to go on?

One of the most amazing and tragic phenomena in modern society is the rash of teen suicides that occur from time to time. Did you know that self-inflicted death is the leading cause of death among persons between the ages of 13 and 19, and the rate is rising among children as young as 6 years of age? A twelve-year-old boy hangs himself after being punished at school. A 16-year-old shoots himself while visiting a friend. Another boy takes his own life with a borrowed .357 Magnum. What in the world could make any young person feel so hopeless about life that he or she feels that death is the only way out? What is it that makes persons of any age give up and give in when adversity strikes?

Some of the Sadducees came to Jesus with what they thought was a trick question. You see, the Sadducees did not believe in life after death. Yet their question dealt with that very belief. "Teacher," they said, "Moses wrote for us that if a man's brother dies and leaves a wife but no children, the man must marry his brother's widow and have children for his brother. Now there were seven brothers. The first one married a woman and died childless. The second did likewise and then the third, etc. until all seven brothers had married her and died, leaving no children. Finally, the woman died too. Now then, at the resurrection whose wife will she be, since all seven were married to her?"

Jesus knew these Sadducees were not sincere in their question, but he used their question to talk about the resurrected life. He said, basically, that there is no marriage in heaven. Then Jesus closed his argument with one of the most memorable phrases in the Scriptures. Referring to God Jesus said, "He is not the God of the dead, but of the living, for all are alive to him." We will come back to this verse in just a few moments and set it in its proper context, but for now I want us to focus on those words: "He is the God of the living." [In fact, this is such an important truth that I want you to repeat these words after me: "God is the God of the living."]

So many people come to a point in their lives where they basically give up living. They may not jump off a building, they may not put a gun to their heads, but they do give up on life just the same. Perhaps it is the death of a spouse or the death of a child. Perhaps it is the announcement by the doctor of a crippling or even fatal illness. Perhaps it is the loss of a relationship. Perhaps it is a failure in school or at work, but for whatever reason, there are people who give up and give in. Even if they do not literally end their life they settle for a bleak, desolate existence. They lose hope of any joy in their lives, any satisfaction, any sense of purpose or fulfillment. Thus the importance of this phrase. God is the God of the living! GOD DOES NOT WANT US TO GIVE UP.

Saints of God are not people who have things made easy for them. Saints of God generally are people who simply will not give up regardless of what they may face.

Evan Thomas, in his book about the famous lawyer Edward Bennett Williams, recounts an amusing anecdote about Williams' dealings with Mother Teresa. Mother Teresa visited Williams to ask for his financial support for an AIDS hospice. Williams had earlier told an associate Paul Dietrich that he did not want to get involved, so ahead of time the two men worked out a gentle, apologetic refusal to her request. After Mother Teresa made her request, Williams gently recited his pre-planned rejection. Mother Teresa responded by saying, "Let us pray." Williams, Dietrich, and Mother Teresa all bowed their heads in prayer. After the prayer, Mother Teresa went through her whole request, word for word, again. Once more, Williams said no. Again Mother Teresa said, "Let us pray." Williams knew he was beat. He knew that he would be praying for the next few months if he didn't do something. So he quickly gave in and promised his support for her cause. (2) Mother Teresa is not unique in her stubbornness. Find any great Christian and you will find a person of determination ” who will not give in or give up.

Gordon MacDonald and his wife, Gail, spent a month in South Africa. There they met some of the most remarkable men and women, strong, lovers of God, courageous, and committed to the building of a new South Africa. One of their hosts, George Irvine, then the Methodist bishop of the Grahamstown District, told them of a black pastor in his district whose home was firebombed and destroyed one night.

Early in the morning the bishop went out to the township and found the pastor and his family standing at the front of their burned-out home. Nothing was left but the chimney. All personal belongings, furniture, books, and sermon notes were gone. Only the clothes they were wearing were left. The bishop, said as he looked on the ruins of their home, he suddenly noticed that the pastor had done one thing that might reveal the determination of his heart. For there on the chimney wall, the only part left standing, the pastor had taken a lump of charcoal and written the words that were spoken as a vow by all Methodist pastors each year at the District Conference:

Put me to what you will, Put me to doing, Put me to suffering,
Let me be laid aside for you, Let me have all things, Let me have nothing.
I freely and heartily yield All things to your pleasure and disposal. (3)
God is the God of the living. God does not want us to give up.

Let's even go farther than that. GOD WANTS US TO BE FIGHTERS. I don't know for sure, of course, but my guess is that the most repulsive sound to God's ears is the pathetic whine of someone who moans in a time of adversity, "Well, this is God's will for my life, I'll just have to accept it." Now, admittedly there are those events in life ” for example, the loss of a loved one or the onset of a terrible disease ” that we cannot do anything about. But we can do something about our response to those events. We can become fighters. We can become overcomers. We can respond to life not with passive acceptance but with aggressive determination.

I say this because there is a growing body of literature that suggests that fighting back is the best way to deal with some forms of adversity ” particularly the onset of serious and sometimes fatal diseases.

There is a story about a doctor who was making the rounds in a ward of terminally ill patients. He asked each of them whether he or she had any final requests. To one older lady, he said, "Is there anything you especially want before you pass on?" She replied, "Yes, I'd like to see my immediate family one more time." "Of course," said the doctor. "We'll arrange it." He asked a second patient for his wishes. "I'm a Catholic," murmured the man. "I'd like to see a priest for confession and the last rites." "Certainly," replied the doctor. Then he approached the third patient: "Have you any last wish, sir?" he inquired. "Yes," gasped the old man. "My last wish is to see another doctor." Research on people with life-threatening illnesses suggests that this gentleman might just get well.

Cancer researchers at King's College Hospital in London did a long-term study of 57 breast cancer victims who had had mastectomies. They found that seven out of ten women "with a fighting spirit" were alive 10 years later while four out of five women "who felt hopeless" at the diagnosis had died. Similarly, investigators have found that AIDS patients who are fatalistic about their disease actually hasten the onset of death. According to Larry Dossey, "The most effective psychological coping strategy in the acute phase of a heart attack, after one is in the coronary care unit (CCU) is denial." The denial Dossey is talking about is not denial which delays seeking treatment but denial of the verdict. For example, a recovering heart patient might say, "I'm too young to have a heart attack." That's a healthy statement. That means you are not giving up. That does not mean you do not seek treatment. One of the reasons 60 percent of patients with acute heart attacks die before reaching a treatment facility is that they deny the symptoms. (4) Remember, deny the verdict but not the symptoms!

It is important to seek the very finest medical help possible if you are showing signs of a heart attack, cancer or any other serious disease. But, after you seek help, don't give up just because the doctor's prognosis is grim. Dylan Thomas' great line, "Do not go gently into that good night," would keep many people alive for years. God's will is for us to fight on. We are not to be quitters whatever our situation. You can heal from that divorce. You can heal from that business or school failure. You can heal from that family crisis. If the Gospel means anything it means that there is hope. Why? Most of all and finally, BECAUSE GOD IS WITH US. Fight on because God is here. God will help you.

We said we would return to our text. The text is essentially about life after death. Jesus uses as evidence for the resurrection that Moses said that God is the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. Since each of these men had died long before Moses, it must mean that there will be a resurrection of the dead, for God is the "God of the living."

We cannot fight off death forever, but even there God will be with us. There is a resurrection of the dead, for God is the God of the living. However, we do not have to wait until the resurrection to experience God's helping and healing power.

Many years ago there was a young, caring, enthusiastic couple who were deeply involved in the life of the church and the church was where they found their close friends. One day this couple announced that they were going to have their first child. There was excitement among the church members because they knew that this couple wanted a child for several years. The months went by and a lovely little girl came to bless that home. There was joy and fullness of heart in the lives of the parents.

When the baby was a few months old she became very ill. She was rushed to the hospital and lived only a few hours. The death of that little child opened the hearts of the whole congregation. Out of the love of the people in their church during that most trying time, a whole new world of love, compassion, concern, and caring was opened to that young couple. Where they had previously been care givers, they now became the recipients of the love and care of the members of their church family. Some days after the funeral they wrote the people in their church a letter. Permit me please to read it to you:

"Dear friends, our lovely daughter brought us nine months of excitement and anticipation before her coming and a lifetime of joy in her coming. And now the hurt of not being able to hold her close to us seems almost unbearable. When she died, something in us died too. We felt that God had forsaken us. But because you prayed for us and because you love us, we will be able to move on with our lives. There is now a warm, living presence of the Risen Christ in our lives. He has given us a wonderful sense of God's peace. Along with his peace has come a new power and the realization that God will never forsake us. Keep on praying for us and keep on loving us. God does not forsake us. God does not fail us. Thanks be to God!" (5)

Yes, thanks be to God. Don't give up regardless of how heavy your burden. God's will is for you to fight the good fight. And never forget ” regardless of the outcome, God is with you. Thanks be to God.


1. Ron L. Fronk, Ph.D, CREATING A LIFESTYLE, (Springdale, PA: Whitaker House, 1988).

2. "The Man to See," READER'S DIGEST, Oct. 1992, p.128.

3. THE LIFE GOD BLESSES, (Nashville, Tennessee: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1994).

4. Larry Dossey, HEALING WORDS, (HarperSan Francisco) , p. 61.

5. Leighton Farrell, CRIES FROM THE CROSS (Nashville: Abingdon Press, 1994), pp. 49-50.

Dynamic Preaching, Collected Sermons, by King Duncan